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Anyone else here lost the ability to fall in love?
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Anyone else here lost the ability to fall in love?
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Not sure yet
I haven't been in contact with people for awhile now
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i wish i lost the ability to fall in love
having my heart broken is the worst feeling in the world.
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>>25018842
yes i'm a hearthbreaker now
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My encounters with women, failed relationships, firsthand accounts I've heard from friends and acquaintances, and shit I've seen posted on here and leddit have basically broken the illusion of love for me.

I have don't think I have the capacity to genuinely fall in love with someone, but I'd gladly fuck a hot chick.
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>>25018842
If you consider falling in love organically and unintentionally coming to love someone then yes.

At this point I scout out the most likely contender, then convince myself that I feel something towards them (only to get rejected anyway).
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>get gf
>think everything will be better
>it's not
>feel nothing
>she's boring as fuck
>break up
>year later
>get a new gf
>think everything will be better
>it's not
>feel nothing
>she's boring as fuck
Women are shit, and it's nearly impossible to find one that's tolerable.
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>>25019329
Pretty much this right here desu senpai
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I think so, but what now?

Life seems pretty meaningless. I mean I'd only be "trying" to spend money on myself but I can do that well enough without even having a good job.
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No, but I have fully accepted I am probably not cut out to love (or be loved by) another human being.
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>>25018842

I think so. I'm in my mid-20s now and never had any experience with women. I watch a lot of anime and fantasise what being in a relationship based on that though.

I mostly just want to be alone because I have this weird, semi-legitimate belief that if I take myself out of the dating pool, there's an equivalent women who'll never get to settle down.

I feel very bitter, too bitter to fall in love.
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All I do is go to work and come home and sit in my room. My coworkers are all over 55 so I have no real contact with people my age. Even if I did, everyone is married by now. There is no joy left in my life and sometimes I just want to end it.
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Yes, I had one gf, and I talked about her enough on here that some people recognize her. After 2.5 years and realizing how much and how easily she lied and manipulated me, I've lost faith in all women.

I'm actually relieved. If I could undo the whole thing I would, because it made me lose all hope, but at the same time having no hope means I'm never dissapointed again.

>tfw sometimes people call my ex an "/r9k/ girl" or a "meme girl" now.

its a good feel
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>>25019680
This sounds like a living hell. How old are you?
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>>25018842
With normie girls? Yes.
Never made friends with one but seeing them in public makes me never want to be friends with one
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>>25018842
I have been through some pretty messed up stuff with girls but I still fall in love, I am just able to control it and not fall apart if I end up falling in love with them and they End up hurting me.
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Anyone else here never fallen in love before?
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>>25018842
soundtrack for the thread
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=snhkO-c-S0c
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When I was going through puberty I would feel lust towards women really easiliy and fantasized about every semi-attractive girl in class. I can't remember ever feeling anything deeper than that.

Now that I'm older I find myself unable to imagine what love and romantic relationships even entail.
I realised this a while back when it was made clear to me that a girl had a thing for me. According to others in our circle of friends she was serious about the whole thing but I just went along with it because I didn't want to be that guy who never had a gf.
After about a week of awkwardness I realised how messed up this was so I ended it.

At least now I know I'm not fit for things like companionship.
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>>25019438

Would you consider yourself to be boring?

How did their boringness manifest itself?
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>>25018842
No, have you? If so, how come?
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>>25018842
Yes.

I see a woman and I instantly compile a list of negatives and short assumptions which revolt me from even talking to them.
/r9k/ mainly, but 4chan as a whole burned a list into me which just clicks if I begin talking to someone nice or remotely attractive, I think and go through the list on the spot or collect on it at night.

The worst things are:
>They don't want to listen to you, they just want to talk about themselves
>They're not asking you any questions so they're not attractive
>They've probably taken a mile of dick
>They have no ambition, no talent.
I've fallen in love unintentionally and told myself whatever they've done I don't care, they can start fresh with me and I'll accept it, I just want to talk to them and get to know them personally and then my thoughts spin off to some ludicrous romance scene.
I've agreed with myself that after some time with me the girls will leave anyway.
I feel like girls always want a reward from anything they do, that they lust after money and if they date me then it's just to enjoy themselves.
Also the killer from me is that my hobbies are never going to align theirs and are just huge turn-offs.
>Gaming
>Having an interest in the most revolting things
I'm my own enemy.

Oh well.

