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If you ever got a GF, how would you prevent her from being a slut?
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If you ever got a GF, how would you prevent her from being a slut?
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>>24803918
Satisfy her sexually
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>>24803918
There are lots of ways to emotionally and mentally abuse women which, when used properly, will eventually result in them being completely and helplessly dependent on your approval.
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>>24805436
This.
Make her feel ugly and inadequate, she will stick to you because she will think she can't get any better.
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Manipulation is the only way. Women will always attempt to get the approval of others, if you freely give her yours she will look for it from others. You have to keep her down physically and emotionally, or else she will stray.
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>>24805436
the DENNIS system doesnt work dammit
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>>24805436
>>24805466
Until she realizes she can and leaves you for Chad.
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>>24805592
Forgot to mention that I am a chad. Whoops
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>>24805592
If you manipulate well this well never happen.
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Ask her to help me install a door to my basement.
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>>24805592
I dont think you understand the extent of manipulation and abuse that I am describing.
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>>24805436
Teach me, senpai

Im ready to learn
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>>24805736
Are you still in the thread?

>>24805750
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Why would I not want her to be a slut? She would simply be my slut and not cheat on me. You virgins seriously would want a prudish gf who hates sex?
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>>24803918
>>24805436
>>24805466
>>24805471
>>24805645
>>24805736
HAHA

You cannot control how most people act. This is a futile and also detestable way to live.

A girl will not fuck around on her man if she feels he is her best. Let me explain what that means:
>He satisfies me sexually
>He satisfies me emotionally
>He engages me with rewarding interests (with him)
>He supports interests I find rewarding (without him)

another one, funnily enough is:
>he has that "good" that I know other women would want him, but he saves himself for me

And thus she saves herself for him.
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>>24805913
Good analysis
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>>24805913
>A girl will not fuck around on her man if she feels he is her best
yes, yes she will
women are like spoiled kids, once she gets a nice toy she immediately wants the better one
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>>24805750
First and number one rule: function under the pretense that you are better than them in every single way. You are better than their family, their friends, and every stranger they could possibly meet. You need to make them feel like the relationship you two have is some kind of secret club that you're letting her in on. It helps to make fun of her friends and plant seeds of anti-social behavior early. Your gfs close friends are your worst enemies. They inform her, they will contradict you at every chance they get. They need to be out of the picture. Isolation is the name of the game.

Once her social life has fallen apart, she will begin to fear what her life would be like without you. She would have nobody, having ditched her friends for you, there is no longer a safety net. This social safety net is probably the biggest thing allowing an SO to cheat. Friends of one sex means friends of both, and that is the window into the outside. Without it, they have nothing. Ending the relationship without this safety net means she would most likely end up pulling some dumb girl move, like moving to a new city, or becoming gay.

Try to prey on insecurities they already have. Weight, height, race, family life, income bracket, her ability to walk in heels, level of education, speech pattern, teeth, whatever. To be clear, I'm NOT talking about negging. Try to present the situation as you are the only person who could possibly put up with those things which she hates about herself. Obviously plenty of people would be fine dating a poor girl, or a girl with bad skin, or whatever. They must be convinced thats not true. She is too dumb, too poor, too tall, short, slow, cross-eyed, for ANYONE but you. Youre approval is what matters because nobody else is being genuine to her. Whenever anyone else compliments her or shows interest, they are just feigning. It is a white lie. They are just being nice. You are the only person who has ever been truly honest to her.
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>>24805943
If she cheats, she mostly likely did not feel he was her best. That and/or she felt unfulfilled in one or more of the items I listed >>24805913
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>>24805913
>Implying people are easily satisfied
>Implying people settle
>Using incredibly generic troupes

Hai guys as long as u share interests and have a mutual understandin, compassion, and love then ur relationship will last forever :D
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>>24805913
Partly true. However, depending on the girl, she may still cheat no matter how sexually satisfied you make her.
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>>24805973
Do you think this boy would make a husband?
Do you want to be like this boy?
He is a boy, not a man
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>>24805913
see, because of those things, if I got a gf, I couldn't stop her from being a slut. I'd have trouble with all five of those elements, to varying extents.

