In our day and age, we live in a society where the male figure has declined substantially, and is still in the process of declining further. There are multiple things to blame for this, the earliest traceable culprit being the invention of the cubicle in 1960. This invention eliminated masculinity in the workplace. What followed was an entire generation of emasculated fathers who gave birth to a beta male. This is where the patheticness of a "robot" starts.
However, it's a wrong assumption to think it's something that can't be helped. It's very much possible to not be a "robot". All it takes is some actual effort. Sadly, the world as we know it has a lot of pacifiers in place that accidentally promote the lifestyle of a pathetic, emasculated NEET.
>videogames
>welfare
>anime
>internet
>porn
With these things set in place to occupy the empty, worthless life of a robot, most of them feel compelled to never change their lifestyle, yet somehow still have the guts to demand the exact same luxuries of a normal human being. Don't you get it? You are not a normal human being. You do not deserve the "basic necessities" such as sex and love. You gave that up when you chose masturbating to loli girls, or hiding yourself in the fantasy world of Gielinor.
And don't be fooled; women are on the same path of destruction as men. They, however, are still raised with the mentality of "you have to put effort into getting a guy's attention", and do in fact learn the importances of life, whereas most men nowadays don't.
tl;dr - it's all in your own hands to improve your life quality. You are an unloved virgin by choice. Set your mind to it, and you can break free from your emasculated existence.
>>24627094
It was NEVER my choice to live this life. If women hadn't constantly rejected me at every turn, I wouldn't have needed to fall back on those crutches for comfort. It's the fault of those worthless cunts that I am NEET now. If I was given that acceptance and love, I could have been just as successful as any Chad.
Fucking tripfag. You'll NEVER understand.
>>24627094
Who do you think you are? I never chose this...
>>24627316
You were rejected because your old man did not raise you properly, or rather (and this is a general shot in the dark, yet very possible to be fact) your mother did all the raising.
Let's be honest. We all (yes, me included) went through high school with the idea of "if you're nice to girls, you will get what you want", yet we never actually got any of it, because it isn't that simple. Yes, you're supposed to be friendly and inviting, but not to the point where you disregard your emotional shell and let every girl get to your core without effort. This is simply off putting in the sense that you are weak. Weakness is undesirable in any form. We're simply programmed biologically like this as human beings.
It's your duty to maintain your shell, along with your worth as a person. And without meaningful substance in your life, you can not achieve this, and therefore will never achieve what you desire.
>>24627479
Yeah, well you're a dick.
>wanting sex and love
I'm going to play video games and jerk off to anime for the rest of my life and I love it!
>>24627519
The fact you aren't trying to give a counterargument leads me to believe you have your hands tied. You know I'm right. Give up your meaningless existence and give your life substance.
>>24627094
>You gave that up when you chose masturbating to loli girls, or hiding yourself in the fantasy world of Gielinor.
I know, and I'm happy with my decision.
Way too many man-eaters in the world. Nothx to women.
>>24627598
What do you even mean with this? Are you saying that there is no connection between wanting sex and love, and playing videogames/jerking off to anime? I am ready to prove you wrong on this, but please confirm that this is your implication.
>>24627629
But that's wrong, dear anon. There are no "man-eaters". There are only "beta-eaters", to put it in your own words, and being beta is a choice.
>>24627612
I don't need a counter-argument if all you do is just construe whole arguments trying to tear me down when I'm already at rock bottom. They aren't even good arguments. You're just a dick and I'm tired.
>>24627677
Nope. Even the best of males are vulnerable to getting their shit wrecked. Women are much, much better at mating than men, and much better at affectation.
No matter how much you think you can "control your woman" or how much you think "she's different, we really care about each other", she always has that knife behind her back, ready to slip into your ribs.
That's not love. It's psychological enslavement and torture. Relationships are not worth it--ESPECIALLY today. Holy shit.
>>24627094
I think this was pretty spot on, as it applies to failed normies. What about the true robot though? The person who dosent want to be heavily involved in society, who wants to pursue their interests? People who are not necessarily unpopular, or unemployed. People who reject societal norms and just want to pursue their own version of happiness.
