Any other black femanons like this?
I have a hard time being faithful in relationships because I assume because I'm black they could never really love me. So, I end up cheating and always hoping to the next better guy. In my mind I think "why even bother being faithful to someone whose going to leave me for someone better anyway?". I can never really truly love anyone because of this, maybe if a guy took a bullet for me or something extreme I could love him but other than that I don't trust males.
Hi, OP,
Do you have any reason why /r9k/ should just assume you're an actual black female?
You post like you're familiar with the existing culture here, so you either are trolling or deliberately pretend like your post should be taken seriously.
>>25125685
What if they're a talentless loser with no aspirations, no spine and who also hates themselves?
They wouldn't have the guts to leave you, even if they cared that you were black.
>>25125748
but I'd know deep down inside if some white Stacy walked your way you'd leave in a heart beat
>>25125737
I wrote Time stamp on my skin
>worried about guys cheating
>becomes a cheating whore herself in response
this is why you will never have a loyal, loving bf
>>25125880
Mmm I just think they don't care about me anyway
>>25125685
You have similar problem as the majority of guys here. Even the most loud misogynists want to love and to be loved, but they wrongly believe that they do not deserve to be loved, that they are unlovable, that they are a burden to everyone and it is better if they just withdraw so they don't bother anyone.
Even I have trouble with that issue.
And with guys to top it all, most of them have the painful issue of pornography addiction which only saps their energy, and further fuels their self-loathing. Also it really screws with their perception of women.
So yeah, with the constant onslaught on people in the society in form of mass media, internet pornography, unnecessary medication, hormonal contraceptives, some very sneaky pattern of social engineering emerges. Pic related. A pattern of very weird conditioning. Did you ever hear the term fear of commitment? When you really think about it, it is a load of crap. Because what is the alternative? Living a meaningless life of hedonistic pleasure of instant gratification? What is so scary about living a life of fulfilment?
But if you strive for serious relationship where both people commit to each other, look for it until you find it. It's not going to be easy.
>>25125787
You underestimate their cowardly ways, the stacy would have to approach them first and I'd wish her luck with that since they're huddled in their room most of the time, they don't even leave/enter the house without making sure no-one is around and they power walk everywhere.
Losing is my speciality. Besides why would a stacy want the epitome of human trash?
>>25126013
That's the thing. I want someone who 100% wants to be with me, I don't wanna be someone's last option.
>>25126125
Tried not being a whore? Oops too late.
It's funny because this is exactly why nobody loves black women. They are nasty whores.
>>25126142
To be fair I've only physically cheated on someone after he cheated on me first(he kissed another girl so I was like I'll just blow this cute guy). Any other time I just emotionally cheat.
>>25126125
>I don't wanna be someone's last option
there's only ever been two options
I suppose that means I'm not even an option then.
>>25125980
Shit bro, u just summed my emotions up in your first paragraph
>>25126175
>my boyfriend kissed another girl so I better go suck somebody's dick
Literally fucking retarded. You are immature and shouldn't even be in relationships kid.
Fuck off.
Original post do not steal.
>>25125980
>Also it really screws with their perception of women.
In what way?
>>25126209
Yeah it's never right to cheat but he cheated on me first so I figured there's no point in being faithful to him anyway
>>25126261
Some men with pornography addiction judge women based on their appearance, and their tits, ass and body shape, not caring about the fact that she is a human being with opinions, likes, dislikes, interests, hobbies, and otherwise full life.
if porn does not have this effect on you, then congratulations, you did not allow yourself to be brainwashed by porn.
It's the fact that almost all women involved in porn are abused, mistreated and many of them have full blown drug addiction, which they fund by doing porn, ending in a vicious circle. Women mostly use xanax, or other sedatives, opiates, or harder stuff like heroin and cocaine. And the men use drugs too, stimulants, viagra, cialis, and many other.
When is the last time you saw a drug addict? Can you recall? Odds are you saw one when you were watching porn, if you watch porn that is.
Interesting interview on aspects of porn as means of social control
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWM4bJNpch0
>>25126402
>if porn does not have this effect on you, then congratulations, you did not allow yourself to be brainwashed by porn.
It doesn't at all, the only things I care about are in the latter part of your sentence.
And guess what, my life is living hell due to that.
welcome to being a typical white male
I have a qt black gf, but I don't text her enough apparently so she's been ignoring me the last few days. I just started talking to my ex baka
>>25126523
>not texting her enough
My bad doesn't text me enough which tempts me to cheat
>>25126467
The white male thing and whole privilege thing is meant as diversion from the issues of social and economic class, which is independent of the identity.
Instead the diversion is meant to make people focus on identity issues, like race, sex, sexual orientation, religion, ethnicity and other. When people are left to bicker about identity, they do not examine issues of social and economic class, and their material causes arising from the way the current economical system works.
>>25126441
In that case I have yet to see my life becoming hell, since I have been reclusive for a long time. But I guess being positive, honest and genuine would lead to others being genuine too. And if it would fail, I don't plan to be discouraged.
Trying nofap, it feels like a cheatcode to life. Maybe you should try it mostly for the self-control aspect of it. When I was regularly using porn, my life was hell too, despite being reclusive, but the anxiety was totally crippling. Porn is only negative, it exacerbates my problems. Ask yourself if it helps you or harms you.
