>me and coworker become pretty close coworkers
>she would volunteer us to work together
>would take 90% of the effort in going to talk to me
>never asks for my number
>decide after a while to ask for hers with the pretense of a friendly conversation (recommending movies for her to watch later that day)
>says "thats so smooth anon" and doesn't even give me her number
>didn't even have an ulterior motive just wanted a close friend to talk to
>chad coworker whom she doesn't even talk to as much as me has her number
>she gave it to him without him asking
R9K WAS RIGHT AGAIN
>>24434986
She literally wanted you as a friend, what's wrong with this? You developed feels. She enjoyed spending time with you. A non autist would've taken the hint when she didnt give out her number (or would have straight up asked).
>>24435031
I don't have feels however why the fuck shouldn't a friend have a friends number when all I was gonna do was recommend movies? we were having a conversation about something for her to watch later so it wasn't even weird
bump because now im wondering if I overreacted
>>24434986
> wahhhhhhhhhhhhh, someone doesn't want to be my friend
Take the fucking hint.
>>24435605
my god tis board has been infested with roasties
if she didn;t want to be my friend why the fuck does she even try to talk to me? ill be perfectly content not talking to her.
>>24435739
>if she didn;t want to be my friend why the fuck does she even try to talk to me?
I'm guessing that you do all her work for her, and whenever she asks you to pick up her slack you have drop whatever you're doing and fix her messes.
She was probably using you for work related reasons if she didn't even want to be your friend.
>>24435739
This board has been infested by leddit and Tumblr for a couple of years
>>24435799
nope, nice guess though, she's pretty competent with her work. I mean she tries to talk to me even when there's no work to do
makes no fucking sense man
>>24435840
It's been getting worse
>>24434986
This screencap makes me feel anger sensation
>>24435866
i know man, its a different world to be a chad
>>24435862
If that's the case she's just using you to relieve her boredom at work. She doesn't want anything to do with you outside of that use.
Basically, what a relationship with coworkers usually is.
>>24435918
thanks anon for some insight
am I right to not want to talk to her anymore?
I wouldn't even be buttmad if she treated me like a normal coworker instead of being fucking excited to talk to me and going out her way to talk to me.
>>24434986
get rekt scrub, go worship incel manlet now
>>24435911
Damn. This is something that mortifies me. To be texting a girl you like and she's having sex with a dude she likes that's not me. Frankly, the while thing confuses me and makes me anxious. I do wish I wasn't like the way that I am.
>>24435989
Idk op of I were you I'd find a job where I could be alone. I hate people
>>24436019
feel free to vent or post stories, makes me feel better posting my shit here
>>24436043
>having a job where you are alone
>all to go home were you are alone
ill go fucking crazy
>>24435989
Who you talk to and why is completely your choice. At the same time, if you're mean or rude about it other people will notice and probably start to distance themselves from you. Just keep your responses light and brief, and if you have a lot of work tell her that you're busy.
>>24434986
>>decide after a while to ask for hers with the pretense of a friendly conversation
how about don't do that. if you're actually interested, then be direct about it.
>>24435989
>am I right to not want to talk to her anymore?
you're literally the embodiment of the nice guy feminists whine about
>act friendly with girl
>don't be honest with your feelings towards her
>sidle up under guise of friendship
>get turned down for chad
>get offended and whine about it
>act rude towards her for not being interested
>>24436019
It's better to be a special snowflake beta than to be cookie cutter manipulative normal scum 2bh
>>24436150
Honesty in feeling means nothing these days. People can be "best friends" within hours of meeting. Everyone's fake as fuck, but some people don't give off the right signals.
>>24436087
I know I just like to get my logic checked so I know im not being irrational
>>24436150
for fucks sake I wasn;t trying to fuck, I just want a nice friend to talk to
I want leddit to leave
>>24436239
>for fucks sake I wasn;t trying to fuck, I just want a nice friend to talk to
then you fucked up because you came across like someone who wants to fuck her but won't ask her out. why should she give her number to someone who's going to hang around causing drama. even if I'm wrong and you did just want to be friends, why were acting sketchy and trying to get her number through sneakiness? why would someone want to be friends with someone who plays games and isn't honest.
as for the claim that you just wanted a friend, ask yourself one thing: if you're not interested, why are you jealous of chad? why do you want her to spend more attention on you than him?it's because you don't want to be friends.
