sex is over-rated
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it can be with the wrong person but it usually isn't.
it's overrated once it's over, but damn is the chase fun.
afterwards you realize you spent so much time pretending to be someone just to get inside a wet, warm hole.
>>24776790
>overrated once its over
bad sex much?
9/10 times yeah
but that one time hoo boy is it a blast
>>24776603
You only think that because you don't get any. You're trying to convince yourself that you're not missing out on anything.
Sex is overrated, but love isn't.
Love is like, all the things you hate about yourself, they don't matter.
Love is like you're normal. Like you've always been normal.
Sex is just the moment where you realize she thinks that.
It's not the fucking that counts. It's thinking that someone out there thinks you're worth it.
Not many of those.
You know there aren't.
>>24776890
>>24776807
>>24776667
Over-rated =/= Bad
I think what OP means is that its something people hype up and focus on WAYYY beyond what is necessary, which is just the plain fucking truth.
Most people think and want sex so bad and so much without thinking WHY they desire it or questioning the nature of that desire.
Like this anon says >>24776790
Many times you dick will lead you to believe you are so in love with someone only to bust in their pussy and upon the post-cum clarity you realize there is nothing really attractive about that person, you were just horny and they were available.
Physical attraction really does fade. Intellectual/emotional chemistry is where its at. When you really connect with someone on deeper levels than just being attracted to their physical body, sex becomes 1000x better.
The difference is this: When you truly love someone, you want to pleasure them. Sex becomes a game of trying to give them as much pleasure as you can. When its mutual, its like you are both trying to out-pleasure one another in this wild exchange of energy and fluids
When you dont love them, you are really only focused on your own pleasure. You cum, and will likely find yourself just wanting to leave the situation ASAP
>>24777055
/thread. The ironic thing about most robots is that sex makes them animals.
Who needs sex when you can watch porn
>>24777259
When you cum, who will hold you?
>>24777273
My waifu pilow
>>24776603
being uncut and ejaculating in a vag without a condom is not over rated. Everything else involving women is extremely over rated though
It's overrated once you've had you fill, unlike the people who have yet to have it.
I agree, but the holding and before sex stuff is not.
>>24777055
This.
Its not so much the act, but the fact that someone finds you attractive enough, personable enough, enjoys your company enough and takes joy in spending time with you.
Someone who you can emotionally bond with, then it becomes more than just a primal "thing"
I personally find it a strange concept that an independent, intelligent, thinking and rationalizing human take pleasure in my company. Not because I am bad, but because I've been so socially stunted that I find it an alien concept.
But I've past the bitterness, around my mid 20's I know I won't ever find meaningful companionship, let alone with the opposite sex.
The sea makes me happy, I'm saving up for a nice block of land by a rural beach for me to build a shack on. Finances may be a problem but that isn't the point.
