How can I become assertive?
I'm sick of being a bitchboy and always being considerate and not wanting to upset anyone and going out of my way to not attract attention. I turn down girls because I think "they deserve better" and whenever my life gets even shittier I think "well I shouldn't complain" its like I'm cuckolding myself out of happiness.
Don't give me the lift weights meme it doesn't work.
Watch videos of people being assertive :)))
Same problem OP. Someone please tell
>>25041814
>How can I become assertive?
>>25041814
>Get superiority complex.
>Feed.
>People become ants.
>High confidence because ants aren't a threat.
>>25041814
You can only change your base personality so much, some personalities simply cannot into natural assertiveness. Lifting is not a meme btw, it will help a bit if you give it a chance.
>>25041814
read nietzsche
Start saying "no". Start with little shit, like at tge restaurant, when tge waitress asks you if you want a drink, just say like, "no. Waters fine."
Also, compliment people. By extending the flattery, you expose yourself and your opinions to others in a disposable manner. You may even get complimented back!
>>25043811
>be waiter at restaurant
>fat greasy manlet nerd walks in
>the entire restaurant is immediately engrossed by his vile stench
>he stomps over to a table, muttering and grunting to himself
>ask him what he would like to drunk
>says "NO GIBE WADDER" in a half-yell and gives me an extremely nasty look
Fucking autists man.
In all seriousness, did you just tell this man to become more assertive by saying he wants water at a restaurant?
