How could so many of you still be virgins in your 20's? Unless you are/were physically hideous or afraid of talking to women? Because I'm starting to think this "no gf" circlejerk is just a meme.
leave and never come back
I'm 25 and afraid of talking to anyone.
I've also had no friends for 7 years.
>>24585506
I knew it dude
>>24585678
Knew what?
>>24585698
Don't worry about him. Just one of the usual Edgespergs
>>24585698
that you are all a bunch of fringe cases
>>24585729
>go to a containment board for adult virgins
>hah I knew you were fringe cases
Obviously?
>>24585774
Where does it say this is such a containment board? It's a pretty large traffic site
>>24585834
Every thread in the catalog is a good indication
>>24585850
I've seen maybe 3 threads fitting that description. You're full of shit.
>>24585434
I would still be a virgin if it wasn't for 4chan desu. I think most people who don't lose their virginity do it because they aren't put in enough situations where asking someone out or flirting, even in a pathetic beta way, is considered socially acceptable. They've also missed some of the major steps that other people go through naturally I.E having their first girlfriend and kiss during their teens.
The thing that brings a lot of r9k to users is this sense of 'retreat'. I think if you looked into the lives of most virgins on here you'd find out that some time in their early life they were socialised in such a way that 'retreat' was a reasonable response to life's problems and this meme got stuck in their mind.
>>24585899
What about you stop lying and leave the board ?
>>24585938
>I think if you looked into the lives of most virgins on here you'd find out that some time in their early life they were socialised in such a way that 'retreat' was a reasonable response to life's problems and this meme got stuck in their mind.
Care to present any examples? Genuinely curious.
>>24585938
Holy shit you're right. Have you studied psychology or something? I did a little by myself and I've noticed this pattern in my life going way back. I wonder if this is the main reason for us being fuck-ups.
>>24586001
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidance_coping
It'd be surprised if most people didn't use this coping mechanism. If you mean examples as in you want me to point out individuals who do this on r9k, I don't know. I know I do but that's about it.
>>24586006
I'm just a layman who 'reckons' some stuff. I don't really have much to back up what I said other than a chain of logic that sounds reasonable, a bit of background reading and a psychology A-level
>>24585938
>22
>NEET
>shut-in
>high school dropout
>fat
>short
>ugly
>small dick
>still live with mom
no plans of changing, not happy with this life but there's no hope for becoming anything more.the only girls who have been into me have been severely mentally ill, hoping an accident takes me out so family won't have to deal with a suicide down the line.
>>24585434
I know this is bait, but I'll attach this map anyways.
Note that the countries in the 20s are some of the most populous in the world
>>24586125
>nordics are chads
Even though it appears that Finns are chads in general, how is there such a significant robot population from there?
>>24586125
Why is amerilardia so degenerate?
>>24586180
their countries are FILLED to the brim with niggers and sandniggers
>>24586125
Citation needed. I can make a map in Mspaint too.
If you say "search it yourself" it's comfirmed bullshit.
>>24586182
18 is degenerate?
I'm surprised the number wasn't lower, would have expected something like 15 being the average age of virginity loss.
>>24586204
Not really. People just repeat this kind of stuff about every country and in most cases it's just made up.
>>24586182
>"MEN MAKE ME SICK CAUSE THEY OUT ME AS A CHEATER"
fucking women
>>24585434
>afraid of talking to women?
bingo
>>24585938
Retreat leaving the entire village burning was usually the issue here at various intervals in my life
Now if I see bullshit the people I just do my Best to avoid them before my PTSD is triggered
I was awful with women in high school, and then I just never went out and did social things afterwards
Nearing wizardhood here
I think I could lose it if I really wanted to, but the downsides of starting so late and constantly having to pretend to be someone else isn't worth it
I'm 20 and I see literally no benefits to getting laid. I can fuck my fleshlight and get the same pleasure as fucking a girl with a condom.
>>24586283
you're wrong. their welfare is through the roof, so naturally it's a sandnigger magnet
>>24586233
Do you see the filename? I got it from Wizchan.
I simply dont have killer instinct. I can somewhat talk with women but intimacy is out of question. I get panic attack and want to run out 1 on 1 situation.
>>24585434
because im a fat nerd and girls don't want to fuck fat nerds OP
>>24585434
>How could so many of you still be virgins in your 20's?
I lost my virginity to a callgirl at the age of 18 (I thought it would be pathetic to be a virgin past 18), and banged 19 prostitutes in total. I first had sex without paying for it at the age of 25, also the first time I kissed a girl. It's very possible anon.
