>what should I expect?

nothing

You're probably going to feel out of place and see the exact types of people that you dislike so much. Chads, gangster wannabes, etc. If you drink a moderate amount and relax you might end up enjoying it though

> paying to get blue balled

What is even the point? Why not save your money and go to a massage parlor instead?

They will wander up to you and ask if you want a dance. If you say yes they'll take you over to a dark corner and dance for one song length. They'll try to ask you if you want another, around here each dance is $20. It's a fucking rip off desu and you leave with blue balls but seeing tits in real life is fun too. Drinks are expensive too.

Don't OP, it's a huge waste of money and will fill you with longings that will never be fulfilled