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How old are you?
What's your reason for still being a virgin?
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>24 year
>no confidence
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>22
>self hatred and crushing anxiety
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>skeleton body
>social retard
>could probably pick up satellite TV with my ribcage
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I had one chance to lose it but I couldn't get my dick hard lmao I'm so fucking pathetic
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>>24528513
forgot

>20 y/o
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>21 almost 22
>fat
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>24
>girls don't like me
This wasn't original.
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>>24528440
>28 years old
>misanthropy
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20
a whole cocktail of different reasons but first and foremost because I've never perused losing it
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>>24528440
>22
>complete autist in social situations
>and hookers/prostitutes don't have any appeal to me
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35 years old.

The reason being, of course, that women do not find me sexually attractive.
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>when you fuck your girl for two and a half straight hours before she leaves back home for Thanksgiving
Not sure how any man could be a virgin when I'm ugly and broke as fuck
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>27
>religious
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>19
>no confidence
>when the opportunities present themselves, I wimp out
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23
I don't fucking know anymore. I used to think it was because I didn't interact with girls, or because I was too shy, or too boyish. I got pretty /fit/, overcame my shyness, got some nice clothes. People have called me attractive, smart, talented. I don't know how to better myself anymore. I feel like it's all one big joke. It has to be, right? Some 15 year olds have gotten laid and I haven't. It's too funny.
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>>24528440
>28
> don't meet many women, robotitis/autism, pretty sure I give off creepy vibes, poor, and not that good looking.
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>>24528440
24
I'm genetically defective and boring. Also women are shit.
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>20
>crippling social anxiety, lack of interest, and probably unattractive (i've heard mixed reports)
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>19
>Never tried a thing
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>>24528440
>24
>small ugly hairy cut dick

Literally only thing that has completely destroyed my confidence. I make eye contact with cuties all the time. I would say something, even a hello, but avoid it. I even need to turn off my charm and wittiness. Such is life I suppose...
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>>24528627
Simple. You're not as ugly as you think you are.
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>>24528532
>I'm so fucking pathetic

No anon, you're not. Was it because you had to pause in order to get the condom on? This shit can be such a mood killer. In particular with a super passive girl that you don't know too well. It is easier if you trust her and feel extremely comfortable around.
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>>24528440
18

ugly, complete beta, skeleton body, extremely boring personality
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>>24529058
Are you me? I've had those problems since elementary school. I can still recall all the cringe they have caused.
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>>24529048

>24
>don't know anyone who's not a gf of a mate
>they don't even like me

truthfully I'm just not attractive in any sense; my job is shit (I'm poor), short, in bad shape, depressed, have relatively poor social skills, drink too much. My perceived social status is non existent. I wouldn't expect anyone would find me attractive in my current state.
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>26

General self hatred and total lack of self esteem. I can't comprehend anyone actually wanting to be with me. My first instinct when I imagine someone being interested is that they must be lying and/or using me. My second instinct is that I will inevitably hurt this person because I will never love myself, and thus will never love someone else.

The two make for a nearly perfect check and balance system.
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>>24528513
>satellite tv with my ribcage

nice kek
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>>24528440
21 because I don't give a shit and never even tried
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>>24528532
You're still young. Be happy that you know one person wanted to fuck you and so it's likely to happen again at some point
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>>24528440
18
>What's your reason for still being a virgin?
I think fucking outside of marriage is amoral.
I think I had one or two chances if I'd go for it, but I didn't.

I just want someone to live for.
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>>24528440
21
No confidence, quiet, don't want to talk to anyone and I think I look like a rapist
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>>24528440
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because i live in muslim country.

en, who am i kidding, i'm an autistic neet.
despite being handsome and being hit on on many occasion i can't do anything
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>18
>don't really care about a relationship that involves sex desu senpai

>>24528513
same problem, fucking hospitals here refuse to perform simple surgery. fucking plebs
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23.

Probably just because I'm ugly and avoidant.

