Any other fembots /grewupwithoutadad/? This shit hit me like a ton of bricks...
http://thoughtcatalog.com/shannon-bendell/2015/03/what-its-like-to-be-a-fatherless-daughter/
>>24800172
Is the 'become a slut for male attention' thing real or a meme?
Did he die or did you piece of shit mom not hold him down like a decent woman?
>>24800235
Eh, for some girls it is I guess. If there's a guy I'm becoming attached to, I find myself more willing to go out of my way to please him because I'm afraid of losing him. I don't think I'd ever go slutty though.
>>24800244
Latter.
>>24800352
Would you kick dirt in the face of someone who truly cares for you in exchange for you're 6'3 footballer crush?
>>24800352
>you will never have a sexuall abusive father who turns you into his personal secret fucktoy
Because my father is dead
>>24800564
I'll fill in for him if you want :^)
>>24800886
no ty fuck off thirstlord betamax
>>24800910At least my father's still alive
>>24800940
aww. little baby manchild got rejected so now he has to resort to being an ass instead. how cute :)
>>24800564
are you a slut?
>>24800910
rude
>>24800547
He doesn't need to be a Chad, just someone who genuinely loves me, and it needs to be twice as much to make up for the love I never got from my Dad.
My gf never had a father (she black). She calls me "daddy" sometimes. Weirds me out sorta
>>24801004
We talking clingy tier here?
>>24800172
Not a fembot but i grew up without a dad, it sucks :(
I have father and mother when younger but they are both killed in car crash, is still hard to think of at some times. Was quite a few years ago but I thinking of it still especially with Christmas almost here.
>>24801017
is it even possible for black women to not take an L
>>24801004
>there are women that like clingy men out there
Marry me
>>24801004
That's sweet, but you need to realize any man is going to be just that, a man.
Nobody is perfect and while they will try to fulfill all of your needs, they will likely not be able to.
How old are you, anyways?
>>24801086
That's awful. How long has it been?
hopeless robot raised by single mom here
fatherless homes destroy children
women are horrible tier parents
>all these men who like women with daddy issues
are there women who like men with mommy issues?
I don't think men can understand what not having a daddy is like to a girl.
Yeah you guys are attached to your mothers, but they're not like these benevolent demi-gods in your eyes.
>>24801199
>Yes, but they're an extreme minority among women
>>24801180
It has been 5 years. I was 14.
>>24801233
Oh man, that's horrific. It's not like you were a toddler and unable to remember them. You knew them. The memories are all there. My biggest condolences. I hope you find joy and peace this Christmas. I cannot even imagine your pain.
>>24801224
>but they're not like these benevolent demi-gods in your eyes.
I think you underestimate some men's mommy issues
>>24801224
I can understand being fatherless makes you a dumpster trash hoe
>>24801199
>men with mommy issues?
Violent misogynists and manchildren appeal to nobody
>>24801224
I loathe my mother and despise my father.
I want to be nothing like either of them.
>inb4 edgy
I'm 30 years old and can see them for the people they really are.
>>24801224
I've read that the relationship to your parent of opposite sex is more important than the same sex one.
>sons needing a mother
>daughters needing a father
If I had a daughter, I'd never abandon her. I might abandon the mother if she gives me reason to but I would never leave my daughter. Worst comes to worst, I'll just take her and flee the country.
>>24801263
Very kind of you to say these things. Like I am saying is hard some time. But is good to see happy and joy of families and such this time of year too, brining smile to my face that people still take advantage of time with family (also little jealousy haha).
>>24801285
Pretty much.
Even if I got to meet my dad he'd hate me for being a worthless whore.
Oh well, fate's a cruel bitch
>>24801295
Yeah that's right! that's why all those thugs out there are just lonely virgins and all the guys who get good grades in school and don't do drugs are swimming in pussy! those little violent thug manchildren who haven't learned maturity yet are just left out to dry like the fucking losers they are!
would it have helped if, besides mom, you were also raised by a fatherlike figure, say a grandpa or uncle who was always there for you?
>>24801344
>I'll just take her and flee the country
You cant do that moron. The political and social system favors the mother at ALL TIMES.
>>24801345
I recognize you (^: qt Russian stripper
>>24801466
How? It has been week and I am only posting in very few threads.
>>24801199
only girls can get away with that shit because they live life on easy mode.
>>24801466
>Stripper
And any respect or empathy is gone
>>24800235
not necessarily a meme. pic related :)
But technically I'm not a slut. Dad died, raised in a catholic household, went to catholic school, still go to mass, etc. I'm just a horrible fucking catholic but I'm still a virgin, only ever kissed one dude, etc. Also, this is like the 2nd time I've posted an ass pic anywhere.
Anyway >>24800172 I reaaaally feel like that author should've specified what it's like to be a fatherless daughter when your dad walks out on you vs. when you had a really really amazing unique man for a dude who died of unfortunate circumstances, whatever they may be. Growing up as someone with a dad who died is so so different from a girl who's dad sadly walked out.
>>24801498
I'd wager that your obvious english as second language typing, and your story would be giveaways.
My grandpa, my mother's dad, died when she was nine. Really fugged her up.
Keep your heads up, fatherless fembots,and know that, if we knew each other, I'd pound the shit out of your pussies if that's what you wanted.
>>24801514
Please leave my Church entirely if you're going to be a "bad Catholic"
>24800172
That was not even close to my personal experience.