I fully believe everyone here relies on each other, for support.
I think it's best put that we're back to back and climbing down an abyss.
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>>25020346
>They're not asking you any questions so they're not attractive
Meant to be >not interested
Sorry.
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>>25020253
I'm probably boring to most people, but to others with even mildly similar interests I can hold a conversation.

Their boringness manifested in an inability to converse on anything other than their friends, coworkers, or whatever social drama is hot at the moment.
Completely unable to watch a good movie without talking constantly, or fucking around on her phone. It's almost as though it's impossible for them to even watch a movie all the way through.
Can't hold an intelligent conversation about politics, history, music, or really anything interesting.
The first one's music tastes consist of Modest Mouse, the Beatles, Vampire Weekend, and Adele.
She also thought she could tell me everything about my own depression as though she's some kind of expert on the topic, or depression is a new thing in my life.
All of that and more, but most specifically a lack of any real hobbies or interests outside of social media, and netflix.
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>Normie stacy girls only want Chad
>Lolsoquirky QTs only want Chad
>Much rather be single than have an ugly fat gf
What's the point
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>>25020442
This is the truth and it always will be.
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>>25020442
L I S I C K I
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>that one girl that ruined your ability to fall in love

who is she?
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>>25020400
>a lack of any real hobbies or interests outside of social media, and netflix.
Women in a nutshell desu.
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>>25019440
Klaas Kooi
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>>25020643
That's not how it works

There's a difference between losing your ability to fall in love and building walls around yourself to avoid getting hurt. The vast majority of people with emotionnal issue have done the latter, the former requires years of sedentary life, conditioning yourself to appreciate solitude and becoming numb inside. Most robots can't understand that, because all they do is bitch and moan about how shitty their life is because they wish they had GFs
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I love the feeling of falling in love, but people seem to be drifting further away from me in general as I get older.
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>>25020643
I feel bad knowing she can actually affect me

it was some bitch I met online who was basically never anything more than a friend to me

she cut contact because she met Chad and I think she was under the impression that I'd stalk her and talk shit and stuff like that if I knew about it
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>>25019704
> I talked about her enough on here that some people recognize her.

>tfw sometimes people call my ex an "/r9k/ girl" or a "meme girl" now.


Lmao no
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I've lost the ability to have one sided crushes on girls. No point in loving someone who's shown no romantic interest in you. Unless they're a 2D waifu.
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Worse. I haven't yet but whores have basically shoved the red pill in all my orifices. This purple pill combination of cynical objectivity and desperate idealism is killing me inside.
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>mfw I'm only exclusively attracted to ugly fat girls
>mfw those kinds of girls almost always have actual hobbies and interests which aren't instagram/facebook/etc.

Having a fat fetish really does put life on easy mode.
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What is love meant to feel like, robots? I don't think I've ever experienced it tbqh
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>>25019704
I've been here since the begging and have never seen that girl

I also think it is adorable you wrote all women off after one thing.

My first gf cheated on me. Guess what? I found another one.
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>>25021854
>i'm only attracted to ugly girls

wot
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I become deeply infatuated someone for a few months, and do stupid, grandiose things because of it. Then I sulk for half a year, until the cycle repeats it's self.

I'm sulking for the third time, now.

>tfw no one will ever reciprocate your love
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>>25018842
6 years ago I remember I still chased girls
5 years ago I stopped any interactions with girl
4 years ago I stopped daydreaming or any fantasy involved girls. didn't have a thought about relationship
3 years ago I stopped treating women as different gender or even fundamentally recognize biological difference
Now I don't have anything to do with women expect reading some normies posting here about them. I can taste the power of becoming a true wizard
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>>25022131
God, I wish I was at your level.

I still have some attraction to women and sometimes even fantasize about being with one. But, those feelings quickly disperse. I'm afraid that one day they're gonna get the better of me.
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>>25020400
W-whats wrong with modest mouse, their old stuff if pretty gud
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>>25021885
I have never experienced someone liking me. I only do one side crush.
Through 25 years of my life I never had one girl that tells, text, call, online, or in whatever way tell me she likes me or even inform that
This is why women cannot be robot. Even a 3/10 girl I can bet at least she received someone at least liking her.
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>>25022164
I'm not a edgy faggot so I have to admit my brain didn't turn out "stop attracting to girls". It formed a protective shield if you what I mean

It basically blocked all the feeling from its source. Maybe I was hurt or maybe I gave up. But my brain blocked any normal male signals and make me do not want even a bit of move or feeling. At least it's how it worked at first
Then I'm used to this and accept as my fate

Life gets easier expect there is always normie who must be talking about girls with you or ramble some bullshit dude shits. I still fap to porn or get a boner. But by the time I feel nothing but a hungry animal needs to eject. 5 mins max then my life don't need women in any way
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>>25018842
Never fell in love before because I've never gotten that close with anyone besides my family.