However, I'd like someone to explain to me why it's so "shocking" when a guy is a virgin over the age of [x].
Isn't it apparent that all a guy has to do is not actively seek out and pursue women, and he'll remain a virgin? The one exception here is ridiculously attractive men, but those are obviously outliers.
Most guys have to put in at least some amount of effort in order lose it, so why is it such a surprise to find out that people exist who simply didn't put forth that effort?
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>>24528440
22 by choice. Casual isn't my thing, I'm clingy and I know it.
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21

I stopped bothering with girls because I only have a 6 inch dick and I can't even go gay because gays want 7 inches and up as well
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20

I've been hit on by women on several occasions, I don't think I'm that bad looking.

But I'm insane, very moody can only really talk about things that are within my field. One track minded, I can't small talk. Also I avoid people.
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21
I don't socialize, but if I did I would still be too unattractive.
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>>24528440
>20
>Too spergy to further any interactions with women past the point of smalltalk

I remember browsing this site back when i was around 16 hoping i didn't end up like some of the sadsack virgins posting their greentext stats but here i am.
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>>24529899
OH god I know thus fel
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>>24529784
literally this
thanks anon, you saved me the words, perfect articulation
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58

Spent most of my life as a monk, with a vow of celibacy desu
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20
Ugly
No confidence
Autistic
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>>24528440
It's been 33 long years. At this point I don't even care anymore. I have no hope that any girl would ever sleep with me. I even stopped fapping some 5 years ago because I simply can't get off to porn anymore, since I will never obtain the real thing and this just causes a destructive thought pattern. I am simply done.
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22
I would start to get attached, so I just ignore nature's push.
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>>24529994
there are always prostitutes senpai
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30

coward
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25
>Fat in HS and college, didn't build social skills
>Small dick
>Short
>No friends
>Not White or Black

I just came to realize that some people are just born to suffer.
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>>24529974
>58

What the fuck Grandpa get off 4chan
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>>24528440
>20
>cowardly, not great looking, scared that I'd be bad at sex, all the girls I talk to are virgin losers as well
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>>24529994
get a hoe, bro
you could also become a muslim, go to UK and get your designated rape corner and rape loli
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21
no trust
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>just turned 21
>slightly overweight
>highschool was nightmare so any chance of finding a gf then was nil
>also i didn't really find anyone appealing, not ridiculously high standards or anything, just didn't like a lot of them.
>now terrified of trying to be with other women b/c i don't know how to date them, let alone hang out one on one with most people
>i've also got a terrible infatuation with a girl at work but she's been seeing someone for over a year now and looking to get serious so i cant ever see myself being with her.

i dont know what to do anymore.
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>>24530068
were on the same train anon, also im poor extremely ugly and fail at everything i triy to do
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>>24530119
>knowing girls that are virgins
>you yourself is a virgin

unless they or you are at the absolute bottom of the scale why have you not done anything?
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>>24528440
20
don't care/avoid people
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>>24528440
22, I've never let anyone in enough to be friends or to be a girlfriend. I've barely let my family in. I grew up in a very negative household and I've never heard words of encouragement from my family, it was either insults or nothing and it completely ruined my confidence.
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29. I don't let anyone get close. I have some kind of emotional walls up in place that no one can get passed. Also social anxiety and no confidence.
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27

>missed a lot of necessary emotional milestones to function as a regular human being.

>ugly

for those of you in your teens and early 20s you still have a chance to turn things around.

do drugs, get drunk, go to parties, talk to people everyday.

just get out there.
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>>24530398
>>missed a lot of necessary emotional milestones to function as a regular human being.

same. I spent my years where you're supposed to develop into an adult hiding in my room on the computer, refusing to leave.
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>>24528440
21
I don't socialize or put myself in situations where I could lose my virginity.

I know for a fact that I could easily get laid, visited a friend once in toronto, he took me to a party and I literally made out with like 2 girls, went into the bedroom with one and she was stripping down (was like an 8/10 too) but got a text from a bud telling me they're leaving and asking me where I am so I said sorry and left.