>>24627683
How are they not good arguments?
>>24627733
>women are better
Wrong. Men have the potential of being just as capable as women in whatever you can imagine. Read my original post. The male gender has deteriorated to the point where women, indeed, have the upper hand. Healthy, "old fashioned" men still have as much strength as any woman does over the pathetic and needy.
>control your woman
That's not the goal. The goal is to coexist, instead of existing beneath them. If you aren't weak, a woman has no reason to backstab you.
>relationships aren't worth it - especially today
With your current mindset and position in life? No, they're not, because you're heavily emasculated. Which is why the point of my original post was to tell you to break free from it in order to live a meaningful life when it comes to relationships.
>>24627807
>pursuing interests while disregarding society's say in it
Granted we disregard the "pacifiers" I stated as possible interests, this is the complete opposite of emasculating. It can be said that having a drive to achieve success in your own way is masculine, or "alpha".
I very much think the "true" robot is something to admire, not disregard as a failure.
>>24627807
The perpetuity by generation is common to beasts; but memory, merit, and noble works, are proper to men. And surely a man shall see the noblest works and foundations have proceeded from childless men; which have sought to express the images of their minds, where those of their bodies have failed. - Francis Bacon
>>24627479
>it is your duty to maintain your shell
>weakness in any form is undesirable
What about when girls stop liking their boyfriends because he wasn't emotionally available enough, or when they think he's emotionless enough that they start to feel self-conscious about the relationship? Where do you reach the point where not opening up becomes a bad thing?
>>24627931
You're full of shit and living in a fantasy land. If you don't acknowledge the very real risk of being financially and psychologically ruined in divorce court, or just being stabbed in the back and keked by the whores who pass for women today, you're out of touch with reality.
No amount of self-development can defend you. You're vulnerable, and women are fickle. They can and will ruin you.
Just look around--here, on Facebook, anywhere, and see the ruin of males. They are being eaten up and destroyed. You will not be the exception.
You will be used and devoured. That is the totality of intercourse--of all kinds--with women. They are male meat processors.
>>24627981
This wise sage merely wishes to aid you anon. Do not be so quick to reject his advice.
>>24627931
Because I'm too lazy and broken to fight with another asshole... I have to deal with you guys all the time and I can't always run away... this time I will gladly step aside.
>denounces vidya for promoting NEEThood
>posts image of character from tumblr game
Okay mate.
>>24628027
I see leading my life to satisfy women as disgusting. I don't care if it's my biological destiny. It's philosophically repugnant.
I look at males and see what we achieve when left to our own devices, and then see women and what pathetic, mewling, foppish wastes of meat they are, and I can't do it. They don't inspire me. I don't care about them except wanting to fuck them.
Add to that how treacherous and demanding and fickle they are, and the disgusting bleeding pit near their shithole, and I seriously want to hack my ball off.
Women are honorless trash, and all the ancients knew it and all the best philosophers know it.
When will society actually start seeing video games as a legitimate source of entertainment? As a form of art?
I figure it will take about half the time it took movies. We've already got the solid foundation.
Also, nice cookie cutter set of values, OP. You'll definitely convince robots and not just irritate them further.
>>24627946
The part where it's an excuse. There is undoubtedly something else that makes you undesirable. If this is something that happened to you; the fact you're bitching about it now means you are, in fact, emotionally unavailable. There is also a huge difference between "shelling your inner self off to strangers" and "doing the same to your girlfriend".
If you're talking in a general sense; do not raise matters you have no experience with as an argument.
I will tell you this once. You have a black and white perspective. It's impossible to inform you of alternatives perspectives. This pretty much means you're incredibly immature. Work on that before even bothering with any other self improvements.
>>24627981
Beta providers are a real thing. They are the very same kind of man who get ruined through divorce. You can not use these people as an argument, because they are the emasculated fathers I talked to you about. They are the core of the issues we have with gender nowadays.
If you are, in fact, masculine enough, you will not have that problem. A woman wouldn't even feel tempted to start abusing her husband.
>>24628080
Give arguments why videogames do not promote "NEEThood". Oh wait, there are none. This is an established fact with just a little common sense. Try again mate.
