>tfw you come to the conclusion that the reason you have no friends and you family doesn't want to spend time with you is because you're genuinely just an unlikable person who doesn't deserve to be loved.
i try so hard to be interesting and funny and confident and attractive. i put so much effort into learning shit and picking up skills and acing college tests.
and it's all for nothing. no matter what i do i'll never be good enough to earn the affection of others.
even /r9k/ hates me
>>24590476
Good job, Anon. Now you can finally begin your journey to bettering yourself and becoming a likable person.
>>24590507
>literally says they do nothing but try way too hard to better themselves
>"Good job, now you can learn to better yourself!!"
Do what I did and stop trying to get people to like you, hate to say it, but it's the only time when you should b urself.
If you manage to reach the point where you can fake being a decent person and get people to like you, you get tired of it after a day.
I once tried to stop making edgy jokes, being aggressive and start being kind to people, trust me, it's fucking exhausting.
>>24590520
Oh, but you misunderstand me. "Trying to be interesting and funny and confident and attractive" is not bettering yourself. That's bettering the image others have of yourself.
Now that OP realizes that appealing solely to others does not make you likable, he can finally start the actual road to bettering himself.
>>24590476
start to don't give a fuck about anything. its hard at first but eventually you'll just be a kind of good mood always... and you know why? cos you dont give a shit about anything
>>24590569
that's stupid advice. it's in human nature to want to have positive interactions with other people. it's like trying to fight the need to masturbate. you can only do it for so long before breaking down.
Are you that autistic guy from 13 hours ago?
I came to this realization long ago. It never ends.
>>24590594
infact we're robots you idiot. not humans.
>tfw not funny
LITERALLY the only thing people look for. Doesn't matter if you have other great qualities. They only want to hang out with the guy who can make them laugh. Even family will choose the funny guy over you. People will ignore you, or outright dislike because you aren't fun.
I can't even blame them though. Laughing is a great feeling.
>>24590639
Could be worse: I make people laugh, but it's only at edgy shit. So they'll occasionally invite me to drink, but they'd never seriously take me to a get-together, try and hook me up with somebody, etc.
>>24590476
now now...kiss kiss
>>24590551
>put so much effort into learning shit and picking up skills and acing college tests
Quit acting autistic and state your point.
>>24590875
Read the rest of my post, thanks.
>>24590551
>That's bettering the image others have of yourself
>Now that OP realizes that appealing solely to others does not make you likable, he can finally start the actual road to bettering himself.
>>24590476
I don't hate you. In fact I wanna make out a do sexy this to your boypussy
JUST GET A FUCKING JOB
It's literally that simple.
>>24590633
this this this
OP an idiot
>>24590476
Something you need to understand, OP. I doubt you'll read it because you've probably abandoned thread, but hopefully you do see it:
There's a difference between having an agreeable personality (i.e. cultivating an exterior that people want to be around) and actually being a good person. You could be intelligent , talented, skilled or whatever else, but if you have subpar social skills, then even people who are somewhat similar to you are just not going to be that receptive.
If what you say is true, and people DO dislike you (not necessarily the truth, btw), it has nothing to do with your internal worth; it's about how you present yourself.
Instead of trying to do vague things like being interesting or funny, just treat socialising as another skill to be learned.
Keep in mind, that a lot of the most 'popular' individuals in the world are fucking dreadful people. In fact, the higher up you go, the morl likely the people around you will be sociopaths, since their kind are almost universally attracted to positions of 'power'.
>>24590913
The 'actual road' being...?
I'm sorry for you if you believe your riddlespeak ever helps. Social behavior or likability isn't achieved by making some abstract journey to 'better oneself' more than learning to be useful and interesting, both for oneself and others.
>>24590507
>>24590551
>>24590913
>>24592487
Quite frankly and quite literally: please kill yourselves.
