Works everytime.how do I stop this? I don't want to die alone fuck fuck fuck
I'm glad I'm not the only one. Shit is annoying
>>24654102
>develop standards
That's code for pussying out. Your fear of failure/rejection/fucking it up is stronger than your desire to get comfy
>>24654169
Not really.
For me, I just get uncomfortable and see the undesirable features about that person to the point of not liking them anymore. It would be pussying out if you ditched the girl.
Eeeeeeeek! A normie!
>>24654250
>someone asks you out
>immediately get uncomfortable and start seeking flaws in them instead
http://www.simplypsychology.org/defense-mechanisms.html
That's quite a bit different from a simple "no thanks, but hey we can hang out/be friends"
>She's not smart enough
>She's too ugly
>She's too intimidating
>Her father frightens me
>We don't have the same sense of humor
Yeah pretty much. I'm no normie, but I've been on many dates.
Yet I am kv.
desu senpai
desu senpai
I always thought of it as people pushing the envelope.
>she's interested?
>how much better can I do?
>let's find out
>Girl asks you out
>Girl talks to you
>Girl makes eye contact with you
>Girl glances in your direction, ever
Excuse me? This hypothetical doesn't make any sense to me.
>god damn i need a relationship or im gonna die ill date anyone who asks me out at this point
>except her, shes too crazy
>shes too far away
>hes too young
>i could do better than her
iktf the truth is that I am not as desparate as I thought. Maybe I just want to fuck someone attractive and that's all, not have a relationship.
I was going to make a snarky comment like "my goal in life is to reject a girl" but then I realized I actually have. One of them was butt fucking ugly though and had horrendous big book of British teeth tier teeth. I felt bad seeing the rejection in her face though. Fuck now it's all coming back to me. It was middle school and one of her more attractive friends came up to me and started asking me questions which I would later gather that she was being a wingman.
That is the only time I flat out rejected a woman. Haven't thought about that in many many years.
>>24654169
More like my understanding that I WILL fuck it up, that I WILL fail, that I WILL be rejected.
Every time I've forgotten it, I'm quickly reminded not to reach too far.
>Touch that hot stove again anon, stop being a pussy and do it, I know it burned you the first 10 times but if you keep trying maybe it won't burn you the next time. And if it does you can just keep burning yourself until there's no feeling, and there's a wonderful world after that, we promise you!
>>24655304
I know that feel, I "develop standards" every time I'm rejected or even if I'm not noticed by a girl. But if the day comes when a girl does like you, you gotta break the conditioning.
>>24655531
Just annoying how normies are always talking like I fear the possibility of failure. What they refuse to get is that it's not a "possibility", it's literally 100%
>>24654102
This just happened to me today holy shit
>>24654902
>she's not smart enough
Said no man ever.
>too intimidating
lol
>sense of humor
>females
>having sense of humor
Why don't you just fuck off, roastie?
>>24656789
good call senpai
i knew something was off about that post but couldnt quite figure what
>>24656789
>said no man ever
No, said me
Also
>implying females don't have a sense of humor
>>24657503
Get a load of this betac-u-ck.
>being a betacvck
>having the right to call yourself a man
Pick only one. I bet you're a manlet too.
>>24656819
There was nothing off about it, the post was accurate
>>24657610
How am I a betacucj?
>>24658253
If you truly don't know then you're not just a betacvck but an incurable betacvck.
>>24658526
Well maybe you could explain it to me as opposed to meme-spewing
>>24658555
That would just be a waste of time since you are, as I already said, incurable.
Or maybe you're a roastie. That would make sense. Either way, a waste of time.
Have a nice day.
>>24658658
Nice job with damage-control, I actually thought for a millisecond there that you actually had an argument
>>24658658
I'm not incurable, nor a roastie. But if you fail to back up your claims, I'll be forced to accept your letter of surrender regarding this argument
>>24654102
On the other hand OP, maybe you say why not and do it
And then spend two years comfortable...but you know this isn't the person you're meant for
So you break it off.
It's been five years now... she's well and married
:c
I wouldn't ant to have anything to do with someone inter
>make tinder
>only swipe right for girls i actually find attractive and dont fall for the "swipe right on literally everyone" meme
>actually get multiple matches a day
>say nothing to the matches
>some message me first
>still say nothing and shy away like a pussy bitch
help.
>>24660290
Reeeeeeeee fuck off fuck off fuck off you humble bragging normie rat!!!
>>24660345
>socially paraplegic
>cant actually talk to girls
>normie
>>24654345
>linking to bazinga
fatdora.ping
Shit, this is too real.
Caught between alpha-beta.
There isn't even a term for it.
>>24654102
>>24654169
>>24655304
>tfw I'm a girl and having the same problem
>girl asks you out
Chad pls go
>>24655304
Good WILL hunting
>>24654102
You reject her based on the sure knowledge that she will reject you once she discovers who you really are.
You have to reject her because it's your only chance to do the rejecting. And you know it.
>>24662629
no you are not. Stop pretending
>girl asks you out
>wake up and contemplate suicide
fixed
>/r9k/ 2015
Fucking normalfags
