>tfw waiting for her to reply
>seen
KJNFKLEAJFNLEKSJF
>waiting for him to wake up or come back from class
time seems like it passes so slowly
>Used to have conversations going on for hours on end
> Talk to her once a week now.
>>25034552
That shit pisses me off senpai, any robots know why the fuck roasties do this shit?
>>25035011
Either theyre too tired or couldnt be bothered to reply/ you didnt give them a message worth enough to reply too. Honest answer
>>25034953
Holy fuck bro IKTF
>used to talk every day, now it's only once a week
>used to apologize for late replies, now doesn't apologize anymore
I am probably her back up plan when whatever guy she's chasing doesn't get with her
She just messages me occasionally to keep me in orbit, most likely
I escaped her orbit a few years back.
It's liberating being able to do whatever you want without worrying what someone else (her) will think, but at the same time I won't let myself fall in love to prevent a repeat of what happened with my last oneitits.
>>25035101
She messages you first?
They never message me first, I'm always the one initiating conversation and I suck shit at that desu
>>25035101
She was my /internetgf/ gay af I know, but she really is cool. Known her for four years, said she liked me twice. We were going to meet up this summer but shit came up and I couldnt let her stick another year with me. Rather her be happy so I let her go :/ sending her a plush for christmas
>tfw i can only message her stupid shit when im drunk
>>25035011
Set up a fake chad or stacy account on twitter or OKcupid. Takes a bit of effort due to their facebook verification bullshit but it can be done. See what it's like to have your pick of 6-7 guys or girl all vying for your attention. Your responses become more slow, and you put less effort into responding quickly to the people you deem "inferior" to the others.
Then go back and look at how similar this interaction is to the one you have with your crush.
>>25035164
Are you less miserable now than you were back then?
>>25035220
A little bit. I hardly think of her anymore except late at night, where it becomes more like anger at myself for letting me make her my oneitis.
I still see her every now and then. I now dread seeing her whereas before it was the highlight of my day. From what I've heard I've become bit of a running joke between her and her friends.
>>25035186
I deleted all her contact info to prevent myself from doing dumb shit like that. I didn't even try to block her so there's no record anywhere I could use to contact her again.
>>25035170
Yeah, I mean her messages still seem thought out even if they're infrequent, and at least she tries to ask me questions about my life sometimes to pretend she's interested
I pretty much do most of the talking tho
>>25035177
damn nigga
I'm not giving her shit but a merry christmas message
>>25035381
Well she gave me a gift quite a few monthes ago.
>avoiding to reply to her
>wanting to play vidya and drink booze
Feels good not being a beta venerating pussy.
SHE ISN'T SPECIAL
STOP PUTTING HER ON A PEDESTAL IF YOU HAVE ANY SELF RESPECT
>tfw its ogre
Time for drunkdotka
>>25035612
I don't desu senpai
>>25035612
but I've been khv for 21 years and may never have this chance again
>>25034539
>tfw she hates me now
I didn't even do anything wrong. I almost made it too...
>>25035612
>implying people do this willingly
Oneitis is a curse and a disease. No one willingly suffers from oneitis.
>>25035796
How did you make her angry anon?
>>25034539
>tfw i don't reply
>>25035796
Sorry to hear that anon, I know that feel.
Wanna talk about it? Was she nice to you before hand at least?
Learn to let it go.
As much as you may champion otherwise, she isn't special. The older and more experienced you get the more you realize this.
>>25034539
>oneitis posts on facebook: where in *town* should I get drunk?
>some Chad probably got with her yesterday
JUST
KILL
ME
ALREADY
>>25035858
>HA! TAKE THAT ONEITIS!
>She doesn't respond either
>fugg
>>25035612
>SHE ISN'T SPECIAL
I KNOW
>STOP PUTTING HER ON A PEDESTAL
I CAN'T
>IF YOU HAVE ANY SELF RESPECT
WE'RE ON R9K WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? I FUCKING HATE MYSELF
>>25035845
>>25035869
First off I should probably say that we live thousands of miles apart after I moved a couple years ago. But we've managed to keep in really close contact.