>>24436537
how the fuck am I supposed to ask for a friends number then?
>why am I jealous of chad
me and the chad are friends which is why I even know about the details. im mad because I feel like a clown instead of an actual friend
>>24436537
my question to roasties is
why do they act like they dont want sex?
or
why do they act like you are a villian for trying to have sex with them?
sex literally feels good to both parties.
Girl I like and that I THOUGHT liked me too based on her actions i now dating a guy. Found out today from facebook.
She didn't even have the decency to 'reject' me in person because she very clearly knew.
>>24436150
>Guys have to know instantly if they like a girl or not and articulate it immediately or he's a creeper because the girl might have to be an adult and talk to him directly.
Love this meme.
>>24436720
because no one wants to have sex with low test 5'5" virgin ragers who don't understand even the most basic social boundaries.
try being more masculine
>>24436978
>implying women aren't memes
>>24436019
I used to think like that too. but then I realised genuine relationships can't exist in capitalism, so it's all bullshit anyways.
>>24436978
>dat projection
>dat tumblr file name
no one wants to have sex with ham planets either, but they get to brainwash men into thinking they are desirable.
Why shouldn't men get to do the same? Having sex with a shorter person, is better than having sex with fat people.
If weight doesn't matter, why does height?
>>24437062
you have some pretty flawed logic
after reading this post a couple times i've realized something
your inability to communicate goes far in the way that it effects your experience with women.
Woman, to a greater extent than otherwise, like masculine men. To be masculine you have to have a certain stature and presentation.
If you can't find it in yourself to improve this, or you're genetically stacked in the manlet department you're pretty much fucked.
Half body, half mind. If both of these things fail you, you're better off living without women.
>>24437184
0/10
c u after class desu senpai
>>24437285
I bet you don't even know who Char is kek.
>>24437285
it's funny, how much you boys on /r9k/ think that you're smarter than everyone else but the vast majority are so obviously below an average threshold.
All this whining and I have to wonder...did she make that comment and then just went off on a tangent of forgetting to give the number? Did OP press the issue even a little?
>>24436643
>asking for advice on social skills on r9k
don't make it weird by acting shady. unless you're a great actor (and that's rare), it's obvious when you people have ulterior motives and the other person starts wondering why. if you're just friends then it shouldn't be a big deal and it shouldn't feel like a big deal. girls pick up on those feelings. you could've just laughed at her comment because you weren't doing what she thought but you didn't making you look guiltybecause you were.
The way I see it , there's 2 things that could've happened.
1. she doesn't want to be friends with you and is just friendly in a coworker capacity in which case she was put off by you trying to be overly friendly toward you. if that's the case, there's nothing you can do.
2. maybe she is friendly with you and would like to be friends but was put off by your behavior, taking it as a sign of interest. if that's the case, the friendship might be fixable if she believes that you're not interested and aren't going to get weird on her. this is unlikely because you're clearly angry about all this and probably acted in a way that encourages her belief that you don't want to be friends.
neither of those matter, though,because you don't actually want to be friends.
>>24436720
not even a girl. just feel bad for him because he's fucking up and won't accept it
>>24436765
did you ask her? if so, she's a coward and you're better off without her.
>>24436920
never said that. if a guy is friends with a girl and develops feelings, then it's more complicated. what seems to be the case is that op has feelings but won't recognize or admit to them (1st problem) and tries to pretend he's just a friend (2nd problem) which will lead to him getting possessive and jealous when she dates someone else which leads to all kinds of stupid drama. people who do that are to be avoided.
>>24434986
>didn't even have an ulterior motive just wanted a close friend to talk to
>trying to be platonic friends with a women ever
You can't even say a simple hello to a woman without her thinking your trying to hit on her.
>>24437373
>he doesnt know what is gundam
>he thinks i dont know
>i bet he thinks I dont know Reuenthal either
kill yourself my man
>>24437376
desu im much better than you. really. im here because girls have high, and impossible standards, and I wanted to know why.
>roasties think CHOOSING to be fat, makes you a sexier person than anyone who JUST HAPPENS to be short(which is majority of women, and you dont get to choose your height anyway)
>>24437516
Most woman have minimal standards;
I guess you just don't meet those.
