Girl here.
Why do we love getting fucked and abused and used by guys?
It baffles my brain, defies logic
>>24559986
weaker sex
>>24559986
Dominance from an alpha male
That simple really
You are submissive to his breeding capabilities
>>24559986
no wonder i am still a virgin for not being a psychopathic chad with no empathy.
>>24559986
it's pretty damn weird but as a woman you get off based on pure masculine traits and that includes pretty much anything violent, getting choked and just being completely submissive to the orders of your dominant "lord" and "master" during sex.
it's not always like that though. some women like being dominant themselves and some guys enjoy being subs for them.
>>24559986
It's largely a social and cultural thing. Women are brought up learning that their looks and bodies are the only thing they can offer to society. So getting "used" is the ultimate form of validation that your body is desired by a man. The more rough he is the more you feel that you're desired.
>>24560021
this tbqh senpai.
27 and still virgin here. last girl I wanted to hang out with has a wall up and there is idiotic miscommunication on her part for no good reason. fml and fuck girls and their stupid frigidity and passivity.
>>24559986
>Girl here.
Robots believe you
>Robots mansplain personal sexual preferences as if 1) this is actually a girl and 2) you know what the fuck you're talking about
checkmate virgins
>>24559986
Speak for yourself. But it's probably because it's basically the top 40 of fetishes and you haven't bothered exploring beyond that. Try reading homo doujins or fanfic, you'll end up liking subby twink boys and have more variety in your fetishes.
>>24560121
there is no way to know, you faget.
you don't know either so might as well go along with that shit.
>>24559986
you want an alpha daddy for your spawn. That makes more sense than settling for a beta to raise the spawn
>>24560078
female detected tbqh
As a guy, it makes me feel SHIT when a girl I just met calls me daddy during sex.
With the first girl who called me it, I felt kinda special.
Now after 3 more girls called me this, I legit feel worthless.
It's like, how many OTHER GUYS have you called daddy huh?
Theres no way you trust me that much, theres no way daddy means anything to you
Theres no way I mean anything to you besides a fuck.
>>24560191
at least you had sex, desu senpai.
>>24559986
>Girl here
Uh huh.
>>24560191
>Theres no way I mean anything to you besides a fuck.
isn't that the whole point of sleeping together with a random on the first night of meeting?
>>24560191
sounds like it's the new, 'oooh you're so big'. or maybe you just fuck really shitty women?
>>24559986
I think it has to do with some sort of primitive instinct, like caveman fucking or some shit. Someone "owns" you and claims you. Needs your body. IDK but feels good mang.
>>24560052
My bf and I switch. I like it a ton--makes me feel like our relationship is equal on all levels. Plus it's sexy as fuck.
Wait a minute is this a real post? Because I relate and this isn't just something you talk about. It's like worse than being a pedophile. Don't let them know you like this shit.
>>24559986
You have no self esteem/self respect.
>>24560481
good for you. I can't relate at all though because I'm virgin involuntarily. I would take any of these of two experiences at this point.
>>24559986
Because your a fucking useless piece of meat. Literally only good for fucking and cleaning
>>24560518
You'll get some, someday :) . Have faith anon.
>>24560550
Do you peg him?
>>24560550
your post is pretty much like somebody spitting in my face and then grinning at me. I really don't care about useless motivation speech that does nothing.
I don't know. It's probably evolutionary.
Every single girl i've ever slept with has liked it rough and has been submissive.
>>24560021
Liking rough sex does not mean you don't have empathy.
>>24560506
Why not?
Phamalamadingdog
>>24560600
eh was trying to be nice
>>24560593
yeah, have to get new toys though bc old one broke and the one I ordered online was too big. It was kind of revenge though bc he made my ass bleed one time XD (didn't get revenge on purpose)
>>24560645
>eh was trying to be nice
fair enough, it just looked like sarcasm so I thought you could be a troll.
>>24560662
understandable, sorry if it came off that way!
>>24560645
>eh was trying to be nice
Not even close, you literally just said that so you didn't feel guilty.
