I went out to dinner with a girl I met on tinder
This was my first ever date, and im 23 years old
I'm also 6'4.
We ate food and made small talk
I paid for dinner
we hugged and left>that feel when you realize you will always be too autistic to date
>that feel when she pretty much presented herself as down to fuck and you did nothing
>that feel when you paid 30 dollars to hug a girl and eat some shitty fucking chicken enchiladas
>that feel when you are finally content commiting suicide because you know just how dull you really are
>that feel when you realize your only hobbies are shit posting and video games and theres no way to explain this to women
>that feel when awkward silences
>that feel when minimal eye contact
>that feel when you somehow manage to talk about how you were bullied in school
>that feel when a fat ugly girl still wont fuck you because you're too autistic to even flirt
>that feel when you treat a date more like an interview instead of flirting like normies do
>that feel when want to die
Man, I even cringed about the bullying part and I'm a severe autist around women. It's your own fault for falling for the dating meme
>>25089488
When your so desperate for conversation, anything relatable to what the other person is saying comes out. We were talking about highschool experiences.
Also the family thing was pretty cringe too
I told her how my grandpa died an alcoholic, and she told me she had 9 brothers and sisters.
I think I accidentally made a racist mexican joke without thinking.
You'll be a little better the next date you go on. And even better on the next. You've already started the cycle. I call it "the poon cycle".
>>25089573
You're fucking with me right?
After 4 more dates I literally could of paid for a decent prostitute.
Also she wanted me to text her when I got home to make sure I got home safe
Does she think I want to kill myself after tonight? I told her I had been depressed for the last week or so.
Does this mean shes still interested in me? Or does this mean she wants me to pay for another one of her meals later on.
Shes so fat and repugnant I regret buying the condoms I bought before hand, but then again I'd still fuck her.
>>25089433
>shitposting and video games
What you need to do is present video games as something that is no big deal. Because they aren't. Even my gf who claims she hates video games because they're not for girls, when pressed is like "yeah I played a lot of Caesar 3 and Age of Empires II" and she plays Plague Inc on her phone. At worst girls are like my girlfriend and just think video games are a way boys waste time.
But then, even if they're like that, like my girlfriend, I still tell her about video games, about games I'm playing, because I present it in an interesting way. "Lately I've been playing this game called Xenoblade, I'm really enjoying the exploration aspect and it has amazing music. What have you been doing lately?" It's that easy. If you don't act embarrassed or autitistc about it people will think it's fine and no different to discussing television, celebrity gossip, music, film or books.
>>25089623
No. I'm not fucking with you. What I'm saying is "practice makes perfect". So, go on another date with someone else.
I wasn't implying to go on a date with her again. She was just a practice girl.
>>25089643
she awkwardly tried to relate to them
She asked me if I had played resident evil
A little excited about it I said Yeah of course its great!
And she replied she used to watch her brother play it when she was a kid. That started an awkward silence moment after I said "Neat" pretty much.
>>25089623
>Also she wanted me to text her when I got home to make sure I got home safe
She's just being polite. Girls are always afraid of being mugged.
>I told her I had been depressed for the last week or so.
Gah! Why? Say you've been stressed or 'trying hard to get motivated'
> Or does this mean she wants me to pay for another one of her meals later on.
Why did you pay? As John Oliver would say, it's 2015. Women have jobs these days and get paid the same. They can afford to pay for their own food.
>>25089433
Here's what I don't get. When you fail to be a normie why don't you just open yourself up all the way.
Put on your tinder that you are extremely awkward and that you spend a lot of time on the computer and playing video games. Write down that you're hoping to find a female that at least relates a little bit. That way when you meet some bitch you can at least talk about video games and 4chan. That shit always leads to other conversations.
Don't try to feign conversation. You gotta look for people you have shit in common with. Try being as deadpan honest as possible.
>>25089718
I dont know man
I dont even fucking know
We took separate cars there, it's not like she would of blown me in my car or something
Paying her side was dumb.
I just fucking did it without thinking, she made a motion she was gonna pay, but I was like, nah I got it, all casually and shit.
Fucking shit
Im ready to off myself.
>>25089699
ooo
>that feel get all exited a girl says something about a video game
>o you played?
>no i watched my brother/boyfriend play it
>>25089699
can you just please get a dog or something and talk dog stuff to people. Or do just about any kind of social interaction with actual people?
sounds like you just aren't that used to conversations in general
>>25089433
6'4 and still can't get laid, FUCK YOU.
just kill yourself fag
>>25089433
Datings for cucks. She fucks chad within 15 minutes after meeting him. Why make any effort on women if it's not fucking them in less than a half hour?