>>24628192
It is a legitimate source of entertainment. However, videogames are incredibly good at being a way to escape real life due to the level of immersion and addiction. This is the part that is an issue. There is inherently nothing wrong with videogames, welfare, anime or internet. It's the part where the troubled, lifeless NEET abuses these things, much like a junk abusing legitimate medicines to get high.
I rephrase my statement regarding black and white perspectives to you. There exist middle grounds everywhere in this world. Grow up.
>>24628083
you sound hurt. Obviously a woman once had the power to make you feel like that
>>24628340
Can you really blame him? The poor bastard was probably chewed up and swallowed.
>>24628301
>Give arguments why videogames do not promote "NEEThood". Oh wait, there are none.
>It [videogames] is a legitimate source of entertainment. However, videogames are incredibly good at being a way to escape real life due to the level of immersion and addiction. This is the part that is an issue. There is inherently nothing wrong with videogames, welfare, anime or internet.
Which is it? Are videogames inherently promoting neethood, or are videogames innocent and neethood is based on the user? If you can't be consistent here, why should I believe anything else you have to say?
>>24628474
See >>24628301
>I will tell you this once. You have a black and white perspective. It's impossible to inform you of alternatives perspectives. This pretty much means you're incredibly immature. Work on that before even bothering with any other self improvements.
They are both, poor little Anon.
>>24628509
It's not black and white perspectives to want the person making a claim to be internally consistent.
>>24628541
There is no inconsistency in my statement. You are quite simply illiterate.
There is nothing wrong with videogames at base level, but can be abused by NEETs to fill the emptiness of their life by the amount of immersion and addiction a videogame can provide.
Do you understand now, Anon?
>>24627094
Why should I? I just want to watch the world burn.
>>24627094
>In our day and age, we live in a society where the male figure has declined substantially, and is still in the process of declining further. There are multiple things to blame for this, the earliest traceable culprit being the invention of the cubicle in 1960. This invention eliminated masculinity in the workplace.
you want to substantiate that claim or am I just supposed to agree because you said so?
>It's very much possible to not be a "robot". All it takes is some actual effort.
so "just b urself"
>With these things set in place to occupy the empty, worthless life of a robot, most of them feel compelled to never change their lifestyle, yet somehow still have the guts to demand the exact same luxuries of a normal human being. Don't you get it?
if someone lacks internal motivation, they'll never achieve anything. if you have no intrinsic drive or desire to achieve separate from external factors, you won't. Don't you get it?
>You do not deserve the "basic necessities" such as sex and love. You gave that up when you chose masturbating to loli girls, or hiding yourself in the fantasy world of Gielinor.
yes, the only virgins are caricature neckbeards, sweet meme
>And don't be fooled; women are on the same path of destruction as men.
step outside, society's doing just fine. the internet very rarely bleeds into day-to-day life unless you surround yourself with idiots. and you know how the saying goes:
>"Whoever keeps company with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools suffers harm." -- Proverbs, 13:20.
>>24628301
Holy shit man you sound very wise. I completely agree with you in most of what you are saying.
Do you happen to have an aim account? I'd like to talk to you.
>>24628666
You said
>videogames promote NEEThood
If something promotes an ideal that you consider evil, then you cannot say that there is nothing wrong with the product in general. Either videogames promote neethood, which means that a normal person can become a neet solely through gaming, or that nothing is wrong with videogames at base, which means that the neethood comes from some other factor [emptyness].
I think you, like many are confusing cause and effect. People aren't lonely because they play videogames. People play videogames because they're lonely. But it's okay, you don't really care about trying to make yourself look good.
>>24627094
your' insanely retarded my man
>>24628749
>you want to substantiate that claim or am I just supposed to agree because you said so?
The rest of my post is substantiation, silly Anon.
>so "just b urself"
"Being yourself" implies no effort. I'm telling you to actually put in effort. Very big difference.
>if someone lacks internal motivation, they'll never achieve anything. if you have no intrinsic drive or desire to achieve separate from external factors, you won't. Don't you get it?
