I'm new to being on my own and I dont really go out at all. It's starting to feel like i'm not human anymore.
Don't worry. It gets easier after your spirit dies
>>24535719
Screamcrying myself to sleep every night tires me out enough to get a full eight hours
>>24535864
well hopefully that happens soon.
Remind yourself that there is a million potential problems that come with a relationship. And that by yourself you're free to do what you want without pressure to please someone else.
It's not a perfect remedy but it helps.
learn to love yourself
keep busy
go to gym
get a hobby
attempt to socialize
it gets better, but you have to love yourself first
>>24535719
Remind myself of all the bullshit and drama and nonsense and obligation and time management and stress that came with having friends.
If you're that desperate for face-to-face human interaction just start playing Magic the gathering or some other meme game that nerds play at game stores on friday night or join a LARP club or learn karate or something
>>24535719
You don't.
You just learn to live with it.
>>24536099
>Remind myself of all the bullshit and drama and nonsense and obligation and time management and stress that came with having friends.
people are the worst. I've no idea how somebody can voluntarily opt to be around people.
Try buying a dog or a cat
Does seeing a psychiatrist help at all?
Embrace it
think of it like the weather,
there isn't anything you can do to change it
so
you just prepare yourself (wear a coat...etc...)
lonely feels on the forecast?
prep yourself
me? I have my music. I press play and it all fades away.
>my Walkman cures my loneliness
>>24535719
you just go into full auto mode man... even if you are sorrounded by people you can feel lonely (happens to me alot)... in a way you have to learn to be alone but not lonely
my advice is to keep yourself busy because if you do like me and do fuck all with your free time if you have that little seed of depression you just fucked yourself and will feel miserable
>>24537456
yeah that's a good idea
>>24535719
alcoholism and MMOs, but i play those as single-player unless i need a party.
>>24535719
you must have something to look forward to, the light, something, if there is absolutely nothing you can look forward to then yeah you're gonna have a terrible time i suppose
>>24536542
a psychiatrist will just shill you pills that'll make you feel worse in the long run, see a psychologist/talk therapist instead
I push it deep deep down and never let it show. Same with sadness, and anger. Im bound to pop one day.
>>24535719
I deal with it by having friends tbqhwyfam
Either embrace it or socialize to get out of your loneliness. Both are hard to do so its up to you.
Playing vidya mostly, that and going to university to relive the boredom. I'm an easy man to please. I had two people come to my 21st birthday, but they were really good friends, so that made it better. But serious, give me a game, some grub, and a comfy spot, and I will be happy, even if I am lonely.
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GET AUDIBLE ON YOUR PHONE, LISTEN TO AUDIOBOOKS
LIFT THE KETTLEBELLS WHILE WATCHING MOVIES
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>HAPPINESS IS NOT OUTSIDE OF YOU
THIS IS THE ONLY CORRECT ANSWER IN THE THREAD
>>24535719
hes not alone, he has a dog and a cat that lucky bastard
Bruh everyone needs to be alone and isolated for a period of their life. I have been for about 8 months and I've become way more unique , smart, abstract and have a better view of society and our strange existence. you generally find yourself and learn a lot. I'd probably be some dumb brainwashed kid on the path I was before I stopped socialising and could be deceased like a past friend of mine is...
>>24538519
You're still banned though.
i fall in love with every women that shows a bit of appreciation then either get with her or not
mostly not
then they dump me
its usually years of nothing and a few months of action
I mostly hang out with you all, qt anime girls or escape in media.
Vidyas, especially the kind where you shoot people in the head online
>>24539151
>online first person shooters
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>>24535719
get a dog man
its 10/10 advice
