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Guys ask girls questions.
Girls ask guys questions.
I'll start. Guys -- how am I supposed to contact robot types who rarely go outside or stay in public areas for very long?
>>24990421
You don't.
My turn.
Why are girls such ravenous attention whores who don't care for anything but themselves?
>>24990421
By giving me your contact of course :^)
>>24990421
Get their phone number and text them?
Skype them?
For Girls-- Why would a girl say I broke her heart after she broke up with me 2 months ago?
Some background; got out of a mental hospital when this happened, was pissed at her and cut off contact with her, she did same, suddenly she's making small effort to get back into my life
Girls -- Do you want to be my girlfriend?
>>24990421
assertively ask for contact info, compliment them on their tastes in whatever autistic hobby they have
>>24990421
Steam. I'm not kidding.
>>24990421
excellent bait onii-chan
ALL GIRLS ANSWER THIS QUESTIONwill you be myqt lesbian gf
>>24990421
You don't
Girls (implying more than 1 girl browses r9k at all hours) = why do you like black guys soo much? if not do you have any coalburning firends? is it because of niggers masculinity? if thats the case than you might as well just kill yourselves now
>>24990576
yes (not a girl though)
>>24990576
Depends if you like black girls
>>24990447
I think its only human nature to be "selfish" and crave validation. Women want attention from lots of guys, while men want to be deified by some dainty little girlfriend who only ever thinks about him and his cock.
>>24990474
I have a specific guy in mind though my friend :^). I see him occasionally at the nearby subway but he just pays and then powerwalks out of there.
>>24990477
Well did she really break up with you? Maybe she was too worried about getting formally dumped after you started acting cold to her, so she mistakenly decided to be the one to terminate the relationship and somehow save herself a bit of heartbreak? It seems like she still wanted you throughout, or at least she regrets her decision, so if you're not pissed, then maybe make some efforts to reconnect as well?
Unless its quite clear that she just wants to be "friends" - in which case, feel free to dump her. In that case, she just wants to lean on your for social/emotional support while not getting sexual or intimate.
>>24990614
Nothing. You're adorable. Physically you got all the right stuff. Maybe, you just gotta find a way not to be a social autist?
>>24990614
You're a 7/10 for me.
Stop being such a bitch and go out there.
>>24990627
>I see him occasionally at the nearby subway
so the memes were true all along
>>24990627
She broke up with me.
Long speech about friends being a distraction.
I was SUPPOSED to be going to a university on a athletic scholarship, but my depression ruined that shit.
I feel like I still love her. But she's just into so much bad shit right now. Won't be around for response, sorry.
Putting on auto update, hopefully I get something from that.
peace
>>24990627
>I see him occasionally at the nearby subway but he just pays and then powerwalks out of there.
c-could it be the Subway NEET?
>>24990614
is that you? you're cute anon. go get a gf.
if not, fucking go to the gym already. if you have a body like pic related we'll think twice before rejecting you.
>>24990421
>yfw you realise 300 pounds of neet makes these threads
>>24990478
>>24990576
Thanks but no thanks :^)
I'm sure you'll find someone better than me!he he he
>>24990595
I don't personally fetishize black guys as sex objects, so I don't know. But I guess its similar to how white guys like asian girls? Asian girls act archetypally feminine and submissive, while black guys act archetypally masculine and dominant. Asian girls make white guys feel more like men, black guys make white girls feel more like women? That's what I commonly hear. And that's why nerdy black guys don't do well with white girls. White girls don't like the skin colour bit they like the assertiveness and confidence.
>>24990614
Honestly, don't bother. You look fine. Guys act too much like girls nowadays and think they should put a lot of effort into physical attractiveness to make themselves more appealing to girls. It helps a bit, but not to the same extent that it matters for girls.
The best thing you can do to improve your situation is to just go for it and start asking some girls out and getting some experience dating. Improving your skills in poker means nothing if you never make a bet.
Some girls might think this is a bit mean, but maybe start with some "practice girlfriends"? Ones that aren't really your ideal type but you have better odds with and you can build your confidence up when interacting with them.
>>24990773
wow this rejection is so real. Good job pretending to be a girl.
My question to the thread full of robot freaks pretending to be girls, ...why?
Girls -- Im writing an erotic tentacle story about one of my female friends, is that a good idea? she likes tentacles btw. It's a kind of christmas thing im doing for her
Why don't you girl's like anal? You'd let a guy piss/shit/vomit on you but getting a dick in your ass is suddenly a no-no.
>>24990898
You sound like a fucking beta orbiter, dude.
>>24990627
>I have a specific guy in mind though my friend :^). I see him occasionally at the nearby subway but he just pays and then powerwalks out of there.
People like you are the reason I don't go out anymore
>>24990920
well little do you know i slept with 2 girls on saturday
>>24990908
I wouldn't let a guy piss/shit/vomit on me, that's disgusting. And why do anal when I have a perfectly good, mint condition vagina right next door?
Just doesn't make sense, friendo. I've never had sex, but how would anal even be enjoyable for me?
>>24990949
But you won't let me use your vagina either
>>24990898
Girl here. That is such a fantastic idea.
>>24990949
question: what are you favourite household objects to masturbate with?
this one goes out to all the ladies :)
>>24990964
Well, if we: met in real life, got to know each other for a couple months and dated for a couple months more then you could definitely use my vagina.
Unfortunately that hasn't happened yet.
>>24990860Well, try starting this thread as a guy. It never gets any momentum
>>24991005
You give me a bit of hope for finding a decent person eventually.
>>24990970
thanks! glad you think so :D
>>24991005
And where are you?
Getting sick of the robot t.b.h (to be honest)
>>24990997
I've never tried sticking an object up my vagina and my fingers cant get in deep enough. I just stimulate my clit until I climax instead.
What WOULD you stick up your vagina anyways? Outside of a porno, sticking the family remote up your vag is disgusting.
Guys, have you stimulated your prostate before? Did it feel good? Did you orgasm from it and if you did did you make an aheago face?
Girls: Is it ever okay to try to reconnect with a girl who has told the guy that she didn't want to talk anymore?
>>24991069around Toronto
where are you?
>>24991013
*hint* the "decent" girls are usually sub 5/10's
Girls, why do you give such terrible advice on everything?
>>24991105
Upstate new york unfortunately
>>24990421
You play vidya games with strangers and hope for the best.
Girls: How do i find good girls? No sluts, just casual girls who likes vidya and stuff.
>>24991088
No to the first and the rest aren't applicable. I'm not a faggot
>>24991111
Ask me something and I'll give you good advice then. Nice quads.
>>24991105
I really don't mind that as long as she's well kempt, healthy and nice.
>>24991088
done it before, did it last night (dildo) not any satisfaction from my ass, no ahegao face
>>24991112
>countryzoned again
What are chances of me being murdered/raped/assaulted if I meet up with a robot anyways? Be honest please guys.
>>24991013
are you that faggot on omegle
>>24990421
By messenger pigeon.
For girls -- M'lady. *tips autism*
>>24991142
Sounds sad
>>24991176
Oh, well that is disappointing.
>>24991195
I'm not too far from Canada honestly
I don't know. I've got better things to do than kill someone (can't play vidya in prison) and I doubt most people here could work up the ambition to do it.
Girls - How does it feel to be last in literally EVERYTHING.
A woman's property (all of it) legally became her husband's after marriage... until the mid 19th century. Even black guys had the right to own property before then.
Women couldn't vote until ca. 1920... but not before black guys.
The first black Senator was elected in 1870. The first female Senator was elected in 1916.
Women didn't have equal working rights until the mid-late 20th century.
We've had a black president but not a woman president.
So again I ask you... how does it feel to be last?
>>24991206
No. I dont use omegle.
>>24991195
Always meet with people in Public the first few times
>>24991100
Respect her wishes, leave her alone
>>24991233
not really bothered desu
>>24991105
>undergrad in Ontario
>all fembots are in BC/AB
>now in BC
>all fembots are in GTA
ree...
>>24990908
Why would I enjoy anal when I don't have a prostate and shit out of that hole? Anal is for people with prostates.
I also wouldn't do anything involving puke/piss/shit. Disgusting.