>Unless you are/were physically hideous or afraid of talking to women?
I was bullied a lot in school and have mild Asperger's. I'm okay looking, maybe 7/10 - I just have no confidence in myself due to years of bullying and depression/anxiety.
>>24586455
I'm fat nerd and I got tail. One was a fat chick and the other was attractive.
>>24585434
Actually I'm pretty good at getting girls to like me and I am pretty sure I've been hit on twice. I just have no clue how to initiate anything romantic, when it's appropriate to do what, so I always get friendzoned.
I don't even hold it against women, I legitimately don't know what to do, so I sort of friendzone myself, because I don't know how to treat them differently to my friends. I mean I don't mind. I don't like going out much anyway, and I have company for when I do and copious amounts of porn depicting acts they are unlikely to want done to them for sexual gratification. I just can'tin2romance.
It's incredibly easy to not have sex if you just don't socialize.
>>24586180
> Finns are chads
Finn here, WTF gave you that impression?
>>24586789
>tfw girls find you only as friend material
Don't take care of myself and don't care about people enough to make any effort with them
>>24586080
You're better off than me brobot. You've had more than one girl into you, I've had none. Zero. Ever.
> 25
> NEET entrepreneur
> smart
> poor
> two degrees
> thin
> avg height
> 7/10
> big cock
> live alone
Stats mean shit. Results matter.
>>24586368
Again, you think there are no limits, there are.
>>24586810
The map did. You guys apparently lose your virginities early on.
>>24586871
This is why averages are bad, and everyone should use medians.
It's simple. I'm hideous.
>>24586823
>people actually want to be your friend
literally nothing to complain about
>>24586895
Are you me?I'm hideous and anorexic, still a virgin at 26.will die alone.
>>24586949
But you see a man has his needs. I'd rather score one time than have 10 female friends.
>>24585434
I can't meet any girl, becouse i don't have friends. Thats it. I can talk to strangers, i can talk about weather and shit with them, i cannot maintain any contact and make friends. Simply can't.
>>24585434
I have no game. As in, I lack the instinct to capitalize on a girl wanting me.
I cant tell when she wants me or when she is being friendly.
I cant judge when I should move, or when it would be awkward to do so.
And most of all, I just dont want sex and companionship enough to justify the risk and embarrassment that I know from experiment comes with being a no-game virgin trying to score.
Being a virgin is... its okay, man. I seriously dont mind it too much. I do however mind remembering the few times I got BTFO because I misunderstood some social queue.
For me its a huge risk with no huge benefits, so I did some brain arithmetic and subconsciously came to the conclusion its not worth it, so I am not motivated to pursue women.
Also if you cant comprehend why someone would be a virgin in their 20s, when less than 150 yeas ago that was a commendable thing, you might want to read a book.
Not saying people should be virgins or anything, but it really shouldnt be so surprising and freaky.
>>24585434
There are actually a lot more than you think, they obviously don't frequent social circles though so hanging out with chads and staceys gives the illusion that everybody has sex lives.
this is me (25 years old)
how to get gf/bf?
>>24589334
Lose weight and fix your haircut for starters. Post back after 50lbs.
I'm a 22 year old kissless virgin WOMAN. I am saving sex for marriage and apparently that is too much for men to handle.
>>24585434
Not a meme, I'm a 31 year old virgin.
I gave up around 28 when I learned about the virgin age limit. You don't see stories on the internet about guys losing their virginity after 30 so it doesn't happen.
So I stopped bothering even though I got better socially.
>>24589432
It is you pre-roastie whore
>>24589402
if i lost 50 lbs i would weigh 100 lbs. do i really need to become anorexic to get gf/bf?
i cant get a cool haircut btw because i am balding
>>24589471
>i am balding
Shave your head then.
How big of a manlet are you if you weigh 150lbs with a double chin like that?
>>24589500
5'7" master race
do you think i am genetically inferior?
>>24589432
That'd be cool, except you know marriage has been turned into a trap for men.
> lose half your shit
> financially keked for the next 18 years
> all this even if she cheated / it was her fault you divorced
No sane man will get married in this century.
>>24589432
We can do anal in the meanwhile
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>>24585434
>Spent childhood years watching anime
>Spent teenage years playing videogames and watching anime/reading manga
>Spent uni reading manga and trying not to fail because I am a retard
>Currently spending life reading manga and working
Just don't give a fuck about having a gf m80.
Also fapping means I don't care about having one.
>>24589556
>do you think i am genetically inferior?