Motivation is something you develop, and you won't develop it if you're content with filling your life with nothing but escapism. That is the whole idea revolving the issue presented, friend.
>yes, the only virgins are caricature neckbeards, sweet meme
Twisting of statement. I did not imply neckbeards, nor did I imply virginity. You can be emasculated and not be a virgin. You can waste your whole life on escapism as defined by the list in my OP without being a typical neckbeard.
>step outside, society's doing just fine
If it was, then radical feminism and the glorification of failure and laziness would not be present. We're on our path to destruction.
>>24628848
I said.
>grow the fuck up, black and white thinker
Cheers mate.
>>24628875
Disagreement is not grounds for the other party to be retarded. At least try to present reasons why, silly 16 year old.
>>24627931
The activities you stated are diversions, rather than interests. I must state that I disagree with your assessment of them though. A diversion is a diversion, how some chooses to recreate bears little significance in my opinion. I find that anime helps give me interesting worlds to disect and discern the quality of, which is helpful for creative endeavors.
I think it's ones inability to engage in anything other than diversion that causes failure, combined with lack of innate ability and overcontentment in regards to a stangany state. Most diversions are a waste of time, most are simply a way to recreate and are fine in moderation. Long before colorful manifestations of technologies, most have managed to live in a state of failure or mediocracy.
>>24627094
Joe? Is that you?
>>24628919
>Disagreement is not grounds for the other party to be retarded.
>grow the fuck up, black and white thinker
>Cheers mate.
More inconsistency. You have fun thinking that you've got it all figured out, while you can't defend a point.
>>24628986
I like your post. What would you think is the solution for dealing with the lack of innate [unteachable] ability?
let me start by saying i appreciate the fact that you come here because discourse is what prevents this from becoming tumblr or leddit echochamber.
what do you say to the genetically inferior? if there is nothing reasonably attainable in the normal life-as it has been for men throughout history- through nothing controllable, what then? if a guy is 5'3 mentally ill and ugly then why even bother? and dont give some useless ancedoes about the 2'3 autistic ugly man who gets 1000 girls a night or whatever. inferior bone structure is undeniably a way to loneliness no matter how suave or masculine. especially within the last 15 years its gone into hyperdrive, women outright wanting to kill the genetically inferior. 100 years ago these men would die alone anyways, so why disparage those who legitimately have no hope? evolution does not allow for all men and women to breed.
look, for arund 80% of the men here this is valid advice. but there are men here that aren't just 6'3 skellys who like to complain because they dont put work in. sometimes you just lose, and there isn't a just world fallacy argument big enough to contain it.
>>24629069
Augmentation of said ability through natural means, good cardiovascular endurance is associated with better blood flow and circulation to the brain. Meditation has also shown itself to be promising, due to structural changes over time, higher brain effeciency, increased focus, and increased mental wellness.
Beyond that, i think specialization and doing something that interests you is key. I feel like most people of intelligence are more inclined towards certain skill sets. There is an art of some kind out there for everyone. Of course practice is also very important, some will simply have to work harder than others to achieve.
>>24628986
>the activities you stated are diversions
Aren't they the same thing? Do you mean to call them distractions, instead? Technically, every hobby is a distraction from your basic expected duties in life. I don't see the difference.
>most diversions are a waste of time
Pretty much, that's the whole point about hobbies, past times and anything like it. Man needs a way to stay sane from having to fulfill their societal obligations. That's their purpose, not revolving your life around them. The moment you start doing that, you become a waste of space, life and soul.
And it's no secret that life in the past was undesirable to all but the most important people in society.
>>24629143
>what do you say to the genetically inferior?
Your life doesn't have to be determined by your biological drive to not be lonely, or the drive to have sex. Having either one of the two should be an optional choice while you focus on what's more important; your own ambitions, fulfilling your dreams. Because of the wide range of possibilities we have with our current day's technological level, there has to be something that isn't the desire to have sex or a girlfriend (which is nothing but primal instinct) which should be the driving force in your life.
>mentally ill
What mental illness? Does it hinder your ability to learn a trade, skill or hobby?
>ugly
Not of importance.