>>25125685
>I engage in destructive behavior
>instead of taking responsibility I place the blame on imaginary flaws of people
>>25126687
>But I guess being positive, honest and genuine would lead to others being genuine too.
Yeah, like being a sheep leads a wolf to baa.
>>25125685
>hurts them before they hurt you
worst than avoiding relationships so you dont get hurt
>>25126402
Someone else watches nobodytm? Nice. His account got deleted a while back unfortunately
>>25126714
Then the trick is to avoid the wolves and find other sheep.
Material conditions largely determine the human nature. Also social conditioning has huge influence on people. Perhaps you should seek people who put a thought into their lives, and are not vicious because they were taught that being vicious is okay.
>>25125838
That's some ashy skin
you cant cheat when you are a one trick pony rofl
thank god for nigresses, easiest fuck of my life
>>25125685
>afraid of boyfriend cheating
>cheats
fucking women
>>25125685
Wait a fuckin minute.
>>25126757
You're absolutely correct, but it's something that doesn't really happen in real life, it's not a goddamn movie where of course the protagonists will find each other hiding from the pod people. And every subsequent encounter with a pod person will fuck you up more and more until you're beyond recovery, so...
>>25126765
I don't think you know what ashy skin looks like
>>25126817
But the people outside are not actual pod people, and whatever similarity there might be, it can be reversed.
Do you think the pod people want to be pod people to use your term? No they might behave in horrible way towards others, but every single one of them wants meaningful connection.
Even the most alienated people do not want to be alienated and want connection.
>>25126757
The people are vicious because of other vicious people. The way the wolves eat sheep because they have to. It's pretty easy to get animals to live in harmony in captivity, like wolves and sheep, just raise them at young together. But we're not there yet. We can make pets do that but never animals in the wild, we'll chase them to the ends of the earth like the injuns. Humans are wild still, we breed like rodents (See the John Calhoun experiment about specific population declines) and consume beyond our own and the planets' means.
And digressing from that metaphor, we're not wolves or sheep, we're stupid fucking asshole monkeys.
>>25126922
>Do you think the pod people want to be pod people
To use a colloquial term from my language, they want to be fucked, but without being penetrated. And it doesn't really matter what they want or what I want, the forces that govern all this are far bigger than any of us, and in fact far bigger than all of us.
Sure, the only "meaningful connection" they'll ever get will be part of the simulacrum, but it's better than nothing, and life is too short to analyze why your purse costs as much as it does, and where it was made, when Jenny has the exact same one.
>>25126927
But then there are also experiments by Harry Harlow on monkeys. And the famous Stanford prison experiment.
But don't you think the humans have the capacity to stop and think for once? And reconsider their relationship towards the nature, resources and people around us?
It is hard to do that when the small portion has actual control over the resources, and mass media and use it to drive the majority towards consumerism.
It is easy to dismiss this as "we are not ready". But we are. Is it so hard to imagine that every average Joe and Jane are capable to live their lives reasonably with the appropriate relationship with other humans and natural resources?
Most people in the world have no other choice but to behave unreasonably, breed like rodents, and be assholes to each other, because if they didn't, they would only become losers in the race.
>>25127065
>Is it so hard to imagine that every average Joe and Jane are capable to live their lives reasonably with the appropriate relationship with other humans and natural resources?
Sure, if they get brainwashed into it like they've been brainwashed to do what they're currently doing and if the system supported it.
But who would that benefit?
>>25127172
It is a truly sad state of world. And it is hard to keep the optimism.
Maybe one can do something good in places and in regard of people where the system fails. But everyone wants a good life, and they don't particularly care about what good life actually is as long as it is good.
But yeah the system is huge and powerful and a single person cannot do anything. But as I said, single person can do what system fails to do.
>>25127266
Yeah, you can be the good guy manning up and taking care of Tyrone's kid. :)
>>25126589
>My bad doesn't text me enough which tempts me to cheat
Fuck you then, can't you be able to stay faithful without maintenance ?
You whore, I hope nobody gonna marry you. Poor guy busy at work getting cucked
>>25126142
I'm a 24yo HHKV. will I still be lumped in with girls like OP? has a sum yung ho got a better chance of being seen as innocent/pure then I do?
>>25127348
What's the point of being faithful to someone who pays you no attention?
ATTRNTION ATTENTION
DONT SAVE HER
SHE DONT WANNA BE SAVED
THIS IS HOW WOMEN THINK
THEY WILL KEK YOU JUST BECAUSE
NEVER GET MARRIED
NEVER LIVE WITH A WOMAN
DONT BUY HER THINGS
IT IS A WASTE OF MONEY
BE ALPHA FUCKS, NOT BETA BUCKS
DONT SAVE HER
SHE DONT WANNA BE SAVED
>>25127460
What's the point of being with someone who pays you no attention?
No one should settle for sub-par relationship.
>>25127648
God, it's like any excuse to be super fucking gay is right there right?
IM A STREET NIGGA DAWG WE DONT LOVE THESE HOES
>>25127648
Thread song:
https://youtu.be/snTZ7X8OMuc
If I were born black and a woman I would probably kill myself, fampi
>>25125685
Wow black women are so pathetic
>>25127905
Ironically black women are the most happy and confident group in america
