Her ex cheated on her that's why she was single forgot to mention.

I had a similar experience. First girlfriend at 21-22, almost identical shit happened. The particulars don't matter. What matters is that we were humiliated for daring to feel happy, after having our hopes for once.

I know it seems like the pain will never go away, but it will. It will bleed out of your heart slowly over the next year or two, but it'll leave it harder, so that next time you can enjoy the good parts of a relationship with a woman without making yourself vulnerable to her.

Because they all do this in the end, every single one. Some variation of this is how they will always leave you if you open yourself up to it.

>>25040300

Thanks robot. I don't feel a whole lot of anything right now except anger. I feel very tempted to tell him that we fucked and she said she loved me... (She never told him this stuff)

So I am 20, and I still got a chance?
Anyways, I'm really sorry for you dude. You will eventually find someone better and get over it + now you have experience.


I have to post feels, I am sorry, I just have to.
A 9/10 qtpie called me out few days before (that was completely unexpectable, she did it at my jam, I player keyboards in a rock band, but still), and everything was find, it was really fun talking to her, and I somehow found that she has a boyfriend... Seriously I give up, I am not ugly, nor stupid and really have a future, but I don't know what is going on with girls. I simply can't have one that is suitable for me, and me for her.
Thanks for reading :D

Once again, I am sorry for u, it'll get better. Just try somehow to think positive. It helps me somehow.

played*
fine*
found out*

>>25040665

I live in a stupid cuck city (ottawa) where this happens all the time thanks for your tory robot I appreciate sharing the feels

>>25040257
Don't worry op. My ex gf cheated on mr when she was on vacation. Fortunately, I immediately left her. I don't let her cuck me

>>25040951

On the bright side I didn't get cucked which is nice. Good on you robot

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>>25040257
This thread fits my needs
>be me, 20, Virgin, medicore social life, not a neet but also not a chad
>be friends with girl for a year, she 18, 7/10, pretty nice overall.
>we are good friends
>one night after a party she takes a complete stranger home, I was supposed to take her back home but being the complete betacuck i was around that time they just drop me off at my place and continue onwards
long story short: she lives with her parents and when they woke up the next day there was a massiv rukus.
anyway
>after that she gets extremly attached to me
>been dating her since 3 months now
>found out that this wasn't her first time, shes a slut in generall, but not a standart chadslut but a third class daddy issue slut
>tells me that if I had told her to not go with him and instead stay with me she would have totally done it
>tells me she had interest in me since we first met
>mfw she thinks I love her
>mfw she thinks I will take care of her and buy shit for her
Thanks for the ride Cassandra
Thanks TRP

>>25041396

Yeah man don't do it girls who have slept with other men are not worth it they never are.

>>25041430
No shit. I waited and tried for 20 years to finde a decent girl that's interested in me. Never wanted to fuck some basic bitch, and now she comes along and thinks I'm gonna take care of her used up cunt? Fuck her. I once thought Sex was something special that people do when they love each other. Welp, guess I was wrong all along.

>gf

Seriously get the fuck out.

>girl at work shows interest in me
>she just got out of a 7 year relationship; basically all her adult life
>she doesn't want to get attached again
>we have a casual thing going
>realize she isn't exclusive
>start to distance myself because I like her and don't want to be hurt
>she stops seeing other guys
>we have fun, start to have feelings for her again
>one night she tells me she doesn't want to be anything more than platonic friends; lies to get me out of her apartment
>no problem.jpg, don't see her for like four months outside of work, keep a friendly work relationship but nothing else
>one day she announces she's in a relationship with her orbiter
>the guy who's been sidelined all this time while I've been nailing her, trying to weakly manipulate her but getting shot down
>she has no feelings for him, it's obvious, it's more of a convenience and economic security thing
>meet up at halloween party
>we have fun again, reconnect
>boyfriend gets pissed as fuck since he knows our history
>storms off
>take her home
>use the bathroom immediately
>when I get out, her boyfriend is in her apartment and leaves, bitching, he knows I'm there
>we fool around
>she tells me she likes me, and wanted something serious, but she didn't think I wanted a relationship
>wtf
>she was the one who cooled it off, I told her a couple of times before I really liked her
>day after they're back together, she keeps flirting at work with me

weirdest year of my life, what the fuck is going on. Oh, also her boyfriend works at our job as well.

>>25041568

I know

I thought i stopped being a robot

Now I am back here again. help me feel robot

>>25041598

That is really weird man. Sounds like fun though. Are you upset about it all?

>>25041796
You are a robot until you take the red pill my friend.
I don't know whats about it but it's some kind of smell that sticks to us. They know what we are. Only thing left to do is to fake every aspect of your personality and completly stopp caring about anyone except yourself.

>>25041881

Serves me right for hoping

>>25041796
not really. I guess I would like to actually be in a relationship. Live with someone, share more than movies and sex. What I liked the most was just sleeping in the same bed, the intimacy, feeling wanted.
But the girl is bad news. She isn't really good for me, and not for herself either. I like her personality, I like our humour, but she makes so many awful choices (not in any way related to romantic ones), it would never really have worked. But as you see, I'm a robot. This girl is/was my only chance at any kind of action from the opposite sex.
I don't feel much at all nowadays, but sometimes I long for those times again. We were so busy trying to stay discrete, I never really appreciated it at the time. We shall see what the future brings, I guess.

>>25041934
>like to actually be in a relationship
Yeah thats what we all wanted.
>girl is bad news
no shit?

>>25041934


My girl was pretty good this whole episode just ruined her forever in my eyes.

Part of me wants to see how her friends and parents react.

