No, as an above average male (Under 6/10) i don't see no harm. I'd do the same. It's so easy for her to get you locked up for harassment or something.

Nah I don't think it's particularly bad, but could be a tad awkward or creepy for some peoples taste. Depends on the girl.

What possibly happened in your case is that she got another offer to drive her so she just ditched you because somehow the other offer was more appealing. Maybe it was another girl, maybe they knew her already, maybe the lived closer to her or something.

>>25143667
>Is telling a girl in advanced to meeting her "don't worry I'm not a rapist" bad?

yes

it reminded her that you might be one. you also made yourself sound like you don't understand basic social behavior given that you hadn't met didn't know each other well enough to joke about that

The fact that you said that made her worry. It's kind of a huge red flag, Why would you say that unless you were thinking about it

If you introduce yourself to a person and use the word rapist in the next sentence, you've made a mistake.

>>25143988
>you hadn't met didn't know each other well enough to joke about that

actually, i take that back. no girls will think that's funny.

>>25144046
this

A girl pulled the same thing with me and I was instantly put off from meeting with her

it may seem logical, and safely funny to say, but is neither of those things

ya fucked up OP. just don't do it again