Virgin general
How old are you guys?
What's your reason for still being a virgin?
>How old are you guys?
19
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I'm very shy.
>How old are you guys?
19
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I have this shit personality trait where when a female shows any legit interest in me I lose all interest in them instantly. anyone else know this feeltfw regret is tearing me apart
>>24820253
18
I've been extremely autistic up until now and I'm just now realizing how to act normal.
I cringe about the things I've done every day.
25
Avoidant personality, terrified of rejection so I've never even asked a girl out
18/f/cali
20
I've never tried. I'm waiting for a unicorn. I'm a manchild who doesn't deserve said unicorn. I'm lazy.
>>24820525
You're not alone brother. I was so madly in love with this cutie that always seemed like she was rejecting me, but as soon as she said that she loved me the whole time I completely lost interest.
>>24820253
26. Horrible looks, social phobia, shut-in lifestyle, unpopular interests, poor, selective, socially retarded, lazy. Im probably going to pay a hooker idk.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
19
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I can only talk to females online, can't handle them IRL. Ex-religious so having sex outside of marriage is distasteful since I want a qt virgin gf.
>>24820525
I know exactly what you mean. I've had two opportunities to get a gf but every time we got to the point where we were dating I'd suddenly lose all interest in them.
[So much regret]
>>24820525
>>24820607
I think I get what you guys are saying. Mainly because I hate Rise from Persona 4.
>>24820587
>female
>can't have sex whenever feels like to
Choose one.
25
I only leave the house for my wageslave job
Bland personality, bland looking. I spend all of my time sleeping or waiting for death
25
I just never really tried, I can't picture myself fucking.
>>24820644
what if my "whenever I feel like" is in a stable LTR with someone I am married to or likely to get married to?
>>24820587
Every time. Although you forgot /super naive.
>>24820644
>falling for this bait
>not believing every shit post you see
Pick one
>>24820843
LTR? what? Lord of the rings?
>>24820843
>from Cali
>looking for something long term
Jesus Christ.
>>24820906
>my benis
>my anus
Phig one :-DDDD
>>24820908
long term relationship fampai
>25
>5'6
Robot is also keeping me down because he's a butthurt turbovirgin
>How old are you guys?
23
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I've never been social enough. I'm not complete autist but i prefer having good conversation with male friends than chasing pussy. I've had couple of chicks that used to be interested in me but i was blind to the signs and i focused on grades too much.
18
I'm an ugly creep with no social skills.
Probably going to save enough just so I can spend a month or two in an apartment so I can blow my brains out without my parents having to clean it.
>>24821281
There's always a chance things can get better, anon. You're clearly not a bad person. Are you stupid? How did you do in school?
>>24820253
25
Depression. Felt like shit all the time. Who the fuck wants a bf who feels like shit all the time? Didn't feel like getting a hooker.
>>24821660
Should add that I've never even asked a girl out
23
I'm a 5.5 athetlic guy, 6'0, dress fine, basic hygiene, became more and more isolated and anxious until 20 then I got better. Missed a lot of opportunities in high school by lacking confidence and rejecting a fine girl, went to a very small class in my uni, only 1 normie girl in my class for 2 years, changed uni and was slightly shy, rather avoidant, didn't try, didn't even have a normiebook, worked a year without seeing people outside of lifting, sadly didn't felt something was wrong.
Trying to change at 23, changed town, more confident, more social, but I feel like it's too fucking late and now have to battle with depression.
>>24820253
40
Mental illness
My comment was not original
Also if you're younger 19/20/21 (not even talking about underages) you shouldn't post here and just spend all the time you have to be more social and find decent hobbies. Seriously like 25% of people that age are virgins.
>How old are you guys?
24
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I'm really ugly and neet. You can't get laid if you don't have the looks or a lot of money.
23
stay inside 24/7
>>24821824
>40
>on /r9k/
Holy fuck anon your life must suck.
>>24820253
If i told you I still lurk this is still my most frequented board even though I'm not a virgin anymore would you be upset with me?
>>24820843
Irrelevant. The choice is still there for you.
>How old are you guys?
23
>What's your reason
Women are intimidating and I'm already past the point of no return anyways.
25
No girl has ever shown interest in me.
>20
>social autist
>>24820579
24 for here.
Likely the same reason.
Also I'm pretty fat, and no-one is attracted to a fatass like me.
So I don't even bother. I just admire the odd girl from a distance and get on with whatever I'm doing like the loser I am.
20.
I'm /fit/ and /fa/ but I'm 5'6" and anti-social. Been on dates with girls from my college before but I can never feign interest in their bland personalities (seriously, most of these people consider netflix a "hobby") I don't feel that bad about it though. Been focusing on improving my physical and mental strength and that gives me a lot of satisfaction, as Euphoric as that probably sounds. Work on becoming a better man, robots.
>>24821939
Yeah like I said, I have a severe mental illness, so what the fuck should I be doing?
Just a measly 19, I feel like I'm the only virgin in my group of friends but i stopped caring a while back.
I've been rejected too many times, im bad with women, have poor social acuity and dont have the desire anymore. its not too bad though, once you move on and find hobbies its all good.