My father was a literal deadbeat.
he was in his late twenties fucking a 15-16 year old. my mom had my older brother at a month away from being 18. my father eventually became addicted to street drugs via prescription pain meds he got for a work injury.
then she caught him fucking too many chicks and got hit too many times/he was threatening to beat my brother and cut ties. then she found out she was pregnant with me after she left.
I didn't know the full story until i was about 15 myself so my mom didn't poison the well. she just never spoke about him. i remember finding one of those pictures with his face ripped off. I did hear bits and pieces being a nosy kid and listening to my mom talk on the phone when she thought i was busy in my room or outside. My personal childhood hatred of him/men came from my own first hand interactions with my father and other men.
we went and saw him a number of summers for a few weeks at a time starting when i was 9 ish. he didnt spend any one on one time with me, just pushed me onto whatever female family members were around. unlike the girl in the story that only got to imagine her father didn't give two shits about her mine literally didn't. he stopped bothering with talking to me/sending cards at around age 12. my older brother and him kept in contact sporadically.
It's true I don't trust men until they have given me good reason to.
>tfw only recently got my first bf at 29
>>24801411
I feel like it did for me, though my positive male role models were all teachers. my biological family is kind of shit obviously.
>>24801520
Haha is true, but like I say I am not posting in many threads. You look at every one?
>>24801086
I'm >>24801514. My bro's at military school rn and his roommate's parents died when he was little. if you don't mind me asking, what's it like (besides the obvious heartbreak)? Who took you in? Were you lonely as a result? Do you still tear up/burst into tears just thinking about them? Do you keep things as momentos of them close to you?
That's really sad and I'm so sorry. like >>24801263 said, please have a good christmas.
>>24801553
I'm somebody else, but your grammar is distinct, and if I had heard your story before, I'd recognize it.
>fembots
I really hate this meme. Can we stop pretending these attention whores are robots now? Seriously.
>>24801541
>my church
Do we go to the same church?
>>24801041
Yeah, but loving clingy, not psychotic or abusive.
>>24801152
I know, I just want someone who cares.
>>24801411
My grandfather died when I was little and my mother is an only child.
>>24801587
All Catholic church's are in communion so yes technically.
>>24801590
I'd care if you gave me the chance.
>>24801616
Smooth Casanova
>>24801616
>>24801590
oh lord just take it to skype or something pls
>>24801614
ok actually true, my bad. it's fucking hard though man. I mean maybe it was catholic school but now I'm actually trying lol i'm just still shitty, as is obvious.
Proof that single mothers are shitwhen are you going to man up and ensure these little girls don't grow up into attention whores that browse /r9k/?
>>24801638
>I'm actually trying
Nevermind then
I don't mind people who actually make some sort of effort in the Church. Anything is better than the once a year "Catholics"I'd recommend deleting your ass picture
>>24801633
I've been called a lot of things, but never Casanova.
>>24801704
Don't worry anon, I was being sarcastic.
>>24801721
What a heart breaker.
>>24801616
That's sweet of you, but I don't really trust men on the internet, sorry.
>>24801514
I agree. If my mom hadn't cheated on him and then refused to let him see me, then I feel like I would have had a normal childhood. But, she was a bitch and decided to rob me of that.
>>24801590
Yeah. The crazy clingy ones can kind of be romanticized but loving clingy is nice. I had a long distance relationship with a clingy girl a few years ago, and she definitely spoiled me and made me clingier too by association. We were in skype calls literally all day every day when we were both home, even if we weren't really doing anything together, including her asking to stay in the call while we slept a couple times. It was turbo-sweet and endearing but I got used to it, so I have to keep reminding myself that that isn't normal.
>>24801736
Just to clarify I'm not the "girl" you were talking to
>>24801575
I have very bad grammar, I know this haha.
>>24801569
Is little hard to explain. Iwas always sad. And wanting to be with parents so badly I was wishing I was with them in car. I had emptyness isnide me, is smaller hole now but still there.
I was with care family, very nice persons but it was feeling like summer camp not my family. I was being very lonely when first it happened and had zero friends, because I was not looking for any and ignoring others. Very lonely. I have couple very good friends now. One invite me to CHristmas with her family but I am not wanting to be burden to them, she has own family.
I do not burst into crying anymore often but I play game of Life is Strange (is big game), hit me so hard.
I have nothing mother or father, just memories.
>>24801665
you know what I hate? People who say they're "Catholic lite". wtf is that. why not just be the agnostic you want to be.how do you delete a post wtf I didn't even know you could do that
>never having to meet her Dad
Pretty good feel.
>>24800172
It hit me just recently that I fall in love with guys that are just like my dad--including that they're never around.
>>24801771
Instead of listening to her you should post more ass desu.
>>24801758
I figured as much.
>>24801749
I get the feeling that you don't trust men in general.
You should work on that.
>>24801771
Click the little box next to your post, then scroll to the bottom of the page and press the delete button. You can check the file only box.
>>24801749
Kinda same-ish, after my dad died, my mom had an affair with some dude who had a family. It's funny cos she'd constantly compare us to his kids, so she'd be like "Femanon, you're so close to his first son's age! You could be friends!" Later cheated on 3 dudes at the same time. Sucks having your innocence taken away.
