are you afraid of girls?
No.
Things I'm afraid of:
>confined spaces
>little birds
>the jews
>>24621857
Yes, I'm afraid of speaking to them or flirting because I have no idea how. I'm also scared of them hitting or hurting me because I'm thin and weak.
Not afraid perse, but im just bad with them and get really afraid I'll say or do something inappropriate.
>>24621857
No, but I do fear death, Hell, and have extreme arachnophobia.
>>24621979
This but its more so just a self loathing at how I can't do this thing I'm supposed to be able to
To be honest yes, a bit. When I was in my last year of sixth form (that's basically high school in the UK). This qt3.14 Sri Lankan chick started following me round and trying to talk to me. Every time she saw me she would try to engage me in conversation and touch me on the shoulder. She was a little weird but actually quite attractive. Anyway I basically convinced myself that i would be a shit boyfriend and she would probably end up hating me anyway; plus I thought having a gf would fuck up my grades. So I was mean to her and avoided her. In the end she left me alone and found another guy to go out with.
I guess I was just really scared. I'm 21 and a kv. Not dating that Sri Lankan chick is one of biggest regrets.
Yes, I am.
mortblicks
>>24621938
Here's a tip anon, if you speak to girls as if they were guys with a seemingly indifferent view on them they'll be more comfortable to talk to, plus they'll be more interested.
Nope. I just don;t have friends. Can't make any. So no gf for me ever.
Scared? I don't know if I'd characterise my aversion like that. But I'm averse to socialising with anyone, male or female. How much does fear play into that? Not sure. Let's see.
I tend to get lost for words in idle/friendly conversation. It takes more time for me to process the spoken words of others. So I'm slow. In a conversation of more than 2 people, I listen, but have difficulty multi-tasking with listening and formulating cogent responses before someone else makes my point, or moves the conversation elsewhere.
Sometimes I jump the gun and blurt out some dumb shit. So I avoid these situations to save myself the embarrassment.
With girls in particular, being two years away from wizardhood makes being confidently attractive difficult.
I actually am afraid of girls
I feel very uncomfortable in their presence
I used to be but I'm not anymore.
>>24621938
>I'm also scared of them hitting or hurting me because I'm thin and weak.
Shouldn't you be more afraid of guys hurting you since they're stronger
For all the guys that are afraid of girls, I'd recommend going to a strip club. It will desensatize you a bit.
>>24621857
n...no. Why would I be?
Why would anyone not be afraid of them?
>>24621857
i'm more comfortable around girls than boys, desu
like i struggle with conversations if i'm not flirting in them
>>24623196
ugh what the fuck that sounds so unnatural and cringe inducing
>>24623131
Went to a burlesque show once, a work outing. Tame stuff compared to the depraved porn I've watched, and my distance from the stage would make the size of the on-retina images smaller than porn on my PC monitor. But it was the first in-person sexual-context nudity I'd seen. It felt like an electrical fire in my brain.
Didn't help any.
>>24621857
I'm not afraid of girls, they're just afraid of me.
Yes, especially ones my age. It intimidates me at thought that they have so much more life experience than I do even though we're the same age.
20 years old, never been to a concert, badically know jack shit about sports, don't know any popular current musical artists or bands or even older ones, my lack of social interactions growing up has stunted my emotional growth to the point that I'm probably mentally a 16 year old, and more stuff I don't feel like typing.
Like they figured all this shit out years ago and here I am still struggling with it while playing video games and jacking off to chinese cartoons. It's a pretty bad feeling, esecially considering my one gf broke up with me for not being as mature as she was.
>>24623226
i mean not over the top flirting, but just slightly playful now and then.
boys all seem too standoffish
>>24623082
Once you realize they're all valid whores and not some angelic beings you're supposed to be respectful around the fear goes away.
I actually get unwanted attention because in public I act like they're not even there and then they try talking to me and then I act like they're wasting my time
>>24621857
Who wouldnt be? You fuck up and then 10 people knows about your spaghetti.
>>24623238
You need more.
At a proper strip club girls will come up to you and sit in your lap. It's the physical contact you need. You need enough of it so that it doesn't make you jump when it happens.
>>24623533
Why not hug normal girls in real life instead of strippers?
Girls seem to hug people all the time. It's weird.
>>24621857
>looks around
>uhh m-me?
>sweat beading off forehead and scrotum
no
No
Just because I am not uncontrollably compelled to turn into a self destructive idiot in a attemt to put my dick in one does not mean that I am afraid. Just that I don't really care about sex.
When you don't care about sex so much you see women as people and judge them by the same universal standards. When you do that you see that most people, including most women, are pretty shit most of the time.
I just rather jack off then deal with all the drama and bullshit. I did the cost benefit analysis and it just not worth it to me.
I hate love. Fuck.
What do I do?
why should i be?
>>24626623
They have the potential to leave an annoyingly painful type of wound that doesn't seem to leave.
No. You're not immune.
If you believe you're immune, you're probably the most vulnerable.
yes
a group of 3 girls bullied me when i was like 12
one of them used to touch my butt
i was so fucking scared
it was not as good as you think