24
>pretty /fit/, good job, but get super anxious when girls show interest.
>Convince myself I can do better than the girls who try to get with me, then get angry at myself for passing on them later.
>feel ashamed of penor even though it's pretty average 6.1x5
feeling it's too late for me
>>24821676
Me either anon.
Have had a long-term mild depression all my life. It's made me a target for abuse and I shy away from people.
Tbh, I can't even look most people in the eye. I do that trick where you look slightly past them. Most people don't notice unless they look into my soulless passionless eyes and see my true sadness.
They never understand when you try to explain though.
>>24820253
I am 18 years old. I've tried to ask girls out on 4 occasions. I don't have many friends/chances to be social, so that might be why I am a virgin.
>>24820253
20...
I got my dick sucked, but she wouldn't let my stick it in cause she was scared of getting pregnent. This happened not very long ago, it was my first kiss too
>>24822215
It's not too late for you anon. At least you're not fat like me.
I don't stand a chance in hell. You just need to get over the barrier and take a risk once in a while.
>All these teenagers complaining about being virgins
I lost it at 21 guys. Spent my childhood being bullied and abused by my mother, was a big fat mess of a kid with a bunch of problems.
Got away from her, got fit, got laid. Don't write yourselves off and perpetuate the idea that it'll last for ever. Wallowing in it won't help,try and find some belief guys.
To all the wizards, maybe consider paying for it?
20, never tried, no social circle and it's hard to make one because i live in the middle of nowhere
>>24820253
18, no girl has ever shown interest in me. I've been told im OK looking, but I'm 5'2" manlet. I'm afraid i will die a virgin.
>>24822293
Why pay for sex, when I can use that money for better things that would give me more temporary satisfaction.
Think about the opportunity cost here anon. It's too much money to look into fulfilling a minor curiosity.
22. It's how the story was destined to unfold.
>>24822209
You're 19 ffs. It's not even that bad socially. Just keep practising your hobbies and keep socializing even if it sucks.
19 here.
I'm not ugly. I'm smart. I'm funny. I dont know why desu I'm really lost. I think it has something to do with my mind being kinda off. I try to act normal but I'm kinda bizzarre.
>>24822338
It seems to me like the tone of this thread was somber and full of regret.
If you genuinely don't want sex and feel like you life is fulfilled without it then I would encourage you to continue along that path.
I'm just saying for those who are filled with regret and curiosity, it's probably worth it. You never know what it could motivate you to do.
22. I think most of it stems from low self-esteem. I also really don't get out much so I meet very few women. I think I've met (and I mean really met, not just briefly talked to or seen in passing) something like 5 girls since I graduated from high school and most of them have been in relationships with my friends.
I don't think any girl has ever expressed any interest in me, but part of that might be due to my extreme shyness and closed-off body language.
I know I'm not very attractive but I'm not irredeemably ugly or poorly-dressed, and I'm in decent shape. You'd think at this point at least one girl would have tried to make a move on me but no, it just never happens. I don't even really see people making eye contact with me.
I'm not very nervous around other guys and they seem fairly willing to strike up conversations with me, but girls ignore me completely and I don't know why. They make me very nervous.
>>24822396
It sounds like you are in the exact same boat as me man. I feel your pain
24, I probably could get a girl and have sex if I wasn't such a loser fuckup NEET. Honestly being a virgin is the last thing on my mind anymore, I'm more worried about how the fuck I'll ever be able to make money and live on my own
24
Plain old ugly, and no charisma to compensate.
23
Really ugly and low self esteem
>>24822396
holy shit m8 are you literally me
>>24820253
I think the major problem is more a lack of friends. I think if I had the social skills to create and maintain friends it would be easy to lose. But it truly does seem to be you need to have friends to make friends. And stuff like social media makes it even worse cause people can tell straight away that something is wrong with you by looking at it. It seems like once you fall of the trailer of friends, you can never get back on.
>>24822390
For me, sex is a curiosity. I just want to know what it's like, but the thought of touching another person in that way is also quite terrifying. I have a fear of intimacy. That's likely true.
What I truely wanted was an intimate companion. Someone to share the feels and hang out and have fun with. Bascially a female guy that looks fairly nice that's open for trying out the sheet business and learning with me.
But that's a WANT, not a need.
And my priority right now is getting my life on track. Learning to drive, getting a post-grad job, losing weight. Those are more important right nowand that's where my resources must go.
The only thing I regret in life is having the constant compulsion to play it safe. Being on the defensive all the time. Progress is frustratingly slow for me.
22
I never thought I was good enough for someone. When I think "would I date myself?", the asnwer is no, so I don't ask anybody. It's been like this since always, who knows
25
I never tried. I don't think I'm too ugly and I take care of myself, but after years of social isolation I feel like I've forgotten how to talk and relate to people so even if I wanted to change this I wouldn't be able to. I don't think I even care about it anymore.
>>24822505
I think it's more being successful than anything. If you're making 30k a year and are able to live on your own, it's a strong sign that you're competent person. Who wants to sleep with a dude in their 20s who doesn't have a job and still lives with their parents?
>>24820253
21
I come from a repressive mudslime family so I fear any female relations and simply don't have the opportunity to put myself out there.