The moment I live alone and away from my parents I think I can easily get laid.
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>>24530337
i wish i didn't know that feel
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>>24528440
> 22
My biggest problem used to be my small dick.
As the years have passed my new big problem is cynicism.
I am without a doubt the most cynical human being that has ever lived.
Diogenes has nothing on me
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>>24530397
Just a few more months, and you'll be able to use your stupendous wizard powers to aid in the Uprising.
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>>24528440
> 21
> Tried a few times. No luck...

Probably in the near distant future, I will get chemically castrated.

I've hung out with some women, their that not great to be around with. I'd rather want friends than a girlfriend to be honest.
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19
I'm a huge coward mostly. In high school multiple girls either told me they liked me or asked me out and I turned them all down out of fear. I fucking hate myself
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>>24530666
Thanks for reminding me, Satan
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32

Always felt it was shallow to just walk up to a female and try to bang her just based on her appearance. How could I like someone I don't know? How do I get to know her to know I like her without it being shallow and only based on her looks?

Never realized how shallow women really were and thought they were really as virginal and innocent as they pretend to be. I was afraid I would take advantage of them in some way.

I actually thought whoever I would eventually be with would consider herself special since I never had anyone before her. I never knew they all have had multiple dicks inside of them already and relationships meant nothing to them. Not only that, but virgins are subhuman to them since other females didn't verify I was worth being with since they can't think for themselves.

Don't really like who I am physically. I can empathize with any potential mate and I just think I would be unappealing to be with.

Another reason.

Another reason.

Ad infinitim.
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23

I was too scared to ask girls out, even though I am okay looking, and people like me as a person.
I got some balls and asked a girl out for the first time 3 weeks ago.

I got lucky as fuck
>virgin
>no friends except me
>nerd

We had oral sex last week for the first time.
Was pretty cool.

I might lose it to her, but she isn't ready.
Not sure if I am either.
I kinda wanna save it for marriage.
But idk if that's cheesy as fuck or not.
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>>24530830
why bother waiting for marriage? if you really like her and more and she feels the same. its fucking perfect. do not let this opportunity go to waste anon. you would be doing the one thing every virgin on this board has ever dreamed of. i know i have.

take a good think about it. take your time. dont rush in but dont do something stupid like waiting for marriage. take your time with each other and i guarantee you will never regret it.
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>>24530981
>if you really like her and more
I don't know if I do though.
Like, I like her, but I don't think I love her. Even saying I REALLLLY like her would be pushing it. But I do enjoy being with her.
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I'm 26.

No men want me because I'm ugly and fat. Since I've accepted that I started wanting 2D instead. I found out 2D can really never hurt you and I'm too shy to ask anybody out. I have no confidence in myself and I have zero redeeming qualities.
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>>24528440
>21
I don't go to social situations that could get me laid.
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>>24531047
bask in each others company a bit more. do things that isn't sexual with each other and then try and take it from there

you dont have to love her. thats a ridiculously strong term. you just have to enjoy being in each other's company.
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>>24530755
ah you are fucked up dude

im sorry...i pity you
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>>24528440
I would have lost my virginity to a Scandinavian girl (Danish I think) but my lanky cunt of a friend pushed me away from her, I pushed him back and then she just walked off
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26
was too picky when i was young
now too late for casual endeavors
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>>24531053
>No men want me
Oh boy, desperate betas incoming
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>>24528440
I think there's an invisible wall between me and getting pussy to be honest. I'm a failed normie/cyborg and it just will not. fucking. happen.
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>>24528440

23 (24 in a little over a month)

I'm a boring, fat, manlet NEET. I nearly lost it back when I was 19, but phimosis stopped me and it was a disasterous experience.
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I'm acquainted with one female that insn't my mother.