>>24629449
>What mental illness? Does it hinder your ability to learn a trade, skill or hobby?
yes
>Not of importance.
lol
>>24629513
Answer my question. What mental illness?
>another vidya hate thread
Listen nigger. Video games are a hobby and it's not some "poison" like you think it is. Go be a reporting nigger somewhere else. Reddit sounds like your type of place
>>24627094
>hur durr i'm better than you shitters you don't know shit about life bu i know everything and you don't so suck my dick :^)
Really deep message you got there
>>24629565
I didn't imply it wasn't, but it's abused as a means of escapism from a human being's societal obligations. If you don't do it for this reason, then there's nothing wrong with playing videogames.
>>24627094
>putting pussy on pedestal
This is why you're a beta faggot normalshit.
Nigger.
>>24628919
>The rest of my post is substantiation, silly Anon.
I must have missed the part where you provided substantial (or any) proof or argument to back up the claim that:
>the earliest traceable culprit being the invention of the cubicle in 1960. This invention eliminated masculinity in the workplace.
>Twisting of statement.
>You gave that up when you chose masturbating to loli girls, or hiding yourself in the fantasy world of Gielinor.
it's very clear what you're implying. I'm not sure if you passed 7th grade literature, but sometimes words can mean something other than what they explicitly state.
>If it was, then radical feminism
I live in New York City, allegedly a liberal Mecca and this has not affected my life even once
>glorification of failure and laziness
I don't know where the fuck you come from, but this also isn't a thing; maybe you've read a few too many NEET threads and the incessant shitposting has penetrated your skull.
>We're on our path to destruction.
so do you have any economic data or any real indicators that substantiate this claim, or are you just decrying the decaying values of the Western world? Because people were doing that in the 1960s too. And in the time of the ancient Greeks, for that matter.
As for:
>"Being yourself" implies no effort. I'm telling you to actually put in effort. Very big difference.
not going to argue because that's reasonable enough, fine.
>>24629549
pure-ocd
im unusually calm but normally the compulsions run for hours and hours and dont stop. i cant commit to doing anything because eventually my mind will stop and tell me its wrong
>>24629215
>Meditation has also shown itself to be promising, due to structural changes over time, higher brain effeciency, increased focus, and increased mental wellness.
You need to meditate for 3 years to get any of the benefits you mentioned
>>24629614
To play devils advocate. What exactly are societies obligations anymore? Procreation is un-needed. I'm fact I would say that unless you have truly remarkable genes, you are more helpful to society by not having children. Adoption of course exists, but isn't quite an obligation to those who have kids. As far as working goes, at this point a good chunk of jobs are unnecessary and exist to placate people. I do think we need more emotionally supportive people in society, but some neets manage to be helpful to their friends anyway. The need for participation in society is at an all time low.
>>24629746
To enjoy those benefits to a substantial degree, yes. There have been some pretty short term ones that have been done that show some benefits. Regardless I was simply answering whether one can augment their natural ability. Of course doing so is not easy, it's astounding that it's even possible time and dedication is required like with most things. A half hour a day for three years is still more than 1/10th the time required for attainment of a bachelor's degree, which is something that a large portion of people manage.
>women
>effort
They do their makeup and starve themselves. Not that much effort.
>>24629912
Mating is certainly easier for women, it come with a loss of ambition packaged in though. Men have more upwards mobility and ambition, while women can achieve a comfortable place through looks alone.
>>24629683
Oh, you were literally talking about the cubicle?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cubicle
Besides reading this, it's an obvious deduction that an office job is incredibly draining and pacifying, and being primarily dominated by men, breeds generations worth of men who are simply dead inside.
>it's very clear what you're implying
Apparently not, since you still don't get it even after I explained it further. I appreciate your pointless insults, though. They certainly help to prove your opinion to be worth anything (sarcasm).
>I live in New York City, allegedly a liberal Mecca and this has not affected my life even once
The mere existence of feminism in a world that doesn't need it anymore is indication that society is not doing well. It doesn't take much to confirm that when feminism is too prominent, despite its redundancy, it can not be good for society.