Come to think of it, I could probably only obtain a gf if she was already a slut, and was therefore not picky and just looking for someone to occupy her time until she found someone better.
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>>24805973
This is how I used to live. I've had sex countless times and was always the cheater and never the kek. I hate myself more than anything.
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>>24805973
sounds like you have lots of experience hurting people
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>>24803918
I'm a Muslim
I will get a Muslim GF
Problem solved
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>>24806030
Boys have swag, men have class.
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>>24806021
I do understand. Such can be the overwhelming urge of sex. But if she really cares about her man, EVEN THOUGH she cheats, she most likely will genuinely feel VERY bad about having done it, and will be open to talking about it (rather than RAH RAH RAH BUT ME BUT NOT ME BLAH)

And also, polyamory is very real (though it may not always be the case)
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The people who think they can manipulate them are delusional. It would work if you were in a deserted island or when the girl has no contact with the rest of the world/has absolutely no loved ones. As soon as someone hears about the way you treat them, they will be smothered in sympathy and people telling them to get away from you.
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>>24806030
I'm not the guy who wrote this, but I did pretty much this exact thing to my girlfriend. She tells me she wants to marry me every day.
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>>24806009
I don't think people are easily satisfied: I think a relationship is about constantly moving to satisfy. Think of it this way: you walk with someone until they die.

Also, you don't have to share interests: just support them.

And those tropes you think are so generic are common for good reason...
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>>24806119
Just wait until she meets another suitor. You'll be in the dust in no time.
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>>24806119
Of course she does. She most likely feels in dire need of your spawn inside her.
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>>24806119
OP of that here:
>mah dood
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>>24806162
No youre not rofl I am faggot die
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>>24805973
This bro has is down ...but it would be easier to say

>1 take away self esteem
>2 rebuild self esteem around you

>no slut profit
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>>24806138
Yup, this too.

>>24806136
Why's that, faggot? Some 'nice guy' like you is gonna steal her away? The easiest way to make a girl need you is to act lime you don't need them. Same with sex, if you're trying your hardest to please her, it's going to turn her off. You have to treat her like a literal cumrag, like you're just using her to bust a nut and you don't give a fuck how she feels.
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>>24806162
>>24806189
Oops... I thought >>24806119 was responding to >>24805913 which is me

baka
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>>24806208
>calling out anon as faggot
>your insecurities showing faggot
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>>24805973
>>24805973
>>24805973
I dont know why there are already like 3 people here pretending to have written this. But I am OP.

Just to clear things up, I lived like this for years and it was because I was a messed up combination of socially skilled and incredibly depressed and angry. I have since stopped treating people like this and gone through some serious shit. I do not recommend treating anyone like this. That being said, if you don't care about a guilty conscience and want to keep someone from even thinking about being unfaithful, it does work. Would probably make some quality greentext now that I think about it.
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>>24806085
remorse is irrelevant, they still did it
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>>24806208
Listen up boy

fact of life no matter how good your are someone else is better

i have ruined more marriages than you have had step fathers

A woman in a long term relationship is the most easiest to tune and co-erce into cheating

it is almost laughably easy
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>>24806255
That's one way to feel about it, but consider that sex isn't always some BIG thing. However, if she really cultivating some life with some other nigga then yeah she can fuck the fuck off
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just how many samefags can there be in one thread
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>>24806284
...Are you not understanding the point of manipulating them into thinking you are the best option they will ever get.
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>>24806250
Anon are you me ?

Did you also have a toxic relationship Felicia Winch that was "open"
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By absorbing her into my being!
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>>24803918
>If you ever got a GF, how would you prevent her from being a slut?

By letting there be absolutely no doubt in her mind that I would kill her if she did.
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>>24806284
More likely you deepened cracks that were already there, where "ruining a marriage" would really mean introducing those cracks in the first place.

But like someone on this board is ruining marriages...
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>>24806320
...Are you self projecting what you feel when a woman shows some interest in you
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>>24806208
This has nothing to do with me. I'm just saying there's plenty of guys out there who will jump at a chance to "save" her from you.
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>>24806297
no matter how she may feel about the other guy that shit will still hurt no matter what she says. The point of relationships is do dedicate yourself to a single person and if they cheat, regardless of motives, you'll feel pretty fucked over
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>>24806320
They will have contact with people who are better than you and no matter how much you want to think women want to be abused, it's not to the extent you think it is. They like bad boys but they don't want to be treated like literal crap in a long-term relationship.
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>>24806038
Some would argue those elements are what a relationship is, so... without it you would only really be interested in casual sex (which a slut could indeed satisfy)
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>>24806321
No I am not and I did not but send pix of booty perhaps
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>>24806363
Hey this virgin gets it

Or here is a good way to get your g/f to not cheat

Dont wife an immoral slut
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>>24805703
Smart.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fritzl_case
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>>24806344
In her eyes, I'm perfect. She can't wait for me to pop the question, because she wants to spend the rest of her life with me.

Even if she somehow does leave, I've got girls lined up that I can pull the same shit on.