That's why.
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>>24531270
oh and I'm 18
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>24 years old
>trust issues from years of bullying
>only girls with boyfriends hit on me(how does that even work?)
>get too nervous to maintain hard-on when opportunities happen
>stopped actively looking for dates
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>>24529041
I've literally had little kids call me ugly in passing. I'm only attractive from way far away
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Guys, just because you think you missed certain milestones according to some psychological model, it doesn't mean its over. All models are bullshit, but some models are useful.

I have to question the usefulness of a model that makes you feel like shit all the time. Besides, the human mind is inifinitely malleable, regardless of yiur age.

As for me, I'm a 27 year old virgin. Had my first kiss like a month before my 27th birthday, at a crazy Radical Honesty workshop.

Main reason I'm a virgin is that I don't currently have a social circle to put myself out there with, due to a bullied childhood and adolescence that left me misanthropic, bitter, and narcissistic.

Yet all is not lost. I am constantly surprised at how effective simple mindfulness meditation is. Definitely makes one appreciate being alive.
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>>24531362
>>only girls with boyfriends hit on me(how does that even work?)
they're teasing you as well as indulging in self fantasy or manipulating/being able to manipulate other men, women are cruel creatures
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>>24530666
Trips... the best trips of all ?
Also my greentext story is that I have had sex a few times. It's not all that amazing, it can actually be pretty uncomfortable.
probably better if you know them well and in a long term relationship.
tho i have had good sex. just depends really
I have to admit it was a bit of a mental block but once it was done it was like, huh. not such a big deal?

Tbh have come to realize that social acceptance / flirty looks and chat from girls is probably as good as sex.
If you have chat and social convos, then at least you are there. The sex will come in time.
If you don't have the former you may need to think about how to start doing something about that, or hope your circumstances change.
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>20
>I can only "get it up" to anime girls now....
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>>24531107
>bask in each others company a bit more
We do almost once a week, and see each other in class a lot as well.
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>>24531417
Ah, that makes sense. It's a huge turn off for me and I usually put them in a "never trust" category, but do some mild flirting and pray they never try anything more than casual flirts.
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>22

I had opportunities multiple times over the years, but am always too beta to go for it for fear of consequences. Latest opportunity went like this
>visit female friend at uni
>hang out all afternoon and go to dinner
>after dinner start hitting up the bars
>alcohol hits her harder, obviously drunk by the time we get to the club
>on dance floor, random Chad and I start dancing with 2 twin Stacies
>going well, Stacies start to lead us off dance floor
>female friend holds me back and proceeds to start making out with me
>make out for atleast an hour before closing
>while walking back she continues to drunk talk with me
>marriage and life plans get brought up
>scared as fuck.jpeg
>get back to her place, she's still flirting with me
>tell her I'm tired and fall asleep as fast as possible
>NOPE the fuck out in the morning
Might travel to the bunny ranch soon and loose my V card there, at least I won't have to worry about possibly having a nigglet as a result
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>22 years old.
>Diagnosed Asperger
>People always find something off about me for the sake of it.
>Tried to please people for long time. Now became Fed up so more people hate on me cause I stand my ground.
>Abnomal taste in music and uninteresting hobbies.
>Also live in canada france and I hate my mother tongue.
>Poorfag, No Education, NEET, can't go back to school.
>Always look angry cause shitty genetic.
>Short, barely 5'10.
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>>24528440
>18
>high standards

i want a virgin, but i'm too afraid to go to high scools and shit, where do ptp hangs out?
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>>24531465
make more time. several times a week.

netflix and chills without the innuendos
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>24
>no one likes me

Simple stuff.
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>>24529012
How small are we talkin
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22
Don't care about sex and getting close and intimate with people annoys me.

I'm sure I'd like sex since fapping feels good but I don't want to fuck girls who've had several cocks in them and I've had offers for sex many times before.

It's part not caring, part not wanting to because I'd like my first to be a virgin too.