>>24560191
stop fucking girls with daddy issues then?
>>24560690
>obviously believes nobody on the internet can be genuinely nice
>ok
>>24560679
I see. you're forgiven. gotta go to work now.
goodbye everyone.
>>24560723
Bye anon, thanks!
>>24560719
I just realize that once a woman identifies herself as a woman on an anonymous image board chances are she a narcissistic cunt.
>>24560728
Or she's being honest? Plus I don't care if you think I'm a narcissistic cunt. Maybe I am. Who knows? Who truly cares? I could be trolling for all it's worth.
>>24559986
This is ridiculous, I have never had sex and still want this. I even pull my own hair and stuff like that when I masturbate.
Like seriously, wtf?
ITT
Things go exactly as expected
>>24560121
>robots
There are very few actual robots left on this board. Try again.
>>24559986
You're an autistic, so-close-to-worthless embarrassment to mankind. It's never going to change either. Your kind will continue to shit everything up and you will continue to gain validation for your autistic endeavors because some desperate loser wants to bone you. It makes me sick when I think about it.
rough sex is not abuse
abuse is when they stay with a drug addict who steals money from them, cheats on them and they still only want him
>>24560778
What do you mean? How do you even know? Explain.
there is a girl I know and she had a bf and.
And the vibe and feels you get from her is that she is a woman by the definition.
when ever her bf come she is all over him and one time she got a little bit away from him and he grabbed her hand and got her close to him and I think she smiled. I mean she liked that.
I imagine that during sex she is submissive and like it when the man is in charge.
I think I am correct because she have alot of male freinds and her bf is with her because of the sex. because she is loyal I think.
What do you think?
>>24560873
Is she ladylike and polite all the time? If so then I would agree with u
>>24560704
>girls
>not having daddy issues
pick one and only one
>>24560839
That's the problem. I don't know why I know that I like that. I mean I have see that stuff in porn... but I only like rough porn and some other stuff.
I don't know.
>>24560909
Just stop, fatty.
>>24560919
Not even fat. Underweight actually.
>>24560948
Then fuck off, skeltal. You're a boring, dumb, worthless bitch.
>>24560873
Autism speaks - it's time to listen
>>24560987
O-ok... sorry for bothering you...
>>24561012
Good.
Pls go and stay go
>>24560896
she like motocycles,weed and she is funny but she feel very ladylike.
and she is polite when she is not angry. and you can see the type of man she like. I can see that she is more like me when I act more alpha and "chad" like.
Recent picture of her and her bf kissing will help?(because not all girls uploads pics like that with thier bf)
tfw no gf to dominate
>>24560909
Is it the sporty, sweaty sort of humping or is it more towards bdsm stuff with those wierd gadgets and ropes and cuffs?
>>24560987
You sure told her buddy.
>tfw all of the "kek" stuff that gets spammed on r9k made me develop an attraction to black men
I'm repulsed by them, I would never love one, and yet I want to have sex with one so bad now. Thanks assholes
>>24561449
The first one. I guess?
>>24561503
How can you be attracted to black men when white men exist?
>>24561573
I'm attracted to white men. I guess "attracted to black men" isn't the right way to put it, more along the lines of I want to bang one
Either 4chan and it's subliminal kekposting or BLACKED did this to me
>>24561613
There's no use blaming others for your own sins. You're just a degenerate like all modern women. soon you'll move onto bestiality, scat or something equally disgusting. The saddest part is you might someday be a mother.
It depends on the man.
If the man is short, fat and ugly you wont even let him put his dick in your mouth.
If he is tall, handsome and rich, he can pee in your mouth.
I don't know but it works out for us.
>>24559986
>hair pulling
my favourite thing ever
>>24560191
It disgusts me more than makes me feel worthless. I don't care about women or their perspectives, but I am not your father or whatever... don't call me that shit.