>>24801770
wait lol is this b8 or something or do you not speak English too well? If it's real, I just wanna give you a big big big hug ;-; don't spend christmas alone tho anon, you deserve to feel loved<3
>>24801771
I agree about that. People who don't care at all have no place in the Church. They should really bring back the old customs. No non-Christians in mass and make it clear that no faith is the same as not being a Christian.
Tick the gray box next to anonymous then scroll to the bottom of the thread. Click delete (tick the gray box that says File only for just the picture)
>>24801800
degenerate pls go
>>24800172
Yep. He died and it fucking sucks.
>>24801800
catholic girl ass is gr8, I know. Also, that's not a "her" anon.
>>24801854
True, true. But since when has no faith not meant not being a christian? It's always been that, right?
>>24801828
b8?
I am Russian. I try to use English but is very hard. Is easier on internet with typing because I can cheat a little bit with google.
Thank you for kind words. I am thinking of doing volunteer in Christmas, many persons are alone on this day like me, not good.
>>24800968
Kek go fill those daddy issues with dick. sorry you'll never know the feeling of having your dad read you bed time stories, or have him pick you up and twirl you around. Don't feel bad for you though since you're a cunt. Not even the guy you responded to.
>>24801770
I think you should meet somebody very nice with a nice family to sort of bring you into. You have extended family too? Just take the love where the love is.
>>24801898
He has good figure then. Why so rusemaster?
>>24801939
I like that you're here qt Russian stripper, you're just easy to spot is all.
>>24801898
"But since when has no faith not meant not being a christian?"
I couldn't tell you the exact day it happened but I seriously doubt most of the people claiming to be Christians and then unrepentantly fornicating, supporting homosexuality and abortion, or otherwise ignoring Christian teaching have any faith. It's mostly for tradition now (being raised "Christian" so marking it on a survey)
I will date literally any of you. -
>>24801948
I say before I am not wanting to burden others, they have own family and I will be extra wheel.
I have no family is just me, but I have two good friends :)
>>24801986
Haha thank you, I like it here. Is good I am easy to see or no?
>Good Catholic girl on here that actually understand her faith.
Where are you and why are you not in my life?
>>24801939
Aww ok anon I'm sorry, I think your english is great. I can only speak english and spanish but no Russian so you should be proud lol. And that's good then, I hope you have a fulfilling time<3
>>24801953
I dunno, I don't mean to be. Am I really that bad lol
>>24801994
Ohhh ok, I get what you mean now. honestly i don't think our new pope is doing us any favors. I liked him at first because of how much tumblr hyped him up since he's a borderline socialist but now I'm starting to see past all the bullshit.
>>24800172
I don't get this, she talks about it not being cool in the past for men to stick around, says men do not prioritize children, says her dad didn't love her or fight for her. But she says,
>my mother pushed him out the door
>I wish my mother could have known that her lies would mentally screw me up forever.
So... her mother tore apart the family and then poisoned her mind, and this was the effect? On what basis does she assume her father wanted nothing to do with her, given the reality of family court? I couldn't read very much of this.
This is what female privilege looks like and the damage it causes.
>>24802046
It Will happen naturally if you meet somebody you can love. Their family becomes your family. It's one of the perks ofmg marriage that everybody has forgotten about.
>>24802085
>honestly i don't think our new pope is doing us any favors.
I agree on that. Although I don't mind him. He's more orthodox than most people think.
He's against lukewarm "faith" and does support Extra Ecclesiam nulla salus
http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/pope-off-the-cuff-to-priests-religious-indifference-makes-god-vomit-69700/
http://www.catholicherald.co.uk/commentandblogs/2013/06/03/pope-francis-is-under-attack-for-saying-that-outside-the-church-there-is-no-salvation-its-a-poke-in-the-eye-says-one-presbyterian-why-hes-wrong/
>>24802054
Come to south florida and you'll find tons of Catholic girls (that aren't necessarily Mexicans).
>>24802145
link can't be found anon ;-;
>>24802085
Very kind of you to say these things. WOuld be bad if I could not speak Russian though I am thinking haha
>>24802089
It is good dream to have. Very nice to think of :)
>>24802162
They both work for me :/
And my aunt lives in South FloridaShe's a baahble Protestant though
>>24802162
>(that aren't necessarily Mexicans)
Cuban, Mexican, Puerto Rican, they're all mostly the same.And not that bad.
I just need one of them three states to the west.
>>24802086
a lot of people idolize the dead, she'll never truly know how he himself felt so shes putting it all on her mother, not much more she can do really whether her mother deserves it or not.
>>24802237
I think you misread my comment and the article. She faults both parents.
>my own father didn't love me enough to stick around... to fight for me, to fight to be a part of my life as my mother pushed him out the door
My question is on what basis she faults her dad, though I didn't read the whole thing. (Or if she recants blaming her dad later on, why is it in the article at all?)
>>24802189
Ew is she an Episcopalian
>>24802207
I'm 1/4 colombian 1/4 venezuelan so trust me, I'm not tryna be racist or anything. But the majority of them where I am, a little north from Miami, are Mexicans and Central Americans and they're kind of insane. Always moping around, always crying, always holding vigils for tiny insignificant events like a dog being run over.
>>24802349
That's a little too much for me.
I'll just have to settle for some coonass girl, I guess.
>tfw the girl I teach is clingy and has no dad
I show as much affection as I'm allowed.
Does anyone else have purple they live that they've only known for a short time?