Fat chance.
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>>24531455
same senpai, I can get it up to 3d but reading doujins leads to a more satisfying fap
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>28
>that quite kid but i think i've gotten more confidence
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>>24528513
lmao i could come over and punch you in the back for a while, see if that helps
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>>24528440
> 23 in two weeks.
> Overweight, awkward and socially retarded.
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>>24531548
>make more time. several times a week.
We got classes man. Weekend our only free time really.
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>>24529457
this is me, even the age
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>19
>self loathing
>Cant show any kind emotion, only emotion I can show is laughing or smiling at things normies find offensive or disgusting
>Cant talk to women without freezing up
>Been approached many times by women
>Just cant do it

hate myself
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25
I'm fat and constantly self-loathe.
No woman will ever want to be with me like this.
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>>24529710
>this is what virgins think
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24

I have no idea what is wrong with me. I just can't form any sort of connection with another person.
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>>24528440
>24
>Feminine Penis

Girls like my butt though, I don't know if they are attracted by it or envious.
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>>24528440
>22

Lack of confidence.
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>>24528782
>some fifteen year olds
>some
The mean age for lost virginity is 16 "some" is an understatement
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I'm so young no one in town dares to make a move on me, I am very average for my age but I believe I still deserve a boyfriend.
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>>24528440
>19
>God created my face ugly and undesirable for women
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>19
only had 1 girl who was interested in 7th grade but I was too autistic to make it work. Now I don't even bother with girls and after a long time r9k I might just be a faggot now anyways.
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>19
Uh it's hard to put it. I could be writing for hours why I'm still a virgin with hypothesis and arguments but if had to use one word it'd be autism.
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>>24528440
>19
>turbomanlet, schizoid pd, never even bothered trying
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19.
I have Asperger's.
I'm so fucking sick of getting muted.
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>23

Had a threesome and fucked a solid 9/10 three years later but didn't cum on either occasion so don't feel like it counts because I didn't /love/ them

>Really really skinny
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31
I have severe autism. I have a criminal record for offenses relating to my outbursts of anger towards children and animals
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>20
>bi
>lost penis and balls traumatically
>it would be awful to explain to people even if i could get that far in the first place
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27
black,fat and i stopped caring about two years ago
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24
I just gave up or rather I never really tried and just slowly became numb to concept of sex and a relationship.
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>>24528440

>that moment when you realize you're the only single in the vicinity
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>22
>Super sheltered in middle and high school so know nothing of how to hit on girls, catch signals and advance on them
>Also still live at home

I can tell when a qt's into me. Some make it blatantly obvious, but fuck me I have no idea about this stuff.
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23
I'm so hairy that I may as well be a man, I get mistaken for a man too and often, I have a bit of a beard, my arms are so hairy also my chest and under arms, I'm so poor I cannot afford to wax myself all the time, I'm not even fat and I think I would be atleast average if some sort of beauty salon takes pity on me and offers me a lifetime of free waxing or even laser hair removal I would be so happy and I could finally be optimistic about getting a boyfriend instead of dykes hitting on me
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>>24531249
24 also on December 16.
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19/male
Fairly attractive and nice but have social anxiety and specific standards for a girl. That along with being judgmental of what others do like drinking, drugs, sex... makes me uptight in their eyes. And in today's society god forbid you tell someone they shouldn't do something.
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>>24533324
I saw an old woman with a goatee on the underground last Monday
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19
>went to all-boys high school
>had no friends so didn't go out on weekends
>zero contact with women
>am a skelly dyel lanklet fag
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>>24528440
>18
>fat, ugly, shitskin, autistic, manlet, socially retarded, dumb

the basic pack
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>19
>sound like I am 9
>nasally as fuck
Here's a story
literally had her pants off
>she tells me to talk dirty
>two minutes in she says
>"Anon, I don't know if I can do this your voice is just so weird"
>mfw
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19
Ugly, went to all girls school so didn't know any guys, socially awkward so spend most of time in room now apart from lectures, want to lose it to someone special.
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>>24528440
23

There's probably a couple of good reasons including, but not limited to, being overweight, balding, and never really hanging out with girls aside from a few friends and my mum. I also don't quite know how to interact with people sometimes; for instance, I have a strong aversion to simple things like buying things over the counter or being able to make my own appointments over the phone.