She had been acting distant for the past couple weeks. Which is completely abnormal because we're usually really close. So I decided to bring it up and I think she admitted feelings for me (it was late and we were both tired so it was kinda hard to decipher) and said that it was really hard to be so close to me when she has feelings for me, but she was gonna try. And for a couple days it all went back to it's brilliant best again. But only for a couple days.
She went distant again, I brought it up again, she said the same thing. But then, she suddenly switched it up. Started accusing me of not giving a shit about her. Then she stopped responding to my messages completely.
I know it sounds weird. I haven't left anything out. I don't know what went wrong and I don't know what to do now. I've stopped messaging her for now, so unless she completely stops talking to me for months, then I'm gonna let her make the next move.
>>25035321
That sucks. It can be liberating though.
>>25036061
4 more months and I will likely never see her again.
baka at thirsty betas. you know women can feel the desperation right?
>>25035186
Haha same here man except she ended up just blocking me when I woke up this morning, she was a lieing bitch but still kinda nice at times oh well fuck er bud.
>>25034539
>You will never live in an alternate world where you are her oneitis
>>25034539
Its been 4 years, she still hasnt unblocked me
>>25036581
>tfw it's almost 4 years since I blocked her, kek
>tfw she is 5 hour drive away
>tfw see her in 5 months
>having a oneitis
are you all 12 years old?
been a year since she blocked me, going strong and not checked her instagram in over a week since it just brings me misery
>>25036933
It can happen to anyone desu senpai.
>>25036977
no, having a oneitis is purely for the young and/or immature
sorry bud
>had oneitis for 3 years, to the day almost
>after one year, become her friend so that we can be closer
>after another, her best friend, she tells me everything, talks to me all the time
>this year, she gets another best guy friend
>he obviously likes her too
>she's in denial about him having feelings for her
>distance myself from her
>she starts to miss having me around
>one day i get a message
>"sorry if this is speaking out of line, but i almost DO want to try dating you"
>turned oneitis into gf
You can do it, /r9k/
>she's still in high school
>I'm in college now
Should have tried when I had the chance
>>25037409
That doesn't have to stop you
>>25037409
>mfw she already finished college
>mfw I'm basically NEET
I haven't seen my oneitis for a pretty long time and she lost most of her charm. we're good friends but i cant remember why was i so hooked on her.
feels good lad
>>25034539
Been almost 3 years since she told me she didn't want to date me, and I told her we couldn't be friends anymore and cut off all contact.
Recently deleted my normiebook and downloaded all my info. Our chat history was in there. Rereading it, you can slowly see her interest in me waning. She brings up how antisocial I am, how I hate parties and concerts, how I rarely drink. She slowly begins giving one word answers to everything. Talking about fun things she's been doing with other guys. Eventually she tells me she wants to date one of those guys. The entire time I had been forcing myself to believe everything was okay, and that some day we'd be together.
Even if we had dated, it wouldn't have worked. She'd probably have cucked me, or worse. The knowledge doesn't help
>>25035796
>she hates me nowSame here, it still hurts everytime I think about it.
>tfw speak five words to her a week, don't have her number, and wouldn't even consider her an acquaintance
Why do I feel so attached?
>>25038231
because you're lonely and miserable and dream about a rescuer
>tfw i live on the other side of the planet to her
>tfw she admitted she was head over heels for me
>tfw there's no way we can even visit each other anytime soon
>tfw there's nothing i can do
I almost fucking made it out of this shithole.
>>25035164
Same situation tbqh. It feels good and bad at the same time.
Mostly bad though.
>>25035170
I dont think I ve ever been messaged first except for once I requested a recommendation and she gave it weeks later.
>>25035321
Oh wew familia, we are in the same situation-
>>25034539
finally managed to talk to her but she's as socially uncomfortable as me so our conversations were kind of awkward. Worst part is that she might have even liked me but I was too scared to make a move. Haven't seen her for three weeks and the last few times I saw her we barely said hi
>>25037593
>I haven't seen my oneitis for a pretty long time and she lost most of her charm
that's what I'm waiting for