>>24560121
this guy gets it to be honest family
tbhfam its evolution
>this thread in a nutshell
>>24561570
I'm just wondering how common this is, liking it rougher. Common among grills that is, because evidently it's really hard to admit to someone unless you know them well.
>>24559986
>implying women can even employ logic to begin with
You like it because that's what you were born to do. How many times does this need to be repeated? IT IS YOUR ONLY PURPOSE IN LIFE.
>>24562570
Trust me here.
Every single girl loves it rough. The only ones that truly don't have some sort of inhibition to it, which could be religious or a result of sexual abuse/trauma.
Girls will never admit it, though. They don't want to be seen as sluts. Additionally, a girl you're getting intimate with might try to deny your advances, but she's still trying to seem like a "good girl". She can also be doing it as a shit test to see how alpha/beta you are.
But if you push past and fuck her rough, you will be surprised to find that she enjoys it. It's a natural urge and is how sex is supposed to be.
Tfw when had tender sex with my first gf for a year and thought she was enjoying it.
Tfw when i found out she was cheating and stopped caring
Tfw when i started being an animal in bed and super rough
Tfw when she actually moaned and came for real for the first time and i learned the truth about what she likes
First gf and Im 29 and she is 33
Kill me
>>24559986
Evolutionary psychology is not a meme.
>>24560021
>>24560021
well it's not just the sex part, really. I could live with that and not judge someone based on what they wanna do in the bedroom.
But girls have this masochistic mentality out of bed as well. They like getting hurt- emotionally. If your emotional bond does not include a certain negative charge they'll get tired of it. There's gotta be something about you that they "just can't get over", so they pretend to ignore it and laugh it off but end up bringing it up in a cyclic period of arguments. For example, if Chad is getting slutty with other girls all the time Stacy will feel masochistic attraction to this trait but that won't stop her from using it as fuel for constant arguments. maybe also due to masochism.
And, while wanting to be degraded sexually is something I'd have no problem separating from the way I view someone- this cycle of emotional abuse most girls demand is something I find much harder to "get into".
>>24559986
The same reason that it feels best for me to objectify you and want to use and abuse you. Ying and yang. We are not meant to be lovey dovey. We are meant to hate fuck and depart. Somewhere in your genes you know that, though your mind can't rationalise it
Rough sex, that is nearly interchangeable with rape, is the apex of desire.
Any woman who truly enjoys sex for herself and not as a relationship bargaining chip will want to be passionately desired. What is the higheat sign of desire?
Being taken forcefully with reckless abandon and no concern for your pleasure; to become a human fleshlight.
The ego boost that accompanies rough sex is astounding. This man MUST have you, outside of all control and logic; to create urgency and needing, physical tangible need to be inside you?
I want my body, my touch, my sex to be the only cure. I want him to be obsessed with being inside me and nothing else will do. I am at my truest purpose when a man is crazed by lust and aligned with a single focus, and that is utter possession and destruction of my pussy.
Everything else is boring.
>>24563372
This is becuase women have a never ending hatred for themselves
>>24560021
Way to pat yourself on the back for being weak and pathetic. you ought to read On The Genealogy of Morals by Nietzsche.
>>24560078
>Women are brought up learning that their looks and bodies are the only thing they can offer to society.
Inconceivable as it is, it's even worse. Women are brought up learning that they don't have to offer to society ANYTHING AT ALL so to be appreciated.
>>24563421
Good theory, but what about women who get off the though of rough sex by someone who doesn't care about them, doesn't have a strong attraction to them and just uses them to fulfill his needs?
This is a very very common theme for women, from experience, and your theory fails to give a rational explanation to it.
>>24559986
S A U C E
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FUCK ROBOT BTW
>>24563421
You. You're the one. You need to train my girlfriend.
>>24563421
Exactly.
>Men love to love women, and women love to be loved by men
>>24563452
YOU ARE RETARDED
It doesn't matter if the person doesn't emotionally "CARE", as long as he still fucks her like he's the only thing he wants.
This is because people are SIMPLE. Sex is sex. Emotions aren't always logical and don't control basic human behavior and instincts.