I don't know, I'm here, so there must something awfully wrong with me.
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>>24528440

>19 yo
> Social anxiety and the fact that I bore people and they bore me

I was a virgin till a few weeks ago when I went to see an escort. Sex is boring and truth be told the experience just made me realise that there was just a little less to make living worth it.
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25. Had a chance with a girl when I was 16, but was too autistic and self-critical to realize she was flirty. I was fat and had an acne problem on my inner thighs. Since then, I've only met the worst slags in the city who wanted to fuck.

I don't care anymore. I have alcohol. Been drunk for 4 years now and don't get worked up about anything anymore. It's nice to finally feel free to not care about social relationships at all.

I probably have brain damage by now, but at least I don't care about people or my own life. If you think it's liberating to not care about other people, you should try to truly not care about yourself. Every day is a game of Russian roulette. I'm just having what little fun I can have until I finally slow down the drinking enough to buy a gun and use it to separate my spinal column from the brain.
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21
>Grew up fat with gyno
>terrible social anxiety
>parents never let me go out to play with other kids
>very few friends in school(they were all weird outcast like me)
>no one ever taught me how dating works
>started lifting at 14 which turned me into a big scary mean looking fat kid that everybody probably thought was a bully
Now I'm fit and attractive, but I still have the self esteem and social skills of the lonely fat kid I was back in school.
and I still have no idea how dating works
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22.

Lost mine at 14 and haven't had sex since.
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>>24529899
Jesus. Same here. Now I'm here hoping I don't become a wizard. Uh oh ...
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>>24528532
I'm 19 and this has happened 3 times. Once I got just hard enough but my condor slipped off inside her and I went soft trying to put it back on :/
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>>24534163
Nigga, you shouldn't fuck with birds.
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>>24528440
>22
>lack of drive to cash in my V-card, don't want to fuck a hooker, don't want to waste my time getting a gf
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>>24529899

Wizard's the next step. I was here in 2005 when I was 13, this kind of shit existed back then, I remember being amazed. Nice dubs btw.

>23
>ridiculous acne
>ridiculous herpes

Holy fuck, what did I even DO. Sores all over my mouth, face, and dick, cold sore or dick's on fire 80% of the time, never kissed a girl, never had sex. I'm a virgin with an STD. I guess there are people with down's and seven year olds who die of leukemia, but god fucking damn, some people just lose at life yo. Nobody ever cares about the excuses or whose fault it was anyways.

At the very least, I get autismbux I suppose. I like to think I'm doing the world a favor by draining my government of its money.
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32
Gave up a long time ago. When I was young I didn't really have a model for functioning human relationships My mother was a drug addict who was either violent or neglectful, depending on what she was on. My father was the center of his own universe and I didn't really exist to him other than occasional as an audience for his tales of triumph or woe. It's not fair to say that it's their fault. This is purely a consequence of the choices that I made for myself.

I never had any sort of relationship with my mother, and with my father he made it clear that I was just an obligation and a burdon. Whether I excelled in school or got in trouble, nothing I did could make them love me. So I just stopped trying. I withdrew from everything and everyone.

I was already used to doing things by myself - reading, drawing, playing alone. In school I was intelligent enough to get by on minimal effort, so I spent most of my time in class drawing. Just escaping into my own internal fantasy worlds. When I did have to engage with the teachers or other students, I took on the role of a class clown. Humor allowed me to maintain my distance from other people. It was the first layer in my wall.

Nobody knew who I really was, and when I was eight years old we moved and I just didn't make any new friends. I wasn't antisocial or anything, but there wasn't anybody who ever grew to be anything more than an acquaintance. Kids are pretty self-centered by nature, so, contrary to what young adult fiction might tell you, nobody is going to go out of their way to befriend you.