People whom if they hurt you, you would show understanding and forgiveness to?
>>24802349
>Episcopalian
No (Thank the Lord), she's a baptist. Very much anti-Catholic. My oldest memory of her is actually of her talking shit about the rosary.
>>24802339
I she heavily implies that her father was also a victim of her mother. he didn't just leave, her mother pushed him out her life as well. she paints a sad, longing, sweet portrait of him towards the end via his interaction with his mother.spoiler: he blew his brains out after his mother passed away because he was such a good person he would never have burdened his mother knowing both of her sons killed themselves.
she makes it pretty clear that she feels her mother is "bad" one and her father was the "good" one.
>>24802371
Or go for a level-headed white-latina girl who doesn't have insane Aztec descent parents. to each their own though
>>24802379
I've never understood why Protestants hate us so much :/
>>24802479
>I've never understood why Protestants hate us so much :/
never read much european history i take it?
>>24802479
>white-latina girl
Do you know any that are interested in a lanky white guy?
>>24802479
Depends on the Protestants. Some think the Catholic Church is the Whore of Babylon. It's an official Lutheran doctrine and required thing to believe that the papacy is the anti-christ. There's also centuries worth of anti-Catholic sentiment in the US due to Protestant resentiment after the reformation, thirty years war, and Henry VIII's split with Rome. This went to Britain's colonies. Plenty of Protestants don't actually know what the Catholic church teaches. Fulton Sheen said it best
"There are not one hundred people in the United States who hate The Catholic Church, but there are millions who hate what they wrongly perceive the Catholic Church to be."
>>24802470
True. I decided to read to the rest. She still seems to consider her father weak though kind. Given the portrait she paints of her mother, there's a million reasons for him not to attempt contact. And she doesn't really say anything to support her apparent notion that cultural influence had something to do with it (at least insofar as what it's "cool" for men to do).
At any rate, if her mother forced her father out and he didn't at least have visitation, this points to damaging effects of family court or at least societal beliefs.
bump for more daddy issues
>>24802688
Its a bit of a leap to straight out damn the courts in this case since theres a lot of information not addressed in her write up. The most important being: was there ever a court case? other wise he just straight up left his kid with someone he knew to be an abusive person. It doesn't seem like the woman that wrote this article has totally "dealt" with this since her and her mother apparently can't discuss the topic without losing their shit. If she was trying to support that claim she did a poor job of it.
It's not a very well structured article at all. too many loose strings, kind of felt a bit fake and overwrought at times.
>>24800172
Are you going to become one of those fat 30 year old women that calls herself a "babygurl" and takes meme pics of herself saying "fuck me again daddy" with a pink pacififer in your mouth?
Please do, this is always good for a laugh
>>24802952
>Its a bit of a leap to straight out damn the courts
Yep
>The most important being: was there ever a court case?
But there's the rub. Armchair internet feminists will simultaneously say
>Women don't pursue rape charges because they believe they won't be taken seriously
>Men don't get custody because they don't pursue it
I'm saying armchair internet feminists because probably "not all feminists" and I don't want to have a no true scotsman semantic debate. This is just what I see.
I agree my argument and the article are both pretty weak.
>>24803064
Well, people believe all kinds of contradictory things. nothing new there.
i'm getting sleepy now. goodnight anon.
>>24800172
I got to watch my father raise 2 other daughters with his other wife in a nice big house while I lived poorly. I don't blame him, he offered for me to stay with him, but from all the threats and anger my mother threw at me, as a child I felt it was best not to burden him and stayed with her. Was it the right choice? Probably not. I ended up becoming a loser on 4chan with only online friends I met on 4chan.
Since I wasn't raised properly I never actually was raised to be a "girl". I went through a phase where I was calling myself a guy in elementary school and dressing like a boy in suits and ties. No, I'm not gay or a degenerate tranny. I mainly did it because I was being bullied and I wanted to be tough, taking the male role was what kept the bullies at bay. I felt out of place all the time, and I was ashamed all the time for even contemplating having a crush on a boy because I was a fat ugly piece of shit thanks to poor feeding habits. Of course single mommy neglected me emotionally because her life was so important and difficult that I didn't have time to enjoy ever being me. I always hated being me. I can't remember not a single family vacation where I wasn't depressed and nobody could be assed to see how lonely and messed up I was.
Skip to now, I lost all the weight, cleaned up my looks but I'm in college now and it's too late. Sometimes I thought it I had a dad he'd bring the family together or something. I hate single mothers.
>>24802504
-_- I have a bit
But I just mean now, the fact that there's still so much animosity in America where everything is watered downa nyway.
>>24802541
> lanky
you otter mode? I like ottermode/bearmode guys but not into skinny guys sry :// I think a lot of latinas are like that desu
>>24802570
Holy shit, thanks for that history lesson. seriously, I had no idea Lutherans believed that.
>>24803262
>I went through a phase where I was calling myself a guy in elementary school and dressing like a boy in suits and ties
Your story overall was pretty sad and I'm sorry you had to go through it all, but that right there is cute :3
>>24803262
>it's too late
What do you mean, anon? I hope you don't mean it's too late for you because it's not.
>>24803300
I'm not really skinny. Just sort of slim and goofy. So I don't really fit into either of those types latinas want...
Just pull the plug. I want off the ride.
>>24803300
>Holy shit, thanks for that history lesson.
