Will getting a Gf fill this hole inside me, 18 years without ever even holding a hand in a romantic context gets to you.
>18 years
try 30
>>24691548
I'm sure it only gets worse
It will for about a month or two, but then you'll go back to slightly above baseline.
>>24691504
>18 years
try 20
I am preety sure it will fill that hole, at least for me.
>like girl
>pretty damn sure she likes me
>dont know what to do next
>>24691636
Hey, want to hang out this weekend?
I just feel like a relationship is the only way for me to find some semblance of happiness.
>>24691594
>but then you'll go back to slightly above baseline
that's in the best case scenario. what's more likely is that he goes slightly below baseline from dealing with her shit, then way below baseline for 1-6 months after she breaks up with him, and once he's mostly gotten over it either finds a new girl and repeats the process or just settles into a new normal much lower than the previous
>>24691504
I'm 20 and still haven't hold a girl's hand too. Fuck it bro.
>>24691717
I just want to have a meaningful relationship with another person, being lonely will never make me happy.
>>24691771
same robrother.. same..
>>24691504
It's a fallacy to think that. We boil our problems down to a single fact "not haveing a gf/sex". The reality of it is, that most of us would feel the same with a gf/sex as there are issues within us that prevent us from being happy, not something external.
Anyway, hang in there m80
>>24691504
It'll probably be a big step forward, but it takes longer to fill that void. You just gotta make sure that when you get your first girlfriend you don't try to use that relationship to completely fill the void. It'll be bad for the relationship.
>>24692259
I think this is true, but only because being so incapable and lonely has led most of us to cutting ourselves down. If I had a gf at 14-16 like most people, I wouldn't be here right now. Now that I'm 20 and spent 5-6 years getting rejected constantly with every girl, I tell myself I'm absolute shit. I drink heavily. All of these vices stem from the fact I've never been given a chance and because of it (for whatever reason they didn't give me a chance) I've always blamed myself. If I got a gf now, it would be a trainwreck because I can't even bring myself to respecting myself, imagine putting a girl I care about through that?
