Are your parents proud of you?
If not how do you feel about disappointing them?
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asking questions willy-nilly is more suited to reddit.
>>24780205
No. I don't really care what they think but the problem comes from me thinking that I'm a disappointment.
>>24780241
Asking questions generates the sharing of thoughts, feelings and experiences. Stop being so dumb.
>>24780352
no, it generates the profiling of users here on a website that is based on anonymity.
asking questions out of the blue is -not- how r9k works.
>>24780362
then you can check these dubs
>>24780205
my dad is ashamed of me being a 25 year old drug addict who achieved nothing.
i don't give a fuck though. he killed my self esteem by beating me, repeatedly calling me stupid, never being home and being a raging alcoholic.
>>24780241
>he knows his parents are ashamed of him so shitposts because he's embarrassed
Top kek
My mother is probably borderline given up on me completely. If she hasn't yet, she will when she eventually learns I've just been bullshitting around at Uni but fuck it it's not her money she has no real license to complain.
As far as how it makes me feel? Meh. Don't really care. Neither of my parents have ever actually given enough of a shit to find out the things I want to be doing in life so I don't care if they get upset when I don't do what they want.
>>24780205
they disappointed me my entire life so the feelings mutual
My parents fucking love me even though I'm a low life bummy piece of shit, It's pretty great.
>>24780553
>give you life
>feed you, clothe you
>hurr they don't care about me because I don't get exactly what I want all the time so I should just fuck around in uni because reasons
Fucking millennials...
Anyone here successful in school/financially so your parents are kinda proud of you but they also pity you because you have no gf but they believe you are a late bloomer so they still have hope?
It feels bad man
>>24780205
Mother is on disability bux with cancer.
Father is addicted to meth.
Neither of them really have the capacity to feel disappointment. I am, however, disappointed in myself.
>>24780205
>If not how do you feel about disappointing them?
>>24780647
That must suck bro
I think they're fairly proud.
I'm socially inept, never had a gf, probably never will, very few friends.
I'm in med school and have good grades so i think it balances out.
>>24780609
>>give you life
fucking assholes tbhfam
>>24780670
Eh.. Just the hand I've been given. Can't really complain about what I have no control over. Well, I can, but it's essentially pointless.
Momma so proud after I served 11-months in military.
Momma was so proud after I dropped out of high school, for the third time.
Momma was even more proud after I served 8-months in prison for armed robbery.
>tfw no father role model
>>24780694
Did your mother have a series of boyfriends growing up and how did that make you feel?
Also did you ever hear them fucking?
Father hates me, he was a pedophile though who abused me because I was Schizo at a young age and couldn't control myself. I ended up dropping out of school and a bunch of other shit. I saw him about two months ago and and spent a few days at his house and I thought we were maybe fixing our relationship but he broke my arm so no he still doesn't like me.
My mother killed herself a long time ago so I don't know what she'd think. She was always easy on me and just wanted me to be happy so I think she would be sad I didn't do anything with my life but not mad at me or anything.
Overall I dunno, the things they did were what fucked my life so how can they blame me. It's not all their fault, I've made most of the mistakes but they sent me on this path.
>>24780205
my parents are proud of me for now I guess, I'll be graduation from an ivy league soon enough
but when I don't get a job and hole up in my room for the next few years I won't be so sure. They already know I'm a lazy fuck with no social skills, and haven't had any internships or even worked at all in my life, so they probably know it's coming. but for now they can probably still brag to their families about me, though they're always telling me about how my cousins had jobs in high school and college.
maybe they can proud of how far I've gotten despite being such a faggot. and at least I'm not addicted to drugs or something
>>24780749
>but he broke my arm
What the fuck? Like on purpose or an accident?
>>24780811
Yeah on purpose but it's fine, he's just like that. Did it to me a lot as a kid. I could have pressed charges but I have a bad history with the police because of my mental illness (never done anything illegal just they don't like me) so i figured it'd be too much of a hassle and also I was homeless (still am) so I just didn't let it get to me. It was called a buckle break, it was pretty minor and healed in like 3 weeks.
Dad might be proud but the dude offed himself when i was 11
Mom is keeping her hopes up, although i constantly manage to dissapoint her with shitty life decisions like dropping out of school or getting a felony charge.