I can lose my virginity very easily however since I'm relatively good looking and have a decently witty personality. Proofs is that I once went to another city to meet up with a friend, we went to a party and a few moments later I was literally on a bed with some hot 8/10 making out with her while undressing her. Didn't take it further because I'm scared of STD's and (un)luckily my friends were spam calling me to tell me their dipping.
I honestly don't even care about my virginity, 3d will never be 2d and all I jack off too anymore is 2d and when I have moments of weakness, to 3d cosplaying as 2d.
23. Had the chance a couple times but couldn't get hard enough. I'm really not a super horny person, plus I think porn on top of that ruined me a little
>>24822564
Yeah, I was probably mixing up getting a gf rather than losing virginity. But I still think social success is more important than anything else either way. Like somehow it seems to me that social things determine a person's worth, anything else is just trying to compensate for that.
20, i don't think i'm much ugly, go out almost every weekend, have a car, graduating and working. I just don't know, my self esteem is low as fuck.
>>24822574
they're and to*
fucking autocorrect
24, soon to be 25.
Got to 3rd base with a girl (for the first time in 10 years) on Halloween, didnt have a condom.
Guess I'm waiting another 10 years.
>>24820253
21
always been a social reject; people avoiding me like a plague, isolation, fat, ugly, low self esteem, anxiety, and depression. also to top it off im black.
Well actually I'm wrong, I don't try hard, and my put myself out there; I don't have the rights to have friends and a gf if i'm choosing to live this way. I have only myself to blame and no one else. That's simply my case.
>>24820253
22.
small dick
No ego
almost not even here bro.
>>24822263
21 virgin here
Im looking to get my dick sucked too, how did you go about that?
>>24822745
you gotta suck a dick to get the dick sucked man. Get to work
>>24822645
Well odds are if you're making enough money to get by on your own, you're going to have some social success, whether it be acquaintances / co-workers or maybe some actual friends. I mean you probably aren't going to have any friends anyway if you don't have a job or aren't actively involved in school
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
20
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
Self-esteem so low Marianas Trench might as well be sea level. There may be other things.
There was a girl that I talked to on the bus in high school named Mariana. One day she said she liked me. I said I was sorry.
>>24822745
In Japan mate. It seems they can not pick up on social cues that would set of alarm bells over here.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
21
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
Well, I always wanted to have a pure and sincere relationship with a genuine girl. Good enough to be the mother of my offspring.
I'm not interested in casual normie stuff.
If I can't find the chosen one, I'm ready to spend all my life alone.
>>24820587
>18
>From California, the sluttiest state in the US
I don't think you're actually 18 get out, underage b&
I'm twenty-two years old.
Why? Because I don't really care all that much about having sex. I never felt the urge to chase girls, as opposed to most other men. Even when they initiate the conversation -- I'm not ugly and I'm doing decently in life -- I put in no effort to keep it going. Same goes for when other men try to talk to me; hence I have zero friends (and lacklustre social skills to go with that, although I know how to behave very well). It doesn't bother me, I'm simply not really the type to have relationships of any kind.
It doesn't help that I find pretty much all women unattractive or "nothing special". I once accidentally passed through a redlightdistrict (I live in the Netherlands) and a whore kept signing me to come over to her and I thought: "No thank you."
She wasn't even ugly, just average (far from good enough for me), but even vaginas in porn disgust me and thus I do not want to see what the vagina of an actual whore is like: I'd rather watch gore.
I'm not even gay, though. My standards are just really high (and I'm 7.5/10, at best ) and I can only get it up for really, really thin girls with lots of plastic surgery (huge boobs, full lips, ...), lots of make up (and stuff like lenses and fake nails) and slutty clothes (very high heels, fishnets, corsets, ...): a pin-up bimbo barbie, who is preferably a virgin. Of course I'm not capable of getting such a woman. I considered looking for a Russian woman (they seem to be into this kind of stuff) for whose plastic surgery and so on I'd pay, but I realised she'd just leave me afterwards. Anyway, even if she wouldn't, I can't really picture myself having sex and I'd get bored of her after sex anyway. Masturbating is way easier and I don't think the feeling of having sex is significantly different from the feeling of masturbation.
4months til wizardry
>afraid of intimacy; 3" penis
>low self-esteem; bullied as 5'5" manlet
worst part is few women wanted the D from me and I had chances
24
Struck out in college enough times to know I wasn't wanted. People who I thought were my friends stopped talking to me. Got really depressed, stopped going to classes and eventually moved back home. I don't try anymore and I'm in a better place mentally because of it.
>>24820253
27
I hate nature and nature hates me.
24
A mix of autism in situations I had the chance to und not actively looking for it. I'd rather wait for someone I care about.
>How old are you guys?
18
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
mandibular prognathism and my lack of confidence to be acepted in normie social groups
>lost it at 20 which is considered extremely late
>right now I'm 25, get sex regularly
Not to be a dick, but you guys in your mid 20's that are still virgins, how do you sleep at night? You're so far past the point of no return its not even funny. I lost mine at 20 to a 17 year old and even she could tell I was extremely inexperienced. Man, I got lucky. Usually if you don't lose it by 18 you will never lose it.
