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>Be lonely a 80% of the time
>Friends kinda shitty
>Trying to get the best of the situation
>Playing guitar and reading
>going through a rough depression and taking meds.
Any other good ways to deal with lonelyness?
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How about get a good friend, anon.

Like me
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>>24841171
At least you have friends. Fuck your loneliness.
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How does one find good friends being a meet?
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>>24841216
hmm you are right, I am going to get one tomorrow.
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>>24841441
Interdewebs
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You need to find hobbies that you can meet people through. Meetup.com or whatever the site has is good for that, or so I hear.

Become /fit/. Not swole, but just enough to become attractive. If you're a social autist (I am), study kinesthiology (might have spelled it wrong, can't check atm) to learn how to give off confident body language, and to read other people well. Learn how to dress well. Be outgoing, get a sense of what is and isn't socially acceptable, and afterwards, ignore any kind of anxiety you have regarding social situations.

Finally, when you do make friends, make sure to be the one to contact them, and plan things with them. Don't rely entirely on them to do things.

Godspeed anon. A lot of people here act like socialising is hard, but it isn't, and this is coming from a literally diagnosed autist.
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>>24841794
This, a hundred times.

That's one of the things my therapist told me: I don't have enough experiences. It all becomes relative with experiences.

For instance, if a toddler drops his ice cream, it will be one of the worst things that's ever happened to it, because it has no frame of reference.
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>>24841859
>ignore any kind of anxiety you have regarding social situations.

OMG if only somebody told me this earlier. My life would have been so much easier i could have had a really good life with tons of friends in it, and my parents wouldnt hate me
REALLLLLY!!!
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>>24841171
just embrace it. accept your lonelyness. lonely is something you will be a lot no matter what
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lift my friend
join a gym
keep going there for months
make small talk with people u meet there
meet people
make friends
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