Can we discuss sexual past itt?
If you were to meet a potential partner do you care about their sexual past? Why or why not?
To the people in a relationship, do you struggle with getting over your partners past? Share your stories and discuss!
Why would you post this here? This is probably the worst place you could possibly post this.
I care about potential diseases and risks for me or if they had some past relationship that severely complicated their life, but otherwise no.
>>24444903
Why? /r9k/ isn't a hivemind, is it?
>>24444915
>>24444879
Normalfags could you please go back to reddit to discuss how hard you get kucked?
>If you were to meet a potential partner do you care about their sexual past? Why or why not?
No, at this point I just want a woman to actually like me; her past is irrelevant.
>>24444915
It is and I speak for it. Fuck off.
>>24444879
With my sexual past, I don't really have room to talk. So no, I wouldnt care. Unless it was some ridiculous pornstar bod count, of course.
>>24444879
I personally believe the past should stay in the past. Hopefully you learned from your past mistakes
>>24444955
>I personally believe the past should stay in the past.
That's an interesting point you're raising here. What's the best way to leave the past in the past? Do you have to cut all ties with former partners, even with close platonic friends that you used to be intimate with at some point?
Current SigOth: 75 former partners
Satan: like 10
It bothered me a little at first, but mainly because I felt so inferior, not because I thought he was contaminated or slutty.
Probably not OP. I lost my virginity at 32. My lifetime sexual partner count is 1, and that was very recently.
It only makes perfect sense that my partner will have more experience.
I don't know. I guess I have bigger things to worry about. My biggest hurdle to always overcome is actually getting someone interested in the first place. Just overcoming that would make me pretty happy, so I doubt I'd care that much.
It matters, to some degree.
If you can't walk through the shopping streets of your town without every other guy you run across leering at your girlfriend, giving her the "I've seen you naked and put my benis in you" look, then you have a problem.
>>24445093
>actually getting someone interested in the first place
I used to think like you and for whatever reason wasn't concerned with the past of the first few girls I've managed to date. But then I fell really, really hard for one girl, and suddenly these kind of things started eating at me.
>>24444879
I kissed a girl in 8th grade when we played spin the bottle
That's it
I'm 20
>>24444879
>If you were to meet a potential partner
>30
>meet girl
>she's cute
>i've had several sexual partners
>she's had several sexual partners
>we discuss our past
>no STDs
>date successfully for 2 years now
>sex 7-10 times weekly
>no diseases
>no drama
>mutual emotional support
>got into physical shape together to improve sex
it's not that hard, just talk to women.
>>24445242
>i've had several sexual partners
well, there's your answer
>>24445242
How old is this woman, anon
I'd wager she's 27+
>first, last sexual partner
>"how many guys you sleep with?"
>10
>maybe I believe her, maybe more
>still ate out that shit, so thirsty
>infinite regret
Not worth it bros. maybe if she were even a little cute it woulda been better.
The stigma's a bitch. I guess the regret is just about equal.
>>24445251
yeah I don't know what that guy is getting at either. maybe his post was intended for another thread.
>>24444937
On the path to kekdom
Oh look its fucking nothing
>>24445434
He isn't completely wrong but there are other things that could be bothersome to some. What about former partners that are still part of her social circles and stuff like that?
>>24445004
Yes exes make things complicated
>normies having a civilized discussion about normie shit on /r9k/
I'm legitimately upset. fuck all of you
Wizard in training here
Fuck women, wouldn't even have anything to do with 2D.
>>24445609
But what if it was just a casual fling between very close friends? How can you cut someone out of your life who is also friends with everybody else in your social circle?