Christian history is a hobby of mine (It's how I became a Catholic)
>I had no idea Lutherans believed that.
They also believe in the veneration of saints and in a heretical form of the Real Presence. The more you know
>>24803357
lol if the personality is right any girl would like you. I have a thing for Sam Hyde man so clearly my tastes are very varied. You'd probably get crushed on by a latina :p
>>24803386
Do you take classes for it or just look stuff up? I wish I had the patience to do the latter ;-;
>>24803474
Look it up myself. Although I like history in general and Roman history overlaps early Christian history. So that's how I found the Church Fathers.
>>24803323
I just wish my dickwad mother didn't keep calling me lesbian for several years after.
>>24803324
It's too late for me to develop a new social network, relationships, any of that is over. I have been permanently displaced and forsaken to wander aimlessly through the social hierarchy. Even if I try to make friends it never gets anyway no matter now much in common or how long I speak with them. I'm trying to fit in at work but dealing with all those people makes me want to quit every day.
I shut down and ignore things. Even if I tried to dress nice or look for people, we live in the shittiest social age ever, I can't read social ques and take things literally. If you aren't stating hard facts whatever emotional signals you're sending fly right past me. I am unfit as a human being and especially as a woman.
I am biologically female, I can dream of being able to tell guys I like them or being anyone's object of affection. I can't even imagine myself having a family.
>>24801224
Thank you for explaining this. I have a better understanding of how much I accidentaly hurt a girl without a dad.
>>24803505
How can you give up so soon? You're in your early 20s. You still have a lot of chances.
>>24801224
>I don't think men can understand what not having a daddy is like to a girl.
>Statistics shows that most men without fathers are either suffer from depression, be a criminal, or suicidal
>Have a fatherless nephew that fits with that description
Shut up
>>24800968
You talk like a low value loser slut of a woman backed into a corner.
>>24803503
I wanna be like you when i grow up anon
>>24803590
I'm probably younger than you anon
>>24803569
I can't make up years of social and emotional development in a day.
>>24803602
are you 18+?
>>24803626
I'm 19 yes
>>24803602
trusss me daddy, i'm pretty sure i'm much younger than you.
>>24800172
My father was an abusive asshole and a retarded schmuck as well, so I'm thankful I only knew him for six years.
I didn't feel bad not growing up with a father and I pretty much made Robin Williams my father figure. I used to watch everything with him in it all the time and especially a documentary he did on dolphins.
It's only recently that I wonder what kinds of things I missed out on by not having a father in my life that actually held me and told me he loved me instead of beating the dog or throwing things at me for the few years I knew one.
If I ever end up with a man, I'm going to make sure he's the complete opposite of what my father was. He'll be someone kind, thoughtful and compassionate with a goofy sense of humor and would be wonderful with children and animals...And could handle his alcohol along with not having an explosive temper.
>>24801199
What would mommy issues mean? If it means I get to hold him and baby him with tender kisses, sweet words and stroking his hair, then yes.
>>24803652
Not unless you're in your early teens >>24803643
>>24803624
You don't need to.
You just need to becleanandwilling to talk to someone who will listen.
>>24803643
>>24803652
yea lol I was right, I'm younger. so like I said, I wanna be like you~
>>24803676
Smooth operator here
>>24803694
Always smooth. Like Keith Stone.
>>24803690
You want to be Roman Catholic?
>>24803668
nope not in my early teens, just younger then you. not as much as i thought though.
>>24803712
>>24803690
Is this two different underage b& talking to me
>>24803707
i AM Roman Catholic. I mean I want to know more stuff about the history of it all like you.
>>24803658
>My father was an abusive asshole
top kek you women sure know how to pick the right men.
>>24803726
no it's just me I'm just all over the place :/
>>24803736
Are you that latina girl who posted the picture of her ass too?
Anyway here's everything written by the Early Church Fathers
http://www.ccel.org/fathers.html
alright
now be a man and have a father that beat you and then resorted to verbal abuse when you taught yourself to fight back
>>24803505
>>24803624
Hang in there, anon. I'm 25 and my upbringing was such that my social/communication skills are fucked (although my life was not nearly as hard as yours). I'm slowly getting better despite relapsing and retreating into isolation several times. I'm starting to get to the point where I'm becoming conscious of other people making "mistakes" and sometimes I'm not the clumsiest person in the room. Just don't give up.
>>24803736
yaaa. I'm only half though. thanks desu
this >>24803820 was meant for >>24803762 sry
>>24803739
I swear my mother was just scared she was getting too old and married the first loser who looked at her. Her whole family didn't like him and she still went for it.
She wasn't a great person either though since she spent most of my life drunk off her ass or not home.
>>24803690
>>24803820
>>24803848
>Underage b& Catholic girls that post lewd pictures on 4chan look up to me
Not sure how I feel about this
>>24803871
>>24803820
Also you're welcome
>>24803871Like a priest
Thank you. Thank you.
I'll be here all week. Try the waitress, tip the veal.
>>24803871
my dads dead yo lol ofc I look up to smart guys on 4channot even kidding, it's pathetic and disgusting
just appreciate it anon :)
>>24803894
People at my parish say this a lot actually. I don't want to be a priest though. I don't think I'm cut out for celibacy and I want to have a wife and kids
>>24803905
I'm not that smart, but I appreciate it. I can think of more pathetic things to do.
>>24801514
Lol.
Anyone want some catholic schoolgirl ass?