>>24806338
Grasping straws here, mate.
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You have to manipulate her as if she is nothing but a game to you.
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>>24806371
She has no friends or contacts outside of work and myself. And it's not like she realizes to the extent at which she's treated like shit, or that she's even being treated like shit at all. That's the point of manipulation.
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I'll marry her when she's old and busted and nobody wants her like every responsible male.
it's 2015.
Your options are that or open relationship. Deal with it.
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>>24806363
Very true, but also being in a relationship is seeing it through. For me, if she's willing to cheat again after already having addressed it, she's out

>>24806380
And you: don't be mean. Why would you come from a mean world to this board and be mean?
>Because you're sour
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>>24806384
Wow anon even i think i am in love with you from how studly you type/phrase on anon noodle boards
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>>24806380
yeah man
but you never really know whats going on in anyone's head but your own, human nature can kick in and ruin it all
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>>24806406
I was with a guy like you once and trust me, sooner or later she will have contact with someone or just get fed up of it on her own.
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>>24806419
this is turbokek
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I would make her wear a chastity belt which is only unlocked by my fingerprint.
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>>24806428
Most unsalty respose ever

well played faggot
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>>24806431
Lmao why are you guys so mad anyways, i thought this board was all about female hate

>>24806440
Sure thing, hun. Men are talking.
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>>24806320
>>24806371
>>24805466
>>24805471

what the fuck is wrong with all of you. Wouldn't you like someone who actually loves you and willingly wants to remain loyal to you? if you have to manipulate someone to stay that is meta keking. Maybe you guys should be less autistic basement crawlers.
>le manipulation
>diggin in the bowls of the human mind
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>>24806469
We also hate delusional autists.
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>>24806440
Fags are notoriously un faithful so what did you expect ?

Obviously aids i would assume
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this thread is a beacon to all whiteknights
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>>24806384
>In her eyes, I'm perfect. She can't wait for me to pop the question, because she wants to spend the rest of her life with me.
Lol, this is what my bf thinks too. Meanwhile I'm flirting with three other guys and about to go over to a fourth's house on Thursday. Not even trolling
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>>24806480
I'm arguing against manipulation but okay.
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>>24806419
>>24806446
I must admit: I think in recent generations, the numbers of tasteless girls/women has increased...
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>>24805973

i had one gf and I could testify this

she was gregarious and had many friends, the complete opposite of me


will do this again after i have game


another tip: when you get a girl deep in this state, dont ever leave her goddamnit.

she loves you deeply, you her.

appreciate what you have and invest on that
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>>24806480
>trusting women
not even once, buddy
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>>24806480
I like you anon

you truth well
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>>24806493
heh ok man
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>tfw no hit by a car bf
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>>24806493

I was feeling guilty when I started doing the same but realized that's like what everyone does. Can't believe how childish I was lol.
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>>24806493
For fuck's sake: you're NOT helping the case...

FOH actually. Your life is gonna go well, don't worry /s
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when did robots get girls ?
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>>24806492
Not being delusional about this autistic shit is not whiteknighting.
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>>24806504
>woman gave birth to you
>carried your degenerate body in the womb for 9 months
>skin stretched, vagina split to birth you
>grows up to be a deluded lonely faggot
i feel sorry for you more than anything
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>>24805436
Basically this. I turned a shy little virgin into a codependent cock hungry whore over the course of two years so she would essentially have sex with me every time we met (so like 3 times a week).
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>>24806484
You mean like every single person on this board? Look at yourselves. Complaint after complaint about why you don't have girlfriends and women hating, yet this shit spins you all straight into nice guy mode. It's literally some shit I would expect from a beta orbiter.
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>>24806529
I think robot-hood is like depression: it can be there even when things in life should make it go away or alleviate it.
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>>24806528
>tfw women think being degenerate makes them badass

The only way they can express their, "freedom," is fucking either more or less men.
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>>24805973
Bravo anon, explained it perfectly 10/10
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>>24806537
hehe kek

zl;vkcmasdf;jkaefoijhasdfl;kmczxc;ijoiera
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>>24805436

Any literature focusing on sociopathic behavior? I wish to study that for more success in social environments.
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>>24806428
main issue for me would be letting it go cause it'd sit in the back of my mind that she might do it again, but if you can address it and trust her afterwards that'd be alright i guess
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>>24806543
I don't see anyone whiteknnighting or going into nice guy mode. People are just saying this shit is retarded.
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>>24806570
how about you get a decent personality that doesn't revolve around chinese cartoons, racism, and misogyny rather than fapping to The Prince
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>>24806552
Well... unfortunately men can also feel the same way.

But like who's gonna wanna hold you in your later years when you fucking act like that? smdh
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>>24805973
>You are better than their family, their friends, and every stranger they could possibly meet. You need to make them feel like the relationship you two have is some kind of secret club that you're letting her in on.