>>24820253
>25
>christfag
>shy
pic not related
I'm 20.
Shy, no friends and oppertunities to meet girls. I don't know how this happened, my whole family is social as fuck
23
never really tried I guess. Asked a girl out once, got rejected, and instead of getting over it, I just gave up and decided to spend time on things that wouldn't backfire on me
/r9k/ has has also poisoned my mind into thinking that girls are immediately disgusted by anyone that isn't a 6'2" chad; so I never talk to them
because ive never had the opportunity to lose it
now i think it's a good thing, ill lose it to my wife-to-be, but sometimes when i see a fat girl with a wide ass i have a urge to fuck
must resist
19
I stopped looking after getting rejected at 13.
>23
>ugly
>Introvert
>>24824933
well for one no one wants to just sleep with everyone like you
was she even your gf
20. Irredeemably boring. Don't dress well either. Only started buying clothes for myself like this year.
>>24825141
yes and she was cute as fuck, basically my last chance in this life time to fuck a tight teen in the pussy. Was god tier. The 22 year old I'm fucking right now is nothing compared to her, skin isn't as smooth, puss isn't as tight. Only gets worse with age.
19
Haven't tried hard enough desu
>>24820253
19
I haven't made an active effort to get laid.
23, never been social, boring
>>24820253
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I'm not a virgin. I was ridiculously horny one day so I joined a dating app and messaged hundreds of women with, 'Would you like to sleep with me?' Most said no but one 5/10 drunk horny asian chick said yes and I said fuck it and met up with her. We talked for a bit then walked to her apartment and started kissing. After a few minutes, we were fucking. I just copied what I'd seen in porn and actually made her cum a few times. Was pretty great.
>>24820612
Trust me dont do this f@m
21, virgin until recently. There is hope for you robots, at least if you have a few normal-ish friends to take you to parties. I got drunk with my friends and got laid by a fluke after they dragged me to a party. Some drunk girl decided to fuck me, in all likelyhood because I was the closest person at the moment. She was king of fat, and not that attractive, but at least it proves it can be done even if you're less than average in looks and socially retarded
>>24820253
19. I don't care about sex, all I want is a genuinely good relationship with someone who hasn't been with anyone either. I could get sex whenever I want. Anybody can fuck some stupid slut.
>>24820253
19. I want to be a wizard and I'm an autistic spic 5'4 manlet.
25
Never really ever tried.
And I'm not attractive enough for girls to show interest in me/prod me into actually taking action
>>24826223
>Anybody can fuck some stupid slut.
please give instructions
>>24826325
Just to add on also I sometimes wonder what would happen if I actually tried.
But the fact that I seemed invisible to women all throughout school and very few ever engaged me on any level makes me think not much would happen
>>24826223
Literally just buy some high school slut some drinks and pretend you have chad friends. As soon as they start drinking even a full blown autist can't fuck up.
30
I live with my mom and work two shitty jobs at 70 hours a week. Also was an incredibly naive teenager/young adult with no idea how relationships or sex worked.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
19 in an hour and 9 minutes
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I have absolutely no idea how to talk to people. I can't even make friends, how am I supposed to meet, court and maintain a relationship with a woman long enough for her to want to have sex with me?
>20
>the one girl i've ever really been attracted to abandoned me so that she could date girls
>i have a strong dislike of gay people now
23
I'm a shut-in NEET these days which obviously doesn't help my chances but back in school/college I only once tried anything and I still didn't go through with the whole thing.
I don't care about women any more but I do entertain every now and then the delusion that I might somehow find a nice boy to become romantically involved with.
>>24826761
Wait so are you gay?
22
Eh females don't want me.
>>24826827
May as well be, I don't want anything to do with women.
20
I've tried to lose it in the past, but it never worked out and I had to stoop incredibly low. Nowadays, there's literally no one for me to even try to get with because I don't know any girls.
>>24820843
marry me i'll be your husband
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
24
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
video rated i treat women with respect and that dries their vagina.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4AHH0bdNKyM
>>24820253
19
Haven't made a sincere attempt not to be
21
I put up walls. I could probably have sex, but I would just feel like I'm being taken advantage of.
>21
>Am committed to mai waifu
>>24826500
I wish you an amazing day, anon, hope you got mad pussy on this new year
>>24820253
23 y/o.
A mix of lack of confidence, religious reasons and being fat. I guess I'm severely beta as well, though it's not as bad as it used to be in my teens and during college.
21.
I have no idea on how to pick up women, or turn a conversation into flirting without being autistic. My relationships never lasted long enough to get to sex.
Honestly, I don't care. I miss intimacy and company much more than I miss sex. As long as I can fap sex is not an issue.
>>24820253
35. Genitals are gross.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
24.
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
Ugly and boring.
21
boring, lived an isolated life, 5/10, schizoid
>>24820587
Hey, wanna fuck in 2017? We'll both be 20 and I'll be in Cali for a bit
19
terrible person, terrible looks, terrible in general desu
>>24827864
Normie niggerthe robot is a nigger too
28
never really tried because im a awkward insecure pussy that never grew up like other normal people, don't even think im that hideous tbqhfam
25
>Not wired for relationships
>Don't get upset seeing couples like most people here
>See qts and imagine all the hassle and energy I would have to spend to even converse with them, let alone enter and maintain a relationship
>I haven't fell for the "Grass is always greener" trap, my life isn't gonna be non-stop euphoria if I get a GF
>Really self-conscious of myself to the point where I'm not comfortable wearing shorts, how the hell would I manage to go through the act of sex?