Yeah. 6'0 and 5'0 are the only acceptable heights for both sexes, period.
>>24585434
>How could so many of you still be virgins in your 20's?
Hoho, I'm not a virgin in my 20's!I'm a virgin in my 30's
>>24589599
>5'0
>girls
>wanting manlet children
Every womanlet into the fucking genepoll trash goes.
>>24589432
men don't want to get married because the cat is out of the box and some are slowly waking up. They are realizing the dating game and marriage is rigged against them. Society is very gynocentric because it favors women over men and this creates male disposability. men are slowly opting out and just living simple lives while just casually sleeping with women.
It's easy to be a virgin into your 20s when you're an unfriendly, avoidant asshole who spends the bulk of his days in front of a computer and rarely if ever goes out.
>>24585938
I prefer the term avoidance tyvm
>>24587109
Work out, fag
>>24585434
I'm 21 and it's just never happened. I'm not physically deformed, I have a decent amount of social connections. I've just been rejected my entire life. People show interest when they first meet me but instantly get bored and drop me.
>>24585434
I'm not interested in sex, I think i accidentally conditioned myself to be afraid of having an orgasm while I was a child (long story, accidentally fapped and instinctively knew what I'd done, so I was in grief over that for a few months and did god knows what until I gained a compulsion to stop masturbating as I felt an orgasm coming) so I have 1-3 orgasms a year tops even though I fap almost daily. Can't even being to fucking imagine how awful sex would be, don't know how the mental conditioning would react to sex.
On top of that the girls whose personality I like tend to not be really attractive. Attractive girls have the nasty tendency to ALWAYS make a big deal of their looks and sexuality seems to be just part of their daily life, which I find obnoxious as fuck.
>26
>had numerous jobs
>had numerous cars
>been to college
>lived alone
>no gf permavirgin
I was never much of a talker. You know how you normalfags are able to know exactly what to say and do and when to say it? I don't have that, I'm always flying blind in any social situation. I either say nothing or say something retarded.
I used to fret about it when I was younger but now I realize that some people are just different and there is nothing you can do to change it.
>>24589903
Sounds like you got some work to do anon. Self improvement should keep you busy
>>24589977
If someone likes you they're not going to care that much if you cum or not. Most people have sexual hang ups
>>24586871
Generally, it's the girls who lose their virginity early on with older Chads. At least that's how it is in Sweden.
>>24590021
You seem to be assuming a lot about me. I am physically fit, dress well, take care of myself etc. I am relatively intelligent and have a well-paying career in line. I am social enough to make friends. I see people much worse off than me get approached all the time.
>>24590227
Eliot pls go
>>24590435
>le funny eliot meme
Just saying, lots of normal men can be permavirgins. You don't have to be particularly fucked up to never have anyone.
>>24586365
dat love n companionship tho senpai desu
>>24586063
>Sensitization is when a person seeks to learn about, rehearse, and/or anticipate fearful events in a protective effort to prevent these events from occurring in the first place.
Hmmm...
>>24586850
>neet
>2 degrees
wat
When you're an average looking dude, it ~just happens~.
>>24590663
fuck off, eeyore. average fags can make it so easy.
robots are ugly and never stood a chance.
>all virgins are involuntary virgins
>everyone is a pathetic sex-obsessed american
>>24590624
It means he went to school, but no longer does, anon. NEET doesn't include "forever".
>>24590663
>says the tripfag whos says he had multiple girls interested in him
Die.
>>24591036
>things I never said
>>24591036
>replying to tripfags
Die.
>>24590663
>>24591209
femanons have thrown themselves at you. you just didnt reciprocate.
>>24590663
not unless you dont want it to
>>24585434
>Unless you are/were physically hideous or afraid of talking to women?
Well yeah, those are the reasons.
>>24585434
26. Been rejected by every woman I asked out. I am fucking done. Celibacy is the only path for me. Would rather die alone than be with a non-virgin at this point.
>>24592114
>tfw I literally just now realized that this one nice girl I was attracted to was actually attracted to me and she tried approaching me
>tfw I gave her the cold shoulder thinking that I'm just delusional and she probably doesn't even like me
>tfw she no longer tries and most likely lost her interest
>tfw maybe I really am delusional even right now
>>24593499
>tfw maybe I really am delusional even right now
iktf, you can never really know if you are being delusional or not.
>>24593313
Thomas Edison failed at least 5,000 times until he found a light bulb prototype that worked.
>>24594463
Correction: Edison's interns failed 5000 times while Edison collected the credit, as well as the dosh.