>>24803935
whatever you say senpai~
>>24803936
lol idfc repost it all you want.
>trap king
did you crawl out of black tumblr deshawn? shouldnt you be on tumblr spreading the message #staywoke?
>>24803935
>He didn't get the joke
:|
>>24803976
I got the joke. I just decided not to acknowledge it. I don't care for it since I get enough jokes from Protestant family members, but you couldn't have known that.
>>24803856
no excuse like come on women you now have the freedom to picky any guy you want because you are not as dependent on men as before but you idiots still fall for cheating alcoholic womanizer. my god you women are retarded.
>>24803964
>senpai~
Am I actually senpai or was that wordfiltered :^)
>>24804038
Noo I really did write it haha. I thought the only word that was filtered in was desu though?
>>24804063
fa.m becomes senpai
Well this thread is shit now. I can't even make Catholic jokes without offending some 19 year old pseudo historian.
If any single ladies want a man with money, time, and all the skills that you wish your father taught you, I'll be waiting.
>>24804023
>women
>not retarded
Have you learned nothing in your time spent flying around the Sun?
>>24804083
Make all the jokes you want. Does it really bother you so much that I didn't laugh? I promise not post le hat meme friendo :^)
>>24804079
ur teaching me new things everyday
>>24804083
make the jokes man who cares lol
>>24803964
My bottom bitch uses tumblr. I'm waiting for her useless ass to kik me bout the money she made for me today
>>24804120
This conversation went very differently than I expected.
>>24804168
>bottom bitch
ummmmmm.....you mean *side hoe*
white kek 4 bbc confirmed
>>24804174
sorry lol
>>24803936
>>24801514
Dat ass.
Why'd you delete the original?
>>24804222
There's no need to apologize. Far better than just getting "no fuck you I'll be as unrepentant as I want and take communion every week anyway". Something like that is what I expected, so it's a pleasant surprise. I was twice as surprised when you deleted the picture.
>>24801994
Jesus loved everyone matey
>>24804222
>Side hoe
That's the wrong crib bitch. I don't roll with the cripz
>Pic is what I'm planning to do to her ass
>>24804339
>Being a nigger
I'm sorry that God loves you less than his other children.
>>24804313
All I did was tell you a few things about why Protestants tend to hate Catholicism
>>24804338
Yes and it's because he loves everyone that desires we all repent and stop doing harm to ourselves and our relationship with God.
"If you love Me, you will keep My commandments."
>tfw no fatherly-affection-deprived gf for me to sit on my thigh
>tfw no fatherly-affection-deprived gf for me to poke her nose
>tfw no fatherly-affection-deprived gf for me to peck on her forehead
>tfw no fatherly-affection-deprived gf for me to bury her head in my chest while I reassure her with my deep voice
>>24804339
I'm dying lmfao this is so disgusting bye deshawn
>>24804353
lol
>>24804374
yea but you were the only catholic i saw at the time and typically when I get told by a catholic that the whole "I'm a shitty catholic" thing is bullshit, I listen to them, so I listened to you :/
>>24804353
>God
Elijah Mohamed is his only child you creation of Yakub
>>24804411
I wouldn't call it bullshit. I've done some fairly shitty things for a Catholic. I stopped, but I still did it.
>>24804431
Das rite
>>24804431
>Weez wuz kings n qwains
Are those the lies the jews feed you nigglets these days?
>>24804411
>This is so disgusting
Lol. If I was your pimp I'd beat that shit out of you.
>>24804456
true true. anyway I have to go to school tomorrow so I gotta get some sleep but it was so nice talking to you desu!!! have a nice night~
>>24804491
Nah man. You're doing it all wrong. You don't beat your whores, you get them addicted to meth and heroin. That way they keep coming back to you for their fix and never need to worry about beating them.
>>24804456
Lol. Which one of us is stacking money and laying hoes?
>>24804480
>Jews
One of my hoes is Jewish. Why don't they eat bacon tho?
>>24804539
I don't know, but I see them eat plenty of sausage, ya' herd?
>>24804504
Thanks you too. This was interesting.piusx3232@yahoo is my email if you want to talk more Catholicism though. Not many people are interested in it
>>24804539
Are you really Nation of Islam?
>>24802479
As a non-denom protestant
1.Borderline worship of Mary
2.More about rituals than god and salvation
Most denominations have their own ridiculous traditions like Catholics do
>>24801199
i have mommy issues too. but it's worse for me
>>24804554
Yeah I am. What's a Grafted want to know ?
the underage b& in this thread is just as cringe-inducing as the average anime convention.
>shrill autistic LOL CATGIRL nyaaa
My father died when I was young, it was shit, life is shit.
>>24804374
Jesus didn't make the tax collectors do jack before dining with them, he'll love everyone where they are.
Not that I'm saying homosexuality is okay, but godh8s fags people (which you may or may not be) are just obnoxious.
>>24804931
I don't hat homosexuals and I'm not saying that Christ did. I'm saying he willed their repentance like everyone else and that if you claim to be a Christian and then support a sin, you're probably not actually a Christian.
>>24804988
*hate
Too many typos tonight. I'm getting tired
>molested by father when I was 4
>mom takes brother and I and moves away
>marries, but new stepdad is physically abusive
>mom and him divorce, she marries new guy years later
>I don't dislike him, but we're not close
It always hurts when people talk about their dads, and people look at me weird for liking older, more capable guys. It doesn't help that I like to get off on daddy incest and all around abuse
>tfw will always be fucked up, and will never be happy
>tfw can't build up self worth cause my pain is a funny meme lol daddy issues :^)
When will the meaningless living end..?