What if it backfires and they start calling you narcissistic and selfish? It's probably too late at that point, right?
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>>24806589

Too old already. I need something that works from the get go and just requires polishing, rather than shooting in the dark.
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>>24806540
as have millions of guys since the dawn of man
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>>24806598
Arrogance and confidence look the same anyways.
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>>24806382

They are putting sand nigger invaders in that house

http://www.express.co.uk/news/world/607253/Josef-Fritzl-s-House-of-Horror-to-be-offered-to-ASYLUM-SEEKERS
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>>24806044
He probably didn't start out that way, it was learned.
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>>24806601
you're just a lazy piece of shit with no substance. don't ramble about it.
these usually work on weak minded men like you
Methods of Persuasion by Kolenda
Invisible Influence by Hogan
Neuro linguistic Programming by Smith
'Propaganda Technique in the World War' by Harold Lasswell (for spice)

cheers
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>>24806582
Well you have to NOT let it go right away. Healing in this situation is her not wanting to hurt you again because while she may not have fully felt the potential impact of her cheating before/during, NOW she KNOWS she has hurt you, and hurts BECAUSE she has hurt you, so she learns and adjusts (that is: if she does)
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1. HAVE A BIG PEEPEE
2. HAVE A BIG WALLET
3. BE TALL
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>>24806493
Sometimes I hope ISIS invades us.

Just so I get to watch them skin you all alive in the town square.
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>>24806652

Thanks senpai.
Sorry for being a disappointment but I'll try.
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>>24806716
>not automatically assuming it's a delusional ham planet or basement neckbeard
hello fetus
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>>24806716
troll feeder.
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Usually fucking her and not being a punk works. But if a girl wants to be a slut, i feel like she would find a way.
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>>24806781
>not being a punk works

If by punk you mean asshole, then you're wrong.
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That stuff seems very unhealthy

How do I do the opposite to build a healthy relationship?
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>>24806816
You cant pick a person to build a healthy relationship with. They need to be as interested in forming one as you do, if not more. This is why the whole oneitis thing is so bad, because you cant just pick someone and eventually have the ideal relationship with them after lots of hard work.
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>>24806837
My man clear-headed af
>listen
>this
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>>24805436
this is the only right answer, it might sound harsh but its the truth. if you disagree you are a cvck.
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>>24805973
>Isolation is the name of the game.
DING DING DING

seriously though, this guy gets it.
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>>24806492
I'd white her knights if you know what I know you know
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Instead of consuming books on how to control environment, people, try living it, put it to practice

A book: >>24806652 is a long shot

Have any kind of substance, any kind of interests, be fit. Look healthy. That's it. We live in a compartmentalized world of compartmentalized people. Showing off your interests while taking care of your body. Not steroids, not "six-packs". Make your body goals simple, strong, your posture right, your tone clear and your interests occupying you. "Fetch" everything else only in time of need. Work/go to school/college, whatever, and maintain your interests. Involve in the interests of others only if they are related to yours or you feel the need to connect. You

Everyone jacks off to being unique
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>>24805910
Yes desu sempai. That way she would never cheat.
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See now you could try and do all this bullshit recommended by armchair psychologists in order to get inside a puss, but I have a much better solution.
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just don't let her have a cell phone
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>>24805973
In this kind of relationship now. I've beaten her parents. She literally never sees them at all. I told her they were the abusive ones, they were the ones hurting her and trying to control her etc. These people are literally begging her for money because they have barely anything to their name, she says no even when they ask for a small amount say 20 pound or so.

I'm planning a weekend away with her in a 200 pound a night hotel while they could be living in the streets next time someone comes knocking.

It's amazing really. I don't even know how I let it get this far.
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Abuse tips 101 here
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>>24803918

Hit her and threaten to kill her family if she ever betrays you

Violence is the only thing people understand, words do nothing
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>>24805913
>>He satisfies me sexually
>>He satisfies me emotionally
>>He engages me with rewarding interests (with him)

AKA chad

What if you're not chad what if there's a guy who satisfys her better normalscum then what
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>>24805973
I know exactly what you mean anon. In my 1.5 year relationship I didn't even intent to do exactly what you said but I did, without even intending to. Just one time I took it a step too far and she 180'd.

Another thing, acting and starting arguments about her being a slag before she met you EVEN IF SHE ACTUALLY WASN'T is the perfect way to make her feel like nothing. She will feel like she is not worthy of anything. Then you rebuild her confidence with your words, which shapes it around you.

She had one close friend who only talked about herself and didn't talk about the ex gf at all. That was easy. 'She's selfish. She doesnt care about you. She was the reason for this, for that, when all you needed was someone to talk to, she couldn't even do that'.

Luckily, I don't have a conscience at all it seems, all the shit I did literally doesn't phase me.
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>>24808526
Fuck off you soft cunt
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>>24803918
Break her legs, lock her in your cellar.
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