>I don't know where the fuck you come from, but this also isn't a thing; maybe you've read a few too many NEET threads and the incessant shitposting has penetrated your skull.
I could set an appointment with a government official right now, and receive welfare within a week, enough to cover living costs, simply because I have been diagnosed with ADD when I was a child. However this is west Europe, Netherlands specifically. As far as I've heard, it's just as easy to receive autismbux in the United States and pretty much every other first world country. Is this incorrect?
>so do you have any economic data or any real indicators that substantiate this claim
Nope. What we're talking about is an unspoken theory, so we may discuss whether it holds any truth. However, "real indicators" and existing data would imply destruction has already took place. It has not, but I believe it will in the future.
>>24629711
http://www.disabled-world.com/artman/publish/famous-ocd.shtml
Nothing is stopping you on your road to success.
>>24629764
In the most basic of sense, having a job, supporting your country and fellow people in whatever way possible, and just being a respectable human being. That's my version of it, though. Can you defend those who rot away in their basement while leeching on their parents and/or government funds while spending the majority of their time calling people in similar bad situations all sorts of things? This mostly refers to calling any fembot a whore, slut, life on easymode failure etcetera. These sorts of people could be contributing to the stability of society in the same way any normal person does instead of leeching from them. Help funds should be restricted to the completely incapable due to -severe- mental issues or physically disabled. I'd say it's even better to just exterminate these people, along with the elderly, but my moral compass shouldn't be judged, even if it's in the best interest of society's stability.
>>24630119
lol. half of those are just "i dont like germs" "i do some minor stuff thats quirky lol"
the closest thing i can think of is howie mandel, but he's also funny and im not. it comes down to genetics once more, these people had maladies but also were genetically superior in other ways. ocd isnt a problem in an otherwise normal life its just yet another debilitation. im also stupid, uncreative, ugly and turbomanlet.
>>24627094
The tl;dr is good advice, but what do you have to prove you aren't emasculated like some here?
>>24627479
the more i read, the more i like you.
>>24630420
>Good advice
Telling people to do something does not qualify as good advice
>>24630288
>Can you defend those who rot away in their basement while leeching on their parents and/or government funds while spending the majority of their time calling people in similar bad situations all sorts of things?
>falling for the basement dweller meme
cmon now. the people posing here are predominately usa and it isnt easy to get government bux if you dont have children. the system is for the extremely disabled and for people working at dead end jobs but had 5 children anyways.
have you seen videos of down syndrome people working? they probably get disability too but the government still wants them working
the neet thing is a meme. i would wager most people here have a job. look on wizchan if you want a glimpse of what a neet dominated board looks like.
>>24630467
he makes good points
not that masculine shit, but the rest is pretty solid.
>>24630420
Why do I have to prove that? I'm not trying to convince you of "my superior lifestyle", I'm simply giving you something to think about.
But if it appeases you, I wouldn't even be able to conceive the thought of putting those who are emasculated beneath me, since such a thing wouldn't be possible if I were on the same wavelength as those.
>>24630559
These are "Wizchan NEETs" in the making. This board is indeed predominantly underaged teens who think that going to school, then only playing games and watching anime in their spare time is the definition of "NEET". However, they're still well on their way of destroying themselves. Their obsession with getting a girlfriend and losing their virginity is going to drive them to NEET insanity.
>have you seen videos of down syndrome people working
Yes I have. People with down syndrome are very capable of being regular members of society, which includes having a job. I don't see your point.
>>24630852
Yes I have. People with down syndrome are very capable of being regular members of society, which includes having a job. I don't see your point.
point is that they wont become neets because you have to be really messed up to get bux in usa. if you think all families are passive and are gonna let some 30 year old son go MOM TENDIES REEEEE and not do anything about it you are wrong. the underage kids probably dont have a spine anyways, they will be forced hrough college passively because if their parents are that passive the kid is probably moreso. but more importantly:
the issue with wizchan neets is that society has deincentivized doing anything. there isnt a point to geting married because of how easily you can be screwed. i know youve made the arguments that its just a matter of masculinity and keeping them around or whatever, but you really dont seem to understand how far the deck is stacked. its not like you being masculine is gonna make her rethink ruining you for personal gain, thats just how people are to each other. the problem is that you are blaming a societal issue that disenfranchises men and particularly the ever-expanding group of undesirables(like this board) on the men instead of the system or feminism. the american dream is dead, so what will take its place? it sounds reminicent of those feminists that blame men for "perpetual adolescence" even though its the who drove them there. and let's be real here, the reason for that is its much easier to blame men because it's conditioned in you that women are never to blame and men are always bad.
