If you want a gf, all you literally have to do is just be yourself.
Be yourself and let her run your life
Nobody wants myself. I have to become someone else.
Confident, a hard worker earning his own living, someone who has goals in life and likes being around people and to be social and making stupid jokes.
>>24588715
No, no, no. She's not running your life, she's bettering you.
>>24588685
>Charles Orlando
>theproblemismen
Wat
>>24588685
>being myself is having the girl approach me
>tfw no girl does this
>like girl
>try to be self for once
>creep girl out
>cops called
>expelled from college
Right... "Be yourself."
If you want a woman, all you have to do is spin plates.
Go read up on reddit r/theredpill.
How do you tell which women are the Right women, though? I can't afford to keep buying new cars and christmas presents.
>>24588685
>Women want men to choose to put them as a priority.
This is the most misogynist thing I have read for some time, by either a man or a woman.
It is true, too.
>>24588735
Get to forever what? In the friendzone? Be a kek?
1) Just be urself
2) Go outside
3) Talk to every single person you see
>>24588731
You ain't gotta be all of those.
One or two is sufficient, mang.
>>24588685
But isn't the second list the same as the first one?
>>24589428
Well, the smile is mutually exclusive from the first list....unless your teeth are entirely artificial and beautiful, in which case your money has truly bought your smile.
...think of the second list as an addition! Because who the fuck doesn't want a car, money, and gifts, shit?!
>>24588735
>meet cute grill
>get along well
>surprising amount of things in common, first for me
>she's actually forward, besides being the shy, bookworm with the librarian glasses type
>sometimes she's the one doing the approaching, coming on, etc.
>fall for her near instantaneously
>soon things seem to be going wrong
>can't tell what she's not telling
>go to /r9k/
>"lolz she finds you a beta now"
>"you're now her emotional tampon, derp derp"
>take pua advice (this was 2010/2011)
>try to neg her and be somewhat of an asshole
>advice promises this will win her back
>actually makes her so repulsed that even to this day she tries her damndest to not be in the same room
>so many attempts to reconcile just made things worse
>this was four years ago
>spent that time working on self, hoping to get her back
>learned to dance, piano, got in better shape (cardio -- not lifting), landed dream job for now, get paid better, better friends, etc.
>so psyched, can't wait to find her again and see how she takes to me now
>meet different girl
>sweet, charming, also does the approaching sometimes
>have the most thought-out conversations I've had with a girl in years
>like her better, been dating since
True story.
>>24588685
Woman do not no loyalty. I have convinced myself in that recently and now i will never trust another human being or get emotionally attached to fucking anyone ever again until i die.
I dont know what the fuck i did to diserve such a shit life. I was such a happy child until i started school and to get involved with people.
>>24588685
The meme again. Thank you for the meme!
>>24589238
https://.youtube.com/watch?v=fZ3QtEws7pk
>>24588752
You're right, same here.
Being myself is being shy.
Actually a good way to get a girl to like/respect you is to give her space and to not get mad when she does not want to talk all the time. Yea you get lonely sometimes but like you females need alone time too. At least that's how I see it I can't tell you how many guys have tried getting mad at me for just taking a while to reply. Or not wanting to hang out?? And it's annoying Long story short I don't owe anyone anything. I like to be alone
>>24588685
JUST
U
S
T
BEE URSELF
>>24588685
but my time IS my money
>>24589640
>cardio
>not lifting
confirmed not going to make it
>>24588685
Me being myself is precisely the reason I will never have a gf.
It's too bad I'm such an uncompromising retard.
>>24588685
>You might think she wats your car, your money and gifts.
>And you would be right. She does.
>But she also wants all of your time, your smile, your tactful and not-really-honesty, your effort and you choosing to put her before everything, no matter what.
>She also wants your house, your family, your friends and everything you have.
>She expects it.
Fix'd.
>>24588685
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>>24589640
>got in better shape
>cardio - not lifting
pick one bro
>>24590006
>>24590005
>>24589985
holy shit all of you are fags
>>24588685
> you just gotta have confidence bruh
>>24590032
Who hurt you anon-kun?
>>24590032
why go to the gym if you're not going to at least try building muscle.
or do you just want to be a twink skinnyfag and get all the robots attention?
>>24589779
>>24588752
Knowing those feelios brothers. I don't want to be le traditional masculine man. I could pretend to be that way for a while but inevitably she'd find out and dump me.
>>24590104
>why go to the gym if you're not going to at least try building muscle.
To get into whatever shape they want to, which often requires a certain of exercise. I don't get why men are so obsessed with huge muscles. They look so ugly, and makes them come off as the type to beat their girlfriends.
>>24588685
hahahahahahahahahahaha that picture is fucking bullshit all women are shallow materialistic whores. no woman will date a man with no job or nothing to offer. the best you can do is sleep with her but she will not see you as relationship material because women like to be taken care of. also the last part is bullshit too why do you think women like bad boys? women like bad boys because they are a challenge and they don't put her in a pedestal.
>>24590162
no one said huge muscles, but he's just gonna go from fatfag to skinny fag and no definition whatsoever is disgusting.
>>24588685
>mfw ive been myself all the time
>>24589640
you failed because you become desperate and obsessive with her. you could of had her if you were more patient with her and making sure her her friends liked you too and giving her time to reflect her feeling for you.
>>24588685
>Dear Men:
>You might think she wants your car, your money, and gifts.
>And you're right, she does.
>But she wants you to call them time, effort and putting her as a priority so that she doesn't have to feel bad about it.
>>24590162
Considering most men who beat their girlfriends/WIVES have relationships lasting >year, they're obviously doing something better than we are.
>>24588685
What the fuck, women expect me to out her as my one priority above everything else? I have so much going on in my life, but she wants me to choose her over my job, my family, my volunteer duties, church if I'm religious, my car's maintenance?? What a shallow and self-centered expectation
>>24590162
>go to gym
>only do cardio
What are you, a fucking woman? Just run around the block, cycle or go swimming nigga.
But you can actually never "be yourself", you have to be the ideal man of your gf dreams.
That pic is the biggest bullshit I have ever read in my life. Yes, women WANT all your free time, effort, and you putting them as a priority, but the moment you give them all of it they lose all interest. It's like wanting a toy you can't have. Once you get it you don't appreciate it anymore. Women are fucking retarded.
>>24589098
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJCFxKQmlZI
Are girls impressed by this?
>>24589238
>1) Just be urself
>2) Go outside
>3) Talk to every single person you see
pick one faggot
>>24589640
>>spent that time working on self, hoping to get her back
>>learned to dance, piano, got in better shape (cardio -- not lifting), landed dream job for now, get paid better, better friends, etc.
besides the creepiness of focusing on a girl that dumped you years ago, you (probably inadvertently) hit on what you're supposed to do: BETTER YOURSELF. GAIN CONFIDENCE.
Women hate self-loathing creeps. Attracting a woman won't work if you don't believe in your own ability to brush off what literally is nothing more than a human being with a different chromosome than you. They aren't special, YOU are.
>>24591171
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>>24591419
>PUA shit
>>24591451
It's as much about female psychology as anything.
Clearly what you're doing is working, though, so carry on.
>>24588685
That image is the opposite of the truth.
