Are girls just as prone to become addicted to masturbation as men?
Not really, because they can just have sex instead if they wish.
>>24960249
Depends on what you mean by addiction. There were periods in my life where I was masturbating as a habit every night and would get upset if I couldn't. But it went away, and now I think masturbation is honestly not that rewarding.
I'm a grill and I don't think it's as common but I actually was when I was in middle school on and off for a few weeks at a time. I never do it anymore though and I'm a virgin
>>24960306
so you were doing it everyday?
>>24960320
Yeah mostly, sometimes twice on weekend days
when I was in my teens I'd pretty much do it daily and on weekends and summer breaks 2 times a day sometimes. I still masturbate but the whole errday thing stopped around 20. it became every other day and now I'm probably at 3 times a week. Don't get me wrong though I have days still I'll go at it twice in one day. Honestly I feel like I'm just too busy now to do it every day and other times I'm just too drunk or tired to care to try before bed.
I do it once or twice a week, don't know if you call that "addiction" or not
>>24960264
this
masturbation is always a substitute
>>24960249
idk. i never masturbated growing upand i still haven'ti always felt disgusted by the thought of it. i generally have a low sex drive anyway so it was never a big deal
>>24960249
Oh sure, they're also people, too.
>>24960264
First post got it.
If a girl feels horny, she'll just hook-up. Go out to club, use tinder or just text chad.
>>24961084
fuck this gay earthfuck this gay robot
>>24960702
You never tried the shower head/faucet technique?
>>24960264
This. I once even met a roastie who claimed she couldn't make herself orgasm as a justification for her sleeping with a different guy every day.
I've never masturbated before
>original comment
>>24960448
>>24960306
please make fun of my small penis
>>24960249
I don't know how it is with others, but i started when i was like 8 and quickly got addicted to it. For a period of time it was bad, i started to masturbate in public places: school bathroom, freaking coach (tried to be discrete, hope the person didn't notice), was able to do it up to four times a day pretty often.
Felt like a degenerate about it sometimes, but only when i was taught at church how masturbation is a deadly sin etc. is when i decided to stop completely. It worked up to 3 weeks or month usually, after that time either the throbbing was unbearable or i was just orgasming in my sleep, lel.
This obviously made me feel even worse to the point i was considering castration of some sort or looking for chemicals that would decrease your libido, don't remember if i found anything like that. After my catholic faith ceased to exist i was doing it more comfortably but still tried not to let it out of control. In the end i get to do it 1-2 times daily on average, but could go a few days or weeks without it, depending on mood. But the moments where i need to do it a few times in a row because of the unbearable feeling is the worst.
Overall, i don't think it is a normal behaviour thinking it has something to do with my hormonesand probably watching too much degenerate chinese drawings and 3dpd instead of looking for other ways to have fun.
Worth noting that physical exercises reduced the urges significantly, but that is common knowledge . Also didn't mean to involve relgion into it but it did have a significant influence on how i felt about the situation because im retarded like that.
>>24960264
According to some things i read not many girls find vaginal penetration better than clitoral stimulation. Or maybe it is just when they use they fingers to rub the g-spot or whatever, for me it just feels like wanting to pee. No idea how peenors feel like.
Hope the rant cleared things up for some people
>>24961333
>tfw big penis
Feels good mang
>>24961450
>i was like 8 and quickly got addicted to it
are you me? I started at 5 and over the long term I think I regret it, because I think I fucked up my reward system somewhat.
>>24961450
Do you most of the time cum by rubbing your clit? Over time I become so desensitized and addicted to just the orgasm itself, I can make myself cum in under 5 minutes if I really want to.
My sister was for awhile. She would schlick at least twice a day, and would have a panic attack if she couldn't.
I know it won't happen to me since my sex drive is almost non-existent. The last time I schlicked was 2 months ago.
I started masturbating late, when I was 12 or 13. I can orgasm easily several times in a row so I quickly became addicted. The trouble is I have a paraphilia so it makes it difficult to orgasm without very specific stimuli. I quickly became consumed with finding ways to cum, and by the time I was 15 or so I was spending the entire day fapping, cumming over 10 times a day consistently. I mellowed out a bit as I got older, and now I tend to fap two times a day, but when I'm in the mood to I'll go for 4-5.