>>24803658
>What would mommy issues mean? If it means I get to hold him and baby him with tender kisses, sweet words and stroking his hair, then yes.
Yes.
>>24805147
when you finally kill self worthless cunt
>>24801199
They're on r9k mate
>>24807186
Why'd yall wanna fuck yo mommas senpai?
>>24803658
It would be cool if I was a less shit person but I have no morals, am mentally ill, and an alcoholic. Thankfully I'm not an angry drunk. I can't be a family man. I'm not going to get any women pregnant because I would be a shit father and husband. Finding daddy with a gun, a fifth, and his head gone would be shit. Maybe I can get a barren woman who is as fucked up as I am.
>>24805147
I once dated a girl who was molested by her father. I can't pretend I know what that's like but my heart goes out to you. It's really fucked up for anyone to do that to their child.
Unfortunately her issues caused by the molesting gave her a lot of problems that made a relationship too difficult, which is unfortunate since she was great in so many other ways.
>>24807341
>a lot of problems
What were they?
>>24807392
>Depending on her mood she was either really clingy or very distant
>She didn't trust me and was always suspicious (she said this was the result of her father molesting and abandoning her, not anything I did)
>Frequently cried after sex and felt guilty for enjoying it
>Entire days where she just moped in bed and could not be consoled
>It was really difficult to bond with her
I could deal with one or two of these things but all of them together just wore on me too much
>What It's Like To Be A Fatherless Daughter
>A daughter without a father is a sad scenario that I wish did not exist.
>I wish I could wish it away. Not just for me, but for every girl out there who feels incomplete.
>For every girl out there who has grown up never really understanding how to love or trust a man.
Yeah, whoever wrote this shitty article can fuck off and die. Who the hell does she think she is, speaking for everybody? I don't feel anything aside from disdain towards my father. Sometimes I wish I was never born so my mom didn't have to make so many compromises in her life.
DADDY ISSUE GIRLS ARE PSYCHO AND EVIL
>>24800172
I would say without question that men who grow up without fathers suffer more than women
This just makes me angry.
I was raised without a mother. For that reason, my mother figure became our cleaning lady since my father was always working she took care of us. When she left us I also had a depression, at a very young age and I had to go to the psychiatrist. I've had problems with my emotions.
There are a shit ton of wrong things about being raised a man. Repression of feelings, hardcore limitation of behaviour based on social standards, a lot of pressure on performing and being strong-minded. But there is one thing I won't take away in my whole life: we fucking grow out of it if done correctly. Yes I didn't have a mother figure to give me advice on how to enter that side of society, so what? I just learned. I made mistakes on the way but I grow as a person. Understand the fucking situation. Understand yourself and the others. You don't need a fucking parent to tell you to pick yourself up and teach you that it's okay to be with males. You need yourself to tell you that. You need to get out there and risk your fucking emotional integrity for the sake of being able to work as an emotional human being, everyone else has done it before.
All this is what is expected for boys. What enrages me is how weak some girls develop. Learn to do that shit. Otherwise I would treat you (and by that I mean just you, not all females) as a weakling who gets too saturated in front of society's problems and isn't even able to perform. If girls want to be treated with respect, they should probably gain self respect before that. Noone treats respectfuly a boy before that. However girls think that people respecting them is a granted for human rights.
For fuck's sakes the saddest being on the planet. You are so delusional is retarded. Try tell an 8 year old kid that he's going to die of leukemia. Try to tell a mother that her newborn has HIV and therefore she has too. Watch a 40 year old who has advanced alzheimers kill himself not to ruin his family.
>will never know who my real father is because my mom didn't remember who she fucked
>don't even care anymore
>>24807588
True desu
Grew up with father who didn't want me, little if any interraction with him and now im older hes finally admitted he never saw me or siblings as "human" just annoying shits that waste money and run around making mess/noise.
My relationships with men so far have just been: try one>hes boring me>leave him + feel little to no regret>quickly find another> repeat.
I broke a lot of hearts and feel nothing desu :^(
>>24801004
>genuinely loves me
you mean the oldest man with the biggest dick ye can find ya daddys girl ye
>>24807705
Also the real tragedy of this story is that the mother was a typical modern woman and the father is just another suicide statistic
The rate of suicide among middle aged men is so high and the reason is usually divorce, this isn't suprising in the least.
>>24807760
you should be put down like a dog
worthless shit
>Fembot real
nice attention seeking meme
Fuck off to Facebook or Reddit you'll find plenty of nice boys and beta's who would just love to play the hero and save you
You have no excuse fuck off
>Parents literally scream every day all day for years
>By 16 I am in survival mode
>Thankfully in college the divorce
>Nightmare of their interaction and the falsehood of our family ends
>Dont really see my father as any different from anyone else
>really only look after my mother for the 9 months and a push but dont really like her that much
I broke up almost two years ago with the last gf I had out of fear and I fear she was the best and the last. I dont think I am capable of trust and am so nonchalantly bitter about the whole ordeal of human relation that most people just make the wise judgement call to keep away. To be honest I find my self giving less and less of a shit every year.