Still don't know where the weight thing is coming from, but it reflects on how poor your communication skills seem to be.
you are at work to do work. dont shit where you eat. do not fraternize with anyone unless you have to. live by these rules and youll have no worries. believe me. i wish someone told me this years ago.
>>24436720
>why do they act like they dont want sex?
>or
>why do they act like you are a villian for trying to have sex with them?
They've never acted like they don't want sex, they just don't want sex with you and openly express that.
>>24435911
I feel so angry. Like that girl I might fall for one day would be this underneath the surface, that she'd just settle for me and I'd never make her feel the same way as some charismatic rando who didn't care about her did. What's the point in even getting married or finding a girlfriend?
>>24437567
no, most women have ridiculous standards, and you're just being a faggot if you deny it lol
the weight thing comes from the fact ham planets don't look like women. but we are still expected to think they are sexy. even though it being fat says you are unhealthy, and ignorant to yourself.
you are trying to say being short is not sexy to women, and that its fair. even though being short doesnt truly reflect what kind of man(stature, or presentation), you actually are, unlike you being a fat woman does.
hopefully you can understand this with your peanut brain, and childlike understand of simple things like math, and general exercise.
>>24437629
>They've never acted like they don't want sex, they just don't want sex with you and openly express that.
project harder virginboy
>>24437516
hey I wasn't trying to be mean, I just wanted to be friends with you cuz you like gundam because me and my brother watched it many times.
>>24437406
>never said that. if a guy is friends with a girl and develops feelings, then it's more complicated. what seems to be the case is that op has feelings but won't recognize or admit to them (1st problem) and tries to pretend he's just a friend (2nd problem) which will lead to him getting possessive and jealous when she dates someone else which leads to all kinds of stupid drama. people who do that are to be avoided.
There is exactly zero reasons it should be a problem to be friends with a girl and trying to be her friend first to get to know her.
>>24437758
it's not very effective to friendzone yourself if you want to potentially date a girl. why not just ask her out instead and get to know her that way? the only upside of the first that is that you don't have to put yourself out there for rejection.
Chadbot here. I generally just lurk but I thought you might like this. I had quite a run in a few weeks back with a girl who almost accused me of rape.
The story will make anyone rage, I posted it to /adv/ so you can read it if you want.
>>/adv/16438339
>>/adv/16451970
Anyway the cherry on top of this whole thing is that at a party I went to a week after where this girl was at with her friend, I ignored her and stayed at the other side of the house, walking away whenever she came close. The girl left after a bit but her friends stayed. When she left her friend who I had also been ignoring can and tried to fucking hit on me. Like what the fuck, women are not only trigger-happy retards looking to ruin men's lives but also have no sense of comradery between them.
Remember to fuck them and use their holes, but never respect them as real people.
>>24437942
>implying the friendzone is real
Women always say it doesn't exist. They weren't lying were they? :^)
>why not just ask her out instead and get to know her that way?
see
>>24437758
You haven't pointed out a single reason this is a bad thing.
>>24437991
Whoops.
>>>/adv/16438339
>>>/adv/16451970
>>24435918
>using a robot
>to relieve boredom
el oh el
>>24436019
>>24435911
This is how my year started. I decided to go after a girl I'd been crushing on forever, and some other guy decides to make a move on the same day I was, which just happened to be New Years. Shit sucks.
Wish I could say it got better from there. She slept with another guy a few weeks later a few weeks later despite me putting everything I had into trying to make her fall for me.
Really fucking bothers me somewhere deep inside my soul.
>>24435031
>having women as friends
Might as well kill yourself.
>>24435739
No she just wanted you to be a work friend you dribbling fuckwit.
>>24436720
You have to realize that as a girl from the moment you're like 12 basically every guy wants to fuck you. It gets annoying for them that literally everyone wants to fuck them.
It's not wrong for a girl to become aware of her own attractiveness and give sex only to other good looking guys.
>be me
>"oh cool, women hate thread"
>open thread
>its literally redditors and women; the thread
Haha bye
>>24439871
I basically make it my mission to white knight every woman hate thread because there's nothing more worthy of a hearty kek than entitled robots foaming at the mouth at the injustice of sexual freedom.
>>24439933
>let's poke the bear, what could go wrong?
>>24439933
>nothing more worthy of a hearty kek than entitled robots foaming at the mouth at the injustice of sexual freedom.