>Wake up and get out of bed no problem, no laying around and feeling tfw no gf
>Never really saw myself getting into a relationship since I was in middle school
>Actually had two opportunities to get a GF but backed down out of fear, embarrassment and anxiety
>Read many horror stories of ex-GFs/ex-Fiances/ex-Wives to not feel bad at all about my situation
>Marriage is already a huge risk for men with almost no rewards
I'm already pretty content with the internet and my onahole, along with my piano and my manchild hobbies
missed opportunities
20
Im gonna lose my virginity next week to a hooker, should I go for it or at least give myself another year?
>>24829304
just wait. at this point you might as well try to find someone you actually like. it's 2015, since your friends (if you even have any) are most likely not "macho" you honestly could probably get away with saying something like "I'm just waiting for the right girl"
I'm waiting till marriage
>>24820525
Holy fuck I know this feel.
>Get a legitamate 9/10 to talk to me
>She really wants to suck/fuck me
>I get kind of put off by that
>Ignore her texts
Why can't I be normal
>>24820816
That is pretty much my story and I'm almost 24
>>24824976
>tfw no christian bf to wait to marriage with
>to talk lewdly to and make him blush even though we both are inexperienced
>to have a reason to get up early
I-I'm 20 be my savior anon
>>24822326
meximillion
?
24
>no girl has ever approached me
>therefore i am undesirable
>tfw no gf
>tfw khv
age: 25
Reason: autism, trust issues, and I can't see a single reason why anyone on the planet couldn't do better then me relationship wise so I don't even attempt to inflict myself on others.
Besides I am a bad person and deserve to be alone.
18
Almost have a gf now, will be leaving here soon enough. My friend says I'm always really confident around girls, but the truth is I know I have no chance so I treat them like any other person, which makes them comfortable, but also makes me just a friend.
How old are you guys?
26
What's your reason for still being a virgin?
not caring
>>24820253
>21
>I just got over my oneitis but having sex with someone still scares me. I don't want to get attached to anyone.
25
I've never made the effort or tried asking women out. I've always avoided that type of intimacy due to fears of it and fears of rejection. Never let anyone close. Doesn't help I don't go out and am kind of fat and thus not attractive, though that's alterable. Still too much of a pussy to try online dating. I don't really see anything redeemable about myself to merit even trying at this point. People would likely just be disappointed/disgusted, and they would just be hurt or view the experience as a waste of time.
Have only been approached a couple times by girls throughout college/high school. I either awkwardly avoided the situation as I didn't want my first time to be with someone I barely knew and who was drunk, or I missed the social cues. That, and I've always been too much of a pussy to take any action myself. Fears have always been stronger than any desires I've had for intimacy.
>20
>no ambitions, no desires, no wishes, no will, no future
>not expecting anyone to be interested in me
>expecting to lose interest in me after they would get to know me anyway
>literally no chance of success and thus no reason to try to begin with
24
Prepare for long fucking story
1/2:
Was never really interested in girls till I was 20, where I somehow developed feelings over a girl I would chat to on a runescape IRC. fact is I wasnt interested in anything besides runescape from 2009 till half 2012 where I litteraly barely left my house/room four years.
In 2012 I started working at my dad's company and finished highschool, , 2nd half of 2012 I entered college and had huge crush on this one girl but she had a BF then my basement habits made me pretty much skip 90% of the classes so I ended up w no friends, killing every interest she had in me even if she broke up w her bf that same semester,and horrible grades.
2013 I got sick and I was focusing more on college at the time I thought it was ok to kill my sex drive by just fapping. I thought I wanted to experience love , sex always seemed something easy to get for me and not that important.
2014 I met a girl which I heavely crushed on but nothing ended up happening. Been desperate for experiencing love since.
Friend invited me to a party , was basically the first public party I ever went too and I went yolo that day and made out w random girl. Then went to a club and saw a hot chick and we wanted each other but I could never go past looking her in the eye besides i had my first XTC pill that night and couldnt think of nothing. Been more interested in sex w girls since then , but the guy that took me to those parties is like the only social circle I have and he never invites me to anything else plus got a gf now so doesnt party with me.
Decided im gona get laid somehow so downloaded tinder and happn. Met a happn girl , 2nd day she starts makin up w me but she was from another city, promises she will stay in my city and calls me "love" that night.
Im 17 maybe theres hope still
>>24832294
2/2
Finally think I found love and Im gona get laid. Next day she tells me shes on her period, goes batshit crazy, and tells me shes leavin back to her town. I go batshit too. Meet her one last time where she tells me nothing will stop her from leaving and treats me like shit. She leaves. Get mad at her for that. Don't have any contact with her till like 2 weeks later where I was a pussy and texted her saying no hard feelings, She asks how i been and I tell her I miss her, she doesnt reply again and i throw a tantrum untill she says she doesnt understand how I Can miss her if we barely shared anything, dont have the guts to tell her I never really had a girlfriend and that's probably why I felt so attached to her,make up some other shit about feelings but she doesnt reply again so I basically just tell her shes a fking idiot for not telling me she just doesnt wanna talk to me.