Get out of your comfort zone.
I realized a few months ago that l have literally not experienced anything new in the last 6 years since finishing HS. I work a dead end job, fap, play vidya, watch anime, and browse 4chan.
The jobs have changed, the type of porn I watch has changed, the games I play have changed, and the boards I visit have changed. THATS it. Thats literally the only differences in my life in the past 6 years. 0 friends. 0 interest in anything besides feeling sorry for myself and killing time.
It was a quote I heard that finally made me realize that I want to change.
"Do what you can do not what you can't do"
The way I interpret it is take baby steps. Even if its small and insignificant, its better than nothing.
My biggest insecurity has always been my acne. I've had it since I was 13, so almost half my life. I can't put into words how much anguish its caused me. I can put into words what I've tried to do about it though: Absolutely nothing.
Until the start of this month. Instead of feeling sorry for myself and running away from my problems, I decided to see what I could do about it. So I fucking opened google, typed in "how to treat acne" and pressed enter. And I fucking learned information about how to deal with my problem. I found a website called acne.org, read everything I could, and ordered some products that I thought would help me based on my new found knowledge. And guess fucking what, it worked. My face hasn't looked this good since my balls didn't have any hair on them.
Now obviously not all of my problems can be fixed this way. And I was lucky that my skin reacted really well to the medication, but it was fucking liberating to know that I can increase the quality of my life by following a simple fucking pattern:
Introspect and Identify what is decreasing the quality of your life.
Type in google "how to fix whatever that is"
Gain knowledge
1/2
>>24631171
If your fucking problem was solved with a single google search you're an incredibly overprivileged retard and you don't deserve to exist on this earth. Fuck off.
>>24631171
good thing there is a google solution to being a manlet and an asymetrical ugly face
your solution is actually quite funny as it is unintentionally exposes that most "robots" on this site have easily fixable problems but dont want to deal with them
>>24627094
I agree to a certain extent. However, a certain portion of us are completely hopeless. There's not much you can do if you're a genetic disaster; no amount of self improvement is going to make women look past that.
>>24631220
Mine are easily fixable in the sense that it would only take a shitload of money and going back in time at least 10-15 years.
>>24631427
sounds like a piece of cake, have you tried to b yourself?
>>24627094
>Undertale
I'm getting sick of seeing this mediocre game everywhere
>>24631171
That's great
"How to fix ugly face"
Can't.
~fin~
>>24631171
2/2
"Do what you can do not what you can't do" - Determine if there is a course of action that I can take
Do it. Or don't.
move on to next problem
Right now I'm swallowing the red pill and learning about various different social dynamics that I never had the chance to pick up on due to being a friendless antisocial loser for the past 11 years.
The most important thing I have learned so far is that changing external superficial things, will affect internal things.
https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are?language=en
My next step is to try to lose weight/ and fix my diet in hopes that I don't feel tired and lazy 24/7.
Will I ever become a normal human being? I don't know. But the one thing I do know is that change and inspiration isn't going to suddenly drop from the sky. Happiness, my ultimate goal, is not something that I will suddenly wake up to. It is something that I will have to build one step at a time.
Will I make it? I don't know. But I do know that if I live my life doing the exact same things I've done every day for the last 11 years, nothing will change.
Protip: Get off this fucking website. Two months ago I would never ever EVER have said this, but go to reddit. Its infinitely better than this shithole. When you surround yourself with negativity, you become negative. Change what you can around you. Do what you can do not what you can't do
Cya 4chan. 2007-2015.
>>24628083
Underrated original post.
>>24631617
>Two months ago I would never ever EVER have said this, but go to reddit
I think the better advice is to just give up both.