>>24960264
I haven't had sex in nearly six years, and even when I've tried to I can't cum with a living man or woman. I can't "just" have sex.
>>24961593
What sort of paraphernalia?
>>24961617
necrophilia
this is an original comment
>>24961593
Maybe you should put a blind fold on when you have sex and just concentrate on your orgasm.
Yes. My fetishes are so fucked up I've never had a bf. I'm 100% sure they wouldn't be into it and I'd just feel bad for leading them on. Porn is good enough.
>>24961760
l-like?
>>24961724
I can feel how warm the other person is, their pulse, hear them breathing- even when I've had partners take an ice bath, slather themselves with garbage and spoiled meat, get hideously drunk or drugged to reduce their heart rate or pass out- it doesn't work. I've got some sort of psychological hangup that prevents me from orgasming if there's even the slightest sign they're alive. it's complete bullshit.
>>24961760
what fetishes do you have?
>>24961450
>>24961450
did you think about any teachers when u masturbated?
>>24961084
>If a girl feels horny, she'll just hook-up. Go out to club, use tinder or just text chad.
Some people aren't savages and safely masturbate in their room you fucking idiot.
>>24960249
No because of our menstruation cycles. Most of the time a girl is not horny at all unless they naturally have a high sex drive.
If they have a mental illness that could induce one.
>>24961498
I'm curious what was was your childhood situation and relationship with parents like? For me masturbation was one of the few things i could keep to myself that felt good and (what i thought at the time) didn't have any consequences. Sexual education was pretty much ignored and restricted to shaming (one time mom caught me by opening the bathroom without warning, called me a pervert and never talked about it again). So as a kid i had no idea what i was doing. As i mentioned i really recommend doing some solid physical exercises, if you think masturbation took over your life. Once you start with that you can have more power to find other things that can be both satisfying and productive, if i can put it that way. That is if you haven't started yet, forgive me for the quick assumptions.
>>24961534
>Do you most of the time cum by rubbing your clit?
Yes i do, i'm really sensitive now, i think i was often desensitized when i lost control over it in my teen days when it felt the only satisfying thing to do. Also during some worse periods connected with excessive drinking later. Now it just feels like an urge.
>>24961801
You can't trust them, I guess. You could just wear a blindfold so it's like you're all alone then have the guy be completely still and you make all the movement so you can see that he's not a threat.
>>24961851
Nah, didn't have a liking to older women lel. Most things i would masturbate to were made up situations with non-existing people.
>>24961788
>>24961801
I am into pegging, whipping, humilation, things of that nature. It turns me off if I have to submit in any way. I'm not sort of tumblr man-hating femnazi though. It's just that seeing guys in a weak and broken state turns me on more than anything, to the point where the idea of having sex normally doesn't appeal to me in the slightest. Would only happen if it'sfor the sole purpose of procreation.I know that's a definite deal breaker for every guy so I will probably never be in any sort of relationship.
>>24961993
i hate girls who are too submissive, it's like almost no fun. so i like when the girl takes the lead... but i wouldn't let you peg me lol
>>24961216
no I mean masturbating in general disgusts me. I've tried it before but I've been to ashamed of it to ever actually get off let alone climax from it
>>24961993
I have some fetishes but I can still get off having sex normally.
>>24962099
I honestly can't imagine being submissive without pegging.
Nothing really seems in charge enough.
>>24960264
Sex doesn't satisfy me, masturbation does. I don't give a shit about sex.
>>24961456
having a big peen isn't all it's cracked up to be
>tfw dick touches toilet bowl/water
>tfw out-there-to-look-at boners
>is easy to lay on wrong and hurt
with every blessing comes a curse
>>24962099
Yeah that makes sense. I guess it's no fun if the girl just lies there like a dead fish.
>>24962162
Yeah but I've been masturbating to porn for 11 years since I was 10. You tend to escalate in extremity the more you're exposed to. Weirdly enough the only "normal" sex I can really fap to is loli now. Everything else is either femdom or gay.