>>24990773
>>Some girls might think this is a bit mean, but maybe start with some "practice girlfriends"? Ones that aren't really your ideal type but you have better odds with and you can build your confidence up when interacting with them.
tfw this would probably be the best thing for me to do but I'm a 4/10 guy
>>24991233
>Female senator four years before women could vote
>That senator probably couldn't vote for president
That's weird
>>24991344
Never thought about the fact women don't have prostates. Which is weird, because my ex enjoyed anal.. The human body and human desire is weird.
>>24991233
Honestly? It doesn't personally bother me. I'm not affected by what occurred 100 years ago. I live a pretty good life rn and am free to study, get a job, own property, etc.
As a woman, I'm more likely to get a white collar job then working in a filthy sewer. I'm more likely to get assistance, more likely to win in the court of law. The statistics for assault/rape on women are WAY too exaggerated, it's much more dangerous to be a man on the streets.
Literally whats wrong with being a woman
>b-but people don't respect you! you're on easy mode, that's pathetic!
Don't give a fuck what other people think as long as my quality of life doesn't suffer. Life as a woman is pretty good, would rate 8/10
>>24991227
it would probably feel better if i did it with someone though, (preferably woman with strapon)
>>24991452
question for Girls,
does a guy who like strapon sex disgust you?
>>24991386
Yeah, she's not the norm.
Guy here, asking girls.
I only am really into hobbies that are entirely male. Video gaming, board gaming, roleplaying, etc
I am not fat and would classify myself as builtfat on the image. Currently working on making that into athletic.
I have no idea on how to meet girls. Where do you guys even exist? A social situation where I can strike up a conversation with someone is rare enough, let alone one with a girl.
So, how can I meet a bunch of girls, who may be single, and then ask them out? I managed to ask for a couple of girl's numbers at the start of the year but that didn't pan out since they didn't text back.
22yo kv
>>24991281
Okay. Thanks. Has any girl had second thoughts after saying that to a guy, and reconnected with him?
>>24991519
I don't think I'd be a very good dom, but if he liked it I guess I'd try it out. Everyone has degenerate fetishes, nothing to be ashamed of honestly.
>>24991519
>atleast i am open about my fetishes.
i'd like to brush a girl's teeth too, that's a part of my straighter side, im bi
>>24991543
it sounds like something that happened to me. But im still in the friendzone i believe.
>>24991541
>tfw no bf to introduce you to the RP, board game world
>you'll never suggest each other comics and lay on the couch reading them with each other
>you'll never play vidya together until you fall asleep on the floor
>you'll never have a bf who also has no friends; just you two against the world
>you'll never have a constant rock who is always there for you
feels bad. how do I meet someone like I described t b h? does that describe you at all?
>>24991541
If your circles don't have girls in them, you might want to play more games at your FLGS and maybe try meeting girls there?
What tabletop do you play? Where do you live? I play DnD 3.x, Edge of the Empire, and sometimes Teenagers from Outer Space and I've met tons of other girls who like it and way more who are interested in learning.
>>24991588
im the one writing the fanfic.
Concidering im writing about her being dominated by tentacles i think i'd be a nice dom. Domination of a female sounds fun :3
Guys, would you consider spending your life with a girl who has surgical scars all over her body?
I was (still am a bit at the moment) a landwhale and I'm wondering if I should bother even trying to save for surgery.
>>24990447
I ask myself that all the time. I think the attention just feels nice.
Women are told growing up all the time that you have to settle down, find a husband, etc. When they are >7/10 then men don't naturally flock/orbit to them. Thus they have to use their personality and such to gain attention, which then makes them feel better. I know that personally I was bullied when I was a bit younger and used as a homework resource by lots of guys. I grew up and developed better, worked out, got braces, stopped biting nails, invested in better clothing, etc. and now all these same dudes are trying to flirt. "Oh I wonder why I never talked to you in class." I'll then flirt with them and subsequently ignore them as long as I can as punishment for being dicks back then.
I do care about others though, just not people that are shitty. Men who tend to classify all women as ravenous attention whores tend to not act in a way that'd warrant a girl caring about them. Perhaps you should look at yourself before blaming others. I don't do things that defy my moral standards however to gain attention, thus it doesn't make me feel guilty whatsoever. Nor am I that obvious about it. Plus, while I do attention whore, I also am an attention-whore enabler. I will like every single solitary photo on social media that is a selfie, comment how beautiful people are when they look nice, etc. Treat others how you want to be treated, and such.
Everyone enjoys attention in some way. Compliments are nice. It's not that difficult to comprehend. Men are not exempt from attention whoring either. No regrets.
>>24990477
Gaslighting and victimization. It's common for immature people in relationships to do after they've fucked up and don't want to assume responsibility yet want to continue what they have. They'll twist your words and what happened to try and make themselves as justified in their actions as possible, all while demeaning your behavior so you feel like you're going crazy/guilty.
>>24991541
>hobbies
>roleplaying
>>24991543
I never have but I'm sure it has happened.
It depends heavily on why she would want to break contact.
>>24991850
Yes, they don't bother me.
Girls
Whats the best way to stop getting your kind to use me for emotional and other kind of support? Im so sick of being used but too beta to ask for anything in return.
Pic related
>>24991850
If you lost the weight properly and had scars to get rid of the extra skin I would have nothing but respect for you.
>>24990421
Pretend to be a trap
>>24990421
>Guys -- how am I supposed to contact robot types who rarely go outside or stay in public areas for very long?
Why would you want to? They either don't like women or they won't bring what you want in a realtionship unless you just want to sit around all day and hear him complain.
Question for girls. Why does it seem like you never approach guys like at all? Why do the guys have to approach you?
>>24991888
That has to come from you.
It's okay to take care of your own health and put yourself first. You can't help others if you aren't healthy.
>>24990856
Well damn, nobody responded. Sorry anon.
>>24991873
>>24991896
Thanks, guys. I've been feeling worse and worse the more weight I lose, but that made me feel a lot better just to hear.
>>24991861
>ignore them to punish them
you realy think we care. well just talk to another slut
>>24992095
>you realy think we care
kek. this is coming from the board that constantly whines about how heartless their oneitis is for not paying attention to them
>>24991758
I actually meet some of those. Where are you from?How fat are you?
>>24991783
I play at a uni society. I think half the girls in the whole society are in my game, both are obese. One doesn't shave.
I'm mainly into pathfinder and 3.5 - I'd love to play a sci-fi game though. Dead Space and Firefly were some of my favourite sci-fi franchises.
I haven't tried a local FLGS, the nearest one is 50 minutes away and any girls there are probably obese or taken. I could give it a shot though.
>>24991866
:^)
>>24991988
I think my question might be what would be the least harmful way to stop this using of me that applies to woman. Would u perfer if i just didn't reply to ur msgs? Or say "i feel like you are hanging out only to use me and my benefits"?
>>24990576
Pls be my qt lesbian gf I'm so lonely
>>24992154
Toronto and my bmi is slightly under 20. Where do you meet them?
>>24992220
>"triple dubs"
>implying dubs work that way
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>24990898
Your relationship sounds weird so I couldn't really give you on advice.
>>24991233
Indifference. I mean if you need to tell yourself you're better than women to deal with your insecurity of being a shit skin than who am I to tell you to stop?
>>24990595
I've never been attracted to black men, nor am I aware of any of my friends (who are mostly female) being interested in African Americans. I have predominantly Caucasian/Latin American friends and the only ones interested in Blacks are, ironically, robot men from /r9k/. I think the reason I don't know "coalburners" is that I grew up and lived 70% of my life in the South/in small towns. Not only is racism prevalent, racemixing looked down upon, but there just aren't really black people around those areas. I also don't really get along well with liberals and a lot of people in interracial relationships tend to be politically liberal, which could be another potential reason I don't know anyone in black/white interracial relationships.
The reason you seem to think it is so prevalent is probably because you are hanging around fetish communities or are consuming copious amounts of pornography. Most healthy people choose partners based on shared interests, chemistry, and personality rather than physical appearance, and wouldn't go after someone based on their race. I'd recommend rethinking how many people you actually know in real life who are in said interracial relationships. Probably not many, I'm sure.
>>24990614
Smile, thicken up the beard, cut your hair Hitler Youth style, bulk and cut and oats and squats and lift and never forget leg day.