>>25089797
Give up. That doesn't mean kill yourself just give up on girls, it's the stupidest possible format of meeting people, you have 15 minutes to form some kind of connection and it only works for hypersocial dumb-asses.
No. Don't even bother meeting women, ok?
Here's my story:
> 21 now, 20 at the time
> friend finds fattish blond chick on tinder
> decides not to fuck her, passes her to me for a FWB
> he gets really excited that he's gonna get me laid
> text with girl, she says she wants a bf not fwb
> realize im probably fucked
>but figure what the hell she's probably just trying to not seem like a slut
> arrange to go to movie, inside out, at a drive in theater
> she drives like an hour from some hick town
> get in car, awkward conversation about cars and shit
> get to movie, notice she has blanket in back
> end up having to pay for fucking movie and 10 bucks of food, since she drove
> sit through inside out, pretty cute movie desu
> fucking nothing, no interest from her
> put my arm around her, she shrugs it off
> complete silence for rest of date
> 35 bucks fucking gone
> she drives me home, I warn her about a biker and she gets pissy because she thought I was saying to turn
> make her drop me off at bottom of my driveway because I don't want my parents to find out I went out on a date
> realize I wasted 35 bucks and fucked up on a girl who was totally DTF
> take a piss in front of my house at 10:30 at night just to reassert some dominance
cont. below
>>25090090
but why would I give up on girls when my only biological reason for existing is to procreate
>>25089793
Because that admits your social status is shit and will disqualify you immediately with more women.
Why was your height relevant? Why do tall men need to mention it at every opportunity?
>>25089433
why would you pay for diner?
>>25090090
cont.
> go inside
> find like 30 messages from my friend
> apparently she texted him halfway through the date that it was the worst date she'd ever been on
> friend is worried, tells me not to hurt myself
> apparently she spilled the beans on him, said I smelled weird
> probably my gay-ass deoderant or something, I showered and everything for like 15 minutes, i even googled how to fucking shower properly just to be 100% certain
> and then SHE bitches about having to drive an hour and use a "quarter tank of gas" when im the one who sank about 20 bucks buying her food.
> three weeks later she's still texting my friend desperately trying to get his dick
That wasn't exactly when I gave up on women, but it was one of the many factors that led me toward the conclusion.
It doesn't matter for SHIT that you're 6'4" either faggot. You can still be just as beta, I knew a tiny manlet who got a blowjob from a chick because he killed a spider for her. They were both fucking insane but it doesn't matter. Point is your height isn't shit if you ask me.
For me, I play Dungeons and Dragons and angst out over how to design a really good RPG system as well as some other autistic hobbies. Do you think I can talk to women about that shit? I have a novel I'm writing that I hope to publish someday, you think I can tell some girl about the autistic worldbuilding of half-inch tall people and their culture? No. No one gives a shit about that. But I will still create it, along with the other things, because it is what gives my life meaning.
Do not go on any more dates, ever again. Find something else that fulfills you. Children and family are for talentless people who can't find fulfillment any other way.
>>25089433
>like if you had score it would have been different
>oh yea it could be worse
You could have end loving that fat ugly bitch cause you so desperate
>>25090138
>but why would I give up on girls when my only biological reason for existing is to procreate
Yeah you know what else your biological reason is for existing? Hunting fucking mammoths with spears. Do you do that shit anymore? I didn't think so faggot.
Guess what dumb-ass, I can't even believe I'm explaining this, but there are 900 billion other humans that exist on this planet, your procreation doesn't matter for shit, you will produce a tiny malformed whining abomination that will grow into another sad drone like yourself.
You can create your own reason to exist. If you cannot, then be a pleb chasing women, and a loser on top of that. But at least try for something better. And start by not wasting time.
Think, you could have spent that time learning to write or draw, or produce SOMETHING, but instead you wasted it on some bitch whore who didn't enjoy your company let alone suck your dick.
>>25090191
Being a beta faggot. I went from buying tons of shit for a high school gf who I never even kissed, to the story above where I only paid for shit because she drove and I overestimated how much gas costs.
Now? On the off chance I ever go on a date with a women again, I am driving, and she is paying for her half. And I am bringing CASH not my creditcard so if she bitches out, SHE'S stuck with the bill.
Man I fucking want to jack off imagining going to the movies with some shy chick i meet in my classes and her expecting me to pay for the movie, and me saying I dont have more cash than for me, and some old lady is staring at me disapprovingly and I just look at her back. Fuck you you old bag, this isn't 1950 anymore, go live in your baby boomer nursing home and die. This is a new goddamn era. Time to stop being a pussy, OP. You can do it I believe in you.