Also, sex feels good so of course women want to have lots of it.
>>24563452
Women having casual sex with no emotional cost (a la men) is a meme.
I've had tons of female friends who claim to be fucking for sport and not care if the guy fucks once/twice/a few weeks and vanishes. And when they are finally honest, it hurt them deeply and they just do other random bullshit to mask the pain.
Generally, Women want rape level sex with a man who treats them like princesses in every other regard. The bitches who claim to like being pumped and dumped, or claim they are over it when he takes his piece of pussy and bails are deluding themselves.
>>24563504
She's ****
My bad faggot
>>24563507
Yep, they are all hoping that those guys will eventually fall in love with them. And sex is the only way they know how to try and get this.
>>24563507
lol no, what I described happens a lot, women ACTUALLY get off being treated like absolute shit and even humiliated about their flaws.
That was what I was arguing.
On average everyone cares about their partner on some emotional level. Even men that don't want a relationship are hurt on some level if the girl they're fucking fucks other men.
So you're arguing that people on average are people?
>>24559986
Because you spend your lives controlling your bodies and minds to look pretty and attract chads, then love it when you can finally give up the control and feel wanted.
>>24563507
Moreover, my theory behind why women chase pump and dump is because the sex is CORRECTLY DONE. As in, the man is fucking her based on sating his own desire, and thereby pleasing her in a way that is unique to the sex she's experienced before.
>he didn't care about her, so he fucked her how He wanted to fuck.
Women have all these ideas and bullshit thrown at them about how to achieve orgasm and what the point of sex is and he's gotta lick and suck and do raindances on the clitoris.
Those things can be nice, but what the vast majority of women don't know, is if they would abandon all the instructions they were given on how a man should please you and just allow the sex to be fluid and led by desire, you'd cum from Intercourse as well.
>>24563530
Bing. Motherfucking bing. So many women subscribe to the theory that the guy has to know everything great about fucking in the first few bangs and it probably won't improve They won't usually give a man a learning curve in how to please them so when Chad makes them cum endlessly cause he just merks the puss, they wanna lock him down. But Chad only stopped by to pound.
>>24562658
I guess I'm not convinced they all like it rough, especially all the time. Because think about all the soft porn on HBO movies for example. It's like they're doing stuff underwater or in zero gravity. All the movements are slowmo and it seems even penetration is still rather than cyclic.
Maybe some like both, while others like one or the other?
>>24563570
No. I'm saying the women that you think are getting off on casual pump and dump are lying. It's a meme.
>>24559986
>is a woman
>defies logic
>>24563462
I would open a masterclass but then I think feminazis would picket and march in the street like it's an abortion clinic.
>>24563436
I dunno. I was raised to be a housewife. My grandmother drilled it into me the skills for sewing, cooking, shopping frugally, childrearing. I was raised believe a woman is to support and accompany a man in his goals, raise his children to be good people, and keep the house orderly, warm, and welcoming.
Im 33, Still no family oriented boyfriend who wants to marry and let me be a homemaker. Getting too old for my dream of marrying and having kids, which is so heartbreaking.
When I've tried dating or being introduced to a guy through friends, I need to make basically as much money as him, pay half of the bills in the house, still have kids and do all of their care nearly alone.
Men nowadays are pussies who want roommates, not wives and feminism and "equality" are to blame.
>Femdom with boyfriend. All is well.
>Boyfriend gets rough with me.
>Panic.
>Panic.
>Panic.
Tfw I start crying and begging him to stop.
Tfw not sure if I was rape when I was younger. (Not bf)
Tfw would explain why I didn't want to be touched, why I jump when people try and hug me, and why I cried when boyfriend got rough with me.
Tfw will never be able to have a healthy, happy relationship where I'm abused
Feels Bad Man
Show Tits or leave. You're obviously using your gender for attention so this is relevant.
>>24562658
Seriously, this. It's basic. Girls are submissive even when they say they're not and prefer to be dominated.