>>24990856
Honestly you can't. You look really good, besides lifting (which would probably improve the looks of 99% of people, including already attractive ones) you're solid. Congrats, you're pretty.
>>24990898
Test the waters first and see how she reacts by sending her an anime photograph of someone that resembles her and say "that reminded me of you." If she's fine, proceed. If she freaks out, say "lol it was just a prank" and all will be fine. Judging by the fact that you didn't use an apostrophe for "I'm" in your post, and that you're improperly leaving certain letters lowercase, I'd personally say no.
>>24992318
>>24992278
i know her well enough i think. Both her and me are pervs.
i should rephrace the question to ''do you think she will be happy if i did this? because i know she loves tentacles alot''
>>24992381
I guess? I don't know her. I only have your word that she likes tentacles so I'm sure she'll be into it.
>>24992252
Shame, if you were in the North of England I'd love to take you roleplayingthen cuddle up with you in bed as the weather gets colder and the rain gets worse outside.
I meet my group at the university society. At the start of semester everyone can sign up to groups. Maybe you could look at going to a uni near you and seeing if they have a society for roleplaying? Most unis still allow non-students to go to societies as long as you pay a membership fee.
>>24990908
I would not let a guy do any of those things for me unless I was receiving a significant amount of compensation and it wasn't sexual. Don't even judge, I'm sure you'd let some dude piss on you for a thousand bucks if he promised not to tell anyone.
I personally am not into anal because I have irritable bowel syndrome and also am lactose intolerant. Not only would I constantly be fearful of having stomach issues during the act, but I also do not put anything up my butt and thus a penis would probably hurt a lot. And it's just unsanitary. I also am not extremely kinky so I could be a minority. The obsession past curiosity with anal seems to, again, be predominantly due to way too much porn consumption.
>>24990997
I don't put anything up there because most things hurt. When I was younger I used my brush handle and it felt nice.
>>24991100
I'm sure under certain circumstances it would be okay. Would need more context to give proper advice.
>>24991111
Subjectivity.
>>24991356
Then you'll probably settle for the unattractive girls because you have no self-respect. Find a nice one.
>>24992821
I can probably stretch myself to a 6.5/10 if I get in better shape, have a decent haircut, threads and was a bit more confident.
I'm worried that if I find a nice grill I will fuck it up since I won't have the experience with girls in general.
>>24991116
Well, probably by not calling women sluts.
>>24991233
It doesn't bother me. I've never dreamed of being a president or any of that. Just doing something in the criminal justice field, having a family, and finding happiness. Happiness isn't found with materialistic objects or constructed titles. I think power-hunger tends to be found more in men than in women as well. So we probably aren't as upset by this as you'd think- at least I'm not. Also, I'm living in a time where all of that is possible. Who cares about what life was like a century ago? Dwelling on the past doesn't help anything.
>>24991519
Nope. Seems just like a regular fetish. I'm not really into it but I don't find the idea disgusting and if I really loved a guy I'd peg him if he really wanted it. I'm an optimist though and can enjoy most things if I really put my mind to it.
>>24991541
Women are more than half of the world's population. Just go about your life as normal and do things you enjoy- you'll come across lots of women and they'll most likely share interests with you too, which'll be awesome. Also OkCupid, Tinder, and /soc/.
>>24991543
Yeah, and the reasons I didn't want to talk to him never changed, thus I cut contact again. Ask yourself why she didn't want to talk in the first place, see if anything changed since then. If not, don't bother wasting both her time and yours.
>>24992950
He didnt call women sluts. He said he didnt want to date a girl who fucks everything that moves.
>>24992950
>Well, probably by not calling women sluts.
>>24992950
>>Just go about your life as normal and do things you enjoy- you'll come across lots of women and they'll most likely share interests with you too, which'll be awesome. Also OkCupid, Tinder, and /soc/
I'd love to find a girl who was into my hobbies that I liked but the odds of that are tiny. All the girls who like those hobbies are either obese, taken, or both.
>>tfw no small-government favouring gf who will play video games with me and make me feel loved
I've had bad luck with okcupid (but a few girls did message me first which was nice), haven't got tinder, never really thought about /soc/ at all - I would have expected everyone on there to be too normie. Once I get a new phone I'm tempted to try Tinder but I would like a relationship, not a hookup. I don't really know what I would say when it actually comes to meeting the girl and making her want me.
>>24993109
Not them, but /soc/ isn't that normie, necessarily. It depends a lot on the thread. Stay away from threads primarily about posting pictures, mostly, and you'll generally find decent people. My only particularly negative experience was from an underage girl who really wanted to jump my bones until she learned i wasnt sexually dominant.
Serious question, what is the point of a date? When I say 'date' I mean the formal kind, the ones you see in movies where the guy takes the girl to an expensive dinner / whatever other normie places womyn like to be taken. The whole concept seems boring as fuck to me. I would much rather a grill come over and play video games/watch a movie with me. Going outside is boring.
Girls:
>plan to ask girl out today
>she stays after class
>I stay after class too to walk out with her
>we leave the room and she walks a different way than usual
>I get thrown off and have to track her down
>when I find her she's on a bench alone with headphones in
>she doesn't look up when I approach so I just get discouraged and keep walking
>beat myself up for being such an autist
So the question is, was she being really unapproachable on purpose, or am I just a pussy ass loser?
oh look another /soc/ thread full of normies. Get out reeee
Find informal groups online or in real life that do the same thing you like and be chill
>>24990856
Do not wear yellow, it makes you look like an Indian or a Brazilian
>>24990627
What an awful excuse but no surprise. A woman always blames it on something else like 'human nature'
>>24993358
/r9k/ is basically /r/relationshipadvice at this point. thanks normies.
>>24991758
Pls be gf
How does one unfuck their shit?
>>24992645
I don't remember that scene of the show
>>24993188
Wtf, average people in there are getting rate 8+
Different tastes, I guess
>>24993327
It rubs me the wrong way that you waited and tried to talk to her alone. Why not sit next to her and ask during a break in class? She doesn't seem like she did anything odd.
>>24993913
Maybe because he didn't want an audience spectating his rejection.
>>24991888
That's an extremely cringey conversation.
Everyone in a healthy, caring relationship with someone else will sometimes cry out for emotional support because they trust you and care about your opinion and want you to help them as well as vice versa. Yes, she was clearly wanting you to ask how she was doing and poorly trying to mind-game you into it, but your reaction was legitimately idiotic.
Instead of asking her whether she was okay, sorry you missed her and you're available to talk, that you'll worry because you care about her, you just go "wut lol are you being moody bc the rain????" Once you stop being that autistic and too selfish to give your half in a friendship then come back for advice on how to find less immature, independent women to spend time with.
>>24992381
As long as it's well written, dude.
>>24992999
He actually did call a women sluts. He said, and I quote, "How do i find good girls? no sluts, just casual girls who likes vidya and stuff." Never did he elaborate. Fish, pls.
>>24994124
He just doesn't want to date a promiscuous woman. He isn't calling anyone in particular a slut, he's just saying he doesn't want to date one.
It's the same as a woman saying they don't want to date a manchild, she isn't calling anyone in particular a manchild, she's stating that she doesn't want to date a manchild.
>>24993109
Quantifying all women as that and having such a pessimistic outlook could potentially be the reason for your failure. Try looking at it in a happier light, women flock to optimists. I'd check Tinder if you're looking to meet up with locals, it used to be a hookup app but now it's more of a dating/meet up app. You only chat with people you find attractive who, in turn, find you attractive back. No way to contact them without swiping right and having them swipe back. It's a great mechanic because you already established a baseline physical attraction and the conversations are genuinely about interests, chemistry and personality.
You have to find a girl who is like you but with a vagina.
>>24993231
All of what you listed are considered dates.
The reason most dates tend to happen outside is due to safety. Meeting strangers off of the internet is still kind of a scary thing, because you have no clue what you're dealing with. Thus you meet in public for safety. With someone you already know, it's more of a status symbol. Taking her out to eat so that she feels nice and everyone in town knows it. Or it could be so that you don't seem like you're just trying to get in her pants with "hey wanna come over and play video games/watch movies???" There's a reason the term "Netflix and chill" was coined as a euphemism for sex- a lot of men who claim to be interested in just watching movies at their place are actually just wanting to bone women, and vice versa.