So that continued through high school, and through college. After a year I dropped out due to depression and got a crappy retail job. Now I work in an office with just my boss. I have no real human contact and nothing to offer anyone even if I did. The idea of love feels like an alien concept, and as maudlin as it may sound, I don't know if I'm even capable of it.
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>>24528440
>18

>manlet
>autism
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i hate everyone
and anxiety also helps
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>25 KV sperglord
>manager offered me a blind date with her daughter who is apparently pretty hot
>just laugh it off
I can't hold a long conversation with people I've known for a while, let alone a whole FUCKING date with an attractive stranger
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19

I hardly have the energy to get out of bed and get on my computer.
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>>24534705

Are you...content?
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>>24531927
then make it count.
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>22 year old
>Too rebellious in nature to adhere to such blatantly oppressive social conventions
>mfw all these members of this elite club are so full of self pity
Sure there are times when i am sad, when I am filled with envy of those who have social companionship at that level. But I will tell you this, I would trade a few entertaining moments of natural bliss for a lifetime of as much free will I can obtain. I was not born into this world by choice, but I am already here, and I will live as free from cultural oppression and bias as I can.
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Because I'm fat, poor, and awkward.
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>>24528440
> 25
> I don't try
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23

Social awkwardness, being fat as fuck, and having zero confidence in myself. Haven't had a single friend that was a girl my whole life, i actually don't think i've had a full length conversation with a girl that wasn't related to me in my entire life. I wouldn't actually know how to respond if a female would ever show interest in me which is never going to happen anyways. I fully expect to still be a virgin come my thirties but it honestly doesn't bother me as much as it probably should, just another tick on the long ass failure list that i've grown numb to.
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21.

I don't do anything. That and I'm ugly as fuark anyway.
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>>24532271

I feel you brother. I remember in middle school, my best friend literally sat me down next to a girl who was not only attractive, but into the same shit I was. We were literally sitting touching each other sitting on the couch in the living room, and I just froze. I wanted to say something to her, to do anything with her, put my fucking arm on around her or something, but I couldn't.

I can't even put what was going through my mind into words because it can't be explained. It was like at my core, I knew I didn't deserve to be with anyone, me doing anything for myself was equivalent to slapping the pope, and all I could offer was misery.

I'm a big dude, but it's hidden well because I'm tall and broad. My best friend was a fucking 5'8" ball of dough, and he hooked up with at least 2 chicks in highschool. I'm pretty sure one of them was the girl he tried to set me up with because I had her AIM (the times man), and we chatted a shit ton. I guess she mentioned shit that I said, because he came at me hard because he thought I was trying to get with her, which baffled me.

Normies will never understand what it's like to be incapable of having a significant other. I literally had a girl shoved on me, a girl who was clearly into me, and I was completely incapable. I'm not going to say REEEE NORMIES GET OUT here, because it's pointless. They're here, but don't think for none second that you know what it's like. If you've had a significant other, if you've had that bond with someone, then you beyond understanding of what it's like it the piece of shit that is a robot.
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>>24535739

You're just a failed normie.

>muh obliviousness to social cues
>too scared to take a chance cos muh feelings of inadequacy

Try being so worthless you don't even have any opportunities to fuck your own shit up like you did.
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21
maybe ill get a hooker but it seems hard in the us
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>>24528646
>19
>also religious
good on you brother.
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>>24535287
It's been so long that don't know what that would feel like. When I was younger and things were worse it was tolerable because I didn't realize what was going on. I thought that was just the way things were. As I've grown older the feeling that nothing I do is going to make it any better, whether I fail or succeed, has only grown stronger.

It may be a self-fulfilling prophecy, but I just can't seem to overcome the inertia of my exhaustion. I do what I can to distract myself, which isn't healthy but it is bearable. I look at the things that people do and all I can think is that there's no way I could do something like that. I look at a recipe that has a dozen ingredients or several steps and I just feel overwhelmed. It only makes things worse, and I know it makes things worse.

I don't have any excuses. It's not like I spent my time building a life for myself, focusing on a career or pursuing a passion. I have nothing worthwhile to offer.
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