My friends are just people who I hang out with to have fun
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>>25022354

this

Expect I'm not very close with my family and dont have friends.
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lost the ability to fall in love when i got cucked by the first girlfriend i ever had. havent dated since
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Fall in love? I can hardly stand people at all, I try to enjoy minimal social interaction on 4chan but you guys are the same as normies. Same shitty apes.
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>>25018842

I don't know what love is.

I have people I'm close to and care about, but I don't know if that's love. Much less in a romantic sense.
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>>25018842
> Fell in love many times
> Only in two cases to girls which were my gf
> Both cheated on me because I was true beta then
> Rest of girls I fell in love I was too big coward to proceed after taking them out
> I had and have almost no feelings towards most of the girls I had sex with
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>>25020643
Before her, having a crush was a pretty fun thing (even if it never went anywhere). But loving her just gave me panic attacks and made me crazy, crazy enough to tell her how I felt (obviously, it was unrequited). Now I'm more careful these days
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>>25022785
It's funny how I read books, watched tv, and all media tell me that it's how girls are the emotional ones and how they chase guys or how they tell guys their feelings
It's such a Jew lie
All I see is young innocent guys doing this to evil girls who is using their heart and emotionless as dead
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>>25022918
I think tv and movies have ruined me the most.

They romanticized love and girls so fucking much, when in reality, girls are far worse than men when it comes to relationship. They put forth so little effort to get a man and put no effort into keeping the one they have because they always have a replacement for you, no matter who you are.

Their vaginas give them so much fucking power, and it corrupts a lot of them.
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I've convinced that any time a girl shows even a slight sign of being interested in me, she's either lying or joking or taking advantage of me.

It's fucked up. I want to feel a real flame for someone again.
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>>25018842
I've lost the ability to love and trust humans. I don't really genuinely love anything except music.
>>25019329
I agree, I would fuck the brains out of pic related, but I wouldn't love. Maybe that's why I have a mind control fetish.
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>>25022950
At least we wake up from that.
I mean really, in all those books, stories, shows, movies, men are the "evil emotionless who only think using their dicks"
men are discribed as only wanting to fuck, then no chatting, no kissing, no cuddling beer craving bob who just need a handjob

But in reality women are the one who thinks about fuck ALL TIME. They don't consider anything else. But they make men look cruel because it fits their "manly" looking agenda!!! They think being cruel and emotionless is supposed to be manly and some stupid fucks actually believe and pushed this idea.
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>>25018842
Yes but its all on me. I don't blame other people any more. I use to say if girls just gave me a shot they'd see how much they like me.
But, after a lot of introspective thinking I've come to realize that I have nothing worth offering, nothing to bring to the table the table that someone else doesn't do better. Thats why they don't give me a chance, because if I did have something special, someone would see it. I'd be able to show it. I use to think I'd just talk to a girl who is lesser than me, but for the most part they don't exist, and the few that I've had the fucking audacity to label as "lesser" are too far gone for me.
Besides, who am I to label anyone as "lesser". At least they try. Meanwhile I wallow in my own mental filth and sloth. But...at least I can accept that. My whole life has been leading up to this, at least I can see where I messed up, what I did wrong. Thats something a lot of robots are missing.
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>>25018842
Yes. I am ashamed to look at my own body, knowing that I will never be able to feel true sexual pleasure, or give that to a woman because I am a subhuman freak who was circumcised, mutilated at birth. I look at myself and think, that no woman would ever want me. I am disfigured and cannot feel what it is to be a true man. Why would anybody want me? Sex is a vital part of any lasting relationship, and I have been deprived of the ability to provide that. Until I can get regenerative surgery and become an entire man once again, I cannot stand to be with a woman, because I am not an authentic unaltered human being. I hate myself and my former religion of Judaism that I was born into, my uncaring parents mutilating me on the eighth day of my life. I fucking hate Jews, they are freaks with an amputation fetish.

