To the robots who lost their virginity late (21+) to a gf or non-prostitute, how did she react when she found out you were a virgin?
I'm 25 and I feel like if I don't do something about it this year, I'll be doomed forever.
>>24684295
I actually lost mine at 25. She didn't know until I told her afterwards, and she was genuinely surprised. Non-virgins can still be bad at sex, so if you don't want her to know, just don't say anything.
Even if you're not a virgin, the first time with anyone new can be an awkward experience, since everyone has their own idiosyncrasies towards sex.
you will become a normie if you have sex.
normies aren't welecome here.
you arn't thinking of becoming a normie are you?
>>24684295
Lost my v-cart at 21. I said I didn't have sex for the past 3years cause of weird circumstances. Sounded better than being a virgin desu senpai
Just do it with a prostitute. Better to be bad at it with someone you will never see again.
>>24684716
I could never justify paying for it. To me, it means accepting that there's nothing attractive about you but your cash.
Besides, I want to make out with a qt girl. You don't do that with prostitutes.
>>24684767
>To me, it means accepting that there's nothing attractive about you but your cash.
You have been suckered into the feminist meme. Plenty of successful alpha guys have sex with prostitutes.
>Besides, I want to make out with a qt girl. You don't do that with prostitutes.
Of course you can. Stop believing what the media tells you about prostitutes.
Lost it at 21 and haven't had sex since (I'm 24).
She didn't care, went a bit slow and helped me out. All in all it was an ok experience. It was a drunken fumbling with someone I called a friend (she was fighting with her bf, we got wasted and then fucked) and our relationship wasn't really the same after. Funnily enough she was the one that was ok with it, I felt weird about it after. I wish I had lost it to someone I just had a better connection with.
>>24684295
I lost it at age to the woman I had just gotten engaged to. She was also a virgin (even though I stressed it was no big deal, and hinting that I would prefer her not to be). She never lived with anyone but her parents before engagement, and her parents actually had rules, so I believe it. She was 21, but only had one boyfriend who later turned out to be gay.
>>24685036
>I lost it at age...
At age 24. Sorry.
Didn't tell her. Maybe she knew, but didn't make it clear. Honestly I don't think she cared and was just thankful for the attention.
>>24684951
I'm not against prostitution. If you want to go see a prostitute to get laid, fine with me. I'm just against going to see one to lose your virginity. Countless other guys have done it in high school, college, etc, without having to pay a girl for her time. It means that they're attractive in some other way that isn't money. Paying a whore means coming to terms that you've got nothing to offer but cash. I couldn't live with myself.
>>24684347
>>24685036
>>24685343
What "type" of girl was she? Obviously it's not going to be a Stacey.
24, lost mine last month. Told her beforehand. She was a little surprised but very accommodating. We didn't really treat it as too big a deal. As long as you're open with each other and communicate it should go okay anon.
Seriously, communicate! Girls are still people with their own wants and insecurities. Don't treat her like a unicorn or an alien and you should do alright when you're leading up to sex.
tl;dr COMMUNICATE
>>24685431
Atheist. Libertarian. Played piano. Never went to college. Wasn't afraid of going to work, but it wasn't her ambition. She currently keeps house, walks the dogs, makes meals, and helps raise her young cousins. Always has a pistol on her.
>>24685431
>What "type" of girl was she?
An older and unattractive hispanic lady from the meximart I shop at. She was surprised I approached her at all, and when eventually it came to sex she honestly just seemed amazed and embarrassed to be in the situation to care that I was a virgin.
Lost it at 26. By miracle found a girl who was kinda interested in me. I was horrible, i couldnt get it up for the life of me. I was nervous as fuck. I managed to get it up at my 4th or 5th attempt. Never told her i was kv, i just said i wasnt relaxed, i'm having a hard time in my personal life, that i'm depressed and shit and it affects me( just bullshit so i wont say the truth). I still dont know if she belived me or not, but whatever....Achievement Unlocked ^.^
I just turned 22 yesterday and I haven't the slightest idea how to start an online conversation with a girl, let alone irl
Wizardhood here I come I guess.
>>24685036
>and hinting that I would prefer her not to be
she was wasted on you
>>24685860
It was a lie, anon. I said it just to find out the truth.
>>24684295
Lost it at 24. She never knew that I was a virgin and I was too happy to worry about what she was thinking.
Dick was super hard, she came but I didn't. Having a rubber on and being used to deathgrip masturbation desentisized me.
It was okay/10 experience, would do it again.
>>24684295
>be 25 y/o wagekek with new job
>need a doctor's note for work
>doctor is asian female
>asks if I am sexually active
>say no
>she pauses, then asks for how long I have been sexually inactive
>"uhh...forever"
>writes something down on her notepad and doesn't say anything for around 30 seconds
>finally asks if I've ever been tested for depression
>say no
>go home and go to bed at 6pm so I don't have to think about killing myself for the rest of the day
>>24685993
Tfw I had some problems with my dick so went to the doctor to get it checked out.