Dates are also nice for women because free food and you get to flaunt around a hot guy and feel really special. Women, as a whole, tend to care a lot more about the opinions of their friends and family members on their significant other than their own, and will often value that the most. If you don't embarrass them in public, they feel comfy to show you to their friends and family. A date is the test of whether or not they'll give you secondhand embarrassment, from the female's side.
>>24994369
>Women, as a whole, tend to care a lot more about the opinions of their friends and family members on their significant other than their own, and will often value that the most.
This is why I hate women.
Girls -- should I get a tan?
I get a lot of attention from minority (and in particular chinese) girls, who comment on my light skin, but I get very limited interest from white girls, who call me a "ghost" and say I should get more sunlight.
I don't think I look unhealthy or unattractive otherwise, I look something like pic related.
>>24994369
>Quantifying all women as that and having such a pessimistic outlook could potentially be the reason for your failure. Try looking at it in a happier light, women flock to optimists. I'd check Tinder if you're looking to meet up with locals, it used to be a hookup app but now it's more of a dating/meet up app. You only chat with people you find attractive who, in turn, find you attractive back. No way to contact them without swiping right and having them swipe back. It's a great mechanic because you already established a baseline physical attraction and the conversations are genuinely about interests, chemistry and personality.
>You have to find a girl who is like you but with a vagina.
I'd love to find someone like that. I'm just not sure as to how I would be able to get the person to see me as more than a friend - is that where the initiation attraction thing comes into play?
>>24994124
I like how your reaction is bitching at the guy for not being there for the needy bitch when it's clear he said he doesn't want women to do this shit to him.
He just wants a normal male friendship but with someone who has a vagina, meaning they talk, hang out, shoot the shit, but don't do shit like in that picture where they have a fucking melt down and act like a dramawhore. He wants to have what women complain about that they want from a guy whom they friend zone.
>24993327
Who knows, could have been anything. Try again and actually talk to her. It's better to have tried and to fail than to never have tried at all. If she was disinterested, she would decline the date or make up an excuse.
>>24993776
What show?
>>24994250
The word slut is a subjective word. Often time women who are able to handle their emotions well enough to withhold sex 18+ are extremely religious, as such someone who frequents 4chan would be an unfit match for them because they would just corrupt them and probably disappoint her parents. Or, they are simply waiting for the right guy to come along. Again, someone off of /r9k/, a place notorious for hating women and for having distorted views of relationships, would mostly not be the dream guy of the woman he desires.
It was a pointless, broad memequestion that didn't deserve a dignified answer. If he wanted genuine advice, he'd delve into specifics. What constitutes a "slut" in his eyes? What kind of vidya? What does "stuff" consist of? Nobody can answer that without knowing details. It was an objectively stupid question.
>>24994491
Well, it's the truth.
>>24994500
Get a tan if you want to get a tan. Don't just get a tan for the express purpose of wanting to impress a woman, because if that fails then you'll be disappointed, your expectations will be crushed, and you'll be stuck with dark skin that you didn't even want in the first place and just did to gain a woman's attention.
>>24990627
>I see him occasionally at the nearby subway but he just pays and then powerwalks out of there.
how are we supposed to track him down if we don't even have a location? for all you know it could be me; I eat subway.
>>24991947
>Question for girls. Why does it seem like you never approach guys like at all? Why do the guys have to approach you?
Not a girl but I have a shitload of girl family/ girl friends and basically they get a lot of romantic attention, when a guy doesn't ask her out and shit she just assumes he isn't into him.
>>24991112
I hate it here so much
>>24993327 >>24994594
Sorry.
>>24994555
If you are unsure how relationships play out past that point then you are probably too young to be on 4chan, have other reasons for being 18+ and gfless khv that are inhibiting you from developing relationships enough to understand mutual attraction (bad hygiene, mental illness, etc.) that need to be solved prior to trying to find a girlfriend (how can you love someone else if you can't even love yourself?) or you have autism spectrum disorder. I am not a licensed psychiatrist and do not understand ASD well enough to give genuine advice past that.
The only way I can explain it is through experience, and explaining feelings is genuinely hard. It's a mixture of body language, emotion, and verbal cues that lead you to knowing whether or not someone feels similar to you.
Just go for it.
>>24994556
If he didn't want to associate with a needy bitch, he'd just say something instead of feigning stupidity. Pretending to act dumb for any reason whatsoever is worth condemning. If he wants to have a relationship with someone mature enough to not use such asinine, childish attention-seeking mannerisms, then he himself must in turn grow up and learn the importance of communication. If he cannot muster the courage to at least acknowledge her attempt and/or cease contact due to him disliking the way he is treated, then he does not have the maturity and understanding of friendships necessary to comprehend advice for finding a good female friend who doesn't use emotional manipulation tactics. Relationships are about communication, trust, and respect. He is lacking all of them in the picture example. He reacted to her "dramawhore" meltdown with false ignorance, and then had an equal "dramawhore" meltdown on a Vietnamese throatcalling board, instead of trying to fix the problem himself. They sound like they are on equal grounds. I hope this was more concise for you.
>>24994664
This is accurate. Gender roles and such.
am i ugly? FMIJFKLJFLRMF
>>24995328
Brows need touching up, your facial hair will fill in after you get a bit older. You look fairly average, personality would be goal in gaining women. Could be 8+/10 if you have great teeth and if you lifted. Definitely not ugly though.
>>24990627
Alright, heres an autistic suggestion, depending on your appearance.
>Attractive Create le funny coincidence, drop something near him, spill something, get his damned attention with a somewhat intimate situation then take it from there.
>Unattractive Well, the stalker approach isn't too bad, track his patterns, figure out who he is. Get his information indirectly, make a le funny coincidence situation, proceed from there.
>>24994664
>when a guy doesn't ask her out and shit she just assumes he isn't into him.
w-what? people are actually this retarded?
Girls:
Would you be offended by a guy that is still friends with one of his exes? They had a pretty serious relationship, but ended it because life was taking them in two different directions. They still hang out and play vidya (both online) and are on good friend terms.
Completely unrelated to this, but if your guy had pictures of another girl on his phone, like a fine fair amount + some minor lewds. When you confront him about them, he simply responds that she's an ex he hasn't spoken to in years, and he simply forgot to delete them. Says you're welcome to do so if you haven't already. He's been 100% truthful and faithful in every single other respect, and is always open to answering whatever questions you want to ask as long as you don't get upset about the answers. Extra credit: What if you believed she was more attractive than you in multiple ways as well?
GIRLS
Let's settle this, once and for all. Is the following statement true or 99% true?
>If a girl is interested in you it will look for you, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO
>If a girl is not interested in you you won't change her mind, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO
>>24994992
It's pretty clear the dude didn't have a dramawhore melt down here. He was just asking how to deal with bitches like that. He doesn't want to be an outright cunt and tell her to fuck off, because any time you tell a woman whose having an emotional fit to fuck off, they never speak to you again unless they need something from you.
Also friendships =/= dating. You are turning male/female friendships into some female/female friendship where people are actually intimate emotionally. You kind of forget the only times men are intimate with each other emotionally is if they hit rock bottom or are completely drunk/high.
You don't know the difference between male/female boundaries and how they mesh in a relationship and trying to put female/female friendship boundaries to a male/female friendship boundary.
You are the type of person hes trying to avoid.
>>24995463
See: /r9k/. Nah, it happens all the time. Women just grow up being told that if a man likes them he will pursue them. I was even told by my old boss "to never trust a man that makes them chase you. They are not worth it." when I asked out an acquaintance.
>>24995478
I'm a mentally stable, healthy person so thus not jealous unless I have a serious reason to be. If things were getting close to marriage though it'd probably be different, once you're married then you don't need to be friends with members of the opposite gender just to be "friends". The opposite gendered friends are either friends with both of you or neither.
There isn't really a reason that I can see for wanting to hang out with my exes. I have mostly female friends. I'm generally friends with men because I am interested in them or one of their friends or we met in class, play vidya together, etc. It is pointless to keep contact with someone you were sleeping with, unless he is looking to keep her as a backup/still sees himself as possibly being with her in the future. Either he just doesn't have enough friends to be able to cut one out or something fishy is going on. I understand wanting to leave things on good terms and even remain in touch, but still actively interacting is a bit...unsettling. Don't jump to conclusions without discussing your feelings with him though. Communication and trust are key in relationships and once you've lost that, it's gone.