>>25041979
>>girl is bad news
>no shit?
When you're struggling for your life, you'll grab for any kind of branch; even if it's crooked and dry and brittle, I guess. It was my one chance at a life, ever so shitty, that involved a woman. It's not over yet, but I know deep down that I don't actually have a chance. We're too different as people, also she obviously has no problem cheating so I couldn't trust her. I'm not certain the emotional suffering I felt when I realized she was seeing some other guy in the beginning was worse than feeling nothing at all though.
Some people just aren't meant to be happy.

>>25042033
Stopp
Fucking
Caring
It's like you don't want to listen. Just fuck her until something better runs along. You can do whatever you want if you try. Everything you want is on the deepweb or normienet. You just need to get in there.

>>25042031
Which one is yours, the one who took home that other guy "even though she totally would have gone home with you"?

>>25042072
I stopped caring though. I stopped feeling almost entirely. Only feeling I got left is basically irritation.
Fool's hope will die out soon though, and all that will be left is pure opportunism.

>>25042078
nope
>>25042122
You Need to go further

>>25042078
It's op's realitychek

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> first gf at 17
> fast forward year and a half, she moves to another country
> try LDR, things going fine
> she finds out an old friend of hers is in same city
> start going out often etc
> know shit's going down
> 'no anon i swear i love you'
> eventually find out
> 'i didnt want to hurt you anon!'
> 2 months barely have energy to get out of bed, was real attached
> still not completely over her
> get new gf
> suddenly she starts trying to talk to me again
> keeps telling me how we were perfect, she misses me, etc
> dont reply, dont even 'see' her messages
> noticed yesterday she blocked me

> think about how i still care about her so much and barely work on new relationship which is objectively better

I know that's not a pretty often feel here, in fact most of you will label me a normie and you'd be right.
But it's strange, robots. She was literally my life for over a year. I know, mistake for going that far. I don't think I'll ever feel the same about a person ever again and it makes me angry that I wasted it on her.
I spent 15 minutes looking for the perfect pepe, but to no avail. I was picturing pepe staring out of a window with his head rested on his right arm and having a smoke or a drink, staring out the window.

>>25042300
That's wojak standing like that, you dummy.

>>25042300
It'll pass, believe me, see a lot of People and eventually you will find another one. Everybody is replacable. Also everyone is a Robot if he got hurt/ rejected by females in anyway.

>>25042338
I don't have a lot of wojaks, anon.

>>25042358
I thought so too, anon. And new gf is better in every way. But I still can't let go...
Also th-thanks.

>>25041520
>Once thought Sex was something special that people do when they love each other.

What is this? The Middle-Ages ? Some fairy tell ? People have sex and fuck each other like taking a shit in the morning or mowing your lawn.

It's nothing special.

>>25040257
No worries anon. What you need is a hug.

>>25042399
Yeah i got that like a year ago, you are preaching to the choir m8.

>>25042427
He needs to get ripped, money and some good LSD.

bump cause greentexts

>>25040401

Why the fuck wouldnt you? Do it now.

>>25040665

What kind of girl do robots look for? I always assumed a robot would want a girl that would allow him to take charge, but when I talk to this one guy I like, he seems to not see my agreeableness as a sign of attraction. I don't think he's dated, and I know he's currently single. He never really talks about girls, or anything like that, he talks about comics and videogames and movies, and I try to engage in those conversations, but he doesn't really share anything about himself. Except, this one time, he told me about his idea about constructing a moneyless society off-grid. It was really interesting and adorable.

Anyways. I've never dated anyone either, so I don't know how this whole thing works. What would be an ideal first date for a robot? Is there anything I should invite him to do with me, that would be fun for him, without making it seem like I'm putting pressure on him?

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>>25041598
>Oh, also her boyfriend works at our job as well.

>>25043053
this

>>25043055
Ask him what he wants to do, if he has no idea take Charge. If he complains offer ONE alternativ. Otherwise stay with him in his comfortzone. Also don't be a slut and decent looking. Also don't make fun off him.

>>25043055

Is his name Andrew?

>>25043328

I'm decent looking, and not a slut, so check and check. I'll ask him to go to a movie next time I see him, hopefully he says yes.

Also, if he doesn't drive, but I do, would it be better for me to offer him a ride, or to ask him to meet me? I don't mind driving, but I also don't want to seem like I'm assuming he wants to be picked up.

>>25043453

No, it isn't. Why do you you ask?

>>25043537
Ask him casualy, if he says he doesn't care pick him up, he will not feel weak, he will be happy that he is worth the extra way. If he says he will walk over let him do that as well, that will make him feel worthy/less helpless.
Also good luck you two, may I one day find someone who cares like this.

>>25040300
not sure if someone's done this yet but dubs checked

>>25043645

Thank you so much for your advice! I appreciate your perspective and you taking the time to write something thoughtful and helpful.

>>25043761
Beware, if he is a true Robot he also has that nagging voice, I hope you can somehow proof that you are not a slut :/

b um p? Robot pls no ban 1241234

>>25043801

I'm a virgin. I mean, I'm not looking to have sex with him, my head isn't there at all, but in the past I've shut down any guy who even mentioned the possibility of us having sex, so he'd be hard pressed to find anyone that'd call me a slut.

If he's also a virgin, I'd be more comfortable talking about sex in the abstract with him, maybe, in the future. Like I said, I've never dated before, which is why I felt justified shutting people down who were after sex with me. It wasn't because I think there's something wrong with sex, it's because I didn't want to lead them on.

I'm a homebody, my best friend is a gay guy who I've known since I was 14, I don't masturbate, I don't drink, smoke, or party, I don't watch porn, or read romance novels. I don't have piercings other than two in each earlobe, and I don't have any tattoos. My hair is it's natural color, and medium length. I don't wear much makeup. I don't think I have any slutty things about me, so, if he doubted me after all of that, then obviously we wouldn't be a good match. It would speak more on his insecurity than on me, at this point.