GF Gained Weight
We have been dating for 17 months now, in the beginning of our relationship she was average and wasn't over weight and wasn't too thin either, She was 125lbs and now she is 142lbs (Height: 5'4") yes she gained weight and even has a double chin now, sex basically sucks ass and I only do it to please her. I have brought up going to the gym together but she says she is too insecure to go with me since I am fit. Yesterday we went ice skating and she stopped and said she doesn't like it so we left and in the car she started crying about how she use to have laughing attacks and her confidence was sky high and now she just doesn't want to do anything and doesn't laugh as much.
I don't want to break up as she does have an amazing personality and would make an amazing mother (not a sloot) and was a virgin when we first met. I feel like she just needs help getting on track with her diet and fitness goals. She cries about how none of her clothes fit her so she just throws on a large jacket to cover up the fat...
She goes to the gym but she wants to leave after 5 minutes srs
How can I help her achieve her goals brahs?
>>25127068
You can help her by asking how on
>>>/adv/
>>25127068
>GF
what in the world gave you the idea this was the place to ask about that, faggot?
>>>/adv/
>>>/soc/
>>>reddit.com/r/relationshipadvice
>>25127094
Stop this meme that robots don't have gf's
>>25127153
we don't, """""""""robot""""""""" betafaggots fresh from tumblr that come waltzing into our board like some goddamn extraterrestrials are the ones that do
>>25127068
she eats liek apig now cause shes confident shes got you hooked, so youre the one caught ina catch 22.
control her food intake with the real threat youll break up with her, or settle for her chunky self, cuck
break up with her , you deserve perfection
>>25127153
Shut up leddit jesus
Well the first thing to do is remember that your gf is not real. You're a robot posting on r9k so the most likely conclusion is that she is a delusion. I'd recommend seeing a mental health specialist or killing yourself you faggot.
>we have dated for 17 months now
She simply hit her comfort point. This happens with like 90% of girls when they're in a long term relationship. They feel less inclined to maintain their "in the dating scene" level of fitness and put on a few pounds.
Some girls will bounce back real quick to their normal weight if they notice it themselves but others, holy shit, others its just a slippery slope to obesity.
My friends girlfriend is a prime example. when they started dating she was a buck 30 at most and bombshell status. flash forward 3 year into their relationship and shes probably pushing 230 pounds.
i have insecurites myself but im a boxer so i have to run all the time. so what i do is wake up early in the morning when its still dark and run at like 5 or 6 am. i then run again at night at like 8 or 9pm. you shouldbtry that with ur gf cause then she doesnt hqve to feel that insecure cause no one will be about since its dead out. and if she wears a hoody and joggers with the hood up no one can see her.
>>25128013
This. Start flirting with other girls, make her feel she has to get back to that "dating scene" level of fitness again to keep you.
>>25128263
Or she just starts flirting herself and bangs fat chad while you're at work.
>>25127068
Get ripped yourself. Start eating healthy. If she doesnt follow suit leave her for a cardiobunny at your gym
Go on walks with her. If possible go hiking with her. Travel with her or have picnics and pack healthy. Play frisbee with her.
Let her know shes worth your time.
Also, ask her if somethings happened that shes punishing herself for. Tell her to think hard about it.
>>25129111
Checked
Also this post makes me feel fuzzy like id be taking care of a waifu
