Soooooo my bf wants me to kek him and I dunno how I feel about that.
Obv I'll do anything to make him happy but I'm worried he'll get hurt. So far he's just wanted me to do stuff like stroke his dick while humiliating him about how the guys in my past were better than him (2bh like ... he's prolly the least dominant guy I've been with and he really is shorter and less endowed than any of them ... like I really don't care at all cause he's cute and I love him but I have a lot to material to use on him hahha). Doing that is ... p fucking weird for me desu but like ... it makes his dick diamonds so hey why not? But obv once this turns from fantasy to real life it gets so much scarier.
I'm worried that if I do what he's asking for he'll have the same feelings as if I had cheated even tho it was consented to. Asked for or not, I still would be going to bed with another dude who is more manly than him and making him feel like he wasn't good enough for me.
Should I do it? How do I not hurt his feelings?
>>24816797
Assuming this is not a troll, if you want your relationship to last into marriage and longer don't fucking do it, but if you don't care about him then do it. Its that simple
probably a bait post but I'll reply. I dont' have any experieince with this but my first thought is that neither of you are prepared for you to enjoy fucking someone else.Think about that part as you think of all teh other parts.
>Should I do it?
It will almsot certainly destroy the relationship. There is no question about that.
>How do I not hurt his feelings?
get him to join a gym and actually start to become more dominant. He sounds like a pushover.
>>24816797
This cannot be real
its what he wants, i dont think keks end up hating their s.o often. do you want to do it? does anything about it seem sexy to you? if not maybe dont do it? but if he says stop you should stop immediately.
Sorry but your relationship is over. If you don't want to waste time just cut it off now.
>>24816844
Do you have any statistics according to which consensual kekolding leads to martial dissatisfaction?
Cause last time I checked, this place wasn't really flooded with real-life relationship experience or especially psychologically insightful people who grok other minds.
>>24816875
>my first thought is that neither of you are prepared for you to enjoy fucking someone else.
Ya that's it. Obv it'll get shitty if I just random start fucking dudes hahah. I don't know how to get us prepared for this tho.
I've been thinking maybe like ... going slow? I could do stuff like flirt with a guy in front of him at a party or something and if he likes it I could do more. Obv I need to tend to his feelings and make it clear that it's not real. I dunno.
I don't even know who would be good to choose desu. Like ... I want to fuck my bf. I don't really want to fuck anyone else but I'm not prude. Getting some stranger would be just gross. Exes are off limits. I had a fwb who I was with before bf (and a little but during the first bit of our thing lol) who would be good. Maybe someone from our friend group? A coworker? I dunno.
>get him to join a gym and actually start to become more dominant. He sounds like a pushover.
Fuck you he's awesome. He's not a pushover he's just not that macho. I liek it.
>>24816797
Just fucking do it.
Give the little faggot what he wants.
Or. Take him in-hand (LDD) and forge him into something better.
Describe him to us, briefly. More than you already have.
>>24816924
>
Cause last time I checked, this place wasn't really flooded with real-life relationship experience or especially psychologically insightful people who grok other minds
Why post here then? Why even bother if you already know the answer? Just curious.
>>24816797
>>>/adv/
>>24816924
It's been proven statistically the more promiscous a person is the more chances there are of them being unhappy and not being able to have a lasting relationship with another.
>>24817092
Go away kek, your autistic fetish is literally ruining people.
>>24817090
I would try making a video of yourselves fucking before he sees someone else fuckign you. That might be the thrill he's looking for.
>>24817204
I'm not a kek, though I've dealt with them in the past.
Op's bf is literally ASKING for it.
>>24816877
...dude shut up. Sooooooo me people like this fetish it's not that weird (well ... it's weird af desu but it's common hahha). After he told me I was researching crap to say to him and I found soooooooooooo much of it hahhahah.
>>24816921
Fuck you. Our relationship is otherwise amazing. If it weren't I wouldn't even consider this.
>>24816901
>do you want to do it? does anything about it seem sexy to you?
Umm ... it drives him craaaaazy and I love doing that. Most. Intense. Orgasms. Ever. So like ... if it makes him feel like that then it'll make me feel like that. He gets all excited and weak and aroused and sub-y and stuff. It's p awesome.
Making up humiliating stuff to say to him is kinda fun desu. Like ... I like teasing him playfully anyway and I like writing and acting so it's like play acting. 2bh I had never even thought anyone would have this fetish before he told me about it so it's neat to figure out how to play a new role. The roleplaying thing is def fun.
And like ... I'm very happy with monogamy but ... well, having something new would be fun I guess hahha. I love my bf and think he's sexy but like ... there are other kinds of sexy that he isn't hahaha. The unattachedness of it is just kinda meh but if could be hot.
ONLY MEN SAY DICK DIAMONDS
I SEE U FAKER AND HAVE CAST THE LIGHT OF TRUTH
YOU ARE NOT FEMAIL
>>24817346
>Fuck you. Our relationship is otherwise amazing. If it weren't I wouldn't even consider this.