To your other question, I had that EXACT situation happen to me. He turned out to be a shitty person. I don't trust it in the slightest. What kind of person "forgets" to delete naked photographs on their cellphones? Most people are on their phones daily, they know what shit is on there. Even if it was genuine, do you really want to be dating someone and giving them your trust and access to your privacy if they'd do something as callous and as careless as forget the NAKED photographs of you that're on there? Seriously.
>>24990421
Go to the library, or frequent crappy movies, That's where I see the majority of other robots.
Girls-- Why are hobbies that aren't super chaddy like baseballing or other sports appealing?
>>24992489
I'm in the north of england, I've been looking into roleplaying stuff because it's good for finding blacksmiths to learn from. You know any smiths fellow robot?
>>24995780
You are whiteknighting for a man you do not even know. I am truly impressed.
That being said, he himself said it was because he was "so sick of being used but too beta to ask for anything in return." If he was emotionally mature enough to handle the situation in a better way than whining about it to anonymous strangers online, he wouldn't get involved with the emotional vampires that he clearly is involved with.
The word relationship can be attributed to both friendships and dating, don't get confused by my wording. I am not turning male/female friendships into female/female friendships. If a man wanted a relationship without intimate emotions, he would not choose to befriend a woman. You are making an awful amount of assumptions about his relationship with the girl as well as about me and broad, sweeping generalizations about both genders, whereas I am simply using the evidence presented by his photograph and post wording solely to support my statement.
I can tell this has touched a nerve though, so I am sorry this has been so upsetting for you.
If he didn't want an honest response from a woman, he wouldn't have posted it here. That was my response. It was subjective and my opinion. You do not have to argue against it or defend him-- it is not that important nor does it have any basis on the truth. It's just an observation. I don't know him any more than you do.
>>24996137
I don't understand your question. Appealing to whom? I personally am interested in rugby, badminton, and ice skating. All three of those have different levels of "chaddiness" but are clearly not like baseball or football. Rugby appeals to me because I enjoy watching The All Blacks and their haka. I also enjoy watching fit, handsome men play ball without any armor, just bone and skin and pure, panty-wetting masculinity. Badminton is nice because it's easy to follow and they scream loudly after making a point which I find amusing. I enjoy ice skating because it is beautiful.
>>24995984
>never trust a man that makes them chase you. They are not worth it
I don't understand this at all, what did they mean?
>>24996335
I did rugby for a while, but gave it up after having my arm broken and being moved down a whole age class after being trampled too often, But I took up blacksmithing for fun and the slightest mention just turns all but one girl I know straight off. The one girl for referance is someone who does re-enactment for fun and owns her own handmade sword.
>>24990421
>how am I supposed to contact robot types who rarely go outside or stay in public areas for very long?
The internet. Most robot men have steam or email. Most robots use a computer.
Girls: How do I find grillz without daddy problems I swear to fuck I attract them like flies on honey
>>24991088
felt nice but uncomfortable too, wouldn't try again. didn't climax
>>24991850
Scars don't matter. Especially if it's from losing weight, that's admirable.
>>24996471
>Women getting turned off by a man who knows a craft
Literally no winning with women unless they can brag about their boyfriends hobby to make other woman jealous.
I don't know your expertise with blacksmithing but you could try to make a finite necklace for a bitch to brag about to her friends. Then I don't think they would be SO turned off. They like when a man's hobby serves their ends rather than knowing they are doing something they enjoy.
>>24996427
She was upset because I repeatedly asked out a guy to a [certain military event dance.] He stated that I was too young for him to feel comfortable to take me. I told him that was a bullshit reason. I continued pursuing him and flirting with him. He genuinely felt that it would be unbecoming of him as a high ranking military officer going with someone many years his minor, a civilian worker on the base he was stationed at, with his command there as well.
We were friends and between these rejections, when I didn't mention [military event] or anything related to it, we were very flirty. As such, my boss thought he was leading me on and thus claimed that I should never chase someone that is making me chase them, aka playing hard to get. It was clear he was interested in me, he just felt I was too young to take out as a very high ranking officer/didn't want his command to think less of him.
Boss told me that I should simply wait to be asked because someone who is really worth it will do the chasing. I thought it was silly but everyone agreed with her (it was an all-female staff.) That is after all, how all of us women were raised. It was understandable but I knew he had no ill-intentions and didn't harbor resentment for the continuing rejection. Just kept my head held high and everything went back to normal.
>>24996471
I collect fantasy weapons so I am probably not going to give an accurate baseline for the majority consensus of women, but I think blacksmithing is cool. You'll eventually find someone who shares that sentiment.
>>24996750
Not online, that's for certain.
>>24996850
I'm not great but I've managed ye bog standard iron dagger, simple shapes, I'm working up to a saber. But jewelery is a whole subset and fucking hard as shit, I'd like to learn it too tho'.
>>24996860
I hope it's soon, thanks fembot.
>>24997005
Your best bet to getting women to not be turned off is honing your skills and making jewelry and presenting that in your sale saying you make other things than just weapons.
Welcome to women anon, enjoy your stay in hell.
>>24995984
Your posts are sensible and you have good taste in pictures. You seem like the kind of person I'd enjoy the company of, assuming we had similar interests. I appreciate the candid answers.To justify them, question A's girl befriended my mother so she's a little like a family friend now, and we play vidya together if we're both on at the same time. For B, well they're long gone now but partially I didn't want to believe she was gone. Then a couple months later I remembered I had them after checking my messages and delete all'd.
Why do woman lust and obsess over men?
Their literal goals are to get a boyfriend and husband in life and that's about it.
Meanwhile men aspire to gain an education, wealth and health. Woman are just a side effect and just come.
>>24990856
7.5 out of 10
>>24997263
How many close female friends do you have? I'm guessing not too many if you think this.
>>24997263
I have a girlfriend and have 2 prior to her.
As well as a 4 close female friends I see nearly daily and have known since highschool.
Most girls I met are the same. They just lust over men and that's it. They seem to do minimal everything else until they get a man. They do not have a career goal or wealth goal or hell a health goal.
They just do whatever happens along the way of them finding a male to latch onto.
>>24997263
What do you think happens after a woman gets married? She sits in a room and stares at a wall for the rest of her life?
Every woman I know had a life after her marriage. Some went for PhDs, some hoarded material wealth, plenty got obsessed with fitness, eating well and sports, many others devoted their lives to their children.
If anything, the actual obsession is having good, healthy children in a stable environment, not obsession over the male involved in it.
>>24997219
Thanks friend, you as well. Your justification for both are understandable and reasonable. I'd definitely take into consideration your partner's feelings about either, as you can clearly see without context it looks a bit..bad. I wasn't necessarily incorrect with B either, the initial reason you kept her nudes was that you were holding on. So if I were you, I'd prepare for talking about these things with a new/future gf.
>>24997263
Why do men lust and obsess over women? Physical attraction to other individuals is prevalent in almost every human being currently alive on this Earth. It's natural and biological. Many women, myself included, do fantasize about getting a boyfriend, becoming married and having a family. Many men fantasize about having a girlfriend (don't even argue, this entire board in it's current state should be evidence enough), becoming married, and having a family. People are essentially similar in these aspects, most people have a sex drive and also want to find a life partner.
You're outright incorrect about the latter. If women didn't aspire to gain education, how do you explain the massive feminist movements and revolutions for women's rights, including the right to an education? How do you explain all of the women who pay, with their own money, to enroll in college. How do you explain wealthy women such as Oprah? How do you explain all of the /fit/ qtp2ts out there?
If you argue that it is all in act to gain a life partner, one could say the same for men. You're just not making sense and you sound very bitter.
>>24997542
I'm a standing contradiction. I have a career goal: to work as a special agent under the Department of Justice. I am currently one of the most educated members of my family, formally, and the most educated member excluding other women in the family. I would like to earn enough to be happy and to want for little. I lifted because it made me feel good and do actually desire to be able to squat x1.5 body weight.