Debatable
>>24435031
> women thinking men want them "as friends"
>>24434986
>woman ignores beta loser and befriends man she wants to fuck
what a shocking development
>>24440101
>she has tattoos
What? No way. I never would have suspected a girl with tattoos would wind up like this.
>>24440130
>theres something wrong with giving people the benefit of the doubt that they genuinely want to be your friend
>>24440160
>she has tattoos
>she has piercings other than her ears
>she dyes her hair with flashy color
>>24435862
>roastie
>competent
pick one and only one, senpai
>>24435031
>She literally wanted you as a friend
He wanted her as a friend too. Don't friends exchange contact info and interact outside of obligations?
>>24440498
>Don't friends exchange contact info and interact outside of obligations?
No.
>>24439860
>It's not wrong for a girl to become aware of her own attractiveness and give sex only to other good looking guys.
while its not wrong.. dont girls realize that -all- guys want to fuck you, not because you are "good looking", but simply cuz you have the one thing that alleviates horniness?
this is why girls wonder what happened when they hit the wall, and see that no one wants them for real. They aren't "good looking". They are just something to fuck, and every guy sees that except your orbiters.
>>24436537
He said he asked for her number so he could recommend her movies to watch. How is that sneaky? How is that not a completely acceptable reason to get someone's number who you interact with regularly? How is she not acting ridiculous by just assuming he wants to fuck her?
I guarantee if this guy had posted something like "this girl asked me for my number saying she wanted to recommend me movies to watch. She probably wants to fuck me!" You'd be calling him entitled and saying he's autistic for assuming something like that.
Don't shit where you eat, or fuck people from work or from the same building you live in.
>>24437655
None. Only if you delude yourself into thinking she's a unicorn. There are none, but some women are very, very good at acting like one for a while.
>>24441823
>How is that sneaky?
see>>24434986
>decide after a while to ask for hers with the pretense of a friendly conversation (recommending movies for her to watch later that day)
>with the pretense of a friendly conversation
>>24441516
It's all pretty much hit and miss, I'm fucking a straight up 10/10, and I'm fat and have acne, just because I had some of the qualities she was looking for.
when I was 5, i was playing in the ball pit at a kid's zone. Two girls about the ages of 16 and 15 asked me to play tag. I followed them into the slide maze and they turned on me. One head my head down and they started to punch and pinch my back. I tried to get away but they kept beating me and beating me. I kicked one in the mouth and they started to grab me and slam me against the plastic. Throughout the beating they called me names like bitch, fag, pussy, worthless, and so on. When I slid down the slide they threw balls at my hear as hard as they could and beat me some more until they were tired. All I wanted to do was play tag.
>>24442153
WTF, damn I would seriously hate women in general after some shit like that
>>24439933
humans are like spiders,you have to watch out for little ones.
did anyone?
weezer'spinkerton
we're going to have to be dedicated
but in the endwe willprevail
>>24435840
You wish, you fucking cancer baby. If anything, this board is infested with self-pitying newfag shitstains like yourself. Just a pack of roaches that took over the rotting cabinets when the Robot moved out.
killing an already dead thread is just the beginning
it will go on to do great things
>>24435169
Start ignoring her if she just uses you as a crutch to get over the day at work and doesn't contribute the level of intimacy you might want. It is shit being the one they lean on and ditch to a corner the moment someone more interesting shows up.
enjoy it now while you can
>>24442670
Looper was a fucking awesome movie
because it is thin now, like cordial mixed with too much water, you can taste that it almost doesn't exist or at least that there's no use in drinking it
drink futilely then and never enjoy the taste once but keep drinking and stay disappointed
everything dies eventually, old men die, some live longer and through unnatural means and their facilitators know deep down the time they waste, don't make their mistake
i am committed, how committed is your hate? i will prove that it is yourself that fails you
you'll give up even this and perhaps never even learn a lesson
>>24436203
Here's the truth, and it's going to hit you so hard that you're going to reject it and spaz out and pretend like it's not real. That it can't be real. But you'll react with such venom, such sureness of thought and purpose, because you know in your heart that it is the complete and undeniable truth. This revelation is, in the fact, the only true thing in your frail shadow-life that you persist in so pointlessly.