>mfw dad was raging alcoholic and so am i, life patterns disturbingly similar
Parents are not proud of me at all. Sucks ass. I disappoint even myself.
>>24780858
What the actual fuck...
Seriously where are you living right now? That sucks.
Remember Jesus is with you even when shit is tough.
They say they are but I know they think I'm an absolute failure. How else could you think of someone just starting university at 25?
>>24780953
Plenty of people start uni late, at least you're doing it.
Spent 4 years traveling around Europe, Asia and South America when I turned 18. Surviving on doing odd jobs and part time bar work. Didn't speak to my parents for about two years they didn't know what happened to me. South America was pretty crazy but traveled around Bolivia with some people I met there, had some amazing times, met some amazing people and had several friends-with-benefits. Best moment was a bunch of us walking along an old abandoned railroad that used to be used by communist insurgents in Columbia, 3am high as fuck on molly smoking cigarette after cigarette while holding hands with this girl called Esther, shit was intense.
Then I came back after the death of my brother, my parents were devastated so I couldn't leave again. Enrolled in university at 23, studied Chemistry, now I work in a lab for a pharmaceutical company, have my own house, nice car, wife with a baby on the way. Moral of the story is, it's never to late to completely change your life.
Good luck Anon.
>>24780951
I'm living in a motel type thing. it's hard to explain. You know those storage facility places? They have this single room unit they rent out to people moving but I've been here so long. There's not toilet or shower here, just a bed, I go to a local YMCA to shower every morning. Been stuck here since I left my father's place, but it beats living with him, you know? I normally don't complain but my sister, well she isn't my real sister, but my only friend is ignoring me for some reason so I'm in a mood to rant on 4chan tonight desperately staying awake hoping she replies to my emails, but I doubt she will. I don't have a job or any friends besides her so when the one person you care about and interact with stops talking to you, you get a little lonely. Thanks for hearing me rant, I've been pretty lonely lately. Even speaking over the internet feels good.
thread has potential for more
>>24781856
How many disappointed parents can there be out there?
I think it's a mixed bag
I'm the first one in my family to get a master's degree, so my mom is definitely proud of that.
On the other hand, I'm 30 years old and had to move home temporarily while I find a job and a new place to live.
I don't care, really. I'm not an ambitious man and she knows and accepts this.
>>24780953
>How else could you think of someone just starting university at 25?
You're trolling, right?
Parents both exceedingly proud. Beautiful wife, gainfully employed, homeowner, all around responsible white stereotype....
But none of them know I just want to get railed out by a qt3.14 negress trap's foot long veiny punisher.
No. My parents are probably ashamed of me or regret their decision on adopting me. I'm 26 years old and have no job, no car, my driver's license got revoked because I took too many benzos, do drugs, dropped out of college and have not given them grandchildren. I'm depressed every day because I can't hold a job for more than a week and hate that I can't even make contact with another person at all.
I am considering suicide because I already know how royally fucked I'm going to be once my parents pass away. I have NEETbux but the three year review scares me because I am paranoid they will take it away and see me as lazy instead of disabled. I honestly don't know what to do. I wish I was the one taking care of my parents since they're both retired and worked hard their whole lives. Fucking god I hate myself.
I dont give a shit what they think. The questions is am I proud of them? The answer to the question is no. Can both fuck off.
Dad is in ICU dying of from kidney failure. About fucking time for that dickhead.
>>24781992
Why are you mad thou?
>>24780205
I know that my mum is disappointed in me.
>24
>Held a job at a casino for about 2 years back in 2011 which I found to be pretty fun
>2013 I had a motorcycle crash and was busted up for about 6 months.
>Became depressed and apathetic for the following 2 years
>She became happy when I started University
>"I'm glad your doing something you enjoy, getting out of the house will be great for you!"
>Picked out an Engineering and Japanese major
>Got pretty great marks for the 1st semester, however, I hated being at university
>Grades slowly declined during the 2nd semester
>Don't bother handing in assignments
>Didn't go to exams
>Told her I'm not going back to university next year
>Back to square one
I'm at the stage now where I am considering whether to kill myself or join the military and have them break me down mentally so that I can have a chance at being something other than useless.