>>24997904
You also seem like you have a major case of autism so I wouldn't use you as an example for speaking for women, much like you shouldn't take whats posted on 4chan as a case for men.
>>24990576
yes pls
application:
-im a girl
-im cripplingly alone
>>24997972
Not her, but I'm also the most educated person in my family. I'm a first generation college student, and that meant in every step of my education I was completely on my own. No one could help me with even supposedly piddling things like FAFSA forms and paperwork, because they're functionally illiterate.
Anyone who lacked an extreme love for their choice of career would have balked at the work I had to do to be able to rise above my class.
>>24990421
If you look shy and do anything like draw or play games alone I could probably aproach you. It's hard for an introverted guy but as long as you make yourself easy to approach for us
by showing that your into similar stuff without attention whoring. Like if a girl is sitting by herself in the hallway playing Pokemon I might talk to her. If your too agressive and approach the guy he might think your slutty.
>>24998059
wow good for you but where in my post did I ask for you to blog about your life?
Girls please answer me this important question.Tell me about your day.
GIRLS-- how do I give you career advice.
Girls are always asking me what they should be doing and if they have good "plans" or how to be successful or happy.
I always ask them "what do you want out of life?"
that leads to >I dont know...
basically how do you life coach your female extended family/acquaintances
>>24990773
>black guys make white girls feel more like women? That's what I commonly hear. And that's why nerdy black guys don't do well with white girls.
God fucking damn it
>>24998133
>I wouldn't use you as an example for speaking for women
Adding another example, since you say the other poster is moot for having "autism."
Since you said "most" in your original post, that means you acknowledge exceptions. Who are the women you know that don't live their lives for the sake of having sex?
>>24998197
Kind of sucked. Went to sleep at 3am. Woke up at 7am to study for an exam but ended up doing jack shit. Went to my exam at 12pm tired and exhausted instead. Most likely failed. Got frustrated so I called up two guys who are always down to fuck and took 2 cocks at once. Pretty much an average day. What was yours like?
>>24998217
I have this trouble with my sisters.
At the very least, make sure they don't pick drugs.
But you should go off of their hobbies, and tell them to take initial introductory courses in those. From there they can consult with actual career counselors.
>>24998197
I ate spaghetti today thanks for asking anon
>>24998197
That wasn't a question, but sure. I went to the zoo with my family and hung out at the beach when i got back home. All and all it was a good day. Thanks for asking.
>>24998217
Anon, this isn't a gender issue. The problem isn't that they have vaginas. The problem is that they don't know what they're doing.
>>24998242
Loads of women are, just without the "holier than thou" elitist attitude that poster has. I'm giving a disclaimer for the actual robots in this thread that will take what the other poster said to heart when in reality it won't land them the normie motivated people because its coming from a monumental sperglord.
Girls
Realistically how many girls are virgins that are waiting for the right guy? Going on this shitty board has warped my ideas pretty badly. I'm waiting to have sex with a girl I can really say I love. I can't stand the thought of any girl I date having fucked someone else. That and being a bit introverted are the only things holding me back from trying to meet a nice girl.
>>24998269
It was okay. Nothing special. I got up to go to work, did my job, ate spaghetti with ragu sauce, and got home and did nothing but play video games so far.
>>24998296
I had spaghetti for lunch today as well, it was nice.
>>24998322
I haven't been to the zoo in awhile tbqh, one time I did though a Hawk was in some show and it flew over my head. It was pretty cool.
>>24998362
All of them are <19 but honestly not hard to find.
>>24998362
I'd say roughly the same as men, that is to say not very many at all.
>>24998375
They had pandas at the zoo! It was so cool. One of them was only s couple years old.
>>24998239
Don't worry man. As long as you're not ugly, you can get with chick. This coming from a black dude with glasses. And hey, if all else fails, lift weights.
>>24997972
Nah, not autistic. I'm just tired and I like to be coherent/precise with my thoughts since people on this board have a silly habit of twisting words if you're vague. I used to think I had the autisms since my half-brother (father's side, different mothers) has been diagnosed with ASD, however I definitely don't. I'm way too good at reading people and understanding body language to be autistic. Also not really too intelligent, especially not in a specialized field. I'm more open minded and I like to keep everything fresh and exciting with my interests, thus you're wrong.
But definitely not an example for all women, no. I might be self-aware but I do exhibit many of the behaviors that /r9k/ criticizes in women.
>>24998059
Good job, that shit was tough. I had my mother (most educated in the family, government official) help me with these things. She was there with me the whole time while I was filling out the FAFSA, answering anything I was unsure about. Couldn't do it without her desu.
>>24998197
I had fast food for the first time since I arrived in this country, well over a month, and it was delicious. Couldn't handle any more bland Spanish dishes and ran out of things to cook with over Sunday (because nothing is open on Sunday here since Spain is the Africa of Europe) so I caved. Went to the BK Lounge and Dios MIO chicken tenders have never tasted so delicious. Turns out they don't have ranch dressing in Spain. Overall great night, was nice to not spend 60 euro just to get a decent restaurant meal here.
>>24998217
Anyone who is confused- give them the best advice for pursuing their interests but do not try to help them pick their interest. Once they know, they'll know. You can't read their mind and tell them what they want to do with the rest of their life, but you can sure as hell help them achieve their goals.
>>24998411
I know a 20 year old girl who is a virgin so I really doubt they are all younger than 19.
>>24998197
Woke up after a night of Nyquil miserable, still having a cold. Did laundry and went grocery shopping, got a lot of kinds of fish and more pesto. Finished up a book of Kenneth Rexroth essays, napped, set the dishwasher on, made tea, now I'm correcting metadata in my book catalog.
>>24998362
I know a small handful who are still waiting in their 20s, but, going off of my little sister's experiences, there may still be a good amount of them in the last year of and right after high school. Your chances of meeting someone who might be the "right guy" obviously skyrocket once you're out of your hometown and get to meet real people you haven't known since daycare.
>>24990421
meetup threads, I guess.
wish I knew, tb h
maybe cons and video game stores
speaking of which, WHO /virginia/ here?
>>24998362
Virgin here, and frankly you're gonna have a hard time finding virgin girls over the age of 20. It really boils down to personal preference (girls wanting to wait for marriage, etc), but you'd be really hard-pressed to find a girl who's never done any variant of sexual acts with another person.
And unsurprisingly the girls who cherish sex as an intimate act are usually the ones who expect guys to see it the same way, so if these guys have ever slept around and are hypocritically looking for virgin meat, they're not gonna like the outcome.
>>24998289
Interesting idea
>>24998322
It isn't a gendered issue typically but personally it is. I have trouble giving advice to genetically related females so I was fishing for wisdom in the arkanine.
Thank you both.
So I somehow managed to kiss my roommate and former best friend's ex gf (it ended very badly) under the mistletoe at a Christmas party at my house this past weekend. This particular roommate was out of town, and my other roommates and I are still friends with the girl, so we invited her. The kiss led to a few minutes of making out before she got upset thinking about the consequences with my roommate and decided to leave. She kissed me on the cheek on the way out.
The next day she texted me to make sure we're okay, which of course we are, and she had forgotten something at my house she needed to come get. She came by and hugged me, grabbed her stuff, and was about to leave but I asked if she wanted to get a drink. Turns out it was her last day in the country because she's going overseas for Christmas and already had plans with her best friend that night, so no dice. She told me we would when we got back, and seemed to like the idea (though I sperged hard when asking, at first, got really tongue tied but pulled it together).
Later that night she added me on snapchat and we texted a little and she said she'd send me pictures of Europe and text me and stuff. That's the last time I talked to her, her plane landed yesterday and I guess she's gotten settled in.
My question is when and how should I contact her from here? Should I wait for her to talk to me, or should I text or snap her? I'm not really sure what I want from this because my roommate will behead me if he finds out but I definitely want to pursue it further and see where it's going. Any advice would be helpful, I have no fucking clue what I am doing and I am really bad at communicating through text.
>Lost my job
>Lost my drivers license for a year for speeding
>tfw I'm back to square one
What;s my chance on getting a gf now?
>>24998804
In a place with public transport? That will help getting a job again. What was the job in, and would you be walking distance to others, assuming it was entry level?
>>24990477
>robot
>skype
There seems to be a misunderstanding.