>>25089433
Try watching The Undateables, it's a show where autists and people with disabilities and stuff get set up on dates. It makes me feel better about myself until I realise even though they're cringey as fuck they still have more of a chance at scoring some pussy than me.
You have still gone 100% further then most of the robots on here.... Normie
>>25089433
Where are you brobot? I'll buy you dinner if you're in the area
>>25090192
I gave up women about the same time like when I was 21 or so.
I was just a weird kid that had nothing going on so I just did whatever I wanted and didn't care about what people thought of me. I did stuff because it was interesting to me personally and I tried my best to be a better man so I could heighten my own opinion of myself.
I did a lot of stuff like worked at sea in very bad conditions and after that traveled the world with the money I made.
All by myself while meeting lots of people along the way. Often I would make an ass of myself and often people were just genuinely interested in being around me because I just did things with a kind of determined confidence.
For instance I wanted to go to a specific museum and I was talking to this group of people I had been hanging around for 2 days if they wanted to tag along but they were all going to the beach.
So instead of giving up on what I wanted to do and just going to the beach again, grumpy at the group dynamics not working in my favor I told them I would just meet them later. This one girl in the group heard this and when she saw I was confident enough to go do my own thing without anyone to hold my hand said she wanted to go with me because she had wanted to go to that museum but knowing the group wouldn't be up for that, never brought it up.
We really hit it off. The rest of my stay there we moved out of the hostel and spent 3 days in an airbnb just fucking around. We met the group again when we went drinking and stuff but honestly they never mattered that much.
What mattered was doing what I wanted to do because it genuinely interested me. Through that I met someone else who was into the things I was. I didn't have to pretend or lie about anything, it didn't really matter since I was leaving for another city soon anyway.
Don't put your interests down because you think they are not good enough or something. If you're going to be a nerd at least be a confident one.
>>25090747
This. Don't be obsessed with women, there is so much more to do in life. Learn about things, become the best person you can be.
And if at some point you receive female attention, don't throw all you've built in the trash. Be careful, take your time and think things through. You're a man, you have this innate power that not a lot of female have, and it is to be independent, to be your own man.
Be strong, be true to yourself, become a man, and don't bow to the weaklings trying to shame you into conformity.
>>25090192
>probably my gay-ass deoderant or something
Probably. A pro tip is to never wear deodorant. Only orderless anti-persprint. If a girl isn't attracted to your natural smells you're probably wasting your time.
>I even googled how to fucking shower properly just to be 100% certain
You're a faggot.
> and then SHE bitches about having to drive an hour and use a "quarter tank of gas" when im the one who sank about 20 bucks buying her food.
Quarter tank of gas costs that much mate and would cost more if we didn't invade middle eastern countries for it.
>>25090192
>I have a novel I'm writing that I hope to publish someday, you think I can tell some girl about the autistic worldbuilding of half-inch tall people and their culture? No. No one gives a shit about that. But I will still create it, along with the other things, because it is what gives my life meaning.
If you can't tell a girl about it, how the fuck do you ever hope to publish it? You know girls work at book publishers right? You know fantasy that can't appeal to both genders is instantly binned right?
>>25090138
the only biological reason to exist is because your parents made you
your decision to procreate is your choice
>>25090169
To be honest, those women are just the women you'd try and fail to get with anyway.
>>25089793
This is spot on. Everyone in my class are comfortable being kind of weirdos and just embrace it.
My intro week was eye opening. You just gotta aceept who you are and stop worrying about what others think. As cliche as it sounds
>>25092958
Normies will find a way to criticize you, by the way. All the time. So I just said fuck it and decided to do and say what I felt like it. I even started to get kicks out of talking about the time I played D&D to see how cringy they thought I was being. And maybe I was. To them. But why would I give a fuck what they think?
You're only truly free if you accept isolation as a possible result of that loneliness.
>>25089433
I know that feel all too well I'm 6"4 and relatively good looking, yet the lack of practice the ought my life ended me on the same boat... Only thing to do is just keep going on dates, eventually you won't have autism
>>25089433
Closest thing I've been to a date was escorting this girl around who is like upper management. She was hungry and decided to get something to eat. So I just sat there sipping my water while she talked about work and had lunch. Was pretty awkward, or felt that way for me. Probably because I'm such a socially inept loser.
Just get over dude....we all did
>>25090192
Wait are you that faggot that's built a universe around tiny people called whos or whatever.
Lmao.
>>25089433
6'4? FUCK OFF CHAD FAGGOT FUCK YOU FAGGOT KILL YOURSELF FAGGOT EASY MODE PIECE OF SHIT KEK KILL YOURSELF FAGGOT
