Planning on messaging this girl I once met, with the hope of her being my gf, or at least my friend.
Back story
>12 months ago
>be at house party
>meet this girl, 4/10 face, 8/10 body
>me and her are getting on well
>she is discretely holding my hand all evening
>we chat for hours
>me and her fall asleep together on the floor
>we both feel a special connection
>fall alseep feeling loved for the first time since i was a little kid
>be too autist to message her, and we never speak again
>drop out of uni, move back home 2 hours away
"I've never felt more happy, safe, and loved than the night we fell asleep together in the hallway. I've never had such an open and honest conversation with someone. I let my insecurities deter me from messaging or contacting you, and I feel such regret. There was the potential for something, and I am hoping to start over. Perhaps we could chat next time I'm at uni if there's another house party around Christmas."
Thoughts?
>>24480130
bump because i need help
>>24480286
robot y u mke me tyep
>>24480130
may as well, post screenshots
>>24480352
would do, but need to decide if what i've written is a load of shit or not
>>24480390
Well from the sounds of it, it fits the context. Has she got a bf or anything?
>>24480399
she broke up with her bf a few months ago i think
i guess at best she wants to love me and cuddle me, at worst it's a little awkward the next time i go to see people at uni
>>24480475
You might wanna consider testing the water a little bit before you empty your purse.
>>24480509
How?
I'll just sperg, or pussy out
>>24480475
>>24480390
>>24480346
>>24480286
Sauce? I love this art style.
As for your question OP, maybe tone down it down just a little bit. I'm in a similar situation, except I'm on the receiving end for very different reasons (possibly sexual desperation). If they'd messaged me claiming they were in love or some crazy shit like that, I wouldn't have even bothered to reply back.
>>24480520
I'm gonna sound normie but
You managed to not sperg, even have (By the sounds of it) a really deep conversation. If you can do that I'm sure you can ask her to go see a movie with you.
>>24480554
Ilya Kuvshinov. You have shit taste btw.
>>24480554
no idea on the sauce, i had to beg another anon to dump what he had, the pictures are so beautiful
i'll get rid of the word loved, but we spoke about how connected and special our new relationship felt. she desperately wanted me to stay the next morning for breakfast, but i refused and went home
>>24480586
i was pretty drunk, and feeling exceptionally confident. i'd just met all these new people (mates of my best mate), and they wanted to make a good impression and get on well with me.
>>24480663
it's 10/10, dont lie
>>24480663
Thanks m8ty
>>24480688
Jesus, you really shit the bed on that one. You're aware people on this very board are starving to find that kind of a connection with a woman? lol. See how she's doing, though, for sure. I doubt she'd respond negatively given the cirumstances, and I bet she'd be happy to hear from you again.
>>24480747
i know i did. 20yo v who wants to die everyday of his life due to loneliness.
i really don't know how to have a conversation where i just say hi, and end up being with her.
"hey anon, how you been?"
"fine, etc etc. you?"
"oh, i've been okay, got a job etc etc."
"oh nice"
"btw pls be my gf"
>>24480834
>>24480747
still op
i kind of think that i should just be upfront about it
i spent so much time thinking of excuses to not say how i felt, so i said nothing.
i've also refused to say anything to her for 12 months now.
it's only because of hippy feelings of "seize the moment, don't waste a day feeling sad," that i got from tripping on LSD last night that i'm considering it
>>24480834
That's a shit goal and it's a bad way to start anew. I guarantee taking that course of action will end in you projecting your desperation onto her. Try this: just chat with her, see how she's been, whether she wants to hang out at some holiday party sometime soon. Maybe get to know her a little better while you're at it.
>>24480932
can't keep conversation going via messaging. pretty much impossible for me.
maybe i should just wait until christmas/new year, i might meet her at uni when i visit
>>24480996
No, do it when you feel most ready, within a deadline. You're leaving too much to chance. There's still time to make things right.
It's a strong opening message that could be a home run or could fail miserably. You could approach it in a more neutral manner and just message her saying hey how are you doing.
>>24481473
I see what you mean, but just saying 'hey, how are you doing?,' to someone i haven't spoken to or seen in 12 months is just as desperate/creepy.
At least she knows my intentions and feelings, rather than me try to let her know over several weeks of uncomfortable messages in which neither of us knows how the other feels
>>24481506
If you want to go all in or nothing, that's your business. Just don't take it too personally if it doesn't go the best way.
>>24481623
yolo
i'll think about it tomorrow
>>24480130
Is that Bork?
>>24481687
no idea but she's beautiful and i want to be inbetween her legs
>>24481640
I'm holding you accountable. I have you pegged at 62% odds of reconnecting with that girl within eight days.
http://predictionbook.com/predictions/169435
Fuck you man fuck you
>>24481687
definitely bjork.
too hot.
>>24481972
At the end of eight days, report back to that prediction, informing me of whether I was right or wrong. I think my deadline is extremely generous given the dire circumstances.