I am so fucking angry.
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I'm naive and only 21 but I think so. I don't think I ever really loved romantically, and my cravings for social interaction are fulfilled by friends and sex anyway
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>>25023731
Can't tell if this is bait or if you actually fell for those troll threads
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>>25023928
I used these links to redpill my parents. Now they also hate themselves kek.

http://www.foregen.org/
http://www.foregen.org/human_foreskin
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2006.06685.x/abstract
http://www.mdjunction.com/circumcision
http://www.norm.org/
http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Circumcision/support-group
http://www.beyondthebris.com/
http://www.jewsagainstcircumcision.org/
http://www.circumcision.org/3614NewsRelease.htm#
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/baby-dies-herpes-virus-ritual-circumcision-nyc-orthodox/story?id=15888618
http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm6122a2.htm
http://www.intactamerica.org/german_pediatrics_statement
http://www.intactamerica.org/german_pediatrics_statement:
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/early/2013/03/12/peds.2012-2896.full.pdf+html
http://intaction.org/
http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/
http://www.timesofisrael.com/israeli-pediatric-association-calls-for-end-to-circumcision-related-rite/
https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/549824750/pigs-without-blankets-the-documentary
http://www.arclaw.org/
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>>25018842
I guess I did. Well, truth be told, I'm not even sure if I ever fell in love before. Whenever I think about love, I can't help but think about a girl I met 6 years ago. But it's not like I even got close to her at all. Can you really say you're in love when you don't even really know the person? I never felt so attracted to someone else before (or ever since) meeting her. Even though she was plain looking. So in a way I guess I fell in love with the idea of her in my head. Where she was `perfect`. Everything I looked for in a girlfriend. And with this kind of thought, I've sealed my fate and cucked myself.
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>>25024065
He actually believes this meme.
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>>25018842
Dunno that I ever had it.
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>>25018842
Why would the earlier event be mentioned after the but?
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i lost the ability to make friends in general. i'm too jaded for social interaction
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>>25020346
>They're not asking you any questions so they're not attractive

This has ruined me. It just turns me into a miserable overthinking mess.
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I think I vaguely had such a ability in grade school, but I probably am misremembering.
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>>25020400
You should go listen to old Modest Mouse, you don't know what you're saying
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>>25022192
>>25024660
I'm not saying I dislike Modest Mouse, mates, I do enjoy them. I'm just saying it's terribly common for girls of her type to listen to Modest Mouse.
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>fall in love with girl I grew up with
>she rejects me and we haven't spoken in years
>depressed and suicidal
>afraid to ever fall in love again
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>>25022245

Yep. there was a rule on some Reddit female /r9k/ equivalent that was "no guys looking for girlfriends" or something.

Can you imagine if we had that rule? How it would make fucking zero sense?
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I thought I had. I'm 29 and a kissless virgin who has never had a gf. At around 25 I just stopped caring.

Then I met this girl at work. She's younger than I am (22), but quirky and cute like no one I've ever met. She's Mormon, though, and I think she thinks I'm too old to take seriously. And she has some serious (life threatening) medical problems and stuff.

I know I'm setting myself up completely for disappointment, but I can't help it. I think I'm falling in love with her. I don't know what to do.
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>>25024319

>thinking about what direction her body is pointing
>is she asking enough questions?
>am I talking too long?
>is that a duchenne smile?
>is this a comfortable silence or an awkward silence that needs filling?
>are my wrists too thin?

Fucks sake.
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>>25018842
I think I have.

I haven't been able to form a bond with any person but my dad for about eight years now.
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Who /wants to fall in love but will never be in a relationship/ here
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>>25025379
>is that a duchenne smile?

Reminds me of this 'ol song from burnout 3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUAu-FtrVJI

This song's actually exactly about Stacies.
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>>25025674

>Dear Diary...

Jesus Christ. Imagine that today.
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me ooga

women booga
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I thought I had, but i was wrong. Turns out that with the minimun of attention is enough.
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I txt my ex the other day and she didn't have my number saved anymore. didn't feel the need to tell her who it was so I just didn't reply, oh well.
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>>25019612
I am the exact same. I also have that same, probably unrealistic, belief. Aren't there some women that feel like this? Aren't there any women in the world who want what we also want? I know there are. What's stopping us from getting together with the small minority of women who are like us (and not fat/ugly as fuck, cuz I know they exist). I think that /r9k/ has to create these blanketed theories that no women are decent etc. In order to make excuses for why we're not out there finding these motherfucking introverted girls who want what we want. It's cuz all robots are huge pussies and we don't wanna admit it to ourselves.
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>>25018842
I fell in love. Once.
>Be me 4 years ago right after high school graduation
>End up dating girl for 1 year
>I get suspicious of her cheating
>We break up
>Turns out she didn't cheat
>whathaveidone.jpg