Now I'm depressed, w no love, still virgin and actually fucked up this college semester too ( im in fifth now). I still got tinder/happn and talk to alot of girls there/ some have gave me phone number , but only really interesed in like one of them and shes playing hard but I think i can prob start going out with some of them soon. Somehow my stupid heart only wants the one that left me tho.
Feels shit robots.
>>24822054
>>20
>>social autist
Same, but 26
I just can't start and keep up a conversation, I just have nothing to talk about. I'm a very boring person unless I'm with a group of close friends, but even then I mostly listen and don't talk much.
I enjoy going to techno parties and have an amazing time and enjoy the occasional touching, but when shit gets real (like, there were two occasions where girls rubbed their backs on me) I'm scared. I don't know how to react, I just enjoy the moment until they.... go away.
>>24832341
I'm actually 23 but I turn 24 in 10 days so might aswell just put that.
19
haven't reached out to anyone and vice versa
above all else i wish i had one or two close friends, don't care for any love but platonic
I'm 20.
>What's your reason?
Lack of caring enough. Sex just seems so unnecessary and filthy when I could use my hand.
>>24832353
all the happn part is from 1 month ago btw.
Im so stupid I cant even write well on here and gotta keep making clarifications . Fuck I wish I wasn't such an idiot.
>How old are you guys?
27
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I used to be over 300 lbs.
Now I'm just ashamed of my body and don't think anyone could love me.
>>24832450
I love thou.
21. I don't get women. I don't understand how they work. Oh, I can make vague social niceties, but when it comes to making any of the sort of overtures that come naturally to everyone else I have no.fucking clue. I spent that period of time where everyone figures it out in middle school playing halo and reading books. Then I went to an all guys school, so by the time I got to college I'm missing this whole catalog of experiences I'm apparently supposed to share with everyone else, that they just assume I have. Any advice given assumes I've got some base knowledge and that I'm just not applying it correctly.
I'm not interested in flings, but apparently fucking first is the only way it works these days. The odds of finding a woman who shares my set of ultra masculine hobbies is 0, so I don't even have something I could try to find in common with women. Also of this stacks up to make me incredibly insecure about the whole thing, so I find it easier to just avoid the entire subject matter entirely. This has left me with a crippling lack of validation about my worth as a human being.
I've extensively analyzed myself over the course of my alcoholic binges.
Ok here's a short interesting story for you guys
Keep in mind I'm self diagnosed with severe autism
>be me, 18
>october,2015
>a qt says she needs a partner for an exposition at EXPO in Milan
>picks me for my top tier english skills
>throughout entire october, she hugged me, leaned on me, dropped a few "subtle" jokes like "I should totally marry you to get my visa", etc
>day of EXPO comes
>we literally
>literally
>sleep in the same bed
>mfw I didn't do shit about anything
>mfw I didn't ask her out
>mfw she thinks I'm not interested
>>24832548
damn son
you've reached a whole new level of beta
she probably just thinks you're gay
>>24820253
21
not a degenerate
too short/spergy when i was 16/17 and horny
>>24832582
Thats exactly what has been mentally torturing me for a month
26
was too picky/elitist in high school and college
somehow i became a neet. now i have a shitty job, but still live at home because i can't afford to move out.
basically I'm embarrassed by my existence. i went from someone at towards the top of society to a complete beta.
>tfw no virgin because a 13 year old girl raped me when I was 7
And since then I haven't had sex.
>>24820253
22
Poor, undergraduates, very agressive in manners (so they said), shit life experience, has non mainstream interest, hate women for being boring stereotyped cunt, hate the mass media culture while everyone in my area praise it, come off as edgy, disdain from general population, I always look angry cause shitty genetic, In my area, people refuse to date anyone that isn't 100% their culture (I am mixed with some mongoloid bullshit so I am treated like a savage). Can't get hired cause apparently I am too much domineering and employers always find stupid excuses.
>>24820253
tfw the dream would have been perfect qt to swap virginities with and eventually get married and all that but instead had to just give mine to a girl who threw hers in the trash like 6 years prior when she was 14. Then the kicker being that she left over 8 months ago and I still haven't really recovered.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
19
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
Shy with women, recently I have had some success on tinder making out and getting a blowjob and etc but no sex yet
>>24832736
I have a job for you.
>>24832748
I would like to know.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
21
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
Stopped caring a long time ago.
22
I have the personality of a concrete block.
>>24832761
Killing yourself, you fucking mutt.
>>24832775
>[email protected]
I don't know what I expected
27
Not a virgin as of this year
Actually, losing your virginity for me was an extremely terrifying experience. Because I'd been led to believe by normalfags that sex and relationships were what was missing in my life, that it was some great amazing feeling that I'd been missing out on for a decade at this point.
But in reality of course it turns out that that shit is overhyped just like everything else on this ball of shit.
