Hey /r9k/,
I'm coming here from /fit/ to ask some advice from more experienced feels. It's a simple problem. When I have sex, I can only get really hard when my mate is pleasured. She can blow me, or do whatever, but I don't really get completely torqued unless I finger the shit out of her and make her squirm. Is this bad? Am I being too selfless here?
I've never had a girlfriend to have regular sex with so I can't test it out frequently, but whenever I do have sex, the only thing that gets me going is getting my partner to moan loud as fuck.
Help /r9k/, you're my only hope.
I know this feel, If I don't see my partner enjoying then I can't either, that's why I try my best to plaese them.
Is it bad? Doubtful, sex should be enjoyed by both, if one part doesn't, then its like one part is just taking advantage of the other.
My hypothetical gf's pleasure is my biggest fetish. You're telling me this is considered bad now?
>>24576527
Sorry you're gay
start fucking guys and you'll be fine
>>24576781
Considering he's from fit, that quite likely
>>24576527
I suggest you ask >>>/adv/ rather than /r9k/
>>24576527
Try having her sit on your face for a bit. Eat that pussy and ass then you will be raring to fuck her. Tbh I am kind of the same way, getting head doesn't do much for me and I like to play with my gf like a sex doll. My pleasure comes from enjoying the visuals of her pleasure
>>24576781
I'm not gay, I think, I just love working out
>>24576939
>eating ass
What if I'm not black