>>24961892
>I'm curious what was was your childhood situation and relationship with parents like?
normal I guess? They're a bit overprotective and quite helicopter-y and yes, they have caught me masturbating a few times as an 8 year old and scolded me for that and told me never to do it again. I disobeyed them because it was too much fun and learned to be discreet. I just used to hump and rub myself against edges to cum as a kid, whether the edge of a stool or a mattress. As a 10 year old, I learnt how to use my hand so I can do it while lying on my back, but it took some time to get used to it. I always knew it was weird, but it was so enjoyable and it was the only thing that allowed me to fall asleep quickly at times and I did it every night. Looking back, I think I started misuing it because it started to get out of hand when it came to stress and like I said, kind of fucked up my reward system. I'm 20 now and I managed to cut it down to once or twice a month but the urge is always there. I imagine it's how it feels being a recovering opiate addict. Any more stories or experiences? I somehow knew I wasn't the only one in the world who started so young.
And yes, exercise lessens the urge somewhat, just forcing myself to do things allows the urge to go away temporarily. Going out in public does that too.
>>24960264
You do realize there are ugly girls to right?
when will this female orgasm meme end?
>>24961926
it's not just about having a non-threatening partner, it's about being completely accepted, being in an environment with no pressure to meet the insane standards I think everyone has for me, being with something that I romanticize/idealize/obsess over, it's about the dead's physical attributes that makes them differ from the living, it's about power and control over something completely helpless, and a variety of other factors but I'm sure you get the picture. I wish it was as simple as having trust issues.
>>24961993
What kind of humiliation? I really want to get pegged and while a girl says mean things to me.
It's strange how i only mastubate once a month but still reads doujinshis and fanfictions several times a week. I always feel disgusted and cry after i've mastubated. The feeling of being aroused is more pleasing to me than to mastubate.
>>24961993
i raise you what i asked to the girls prior
make fun of my small penis?
>>24961993
>I know that's a definite deal breaker for every guy so I will probably never be in any sort of relationship.
Are you kidding me I would LOVE to have a gf like you and I know a whole lot of other guys who would too, sub guys are like x20 more common than dom females
>>24962358
>>24962410
Verbal humiliation, especially teasing them about wanting to get dominated by a smaller girl. Also choking, hair pulling, ear biting, etc. But like someone else said pegging is the biggest thing for me. There's no better way to make someone submit.
>>24962478
Most guys would be okay with not having sex until they were married and ready to have a child? Holy shit this is news to me.
>>24962327
I think that's what I meant. Maybe the guy should just sit there and just allow you to use his cock, which I would allow you to do. All that pegging stuff and broken/humiliation stuff is too far and probably come from you think a guy won't accept you, making you feel like you have to destroy him. Maybe you should go back in the kitchen and let that be your safe space where you don't feel so afraid all the time and have some chivalrous guy look after you. Failing that you could just have sex with a stiff.
>>24962568
>Most guys would be okay with not having sex until they were married and ready to have a child?
wait, so you're into the psychological pleasure of those fetishes but not into actual sex or masturbating?
.uummm right
>>24962568
>Most guys would be okay with not having sex until they were married and ready to have a child? Holy shit this is news to me.
I was referring to your fetishes for humiliation etc, just letting you know that lots of guys are into that
>>24962568
>teasing them about wanting to get dominated by a smaller girl.
That's so perfect. You understand exactly what it's about, and how to achieve it.
>>24960249
yes i think so. personally, i have been masturbating since the age of 4 or 5. ive never gotten bored of it and masturbate at least once a day
>>24962568
sounds fun to mehave a Kik?
I quit wanking for 48 hours.
After that, my balls were so full, I fapped 7 times this night.
>>24962606
No no. All I'm saying is I'm not into penetrative sex, unless we were going to have a child together. I still can get sexually aroused and orgasm.
>>24962613
You're great Anon. I hope you can find the right person.
>>24962645
I'm sorry, I don't use that sort of stuff.
>>24962687
Then how do you find men with whom you carry out this stuff? You must advertise somewhere, or have you never done this before?
>>24962687
But I already found you.
>>24962687
well that's a shame.
no contact info at all?
>>24962580
through incredible luck and privilege I managed to get a girlfriend who is okay with my necrophilia and doesn't want sex. all last year she worked and took care of the necessities while I focused on my mental and physical health. it did me a world of good but it hardly cured my paraphilia- if anything it's harder to deal with it after a year of no release whatsoever. now I'm the one paying the bills and taking care of business, and while it makes me feel better about myself, it still has no effect on my paraphilia. I'm pretty sure your sexuality can't be influenced by your social status and level of comfort.believe me, I want to just go get a stiff and get this shit out of my system, but when you don't work in an industry involving the dead getting your hands on one is risky fucking business. I'm not about to ruin my life again for the sake of getting off.
