We live in a polite society 2bh

That's all they can say.

Normie's grew up in normal, confidence-producing circumstances. They think everyone did and don't understand your failure.

>>25103106
Because they're also naturally sociopathic and like to act like everything they have was from their hard work and not because they were handed it freely.

It's a self sustaining cycle
They do well, have people tell them they're great, and they get more confident
They then do better because they feel more confident

It takes a major event to break it, like a midlife crisis, but when it does, oh boy

>tfw confident
>tfw really inadequate
>confidence drives me to do stupid shit because I cannot act normal
>tfw being anxious and self conscious gives more success than being confident

Fake it until you make it.

It's the ultimate redpill, but people just refuse to leave their comfort zone.

>>25103106
>tfw went to a party tonight
>made out with the sister of a guy I work with
>he's the biggest faggot so I actually don't care

Confidence isn't something you gain, its a lack of caring about your insecurities. That's the secret senpai.

competence breeds confidence

become really good at something and you will become confident