No, it's over in his mind. It's not just some fetish, you're not marriage material to him.
If you do it once, he'll likely want it again.
>>24817398
>implying I don't remember stuff from this shitty site
>implying I don't like reading about dicks
I think you don't know what girls are.
>>24817267
Hmm. Could do. Ya ... if there's keks here plz, any advice on stuff I could do to bf to get him off would be gr8.
>>24817204
Gee that's nice. Nigga I'm not promiscuous.
>>24817092
>Describe him to us, briefly.
He's really cute and fills me with warm fuzzies. Umm ...he's really funny and creative and intelligent. He's ... kind of a cutesy quiet boy and we're sorta nerdy home bodies together. I dunno. We get along. We're connected.
Mods pls prune this cuc.kshit thread
>>24817547
>Blah blah blah, a bunch of gushy feelgood bullshit.
You two seem pretty vanilla. Most women I know who kek their partners have a certain amorality about them.
So who the fuck knows.
I think it could impact your relationship negatively, to be honest. He probably doesn't know how to deal with his insecurity so he sexualized it. Fucking keks.
Your call, OP.
>>24817479
Ya that's another part of this. 2bh like ... he's rllllly into this fetish so the more I encourage it the more it'll prolly take up our sex life.
I mean ... it could end up like having a bf who is an orbiter. I'm worried that if I encourage this enough he's just gonna lose sexual confidence altogether and we won't be able to have a healthy sexual relationship before.
...2bh I think he might kinda be a sex addict or something.
>>24817714
Confirmed for baiting troll. Back to b for you.
>>24817765
What? How is that not a valid concern. This fetish is me jacking him off while I choke him a lil and tell him how much bigger my ex's penis was or how telling him stories about how I was fucking his roommate when he was at work. Like ... it's just for fun but it's p fucked up and extreme so I have to be worried.
>>24817704
>You two seem pretty vanilla
Not really. We have a cozy relationship but we're both kinda pervs 2bh hahahah. Like ... before this we mostly did bdsm stuff and incest roleplay hahhah.
>Most women I know who kek their partners have a certain amorality about them.
Oh? How do they usually feel about the whole thing? How does it make them feel about their partners?
Also ... I am amoral. It's not like I'd care about his feelings if I didn't love him. I just don't want to fuck up something that's good for us.
>>24817930
Your writing style. You're either bait or an idiot.
>>24817946
Gee thanks. This is 4chan dude. Everything here is shit anyway so I feel comfortable writing informally to simulate how I speak.
>>24818032
There is a board called advice. Use it.
>>24818109
I did (no one posted a reply ;__;).
>>24818137
What is roast beef?
>>24818137
Good
This shit is the most disgusting trash in /r9k/ right now and I feel bad for any other board it's been on
>>24818137
Post a picture with the time and date. Cover your face if you so desire.
>>24816797
You should take him to therapist, this is not normal, this is trauma, or something like that.
OP the problem lies within the whole fetish complex of your bf. He has been told and believes that he is inadequate (by others before you, likely growing up) and likely has low self esteem due to his dependence on porn, and has to have more extreme fetishes and shock value for arousal. The problem is when you bring other people into this scenario, it makes a fantasy a reality. Now you he has to deal with the possibility that someone is actually better than him at pleasing you, as in this isn't a fantasy anymore but a reality, and he'll actually see your facial expressions and see you do things you probably haven't with him. This will follow him outside the bedroom and that's why personally I wouldn't do this. If you do, you'd be better off with a stranger because if you use your old FWB, you'll still have sexual chemistry with him.
>>24816797
Leave that fucking faggot
>>24816797
nice kekposting, faggot
>>24817147
>Why post here then? Why even bother if you already know the answer? Just curious.
I don't know the answer.
>>24817204
>It's been proven statistically the more promiscous a person is the more chances there are of them being unhappy and not being able to have a lasting relationship with another.
No.
And I know precisely what statistic you're talking about, and 1. it doesn't say that, 2. it says nothing about the OP's position.
>>24818515
>He has been told and believes that he is inadequate (by others before you, likely growing up)
I think that might be part of it 2bh. I think he has healthy self-confidence now but we're in our mid twenties. Earlier in his life he had problems with fitting in and I think that might not have left him.
It shows up in some of the stuff he likes me to say 2bh. He's pretty short and he clearly gets off on me talking about tall guys, comparing him to them and all that. The stuff about cheating is obviously that, but the height thing seems like it's prolly about self-esteem.
>dependence on porn, and has to have more extreme fetishes and shock value for arousal.
That I know happened to him. He looks a porn a LOT.
>Now you he has to deal with the possibility that someone is actually better than him at pleasing you
The best sex is with someone you care about so that won't happen. Sexual pleasure is great but it's not that big of a deal. 2bh I mean ... if I were with my old FWB, I probably feel better physically but I definitely wouldn't emotionally, and you can't separate those thing.