>>24832775
over used and doesn't pay well. the suicide culture is on recession for the moment.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
23
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
No social life to speak of and I have no idea how to make the transition from being a casual acquaintance to dating someone.
>>24820253
>19
>I'm a loser
JUST
I'm 25. Well technically 24 right now, but I turn 25 literally a week from today and there's a zero percent chance I lose my virginity by then.
I'm shy, skelly and have little social life. I only leave my house to go biking or to go slaving 8 hours a day for 5 days a week.
I am 24. I have never actually tried to interact with a female in a non-platonic way. Or even in a platonic way really.
>>24826500
Happy birthday, anon
We're all gonna make it.
>>24820253
20
>I don't leave the house
>24
>kissless virgin
never talked to women properly either
>>24820253
23
I'm a king of manlets who's mildly overweight and balding. I also have a prominent bird neck and mouth-breather face, and I never really show any facial expressions beyond scowling. People say I'm weird, too. Essentially, I have nothing going for me on any level, so I keep to myself and try not to tarnish the few things that are beautiful in this world.
>>24824933
Mid 20s virgin here.
What else can we do if no one will have sex with us? Lifting only does so much...if you have bad facial features and/or are autistic or shy, you're pretty much done for.
>>24820253
21
never tried getting laid
because i rather be on the internet
29
Guess I never tried, but only because I know they wouldn't like me. Because I don't even like me.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
I'm 22
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I'ma transsexualand I hate myself and my body
>>24820587
Cali here too senpai? What part? Would you date an older guy? 27.
24
I still have the same horrible acne that I did as a teenager and it makes me have no confidence to talk to people let alone try to get with a girl
Anyone here doesn't care?
I'm 25, I stopped caring about women and sex when I was eighteen or so. Not in a "fuck them they're all whores" sense, but I just lost my drive and interest. I don't even want a gf.
>>24822396
you are me, but stopped to care about this
29
I have a micro penis and had a bad experience when I was about to lose my virginity when I was 15
Lost every ounce of confidence in myself that I had and never attempted to be intimate with a girl again.
24
Schizoid personality disorder + depression combo is not easily overlooked.
21
I've never made an attempt to get involved with a girl romantically and flings are not something I'm interested in pursuing so those don't help, although I have the following traits that I assume won't make it any easier if I do decide to go for it one day.
>Unattractive (probably a 5/10 at my absolute best and that's likely being generous).
>Nothing particularly interesting about me. I'm intelligent enough to make it seem like I have a lot to say when I decide to but I have no true passions, hobbies or ambitions
>Very negative attitude. I'm capable of seeing the positive side to things but more often than not I catch myself being morose, negative or expressing my distaste for something. The closer I am to someone, the more I constantly talk about wanting to die as well. I imagine it becomes too much for a lot of people.
20
NEET life, no social skills (can barely support any conversation even online), boring personality, extreme fear of rejection (of any type, not just romantic), unrealistic standards.
Any Virgin fembots wanna lose their V card with an experienced guy? I'll make it awesome. I won't even make it awkward if you don't know what to do. I'll just be encouraging.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
28, on my way to wizardry
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
as surprising as it sounds, i'm not ugly.
i'v been told that i was handsome on many occasions and girls hit on me every time i go outside.
the thing is i'm an autistic fuck who rarely go outside and panic when a girl try to talk to me, i dump all my spaghetti
19
I've lived in southern states of North America all my life, and nothing will change others' perception of me except for an amount of time longer than I'll be alive.
>How old are you guys?
28
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I cannot tell if a woman is into me or not, and I just don't know how to go about taking things further so I just really don't try. Maybe I just need to fail a few times. I mean I have tried with two women over the course of a year and got turned down both times. I just don't ask any girl out, I have to know them a bit first and then decide if we are compatible enough for me to take that risk to throw that relationship into the trash by admitting my attraction to them.
Also I am still a bit reclusive. Use to be a reclusive NEET for around four years. Now I work a night time job and only go out for errands or for my job. That doesn't give me many opportunities to meet people, and I wouldn't want to try to hit on some girl on a cash register, they are there just trying to do their job. I wouldn't like it if someone was doing something that would cause me discomfort and I was unable to really leave my station as well.
>How old are you guys?
18
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I have never had a female friend, my social life is nonexistent.
>>24821939
EXCUSE ME, that is not how we talk to wizards on this board you little shit.
Show some respect
19, anxiety combined with a special snowflake mentality.
I feel too special to let just any girl take my virginity, but seeing as how I'm not Chad it doesnt work out.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
24
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I'm boring and can't trust anyone anymore. I'm also too lazy to maintain friendships, don't care to meet new people or socialize in general - I don't like partying or clubbing or whatever either. I don't have much money and even if I did, I wouldn't spend on a gold digging whore. I'm 4/10 in the looks department so basically I have nothing going for me and not much of a future.
20 F
I'm still within normal years right guys? I honestly just had a tight group of friends and then started becoming more of a introvert age 17, don't have great self esteem but certainly don't think I'm undateable
23
I have this fucked up personality because I was raised in the wrong the wrong environment. Mexican on the outside and white washed American on the inside.
I can't make friends with either.
Pretty sure there's some black robots in here that feel the same way.