Hey fatherless fembots, here is a video for you that will make you cry
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvyoisodnP8
You will never have a caring daddy who loves and protects you.
>tfw dad was always working and never around to spend time with me
>tfw he bonded with my little brothers and ignored me
>tfw he was always awkward with me and mostly just yelled at me for stuff
>tfw he only spent time with me when I could tell mom forced him to and it was always quiet and uncomfortable
>tfw forced fishing outings and trips to a Haunted House where both of us were just there because mom made us
>tfw he hugs and kisses me on the cheek when I visit now and it makes me uncomfortable because he barely speaks to me
>tfw dad doesn't really like me and I don't blame him
>>24809199
He was just repressing his desire to use you as a fucktoy, you can thank him.
>>24809199
That's becauseyou're not his daughter.
Your mother had an affair and you're the offspring
Your father tries his best to love you as a father would, but he's not your father, and everytime he looks at you he is reminded of your mother's whorish transgression.
> grow up wanting men's approval, because I'm not like le other girls
> eventually realize I like shitty fucking men though as friends or romantic prospects
> don't trust or like men because I'm always certain I'll pick the psycho/abuser/complete dick
> go through life as KV because I refuse to get caught up in men's antics just to say I'm in a relationship
> about to drop my friend because her bf doesn't like me because I keep implying he's shit, and I feel like he'd set me up to get assaulted
>>24810673
Age: 17
Yeah, you're not fooling me.
>>24810699
> implying r9k doesn't carry on like a bunch of children
> implying that robots don't act like they're 13 years old when they get assblasted over other people doing things or having experiences they can't relate to
> implying this board isn't really just middle schools letting their fantasies out
kekerino
>>24810780
Can't fight with that logic. No really, I can't.
That article is liquid shit
Just cause you can identify one major difference your life has from others doesn't mean it's the source for that "empty void" you feel.
Almost all robots here feel they have that "empty void" because they're unfit for having a relationship. When in reality, if they suddenly turned to chad and had the best wife ever, that void would still be looming over.
Faggots.
>>24807724
>stronk gril
well, aren't you a special little snowflake
>>24807341
Thanks, it is really fucked up. Mostly on the level of scarring and changing them for the rest of their lives. I'm sorry to hear the relationship didn't work out, you sound like a nice person who appreciated her other features enough to reminisce like that.
>>24807518
A lot of these describe me exactly, minus the fearing sex and moping in bed. I feel some guilt only because I actually enjoy having it with my partners a lot, and feel like it might be a drain on them. It's a challenge to find that balance, and not make the relationship entirely sex.
But the clinginess / distance, suspiciousness, and difficulty with bonding really resonate. It's hard to put words on why these things are they way they are.
I think its a fear of the male leaving, so if we feel like we're being too clingy, we pull away. If we feel like we're being too distant, we come back and be super close. This is all based off judging off the male's actions, which isn't the greatest way to know for sure. I imagine normal relationships don't usually have that fight for balance, but I've never been in a relationship where it wasn't like that, only with another female. The suspiciousness and bonding also fits into this reasoning, we're just that used to males being absent in our lives, and want to prepare ourselves ahead of time so it doesn't hurt as much. Ironically, these things can all be the end to an otherwise healthy relationship.
Do you have any advice for people like her? Like when she would be clingy or distant for example, how would you rather have had her act with you? Just b herself and not worry about it?
>>24800940
Tippity-Toppety kek
>>24800968
Top lawl
Roastie utterly btfo
Kill yourself
>>24800352
< If there's a guy I'm becoming attached to, I find myself more willing to go out of my way to please him because I'm afraid of losing him.
How is that related to being fatherless? It sounds like common sense which applies to everyone and both genders.
>>24800172
bumping dead thread
>>24801376
Fuck my face please
>>24812720
Wow, this thread is still around. I don't know if any advice I give could help.
I really hated not being trusted. I have never cheated or left a girl without talking to her about it. I feel like in a relationship I should be trusted and given the benefit of the doubt until I show I'm not trustworthy. That was the biggest problem. I understand you have good reasons not to trust men but if you don't you are going to drive them all away.
I can handle clingy or distant, just not when a girl flip flops between them all the time. It's emotionally draining on me because it makes me feel like I did something wrong.
The difficulty with bonding also made me feel like I wasn't doing things right.
>>24804572
So you are holier than thou because you don't have "ridiculous traditions" lol get fucked
>>24800172
fucking degeneracy
>>24816551
He's holier than thou because Protestants aren't Christians :^)
>>24800172
>tfw dad died of cancer
>tfw mum is on her third round of radiotherapy and its not looking good
Its a good thing my depression is numbing all of my feelings!
>mfw planning suicide
>mfw when estranged formerly abusive alcoholic father beats me to it
not having a dad really sucks. and leaves you fucked up for a while.. but once you start fucking older dudes you'll find one who eventually wants to take care of you. and then you'll find yourself with a new daddy.
>In my experience, fatherless daughters are the loneliest of creatures
The absolute arrogance of women.
>>24816598
what are they then?
>>24816768
Heretics
bumping
bamp
>>24810673
> go through life as KV because I refuse to get caught up in men's antics just to say I'm in a relationship
yeah, it's men's antics that are the problem here
>>24810673
> grow up wanting men's approval, because I'm not like le other girls
The very worst
Bump for more damaged goods femanons
>>24819152
bumping for this anon