He asked if it's okay during sex to which I replied "I wouldn't know", he just looked at me for around 5 seconds with a "sorry bro" look on his face, and then we immediately moved on
I'm 26 year old virgin and I'm up to a point where I can't tell the difference between liking someone, just wanting to fuck and actual love or whatever you call it.
Basically I spend weeks fantasizing about any moderately attractive cashier lady
>>24686078
I'm the same and I'm 22. Dunno what to make of it tbqh
21 year old virgin. When I was 15 I thought I'd have probably lost it by now. 1 or 2 girlfriends at least.
> tfw you disappoint your 15 year old self.
> tfw you hate that prick
> tfw post Uni with no way of meeting girls
> tfw lonely
Thanks for bringing this up OP. It's been playing on my mind. Nice to see other folks in my position.
>>24686103
fucking hell man, sometimes I just wish to go back to my teenage years and not be a shy sack of shit, things would've been so much different.
>>24685777
http://hubpages.com/relationships/Proven-openers-to-get-any-girl-to-talk-to-you-online
How would she know?
Just pretend you're dude weed lmao while doing it, and that you just cant remember how to do a sex.
If all else fails, just don't put your dong in her obligation hole anyway, it's overrated to be honest.
>>24686117
I know bro.
What's worse is that I generally get on with women. It's the flirting I can't do/understand.
If I could travel back and give him the knowledge I've accumulated now - I'd probably have a better chance.
>>24685653
one year away from 26, that means there's still hope for me, r-right?
>>24686078
same. I live in a big city and meet qts everyday on the bus/subway/when shopping, it's torture.
when I get home I always drop on my bed self loath there for some time, I can't take it anymore
>>24684295
>robots
>who lost their virginity
PICK ONE YOU FUCKING SHIT
>>24684295
>virgin at 23
>somehow a girl takes me to her room
>'uhh hey promise me not to laugh, but its been a while and...'
>shes cool with it, says shes been without a man for a while too
>act drunk, pretend i have problems taking off my pants
>do my best
>tfw she never found out it was my first time
>tfw i lied to everyone in my life saying at lost it at 19 with a random girl at a college party
>tfw noone will ever know
>>24684295
23, tinder date. Told her after round 1. She was surprised. I'm actually glad, because if I lost it to my current gf I'd have a massive complex about it.
if its just a girl you picked up that night, just lie. i couldnt bring myself to say i was still a virgin and this was moments before we fucked. if its your gf ur telling , then you dont really have a choice unless you want to maintain long term lies.
So all these girls you normies had sex with were just whores who wanted to please a Chad such as yourselves with casual sex.
Why the fuck are you here if you're clearly normie/Chad
>>24686162
Of course man, just dont stress too much about it. It comes when you least expect it. Also as you get older your chances actually increase because you look more mature and are lots of desperate, more mature women out there who crave for a bit of cock. To me, my life actually just began at 25+
>>24685437
>Kate, I'm a virgin
>Oh My God that's disgusting ewww get away creep
then she calls Chad and tells him you raped her
then Chad drives by in his Ferrari and beats you up then fucks your girl
then they call the police and you're put into jail for life and assraped everyday because you've no friends that would testify for you
there's just no winning
>>24686320
I'd really like to believe that, but I'm a total sperg around women. Whenever I have to talk to one my mind goes blank and I start to stutter, they probably all think I'm retarded.
oh well it seems the normie life isn't meant for me and I'll still browse this board when I'm a 50+ archmage
>>24684295
don't worry OP I was your age when I lost mine and my gf didn't believe I was a KV when I told her.
the only problem you'll probably encounter is that she will climax and you will not, thanks to your porn and deathgrip habits. reassure her that it's not her fault
>Lost virginity at 20
>She be seasoned professional
>Thinking "dead puppies, dead puppies"
>Lasted a good 15-20 minutes
>Made her orgasm
>Tried numerous positions
>She didn't know I was holding V card
>Still doesn't know
>what they don't know can't hurt them
>>24684295
Lost it at 23 with my first serious GF.
She sucked at sex, so she didn't noticed at first. I waited a month till I told her.
I explained to her that I was abused when I was a kid by older female classmates and I was damaged emotionally. Which is why I couldn't be with any girl (sexually) before.
She was way more shocked for this than because I was a virgin.
>>24684295
She found out shortly before. She thought it was cute that she got to be my first.
Turns out when you don't get all obsessed with losing it and being insecure over it, losing it becomes a thousand times easier.
>>24686162
I'm 29, unless you go out and get it yourself, it's not happening
>>24685993
Last time I went to the doctor he didn't even ask. Does that mean I'm such a sperg he just assumed I'm a virgin?
>>24686819
>go to my chest doctor
>cheeky 50 year old guy
>'drugs?'
>no
>'sex?'
>lie, yes
>almost pic related
>writes no
he knows
28 years old.
Gave up a long time ago.