>>24962687
you have men jumping at you who want to give you what you claim to want, why the fuck are you not seizing the opportunity? did you just come here for attention?
>>24962707
I don't. I guess just casually hooking up online seems kind of cheap. Makes it seem like the entire relationship is just based on sex.
>>24962749
>>24962752
>>24962810
Sorry. I was saying how I didn't want to lead people on and I did it unintentionally. Just wanted someone to listen. I'll fuck off.
>>24962883
Would you show me some porn that you like? I haven't found much like this that I think is good.
>>24962287
1-2 a month sounds really impressive, do you feel bad about it when the urge is too big or still feel it messes up your reward system? I think probably the best attitude would be to keep it at bay but not torture yourself. Too much of a general statement but probably everyone can find balance it in their own pace. It is interesting how female masturbation specifically is underdiscussed though. As for experiences i don't know what else to add, probably will try later when less tired and if the thread is still up.
>>24963299
Yeah, I managed to cut down on it substantially.
>do you feel bad about it when the urge is too big
no, because of late whenever I cum, I get this weird mixture of both relief and an overwhelming pang of depression so I figured I should reduce it to a minimum. But regardless, I still have a very high libido but I figured since I was getting older and I'm an adult that I should cut down substantially and learn to cope with stress in other ways so my brain can re-adjust instead of relying on shlicking as a crutch.
>>24963299
btw, how often do you do it?
>>24963371
>overwhelming pang of depression
Sorry to hear that, i find it unusual if you masturbate comparatively rarely, but i might be mistaken. I assume you must have a stressful life. In my case i think the average is 1-2 daily without feeling bad, if im more physically active then once a few days, and depending on the time of month (pms and such) it can be more often. Sometimes i'm feeling ok without it for a few days for absolutely no reason and sometimes it is unbearable if i don't do it a few times in a row. Overall i don't find it bad compared to what i was used to in teenage years.
>>24963746
Yeah I lead a pretty stressful life, and if I wanted to I can do it like 6 times in one day just to feel a bit calmed down.
I don't know if I exaggerated it, but it probably doesn't feel as good as it used to anymore. All I want now in terms of sex is someone to do with it whom I love.
And yeah, I can do it a few times in a row too, I'm quite surprised at my endurance.
addiction to masturbation is a retarded meme
>>24963821
Ah i see...What do you do in general? And do you happen to have a crush on someone?
By the way now that i think of it the 'few times in a row' thing can be biologically explainable and seems like a normal thing
>>24963861
no it's not a retarded meme
>>24960264
I was hoping all the replies would be refuting this, why would I expect that.
Penis vs. clitoral orgasms aside completely, there's two choices:
>get dressed up
>go to club
>perhaps take effort to organise going with friends for safety (if you have a bunch of friends)
>wait for a man to come or make it quicker and approach one, with a few rejections
>go to a strangers home/a hotel room
>risk STDs
>risk rape
or
>sit at computer
>think of literally any fantasy that would turn you on
>search it
>masturbate
>done within 30 minutes tops
I'd say so.
I started at 17 (very late on, it seems). From then, every single opportunity I got, I tried to. Before school, whenever parents were out, whenever they were quiet, I'd delay meeting friends to masturbate.
It started off with amateur solo males masturbating and cumming. Then I'd watch multiple videos in the one session, then obviously there weren't many compilations of that stuff, so I moved to cum on face compilations. Turns out I had a thing for oral, so I moved on to blowjob and cum. It got rougher, and on it went until I was watching facial abuse compilations, and I was outright disgusted with myself as soon as I came. Slave shit too, even though I'm not into BDSM. Now I just watch around...woodman pierre tier? videos, if the videos get weird I cool off for a day or two, and keep watching the tamer stuff. Used to be that it was just a habit. I'd feel obligated to masturbate, like "oh I haven't masturbated today, I'll get to it", and it brought me no joy. In fact, it was almost like a comedown after I'd finished.
Went the same route with hentai too, though I'm sure the people here will be familiar with that.
Funny thing is, despite all the sub porn I watch, I can't stand being dominated. I thought I'd be super into it, but by the time I got my first boyfriend the dynamic just didn't work that way.
