>She hugs everyone except you
>Instead you get a hand-shake
I don't get it, what did i do wrong?
>>24859210
Post a pic of yourself anon :^)
>>24859233
I'm not a female, so I'm against attention-whoring. So no.
>>24859210
You took with your right hand.
Done correctly you would have extended your left hand to her forearm with a very gently pull stepping into a hug around your waist and reciprocated extending your right arm over hers hugged her gently before letting her go.
Gentleness and pretending like nothing happened is the secret to pulling this off.
You have a weird kind of vibe, most likely. Either it's that she didn't want to hug you, didn't know you well enough, or you have a resting bitch face so she felt like you don't want to be hugged.
>>24859244
And there you go you sperglord that's why girls won't hug you.
>>24859267
Also worth nothing that this dude is completely correct.
You would be shocked as to how many faux pas you can get through with a "cool" attitude. Which basically means you don't get flustered and instead play it off.
>>24859281
It's r9k, attention-whores aren't welcome here. Posting pictures of yourself is looked down upon and only females do it.
>>24859289
>Guy comments how calm and collected I am in most situations which is cool
>It's really just apathy
Whatever works I guess
>>24859290
>muh safe-space board
You're fucking delusional, I can find 4 threads that have aspies post their face for attention.
Also OP bitches about not getting a hug and could look like a sperg who doesnt shave, smells, and is obese.
>>24859360
Piss off bitch, i'm not stooping down to your level and posting my face on r9k.
>>24859210
Thats not necessarily a bad thing OP
>>24859406
>my level
>She hugs everyone except you
>Instead you get a hand-shake
This is pretty sad even for r9k. How does it feel that when people look at you they feel better about themselves?
>>24859469
>How does it feel that when people look at you they feel better about themselves?
I don't know exactly, what am i supposed to feel?
>>24859475
What you already feel on a day to day basis.
>>24859496
I don't feel much except when im hungry and want to fap.
>>24859504
Yeah, exactly.
Don't dance around it you know what it is.
>>24859516
So what am i supposed to feel?
>>24859519
>hurr watch me pretend to be retarded
Stop making it how obvious how attention starved you are.
>>24859496
Don't bother anon it's clear he has actual autism as he can't pick up emotions.
The girl in question didn't want to set him off in a rage with a hug so she shook his hand.
>>24859210
Maybe she doesn't know you that well. Believe me, even the biggest autists get hugged. So yeah, just talk to her more often, if you want to get hugged.
>>24859531
But i sincerely don't know what i am supposed to feel, you are the expert on the subject.
Which is why I'm asking.
>>24859544
>doesen't know you meme
But women are fine hugging chad after meeting him for 5 seconds.
>>24859210
Might be a good thing. Hugs are for betas not for guys she wants to have sex with. She isn't going to hug Chad for instance. Not for one second implying you're Chad obviously.
>>24859233
>>24859281
>>24859360
>>24859469
>>24859496
Fuck off back to /soc/ or reddit PLEASE.
OP I'd give you a hug and a beer for telling this normie faggot to piss off. Good job not letting them ruin the board. We need more guys like you here.
>>24859581
Shut the fuck up Wojack, be this "alpha" in real life and maybe you'd have more to care about than the worst board on 4chan
>>24859210
>She doesn't hug you
>doesn't shake your hand
>barely even says good bye
>>24859581
>MUH SAFE SPACE WAHHH
When the fuck did I imply I was a normie, tell me what is the threshold for being a normie?
>>24859617
Not him but; >>24859233
You're a dumb cunt, just leave. You are obviously one of those clowns who posts his mug-shot in those dumb rate threads on here when they come around.
>>24859617
Seriously, fuck off to Facebook or something.
Fuck OP, let's turn this in a good feels thread.
>Talking with group of friends, one girl I don't know
>At first doesn't talk to me at all, but then she asked me a question and agreed with my response extremely well
>From that point on she would want my input on everything
>>24859668
>>24859668
>friends
>female friends
Just leave
>>24859626
So what does that make you OP, some aspie that complains about his problems and never does anything about it. You call me a dumb cunt but you typed out the stupidest reply to a post I've ever seen.
>>24859636
Good response sperglord can't even answer a question?
>>24859210
You didn't kill yourself.
There's a 100% guarantee you'll get a hug in your casket if you do that.
>>24859689
Stop whining in my thread and get out, normie.
>>24859626
So what? You want people to coddle you and tell you it's going to be alright? You want a cluster of robots crying on each others shoulders?
You sad shit. You have the spine and emotions of a fucking women minus all the perks of an actual woman.
At least you got a handshake OP, I was just ignored in the same kind of a situation.
>>24859717
Like a Wikipedia article, you don't own this thread, despite the fact that you created it.
>>24859745
Well if you are going to stay, only speak if i tell you to.
>>24859717
>Stop whining
This is bait right?
>>24859760
Why can't you be that alpha in real life anon? Don't ignore the question this time.
>>24859626
>getting this triggered
>>24859778
He is way to dumb to answer any question anon, maybe the girl didn't want to contract stupid :^)
>>24859800
Is it that time of the month? On your rags?
>>24859816
Answer some questions before asking your own.
>>24859609
You have been muted for 4 seconds, because your comment was not original.
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>>24859210
OH FUCK DONT REMIND ME
>>24859210
>Have to wear a suit to work and look decent
>After long days work go home by regional bus
>Take a seat next to window, near the heater
>Entire 40min trip no one sits next to me
>Rush hour, so the bus is packed
>Look out the window
>See cute girls staring at me in the reflection
I mean seriously. No one ever sits next to me in the bus or train. I do not take two seats, I do not smell because my work doesn't allow it, and I have to look sharp.
Seriously why? Am I intimidating?
>>24859210
>everyone bids me farewell
>handshakes, hugs, cheek kissing for women (the norm here)
>end up alone with her right before leaving forever
>she just tells me goodbye and goodluck from a safe distance
>"y-you too"
>never see her again
>she doesn't touch me at all
>can't touch her at all without spilling spaghetti and annoying her
>has no problem spending every night smoking with me
>comes over and gets really drunk with me regularly
How do I fix this?
>>24859267
That makes no fucking sense. That shit is gibberish, man.
>>24860191
It's because nobody ever talks to strangers on the bus.
Side note, if the bus is packed and you see someone who looks like they need to sit down you should have gotten up. Don't even really say anything, just get up and gesture to person that they should sit where you were.
>>24859289
>>24859267
Guess I just need to git gud then.
Also, how does one move gracefully enough not to bump into her awkwardly and that sort of thing? I don't know how hugs work.