Lol bro you take things too slow, ill tell you what i do thats guaranteed to get you pussy on the third date and at least a makeout sesh on the second.

I know a lot of girls because of work (don't worry, faggots, I'm still a turbo-autist) and from what I have gathered, 99.9% of women will assume you're gay if you don't fuck her on the first date. The second date is the ABSOLUTE latest they'll accept.

This combined with OP's broken dick makes me think she thinks you're gay.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=afuqiEaysIA

>>24883807
I doubt she thinks I'm gay, and she was wet as shit when I was fingering her so I want to say she was into it at first. She probably just thinks that I'm a limped dicked beta who tricked her into thinking that I could actually function like a normal person in a sexual encounter. Oh well. I wish I could have seen what would have happened if I decided to not progress from just making out to fingering and full nudity.

>still complicated with ex
that's why it took 3 dates to do anything.
i believe that ex excuse.

lay off, that's enemy territory to say the least.
put time and space between yourself and her and start talking to other women.

>>24884111
I probably could have done something on the second date. I don't know, I feel like if she really liked me she would have been more open to talking about taking a step back and starting over from where we were when we first met. Instead she just backtracked more and reiterated that it wasn't my fault, and that it's on her end. If that was the case, I wouldn't even be upset, I'd hate to push someone out of their comfort zone especially when this is also uncharted territory for me. On the other hand, the cynicism I've built up over the years of browsing 4chan makes me assume that she's just letting me down easy.

If it wasn't for the fact that she stopped me before I left her apartment (this was after babbys first hook up) to kiss me, I'd have thought that she no longer had any interest. But now I can't help but feel to try and text her to work things out, but then I think what's the point? It's already possible that she's shot me down once, why try to look awkward and desperate if there's a chance that there's nothing there? It doesn't help that this girl is close friends with some people I know too, so I'm worried about embarrassing myself in front of them two.

>>24883608

sad to say it but this is why you bang hookers, you failed cuz you a virgin, need to cure those virgin nerves before banging non-whores.

hahaha what a fuck up

>>24884032
Did you have a boner when fingering her? Cause I played with a girl the other day and as a mid 20 virgin and I was just confident as fuck when we did some kissing/groping/dirty talk (it was in a semi-public space doe) and I had a max boner.

>apologizing to women ever

When will this meme end? You're a man, act like you meant to do everything you did.

>>24884343
I had opportunities to fuck a few extremely fat girls, but I never went through with them because these girls were just gross, even though I wanted to get rid of my virginity.

>>24884436
That's what I imagine the people I'm sure she's told thought

>>24884558
I had a half chub but I wasn't firmly erect. I was pretty goddamn hard when we were cuddling a little more physically than usual. I really think that clothes coming off is what fucked me. I have a lot of body-image and self esteem issues because I used to be really fat near the end of high school. I'm down 50 pounds since the summer, but I've still got like 15-20 to go before I'm at a weight that I believe will produce a body that could be deemed attractive. I guess I was so nervous that this girl wouldn't be attracted to me naked as much as she was when I was clothed.

>>24884631
>I meant to not get an erection and act extremely stiff and awkward while making out
Why would I just go a lie like that?

>>24884702
Well lift some weights then maybe. I thought it was a meme for years but my body is the main reason I have a chance.

>>24884737
I'm actively working on my body. I lift 4 times a week and run everyday. In a few months I'll be happy, but until then my self doubts are going to continue lingering. Looking back on it, her body wasn't exactly perfect too. She had great tits, a cute face and nice legs, with a little bit of fat around the belly too, I think we were honestly kind of similar in terms of attractiveness, but I still thought she looked beautiful compared to me.

>>24883608

Sometimes your dick knows better than you do.

>>24884884
Nah, this was not a case of me not being attracted to her. I'm just so fucking anxious when it comes to stuff like this. The first time I held her in my arms I remember having a pretty decent erection but was sitting in a way that it wasn't pressing against her.

Bump for more people to respond and most likely call me a betakek.

>>24883608
>REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
why the fuck did you wrote that?

>>24886178
Because, anon.

I have tfw no gf and I must scream.

Help me niggas

REEEEEEEEEE FUCKING RESPOND TO MU PROBLEM

>>24883608
Same thing happened to me 3.5yrs ago.
Youll improve anon. Goodluck.

beans cant get erections

>>24883608
I know this feel man, but to me it was on the first date. Get some viagra or something next time.