>Over the years date a few girls here and there
>Every single one of them cheated on me after 3 months or so
>Eventually get fed up with getting stepped on
>Treat women like shit
>Get pussy left and right because of it
>No commitment

>Don't even feel bad for it because of how they used me

Nowadays I believe love is just a primal instinct to want to mate and breed. We are animals after all.
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Sort of
>become best friends with the only girl I know
>we talk a ton every day
>always have have the most fun I've ever had when I meet with her (she lives out of state and visits every now and then)
>she tells me she loves me
>I tell her I love her back
>she starts to do stuff like strip in our video chats
>she even tells me she wants me to take her virginity
>one day she tells me that we need to have a serious talk for a bit
>she tells me that I was creepy and she never and will never love me
>get crushed and fall into a deep depression, as she was what kept me going every day
>give up on love

>months later, I realize a friend of mine had a crush on me but was too shy to do anything
>I respond to his feelings, as I desperately wanted someone who cared about me
>start to love him back
>he ends up telling me that she also manipulated his emotions and that was what turned him gay

Why do women do stuff like this? Do they enjoy twisting people's hearts? Is it what they find fun?
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>>25018842
I don't give a fuck anymore life is shit and i hate living. Everything is a lie i would eat a bullet if i wasn't a giant pussy bitch faggot.
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I fell in love with a girl in highschool. She was just a plain jane, simple and pure. She thought I was funny and I think she loved me too. We dated and were steady all throughout highschool. We were voted most likely to get married and soulmates of the century. 5 years we were each others rocks, peanutbutter and jelly. She was everything to me and I was everything to her. Then she was killed by a drunk driver while she rode in a car with her parents. The drunks car went through the windshield, killed everyone in her car. The drunk only a broken nose from his airbag.

Its been 7 years. I have yet to fill that void and I dont think I will ever be able to do so. I dont even think I could ever love someone like how I loved her.
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>>25018842
I have. I get mixed feelings about it. On one side I want to fall in love again, on the other side I know if I do I'll get hurt, because nobody will ever love me.
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>>25026612
Jesus...I'm so sorry man.

That sounds like some shit out of a movie. Did the guy at least serve time in prison?
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>>25018842
>I'm asexual XD
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I've kind of given up on trying, although one day I might meet someone who would want to be with me. I don't know how since I dedicate myself entirely to school and when I graduate, i'm just gonna do the same thing to work.
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Yes I have and I truely don't give a shit.


It's liberating being able to do things for yourself because you want to do them instead of doing things to impress some cunt who will screw you over in the end anyways.

Not to mention my wallet's never been fatter.
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>>25026612
cosmic justice
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>>25025311
you really need to have sex and hold a girl anon
do everything you can
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>>25018842
yup. last time i were in love was 7 years ago, i'm 24 now.
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>>25018842
I don't know if I had this ability at the beginning.
I'll know it if I fall in love or die
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>>25020751
The former sounds like me.
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>>25020643
Some bitch who I thought was genuinely nice. Maybe she was back then, who knows?

Anyways she turned into a total cunt, a sort of wannabe queen bee, thanks to the toxic female friends she chose to associate with.

They ended up convincing her to not only break up with me but to accuse me of "harassing" her post breakup, and all to elevate hers' (and their own) social status.

Fuck love.
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>>25019329
>and leddit
>leddit

you get the fuck out right now
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>>25028153
>thanks to the toxic female friends she chose to associate with.
I lost 2 gfs thanks to their toxic female friends.
To some point I have started to believe women don't really know how to value herselves on their own and need their female friends validation, so they do anything they tell them to do.
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>>25020400
>Completely unable to watch a good movie without talking constantly, or fucking around on her phone. It's almost as though it's impossible for them to even watch a movie all the way through.

Fuck this triggers my autism hard. IKTFB

>She also thought she could tell me everything about my own depression as though she's some kind of expert on the topic, or depression is a new thing in my life.

The cancer is real
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>>25023109
But the opposite of fitting into their "manly" agenda you become a m'lady fedora tipping betafag.
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>>25020643
I thought she liked me, I really did. So I thought I might as well go for it. She has some serious issues, mainly her dad being a drunk and beating most of her family.

She's also apparently a very obnoxious friend to have, and is very arrogant and brash. Also quite stupid.

