>literally incapable of flirting
>even online
>women get interested but I always disappoint
Is this natures way of saying I shouldn't reproduce?
What is flirting to you and what is it about flirting that makes it difficult?
>>24849665
the man who can provide food, security, and education for his children reproduces
>>24849665
What's your method of flirting, OP?
Come on. Arouse me. Chat me up.
flirting is a female invention. don't subscribe to it.
in a perfect world, one should simply pick a female and mate with her by force. this is the primal way.
But alas, this is not the way things are. Don't feel discouraged that you cannot jump through the hoops held by women.
>>24849665
Just talk with genuine interest in the person. I do this with girls and they think I'm flirting with them when I'm just talking.
>>24849690
Expressing sexual interest, sometimes which in a joking way. I can't do it.
>>24849703
I can and want to provide those.
>>24849723
I have no method. I freeze in real life and act like an autist online. A girl sat on my lap in college and i just sat there until she left.
>>24849782
>sometimes which
Even defining it makes me sperg
>>24849727
>cannot jump through the hoops
Exactly.
>>24849729
I've done that. We kept hanging out platonically and she thought i friendzoned her
>>24849665
i cant flirt either, i cant even hold a conversation with a qt
online as well
I can flirt, apparently, but I never know that I'm flirting. I don't intend.
>never had a female friend online or irl in my entire life
>im 21
I don't get how people do it especially online. There's so much competition in 4chan threads.
>>24850192
You ever had a gf?
>>24850430Yes. And I got her accidentally by flirting without realising it. Only gf I've ever had.Only girl who ever really showed interest.
>>24850697
Who made the first move? Sex?
I am hopeless texting and messaging. And that is half the game. I am fine talking to her face to face, but social media is my Achilles Heel.
>>24850925
I'm not sure. Communicating with her just came so naturally.
Perhaps the trick to flirting is to be comfortable with the person? Or, rather, the trick to getting a gf.
>>24849665
I not only can't flirt, I have no idea what is or isn't "flirting" and I can't tell if someone is with me, or if they ever have, without it being so obvious it came off as desperate.
>>24851202
Confirmed deceiver. You'd remember
>flirting online
>>24850246
this
i dont know how you people are always talking to females online
>>24851529
>wat is online dating
>>24849665
This is my life and I want out. I shouldn't be a virgin. I was that quiet mysterious guy in high school. Girls would makes bets to see who could get with me or get me to talk. FIRST WEEK OF UNI A CUTE HAPA GAVE ME HER NUMBER. I DIDN'T ASK FOR IT I ASKED FOR HER EMAIL. She tried starting a convo about uni life when all i wanted were pics of the lab work. She asked if we could study at her dorm I said no I am busy that day because I am really too pussy.
>>24851509
Believe what you like, m8. I'd say she made the first move, but she would probably say I did it.
>>24849665
oh hey it's me
every single person in your direct family tree has reproduced going back to even before we evolved into humans when we were single cell organisms. so do really think you're gonna be the one to not... well i do
>>24849782
>A girl sat on my lap in college and i just sat there until she left.
>>24849665
nature doesn't give a shit. you either reproduce or you don't
>>24852683
>>24849782
I've had a very, very similar occurrence. What the fuck are you supposed to say? What do you do? I prefer to use language in a brief, informative, utilitarian way, and flirting/small talk seems an impossibility to me
I hate trying to talk to people online, I throw out the usual lines, school/work/interests, and it completely dies after that because I have no clue what to do.
>>24849665
STAY DETERMINED OP