>>24998832
>In a place with public transport? That will help getting a job again. What was the job in, and would you be walking distance to others, assuming it was entry level?
I was working at the Air-port, but yeah they have public transport here but i don't know how to take the bus at 21 years old. Still no jobs around and they all want someone with a rivers license, and i cant do things like work in the construction industry as i'm qualified.
I'm basically fucked, while a women cna run someone over and be over the legal limit and only get a 5 month suspension.
>>24998349
This made me giggle, thanks for that. Why do you think I'm a monumental sperglord with a holier than thou attitude, though? I'm simply following thread rules 'cause I'm bored.
>>24998362
I'm a nonvirgin who lost it to my first boyfriend (also nonvirgin) and this board really affected me since I've been on 4chan since 2005-2006 and on /r9k/ since around it's beginning. I was a virgin up until 3 years ago and when the board came back it changed drastically- went from "gentlemen" to "robots" and the entire board's purpose seemed to devolve into a women-hating circlejerk. Took a long time for me to accept myself and my sexuality. It legitimately is mostly virginal teenagers here with too much porn consumption and bitterness for women that tend to spout the idea that a woman is unclean, dirty, and unworthy due to her sexual experience. And you know what? I've finally learned that's fine. People are entitled to their opinions and allowed to find sexual experience disgusting. To be fair, I wouldn't date a virgin who encouraged such thoughts either, so we're on a level playing field.
There are a lot of virginal women, but the majority are under the age of 16 years old, socially stunted, homeschooled, highly religious and/or crazy. Finding a relatively stable, decent woman over the age of 18 who is a virgin will be a challenge, and you can damn well bet those women have a huge pool of men to choose from. I think once you actually know the true meaning of love, you'd understand that your love wouldn't go away for a girl just because she's non-virginal. Sure, you might be disgusted. You might be jealous. You might think worse of her. But would you stop loving her? No, probably not.
You sound inexperienced but sweet. You will meet a nice girl, and you might fall in love with her. I genuinely hope for your sake that she is a virgin, because it is important to you. But even if she wasn't, I have the feeling that things would be alright.
>>24998911
Anon, it's not going to be the fact that you lost your license, as I know plenty of guys without one who are married and even have kids. Especially in big public transport areas.
It's going to be that you can't even take a few hours from your day to learn how to use the public transport, even when you know you need to. Just saying "I don't know, I can't do it, I don't know how" when you have the entire internet available. It's that kind of helplessness and self-pitying mess that no woman wants to come near.
>>24999001
>It's going to be that you can't even take a few hours from your day to learn how to use the public transport, even when you know you need to. Just saying "I don't know, I can't do it, I don't know how" when you have the entire internet available. It's that kind of helplessness and self-pitying mess that no woman wants to come near.
There's no fucking jobs for a High-School dropout with a civil construction certificate you drongo. They ALL want someone with a drivers license in the areas I'm qualified in. Super-markets here, and takeaway places all hire 16 year-old girls because it brings in business.
Unless you are chad or have model looks, no girl is going to get excited to pick your ass up from everywhere because you don't have a vehicle.
>>24998026
Would you date aman?
>>24998994
Not that guy but I have had sex with one girl. I would not find fucking girls who have had plenty of partners, but honestly I wouldn't want to seriously date someone unless they had a similar level of experience to mine. I have no real desire for marriage or even a long term gf, but if I did I would feel uncomfortable not being on an even level. Not because they've been defiled or whatever (though I have thoughts like that from time to time, particularly about this girl I liked who had been in gang bangs and stuff; I think it may be a reptilian part of the male brain or something, I'm not sure) but because I like to keep things fair I guess. Is that an acceptable attitude? I suppose I could get over it if I found someone I really loved but I doubt that will ever happen
>>24999071
You don't have a GED then? Before you start looking for jobs again, you need to do your GED. Neither of my siblings have one, and they have never been able to work anything above low level retail and fast food service.
I'm assuming you live with your parents, else you'd be trying a lot harder to find a job right now, so you might have time to improve yourself before going back into the workforce.
>>24999156
Maybe i should just move to America and get a GED? Also stop spewing shit amigo. I know I'm in knee deep shit, while every other guy my age all have plumbing diplomas and the works.
I hop WW3 breaks out, I'm a top notch shot and would be a great bullet sponge.
>>24998994
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>>24999214
I assumed you were American.
I don't know what your age is either, but in America, early 20s men are often still in retail and fast food too. It only starts to be shameful once you're passing 25.
Hope it works out for you, anyway. Losing a driver's license is always a shit show, though there are people here who will still drive while its suspended for that year. It's daring though, since you'll get another mark on your record and have to pay even more fees for DWLI. Was paying close to $500/month in surcharges once for that bullshit.
>be me
>19
>at best I'm a 4/10(guy)
>go to uni
>crush on girl who i've know since before High School
>poor
What do?
It might also help to mention, she hangs out with this one friend (girl) all the time, giving small chances to talk with her.
>>24999317
>Hope it works out for you, anyway. Losing a driver's license is always a shit show, though there are people here who will still drive while its suspended for that year. It's daring though,
Again, i don't live in America, cameras are everywhere here. And cop / high-way patrol have cameras in their car that automatically scans your number plate.
You will also get thousands worth of fines, another 6 months added to the suspension, and possible jail.
>>24990595
not a huge fan of black guys actually, at least not stereotypically "ghetto" ones. i guess the appeal for (non-black) stacys would be the whole exotic factor or whatever.
to grills and fuccbois:
should we try to have a christmas date thread for single robots and wobots to meet up?
probably a pipe dream since no one will be in the same city as anyone else
>all grills will have 500 replies each, none for guys
>>25001250
Christmas is a bad time of year for people trying to meet each other, but you can always try /soc/
>>25001277
pls, i want a nice robogf, not one of those normies
>>24991861
Nobody read that, you roastie whore
What would you guys do if you were an unattractive girl?
>tfw no qt NEET southern US gf
>>25001615
Masturbate and think about killing myself alot. Not too different from how I'm living now, t b h.
Why do all women hate blackbots?
It's like you want us to be loud Tyrone's
>inb4 muh BBC fetish that the jooooos keep pushing
Women fucking hate me, just cus I'm black and shy and keep to myself
>>25001615
I am an unattractive girl. Mostly I drink wine and post snarky/bitter, vaguely relatable things on twitter.
>>25001854
personal normie twitter or shitposting account?
>>25001794
My fucking life
>>24990421
Don't tell them you're a girl, and just make friends first. Ask for their Steam or Skype, chat about whatever you might have in common. Or just vent to eachother. You wouldn't be here if you didn't have something to vent about.
You have to understand, most male robots can't contain their shit in the presence of someone who is both a stranger AND a girl.
Girls: Do you think it's weird if a guy asks you to hang out, just as friends? Like do you immediately assume they're into you?
There's this girl at work that has the same music tastes as me, and I was gonna ask her if she wants to go to a local show of a band I like. But I don't really have any other friends to take, and I don't know how to word the question so it doesn't look like I'm trying to set up a date or anything.
>>25002199
Not at all. I'd love to have a guy ask me to just hang out but only the gay ones end up being sincere. Everyone else ending up falling for me.
Let her know that you want to hang out as friends.
Wish that there was more guys like you there.
>>24990627
give me a location I eat at subway or if that's too risky what sub does he order?
Guys: would you date an ugly person even if you clicked on every other level?
>>25002302
Honestly I wish I had more girl friends. Most of my life I've only had guy friends and I've just honestly never met any girls whom I shared at least a few common interests with. But girls are so much easier to talk to, I just never have anything to talk ABOUT with them.
On that note, Girls: Why are there so few of you that are into technology and programming and shit?
>>25002509
Because it takes brainpower. It's analytical and requires critical thinking.
Women are biologically shit at this.
Also, children usually make friends of their own gender. A lot of girls like girly shit because a lot of girls like girly shit, if that makes sense.
I didn't have any friends until I was 14 and was on the computer when I wasn't at school my entire childhood. I only had some male online friends and my dad, so that's why I'm a programmer.
>>25002572
I'm not an sjw nor do I have a roastie, but I'm thinking it's probably because women would rather have professions dealing with other humans over professions dealing with tinkering with tools.