>>24820525
I only like what I can't have women tier retarded logic.
It's not a personality trait, everyone who does this is simply retarded, a little introspection might help you, but bitching on 4chan sure is better.
19
I'm ugly. That's all. My face is 3/10 at best. That's literally the only reason why and I can't do anything about it. This is the only acceptable reason, everything else and it's your own fault for being a sperg.
>B-b-but muh avoidant personality
Get your shit together.
I lost mine when I was 17 :^)
>>24835427
on r9k this comment is original xD
>>24832548
>>sleep in the same bed
>>mfw I didn't do shit about anything
yea, she 100% thinks you're a faggot
Already in 20's
Mental disordered.
All my gfs break up with me before we get to sex. :(
>19
>tfw legally contracted male model under a professional agency
>been explicitly offered sex at least 5 times
>been in bed with girls trying to get me to fuck them twice
>can't go farther than making out with any of them because ive never gotten over my first oneitis from when I was in high school
>freeze up and have to go home whenever girls make sexual advances
sigh
>>24820607
>>24820626
>>24820643
>>24829386
>>24835195
Jesus fucking christ, normalshits get the fuck out.
I would literally shit on your faces if I could for passing up on an opportunity I've never been close to be given. Fuck your normal ass.
19
Ugliness/Being gaming neckbeard/Superiority complex from the times I was a class clown but still pretty popular (am a KHV)
Giving it a year or two maybe three before completely giving up
>How old are you guys?
24
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I have no desire for any sort of romantic or sexual relationship or encounter.
Also, even if I was interested, Social Anxiety, Have Legit Aspergers Syndrome, 5'6" manlet, no car/drivers license, still live at home, the list goes on...
Honestly, I think all the reasons, even the disinterest in such relationships can probably be traced back to my Autism.
>>24820253
>How old are you guys?
18
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I lost my verginity at 16 but haven't had any female contact since then.Mainly because i am very shy and have very high standarts.
>19
>parents are incredibly religious
>don't want to go behind their back because I respect their opinions as long as i'm living in their home
>I find one night stand culture disgusting
Not that interested in sex anyways.
>>24836977
So you're basically a fag.Did the priest molest you as a child?
>19
>dont date people I dont know well, hard time trusting, scared to put out too easily and get dumped
>How old are you guys?
19
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
Coward. I've literally had girls ask me out but I turned them down because I was scared
23
raised to be antisocial - parents didn't have any friends, legitimately don't think they've had sex since I was born, sleep in separate rooms. Grew up being preached to that sex is the worst thing two people can do, anything that had sex in it on tv was filth, people who had healthy sex lives were filth, etc.
I don't believe any of it, haven't for years, but by a certain age if you haven't developed social skills it's all over, I've tried.
>got my first few dates with a girl at 21, first kiss, etc. sperged out on the third date though, pretty much killed that
>asked girl out once this year, she said yes, then the day before I found out she was just using me and openly mocking me on her twitter, so I just called it off
>joined social soccer league - everybody on the team were friends previously and I'm the odd newcomer. Multiple occasions of inviting then uninviting me to things. I'm also the weakest link on the team, so they all resent me a little for that.
>made an okcupid account - girl at work found it, showed it to all of the other sales girls, they all had a hearty laugh at me
It's not just girls either, I've proven completely incapable of forming significant friendships at all. There's no hope for me.
20
I'm becoming a priest
27. As much as I end up fantasizing and daydreaming about having bareback sex and cumming inside the pussy, I could never actually go through with it even if I had the chance. I never ever want to have children, and abstinence is the only fully effective contraception- I oppose murdering potential people, don't trust anyone to tell the truth about being on birth control, or that a thin piece of rubber won't break or spill over- would make me too worried and anxious to even enjoy the sex, not to mention sex with a condom and having circumcised penis not even worth it.
Sometimes I imagine what it would be like having a gf that is infertile for some reason, and I could hit it raw all day and night. Then again if she cheated on me and gave me some nigger STD I'd probably want to kill her, so fuck it, I'm better off being a virgin for life- never have to worry about having kids, catching STDs or getting keked. You can't be a kekold if you're a virgin, right?
Soon 20. It's because I can't/don't approach them or ignore any that show interest. It fucking sucks to be born with everything right before your eyes but being autistic.
>>24821785
It's not too late bro, I did the same thing when I turned 23 and now i have a qt gf. You're gonna make it bro.
23 bit I'm not a virgin anymore since I lost it 2 weeks ago. She did all the work. Coming onto me and seducing me so I had it pretty easy. I literally just stood there as this girl flirted and seduced me hardcore. If she hadn't I'd still be a virgin.
>>24832537
>21. I don't get women. I don't understand how they work. Oh, I can make vague social niceties, but when it comes to making any of the sort of overtures that come naturally to everyone else I have no.fucking clue. I spent that period of time where everyone figures it out in middle school playing halo and reading books. Then I went to an all guys school, so by the time I got to college I'm missing this whole catalog of experiences I'm apparently supposed to share with everyone else, that they just assume I have. Any advice given assumes I've got some base knowledge and that I'm just not applying it correctly.
fuck, are you me?
What exactly do you want from women?