The Chad has more personality and depth and individuality than you could ever achieve with the way you are now. You are the cookie cutter nobody, anon.
While you were farting around, saying Tomorrow I'll Be The Real Me, he was going out and making mistakes. While you were squatting in the dark, doing the same thing you did yesterday, he was confronting his limits. While you were scrolling through the internet, patting yourself on the back, he was learning from books and films and elders and direct experience. And while you were licking cheeto dust off your fingertips and strongly considering which waifu to print on your body pillow, he was differentiating himself, making time with other human beings, functioning. Adapting. Living. Being.
You are scared of Chad because in him you see everything you were too much of a chickenshit to be. Chad is the living embodiment of potential, and he shows you all the regrets that you barely hold back from flooding you over and washing you into the drain of oblivion like the soapscum you are.
And women like that potential. They like that experience. And they very much like how Chad isn't like other men they've met. Chad has his own ideas, and his own history, and his own hobbies and take on them that he is able to readily communicate and share with others. Chad has friends, Chad has a future, and Chad has a body that doesn't crap out in forty seconds and come to a wheezing and empty conclusion.
You don't need a big dick and a backwards cap and a shallow attitude to be Chad. You need to have some heart.
but not everyone will learn a lesson, some will just fail
but your failure is necessary or if not - due.
>>24434986
Here's a hint for next time:
Don't explain why you want their number, if you explain anything women will pull some shit.
>Hey give me your number.
Why anon?
>Fuck it I don't care that much, nevermind.
Oh fine it's five five five one two three four
for now though just close your eyes
>>24439606
is that true? idk i don't make friends with women
>>24434986
>trying to rationalize a woman's actions
Can we finally admit as a society that feminism has failed, equality isn't an appealing concept and revert back to the rational state of women knowing their place?
>>24441995
Just from reading this thread it seems like you're the one who is kind of fucked up socially.
Trying to lead into a question is just what someone does when they're nervous to ask. He setting it up so that he can ask if she wants to continue having friendly conversations outside of work while having one during work.
And what you said about him being jealous of Chad seemed way off base too. He's obviously just annoyed because he got treated like a joke when asking to be better friends when he felt like they were already somewhat tight.
Maybe Anon WAS mistaken about how good of friends they actually were, but you're reading so much ill intent into it.
>>24435031
>She literally wanted you as a friend
No, she avoided giving him her number. She DOESNT want a friend, she wants a pass time. A harmless little tampon that follows her around.
Learn what friendship is you naive fuck.
>>24443059
>he Chad has more personality and depth and individuality than you could ever achieve with the way you are now. You are the cookie cutter nobody, anon.
I dont think you know what personality is anon.
>>24442058
water is steak to a dehydrated man
pics or fuck off
>>24437054
How's your course on the Frankfurt School going? Get an A on your analysis of the cultural logic of late capitalism?
Protip: you sound like a twat saying that outside of your liberal arts hugbox
>>24434986
Friendzoned tbqh
>>24444637
he was trying to get friendzoned, he got hatezoned instead
>>24444754
truth is in this post
>>24443726
finally someone with some logic in this thread
>>24441995
so asking straight up "can I have your number" seems like OP is less interested? if he lead with friendly conversation there's an actual reason to have the number instead of "cuz I just wanna fuck"
>>24437387
does it really matter?
why would OP want to make her feel uncomfortable if she didn't want to give her number?
>>24440498
yes, males do it all the time.
>>24437686
>you gizz
>>24434986
Chad got straight to the point . Flirted a bit , asked her number.
You probably whacked around the bush way too long .
>Become pretty close coworkers.
You win by assuming the position of a lover and AFTER that of a friend. Not the way around .
>>24447749
but I don't want to fuck
I just want a friend
>>24447774
Well then , some women just like to play games . Deal with it and move on . The best negotiating position is the power to walk away and never look back.
>>24439282
you can't make a girl fall for you. disney lied. society lied.
if she doesn't want to fuck right after meeting you she will NEVER be interested in you. EVER. she might keep you as a beta orbiter, but girls these days FUCK guys they are interested in immediately.
>>24434986
LIFE IS SO UNFAIR DESU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>24447749
>You win by assuming the position of a lover and AFTER that of a friend. Not the way around .
That's the sad truth of how to get a gf. You have to fuck her first and then you'll probably find out she's a pretty shitty person and not worth a relationship.