>>25002509
You can make girl friends online. Join forums or meetups because if you're a decent person i'm sure that plenty of girls would love to be your friend. I'm proof of that.
I used to be into all thing tech and science but then my mom told me that it wasn't for girls. A lot of us are influenced from a young age to be as girly as possible because this is how we're suppose to be. Also, a lot of guys don't like their women to be too intelligent or successful.
Apparently, so long as you're pretty and pleasant then you're good for a guy.
I dreamed of becoming a lawyer or programmer, but ended up working in sales with a friend. We are products of our environments.
>>25002765
My point was that biologically, women tend to go towards things that require "compassion" or "empathy" of some sort. Think teaching, nursing, psychology, etc. That's how I explain the lack of females in the career.
How I explain lack of females in the hobby: the reasoning above, and that little girls will make friends with other little girls, and if little girl A, B and C all like girly hobbies, then the new addition to their friend group, girl D, will likely develop the girly hobbies and leave no room for other hobbies.
>>25002494
Yes, absolutely. Honestly, that's all that matters. But you still have to actually get out there and get to know people first. Being ugly just means you don't have guys lining up to date you, it doesn't mean you can't go on the hunt yourself.
>>24990421
Girls - Why the fuck are you so judgmental over the stupidest shit. From fashion, to hobbies, to just about anything? I legit don't get it.
>>25002509
>tfw mostly all girl friends and want guy friends
I have nobody irl to talk about esoteric interests with. I have a few female friends that I can get good conversations out of, and that I enjoy talking with, but the large majority of them present nothing fundamentally stimulating to discussion.
>>25001794
>>25002040
Any responses?????
>>25002805
>Also, a lot of guys don't like their women to be too intelligent or successful.
What the fuck, what kind of guys are you hanging out with? I'd love to be with a girl who is on the same level as me.
Do you ever think about turning around and pursuing that career? It's never too late to start... Alright, it's definitely too late to drop everything and go back to school. But I've actually managed to teach myself the basics of game programming in my free time, and now I'm in the process of making my own game. I hope to make a career out of it at some point, if I can get some connections. It can be done.
Completely unrelated to the thread, but can we all take a second to read this?
http://toronto.craigslist.ca/tor/cas/5360854085.html
>>24992157
What I say to girls who do this to me is something along the lines of
"I'm a naturally happy person and you're constantly bringing me down with your negativity, I'm just looking for chill people to pass the time with"
Or something like that, just communicate to them that they are bringing you down and they need to find happiness on their own or some shit.
Problem is most women I've met have been emotional leeches.
>>25002920
What interests do you have besides swingdancing and scifi?
How do I talk to a woman in a friendly way without it seeming like flirting/creeping? I feel like an absolute weirdo each time I try to put an effort into saying anything that can be considered reaching out to my peers. I do the same for both sexes, I just think that it's interpreted in a different way by girls. I just want friends but I sperg out when the moment of connection arrives, and my dialogue comes out half-baked.
>>25002972
I don't believe that being an airhead is a good thing, but it's true MOST guys don't care if you're as smart as them. My ex was a genius and he liked me because of looks and I made him feel happy. Not many men brag to their friend about their girl's PhD, more like her DDs. It's sad but this is life.
My friend recommended that I look into codeacademy and I think that I might try it. I've had to deal with a lifetime of people telling me that these fields were for guys. I felt so intimidated but now i'm finally going to do my own thing.
I hope that your game becomes successful. :)
Men, how many of you would do roleplay with your partner in bed?
I don't mean "Oh I'm the pizza delivery man" "Yes give me the sausage"
I mean that we would create complex characters, sew costumes, and roleplay as these characters to progress their story and fuck as them.
>>25003159
Stop thinking of them as girls but rather as people. Be respectful and interesting.
So long as you make your intentions clear then there shouldn't be a problem. Unless these women are not nice.
>>25003048
>tfw I've seen this posted for over two years now and still have not read the full thing
Hmm.
>>25003172
>MOST guys do X thing
Wew this makes me sad to read because I already had to be around mentally-deficient girls who spout these things purely from anecdotal and subjective opinion in my Psych undergrad program.It was especially one woman who took the fucking crown for diarrhea of the mouthbut eesh. Not looking forward to more of this gross ignorance in grad school.
>>25003216
>Be ... Interesting
shit
>>25003197
No one here has a "partner"
We're either virgins or have been left heartbroken by viscous succubi
Even if I did have a gf, the most I would do is mommy/son or daddy/girl.
Fuck costumes and characters, that's some faggy shit.
>>25003290
>Viscous succubi
G-goo girl succubus? Is there such a thing? Is that even legal?
There's this girl I had a crush on in high school but she was in the year below me and never got the chance to talk to her. Recently (5+ years later) she started working at the local supermarket and we've been exchanging awkward glances and smiles.
I couldn't find her on normiebook, don't know any of her friends and I really don't want to be that guy that goes to her work to flirt with her. What do?
>>25003316
Stutterposting is a sign of severe autism.
Don't speak to me until you get a fucking lobotomy to fix your mongoloid brain
>>25003359
ok but you didn't a-answer my question.
Should I ask a girl to coffee tomorrow? I got her number after seeing her at a concert, she held my hands and said they needed some warmth.
texted her for a few hours today, but she stopped texting me around lunchtime.
I saw another one of her concerts tonight and asked if I could congratulate her but she still didn't reply. I'm thinking asking for coffee might as well make or break it.
>>24998784
you may have keked your roommate but now you will be keked by hundreds of syrian refugees
>>25003172
Again, I don't know what kind of people you're hanging out with, but you probably shoulda learned to take what people say with a grain of salt, cos it sounds like you got fucking brainwashed. I know there are some alphas that are happy with their trophy wives, but even normies need more connection than that. Let alone lonely robots.
For the record, I actually am particularly interested in girls who are on the same page as far as intellect and wit goes. Like, I know there are a lot of dudes who look for that before anything else.
Codeacademy is good, but the learning curve is really slow, you might get bored with it. Perhaps look for some youtube tutorials instead, and download some IDE and code along with them.
And thank you. It probably won't be a success, but I'll be happy to see it even get a release date.
>>25003235
How is it ignorance if this is true? I don't generalize people in every area, but this well known. Note how I stated most not all of them.
Looks, youth and personality are the main things that men look for in women. This is pretty most consistent across the board.
A dumb and pretty woman has a lot better chances of getting a guy than an average looking smart one. Why do you think that the beauty industry is worth billions?
>>25003424
It's good to know that there are guys like you out there. Seriously gives me hope that looks aren't the only thing that matter. I was brainwashed but when you love people it's hard to not listen to what they say.
I will try this and thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.
Hey, never say never. Blair Witch Project looked like a dud and it made a bunch of money. I think the best thing a person could do is try to reach into an untapped market.
Good luck!
Why do you act so scared of me?
Why won't any girls aside from my mom and her friends ever hug me?
>>25003554
How is your hygiene? How is your resting face? How is your smile? What tone of voice do you typically speak in?
Grils:
Who wanna come drop some dank meme molly with me and talk about each others lives? Also idk maybefucking suicide pact i'm so sick of everything
>>25003540
Don't listen to his bullshit, he wants a hot girl with glasses and is well versed. Omission of truth.
>>25003577
Hygiene is fine when I'm in public. Shower every day, wear clean clothes (plain single-coloured tshirt+jeans or hoody+jeans 99% of the time).
Resting face probably looks a little depressed but it's not horrid.
My smile is horrid, I really can't smile.
I don't really know. Maybe slightly aspie sounding.
>>25003540
Thanks for the kind words. And best of luck to you too.
>>25003540
I have a huge crush on a girl right now who I would consider extremely intelligent.
She's extremely well read (much more so than I am) and I love talking about books and politics with her. She also writes poetry and stories which is adorable even though I don't even usually like poetry.
>>25003608
If you don't smile and laugh with people, they often don't know if they are on the same page as you and will be nervous about hugging you. They may well think that you don't like them.
>>25003650
Is that really all there is to it?
>>25003702
That's my best guess. Smiles, laughter, and friendliness are the top things I look for for whether or not I give someone a hug.
I usually assume that someone who isn't doing those things doesn't like me enough to want me to hug them.
>>25003751
hugggggg meeeeee reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