But the sad part is If she asked me for a relationship I would still say yes, because deep down I still love her
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Don't know if I ever had it. Sure, I get intense emotions. But if a girl liked me back I'd be too paranoid and self-conscious to really devote myself to her.
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>>25028365
It seems more and more women act that way nowadays and it doesn't help that they have orbiters and even bystanders willing to enable them.

I wonder if it's because they think they'll have a chance with those women or if they're afraid of becoming their next target
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I've never been in "love" to fall out of in the first place.

I might come off as "edgy" or "euphoric" but I've never really believed in love. Growing up and seeing how my parents would constantly fight, swear and abuse one another and then turn to me and say they love me was always bizarre.

I've gotten to know a lot of girls, but I've only ever lusted after them. I never considered them friends, or even my equals, they were always worse to talk to or hang out with than guys.

I started feeling this way as I went through puberty, many bouts of lust, but nothing more. Even to this day, I think love doesn't exist, at least between a man and a woman. Maybe for children, or even for pets but I'll always view relationships as an exchange of goods, nothing more and nothing less.
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>>25020643
One girl? Nah mate, it just kinda fades as you keep dating people.
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>>25020253


roastie toastie?

this is my original comet
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>>25019329
>and leddit
You deserve all your pain
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>>25028801
Minus the parent part, you hit the nail on the head for me.

Only reason I want a girlfriend anymore is so that my friends don't think I'm gay.
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>>25022093

For me it's usually a year, maybe a bit shorter than that. But yeah, anywhere from 3 months to a year. They won't reciprocate your love because you're in love in them. That's just how it works.
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>>25023587

That's the first step to becoming something man. I'm a god damn loser too, got nothing going in my life. Got no personality, no looks.

I've been communicating with these dudes from /k/ and will probably join them the kurdish forces in Syria that fight against ISIS. At least then I'll be doing shit that matters.
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>>25030649
Glad I'm not alone when it comes to these feels.
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>>25022950
>They put forth so little effort to get a man and put no effort into keeping the one they have because they always have a replacement for you, no matter who you are.

This.
Men are romantics pretending to be opportunists.
Women are opportunists pretending to be romantics.
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>>25028381

>Completely unable to watch a good movie without talking constantly, or fucking around on her phone

Is there anything less attractive than a woman living through her shitty finger device?

>take grill on date to some nice authentic japanese place
>takes photos of fucking everything constantly and checks on the comments whenever her phone makes a chime
>she "had a great time" and actually tried to arrange another date

I'm proud to say I've never taken a selfie in my life. I can count the number of photographs I've been in in the last 7 years on one hand (excluding licenses).
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>>25019329
This is objectivally 10/10 godamaammn
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>>25018842
>Completely fell in love with a girl 2 years ago
>10/10 girl smart as hell
>Unicorn
>Breakup because of her Uni
>Feel like maybe i'll find someone again
>Tfw no one compares to her
>Every girl is either dumb af or ugly as sin
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>>25032823
why did you take a pleb out on a date in the first place?
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>>25020346
>if they date me then it's just to enjoy themselves
Should they not enjoy it?
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>>25019704
aloocol fetus sindrom
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>>25026159
>Why do women do stuff like this? Do they enjoy twisting people's hearts? Is it what they find fun?
Absolutely. My first girlfriend bragged about how none of her exes had had a girlfriend since her.

I was too clueless to understand what she meant and as I'm sure you can guess, it ended really badly.
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Now that I think about it, I'd say that I've only experienced strong physical desire.
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I thought I had, then I saw my highschool crush who I was too shy to approach and it all came flooding back to me.

I'm going to ask her out next time I see her so she can reject me and I can get on with cutting her out of my heart
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I think I've just lost the ability to try to fall in love. I feel like I could fall in love but I'm no longer going to pursue it. Love's overrated.
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I've had several girls interested in me but i always declined because i didn't feel anything for them, I sometimes feel like i think too highly of love and i should just get with a normal bitch instead of finding one that i truly love.

All i want is a 7/10 redhead but theres no redheads in this god forsaken country
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>>25020346
>I feel like girls always want a reward from anything they do, that they lust after money and if they date me then it's just to enjoy themselves

this is why I dont speak to females, even when I have the oportunity, they believe they are entitled to everything
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it feels like it
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word to the wise: give up on 3d girls, bro. nothing but bitches n hoes.
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>>25018842
Yes. And seeing this shit doesn't help.
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>>25018842

I never had it.
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