What you would want to do is make friends first to find out of she's a decent person. But, no, that turns women right off.
And it's the reason why there are so many used up sluts. They fuck first and then find out they have nothing in common. So they trying fucking someone else and then have a chat to see if they have anything in common.
>>24447842
this, pretty much you have to parlay a hook up into a relationship nowadays
which is pretty fucking retarded, if you figure out a way to get a relationship before doing the nasty please be sure to let /r9k/ know your secrets
>>24447842
>>24447980
that is true and so, so sad. I've missed many chances with girls because I didn't know this simple truth. Girls have tried to fuck me before, but I thought you need to get to know each other first.
I was in denial my entire life, and shit, I don't want to believe that you need to fuck first and THEN become friends. It's just seems so sad to me. It makes me feel even sadder when I recall all my missed chances with beautiful women who LIKED me but because I didn't have sex with them, they stopped communicating.
I was very wrong.
Is this the world we live in?
>>24436720
>if a woman has tons of sex she is called a slut and risks STIs
>why don't they just have sex with everything
People need to realize that sex is a very intimate gesture that should have never turned into entertainment at the social level (brothels are not at a social level, its discrete and okay). Now that it has reached social levels it spreads degeneracy and all of these disgustin problems, men are seeing other men have sex and wondering why the same doesnt happen to them. It wasnt supposed to happen in the first place and it's fucking people up.
>>24448080
I wish it wasn't, m8. I want to be friends first.
Warning - potential normie shit:I got my gf by accidentally showing sexual interest early on and accidentally flirting heavily. Fuck knows how that even worked. But my ignorance of that meant I thought I was making friends. But from her perspective, we were properly sexy flirting and all that. I had no idea I wa flirting. Still don't.
>>24448151
>Warning - potential normie shit:
don't worry, I do some normalfag shit too like drinking, talking to girls in bars/clubs, sometimes making out, or getting hit in the face while drunk.
I've had a girl invite me to her place to watch a movie, and we did just that. we were sitting close, my head on her shoulder, or her head on mine. why the fuck was I so clueless? I don't know why I didn't do anything, but the next day we went our ways and she won't respond.
fuck this shit happened like a month ago, why is it still haunting me.
I have many stories like these. I'm living in some fucked up fantasy world where people don't fuck-first-ask-questions-later...
>>24448281
>and she wont respond
and people say men are the fucking horndogs
when a woman doesn't want a man? you go girl he isn't entitled to fuck
when a man doesn't want a woman? what an asshole dump his game playing ass you shouldn't even be his friend
>>24448281
You were having fun watching a movie with someone you liked. What on earth is wrong with that?
It's something I will never understand. It's fuck first and then when the relationship is established, the sex significantly decreases and you start having a nice time watching movies and doing stuff together.
Don't most relationships wind up with sex rates decreasing to less that once a week? So what was the point of that fuck-first at the start?
>>24448411
dude, I'm not even mad at her, or women in general. I feel sad, like I missed the chance and I will never be with her. I still don't know why beautiful girls like her are interested in fuckups like me. no fucking idea to this day. maybe because I approach them first...
this world man, I have so much to learn.
>>24435031
>wanted you as a friend
>pretty close coworkers
>>she would volunteer us to work together
>would take 90% of the effort in going to talk to me
She's using op to get her work done. Pretty clear.
>The autist/virgin shame card
oh. it's bait
>>24448564
that's the thing, there's NOTHING wrong. and I know there's nothing wrong with it, but I still live in a society where what I did is considered weak, as in "lol why didnt u fuck her bro xD". and I know that's society's bullshit, but I'd be a fool to say that society didn't implement certain values in my mind that are hard to reprogram.
I just feel sad about that being the end of it all. that's it. she won't respond or answer my calls, nothing. when I was younger, I was scared of seeing a girl I like. but now I'm scared that I'll probably never see her again.
>>24443405
no it'll take another 30 years before it's even considered widescale
You fags should read this book
I didn't actually buy it so I might as well be a shill
>>24437567
>women
>minimal standards
>minimal
>>24448642
Something a bit like this happened to me before. Back in first year of uni, was trying to be super social with a fresh start and all that, and got to know this girl. I invited her round for, quite literally, 'chill with a movie'. About half an hour in she gets all giggly and starts pushing up against me, I thought she was just being playful - ten minutes later she says she's tired and goes home.
