>TFW your self esteem is so low that if a girl did show interest, you would consider it a red flag.
Anyone else feel this? That if a girl liked you, she has to be fucked up.
I think it's pretty common. It's probably why I don't date.At some point, I lost the ability to even pretend that any woman could be interested in me.
What's wrong with realizing that if a woman shows interest in me then she's obviously planning to use me in some way to my detriment
Ofcourse, I don't love myself, why would anyone feel attracted to me?
Either they want something, they lost a bet, or they are even more fucked than I am.
>>25016656
some girls have the capacity to see through insecurity and to see you're a decent guy. don't miss that opportunity
This happened to me
>i end up blowing it anyway
Tbh senpai im going to kill myself i cant take the pain any more
>>25016656
If she looks like a whore she certainly is a whore, if she looks decent you have a good chance she is decent.
Just look at her facial expression and what she looks at/does alone and with people
>>25016762
AKA some women have been so blinded by the Jew movies and TV shows that they honestly believe everyone has a good side deep down / everyone can be redeemed by le power of love
Use this to your advantage
>>25016656
This.
I've been told never to my face too many times to suddenly start believing that some chick would suddenly be legitimately interested in me.
Every girl i initiate courtship (idk what else to call it) seems to think im pretty great, trouble is i have to jump through a bunch of hoops and hide my true self to get to that point, and usually end up dropping the guise in a big way and repelling them on purpose.
i just want to be a sad drunk piece of shit and be loved for it