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Do girls that prefer or even like introverted guys exist?
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Do girls that prefer or even like introverted guys exist?
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>>24885392
Yeah, but they're still not going to like you. They just want a Chad who seems "mysterious" because he only talks half as much as the other Chads.
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>>24885392
They're called "girls in denial of preferring Chad".
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statistically, yeah they exist

but your chances of finding one who likes you are astronomically low
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>>24885419
This is so fucking true.
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They are about as real as santa and the easter bunny
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>>24885392
girls that want an introverted guy exists,
but girls that would love a loser doesnt exist
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>>24885807
My sister dated a 32 year old fat autistic asshat who lived with his parents in their shitty cramped apartment. Many people find her extremely attractive but she's also kind of fucking mental.
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>>24886009
maby its only her mental problem that she likes a loser, and when she get normal one day she leaves him.
i heard a girl one time at a bus stop saying to her boyfriend about he was wierd like she is a wierd person.
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>>24885392
you're not asking if women want introverted guys. Introverted means you lose energy from socializing and need alone time to recharge. Women can love guys like this for sure.

What you're asking if women like men who are socially inhibited, shy and/or awkward, and the answer is generally no. They don't.

If you want women to really like you, you gotta put in effort. I know it feels like shit but it's true.
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>>24885392
yes put you have to be the strong silent type and at least be interesting when you do talk.
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>>24886161
do you even introvert time?
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I want a male version of myself which would be an anti-social introvert

I think most girls go for extroverted guys just because they'll spend more money on them tbqh
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>>24885392
There are no girls who like a guy who's personality is entire based around an emphasis on his introversion.

Now a guy that has some interests and can talk about things but who happens to just be an introverted person, yes, girls can like them.
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>>24886270
iktf
>asked "Why don't you go out with us anon?"
>say "I'm just really introverted and I don't really seek out friends or social contact, they don't really matter to me."
>tfw you realize you were talking to your friends

Now that I think about it are you a true introvert if you crave affection and get lonely?
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Of course, but there's a massive (and often misunderstood) difference between being an introvert and being a social reject autist. You can be a suave charismatic introvert.
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>>24886373

usually it just means you find socializing tiring which can make you even more lonely
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>>24886425
Hmmm, I get on really well with people when I need to (school, work etc), I never really fail to befriend people but I literally never pursue them outside of when I have to. I have no desire to go out to places with them or make a lasting friendship. My friends used to invite me to parties and say they enjoyed me being there but I only went to try and force myself into being a normie, and then started refusing because I'd honestly rather be alone. I feel like I'm just introverted and not involuntarily alone.

Then when it comes to an SO I just feel crushing despair that I have nobody, I guess i separate social life and love life internally
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bumping because I enjoyed this thread before 4chan died...
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>>24886373
You would be a schizoid if you never got lonely and never craved attention

Introverts just want less interaction than the normal person but it doesn't mean theyre socially incompetent
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>>24886373
i think intro/extroversion is more of a tendency, so introversion wouldnt necessarily mean that you are completely with loniliness and solitude. introversion may lead you to avoiding most situations, but being introverted probably cant rid of human desires, except for in its most extreme cases
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>>24886889
I honestly think I'd be more than happy with just one SO to share my life with, and wouldn't really crave anyone else. Of course I could develop other relationships but always see them as secondary.
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>>24886971

My feels exactly. Now where do I find a girl like this?

We'd grow old being codependent on each other.
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Yes, but they themselves are also introvertive. This leads to a world where introverts who would share a happy life together would instead never meet. To love introverts is a catch-22, because the only person who would love someone who spends all their time inside and away from others is someone who spends all their time inside and away from others.
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>>24887150

It's hard

I met one or two girls in highschool, but since then, I've only met them on the internet, playing video games. Some of them are standoffish, but once they get in to adulthood they tend to become lonely and tired of shitty BFs
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>>24886107
yuor english is how you say no good
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>>24885392
No nigga we're fucked
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>>24887220
This. But I'll never stop trying! Maybe I'll find them at cons or they're friends will drag them somewhere. ;_;
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How do you tell the difference between being introvert and having social anxiety
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>>24885392
Depends, if you're quiet it might push them away from you, but if you make sure you can at least fake being extroverted when in one on one conversations or become an extrovert when drinking like I do then they might be turned on by the change.
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>>24887220

I-I also go to the library. Besides groceries.

Fuck we need a dating site for introverts. One that allows no pictures until you've talked enough and like eac
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>>24887322
I tried yandere.org I guess that's pretty close.
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>>24885392
If they existed in substantial numbers this board wouldn't be the way it is
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>>24887356
> 1 women online
> 283 members total
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>>24887416
Eeeeeeeexactly.

Any girls here want to develop an unhealthy co-dependent long distance relationship in order to stave off loneliness?
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