When my flatmates heard she was over they'd just assumed I'd fucked her. I denied it, I'd known her for like a week, this was the first time she'd ever been over to mine - is it normal to fuck that fast? Later I found out they thought I was gay.
Guess the difference is that I'm still in touch with her, but I really can't see it ever taking off. If you're still doing all that normie then justmove on.Another girl with probably come along.
>>24438007
Not the same anon, but it's because they won't fuck you and you've wasted hours putting the pussy on a pedestal and getting all emotionally invested in a basic bitch who you deluded yourself into believing to be some ideal woman. You're not going to get laid if you don't ever make a fucking move.
Stop falling in love with girls you want to fuck. Love and sex are far removed from each other now. Even if you do fuck them they probably won't love you back.
>>24448913
with sluts even a week is too long
welcome to an era where sex is for fun rather than intimacy
>>24448913
>ten minutes later she says she's tired and goes home.
Pathetic.
Her, not you.
>4/10 males whine on an anonymous mongolian origami board that the 7.5+/10 females would rather date within their league
>won't even look in the general direction of 4/10 females
Cry me a fucking river, R9K.
>>24448913
fuck man, you got a skype or something? I feel like I have so much in common with you from that one post because that's exactly what happened to me. except I went to her place lol. we were watching a movie, then she started getting all touchy feely. kept grabbing my arm, pushing me around, touching my head, acting all "cute" and child-like (I don't know how to explain it, but you know what I mean).
yeah, I do normalfag stuff almost every friday. but I feel nothing now, just seems so pointless and no purpose in it. she made me feel special, but only after the fact. she made me feel a sharp sadness I hadn't felt in a while. now I'm just empty? sure there will be other women, but there won't be a bad bitch with an attitude like her.
I still have her on facebook, but it's pointless messaging now. accumulated like three "Seen"s already. I think that's a pretty obvious sign.
>>24443256
I've never witnessed a genuine friendship between a man and a woman. Anyone who thinks they exist is delusional
That's what you get for trying to associate with a roastie.
>>24436019
oh god that feel
>>24449127
>projecting this hard
You are retarded, I'm a 6/10 I'd gladly have a 4/10 qt shy nice girl than a 6+/10 roastie.
>>24449127
Because 4/10s want 8/10s, stupid roastie.
I might as well be gay at this point
>>24449411
Then, they don't have the moral ground to rage against other people wanting 8s, specially if these other people are 8s themselves. Shameless hypocrites.
>>24435605
Godamn do i hate you insensitive pricks with your stupid waahh shitposting. Go back to fagbook and brag about your abs no one gives a single flying donkey's titshit about.
>>24449274
I doubt there's much else I can say beyond that really. She did the exact same, acting all cute and childish, hugging her pillow and leaning up against me. In hindsight it was all so obvious, but at the time her wanting to have sex didn't even enter my frame of thinking, ya'know?
I get where you're coming from, but at the same time if she's not interested in you like you are with her then how's it gonna go anywhere? She's ignoring you, give it some time and message her in a couple of weeks or something. If you're going out you're bound to rekindle that specialness
She still does message me, probably more than any other person I know. She says stuff like "Meeting you was the best thing that happened last year", then whenever I try to meet up with her she cancels. Am I being fucked with here? 'cause it sure seems like it. But at the same time no girl has ever even pretended to show this much interest in me before. I guess she's still talking to me at least, unlike your girl
>>24449648
>give it some time and message her in a couple of weeks
Would he even want her? Who know many times, or how many people, she will have fucked in those weeks.
>>24449696
Sure, but at the same time who knows how many people she's fucked prior to meeting him in the first place.
It's not going anywhere at the moment, she's ignoring his messages, what more is there to lose?
>>24435911
This is how school shootings happen tbqhwy
>>24443059
JUST B URSELF BRAAHHHH :^)
Such personality, much vibrancy, very unique.
>>24447824
You say that, but the guy who she ended up sleeping with on New Years had been waiting for years too apparently. Also, she keeps telling me she doesn't actually love him but it really fucking looks like she does to me, and that fact frustrates me even more.
>>24448849
Halfway through and it's excellent. Thanks anon.
>>24435911
I strive to be the man who sends this message
