What's your opinion on happiness?
All my life I've been brainwashed into thinking that I have no other choice but to finish my education and land a good paying job. Honestly, that sounds alright to me, but will it ever make me happy? I really don't want to be some bum or a drifter, but I also don't want to wake up one morning and realize there's no going back.
>>24492543
Focus on improving yourself in all aspects familia.
Then even if you are still unhappy, you'll still have interests.
Happiness doesn't exist.
I spent most of my life doing what other people expected me to do and I was miserable.
>quit my job
>dumped the roastie who was leeching money from me
>dropped out of society
>spend all day in a dark apartment
>do freelance programming for a living
>closest to happy I've ever been
>>24492543
mostly dependent on your relationships with other people.
>>24492543
Try smaller. I'm happy with relaxing and having a nice breakfast or something. If you wait worrying about the perfect life, you're gonna spend a lot longer in a state of dissatisfaction.
>>24492835
Overall would you say that you came out ahead?
If I had money I'd be happy, but I'm too lazy to make it
>>24492543
Just do what you want! It's not like anything matters really, silly! So so just do fun stuff'
Other people told me to do things and I did them for awhile. Then I eventually stopped doing the things because they told me to do them and started doing different things because I wanted to do those instead.
I recommend it. The things is, going to school, being fit, being sociable is awesome. It's fun. If someone is "pressuring" you to do these things, I have to tell you something: they're on to something. Being a normie is fucking great.
A warm bed, full belly, and the knowledge it will most likely be that way tomorrow.
Years after finishing school and working in a tertially related "foot in the door" job, I basically landed my dream job a few months ago.
Feels k. It's weird when you build up this mythical thing and then in the end it's still a job. Very surreal.
I do like it a lot though, and it makes the years when I felt like I was going nowhere and should give up feel worth it. The biggest difference vs. other jobs I have is I don't need to try to make it fun or interesting. It is already. But I do get stressed about potentially fucking it up.
I think some people's brains are better "wired" to feel happiness than others.
>>24493047
Could you go into greater detail about fucking it up? Is it just general paranoia?
>>24492543
smug nepotistic cunt dot jpg
>>24492543
Our biggest mistake is assuming that everyone is entitled to be happy. Happiness is a luxury.
