>When you develop a crush on a girl and every moment you're not with her you're afraid that she's getting pounded by chad
probably balls deep in her right now
>>24428348
Just make her your gf, you dummy. :-)
>>24428443
I want to, but when I'm not around her I get anxious as fuck because I feel like I'm losing out.
>>24428532
But that is something completely out of your control. Just make sure to go after her. Don't become an orbiter. If you want to become a simple friend to her, you need to get rid of your attraction towards her first.
>>24428836
If I don't ask her out by the end of the week, imma give up to be honest.
I've done this shit too many times, if I want to lock her down I should do it asap
>>24428893
You should ask her out, no doubt. Do you think she is somewhat into you?
>at uni
>see a woman on an off day
>have a decent conversation
>want to ask her out
>don't see her again for weeks, drink heavily and lose sleep over it
>finally see her again and ask her out
>she has a b/f, despite having no job, living with parents, etc
It's the first semester I'm asking women out (I'm 25) and I wish I could live life on easy-mode. The second woman I asked, she had a BS that got her no job, so at 29 she's living with parents, but her parents give her a car and she has a b/f. She's getting her second degree obviously.
>>24428893
I'm
>>24429001
First girl I asked out I did in writing, because we both worked at the same office (tutoring, so there's always people). Second girl was easier to ask, but I still asked her in front of everyone when she didn't take the hint (to come outside) when I said I wanted to talk to her.
Both were polite, the first said "it doesn't hurt to ask" and the second said "thank you"
>>24428941
Thing is I've always had a problem discriminating against girls being friendly and girls being into me, and I've lost friends and potential relationships for both reasons.
I have a friend that knows her better than I do, and she said she thinks she likes me, so that gives me hope. But I've seen how she interacts with some other guys and it's not that different, and I feel like I mentally dismiss any potential hints as me overthinking it/being too optimistic.
>>24429157
I know that feeling, anon. I used to be very bad at telling if a girl is into me or not. This stuff needs some exerience. I hope that she gives you a chance but even if she doesn't, don't let that discourage you. I had to get turned down and misinterpret signals a couple of times, before I started figuring out how this whole flirting/ showing interst game works.
>>24429049
there was a girl, 6 years of friendship. never liked her. always saw her as a good friend. last summer suddenly i fell in love. i loved her so much, i thought she is the one. in past i fought for her, i saved her many times, i backed her up whenever she needed. never made her feel alone. hell, i once even walked 12 miles for her. didnt have car back then. one night just went straight to her looked her in the eyes and said that i like her very much.she smiled, said she will think about it.
>> mfw i call her after a week, she says its disgusting, dont even want to talk about it again. cause i am fat and not good looking.
>>mfw she starts dating my friend.
>>tfw being good and pure in heart never pays off.
>>24429343
>"OH MY GAWD WHY DO PEOPLE DO MASS SHOOTINGS ; - ;"
>>24429343
you should never get caught up in making someone else your happiness. make yourself happy first.
>>24428348
>tfw I know she's being pounded
>tfw she just changed her relationship status on FB to in a relationship
>tfw he's a fucking ginger who is obsessed with godzilla
JUST PERFORM ACTS OF COITUS WITH MY UNUSED ARTICLES, KIN
>>24429265
I'm just going to have a talk with my friend tomorrow. We're very close and I know she won't bullshit me, and I need someone who can see both sides.
I need to get all this shit out of my head and look at the situation for what it really is.
She *is* getting pounded by Chad. His big dick makes her pussy quiver and hair stand up, leaving a huge stain of her succulent juices on the bed.
>>24429382
>because I'm nice she HAS to be my gf despite the fact that I'm gross!
this /r9k/ dual standard of shitting on fatties and roasties but expecting to be exempt is hilarious
>>24429343
LOSE WEIGHT U IDIOT
>>24429343
no one is "the one"
this oneitis meme is so dumb. pussy is pussy. The odds of you finding "the one" in a dating pool or millions of different girls is nearly impossible. No matter how much you like a girl it's pretty much guaranteed you can find someone better
>be 13
>just moved to burgerland
>can speak English but not familiar with colloquialisms
> dance party
>8/10 brown chick
>eye rape her
>she notices me
>walks up to where I'm sitting
>asks me if I want to dance
>I say "nah dancing is gay"
>tfw didn't realize she wanted me to dance with her
>tfw she goes to her circle of friends and they all console her while giving me stink-eyes
>tfw I still think about her
>tfw when forever autistic
If it's any consolation, he's probably pounding her right now
>girl likes me in first year of high school
>dont do anything because autistic
>super-senior now
>shes probably getting pounded by chad in college
>>24428348
Every fucking time. Ruins all my relationships.
>Start talking to girl from my course
>Kinda known her since last year, but never really talked to her
>Ask her out for lunch, she says yes
>Have great time, both laughing and smiling the whole time
>Don't even feel any kind of pressure with her
>We do this a couple of times, just meeting up between classes here and there
>Suddenly, snapchat of her sitting on the lap of /fit/ guy
>Stalk him
>Find out he's a Spanish law graduate, training to become a barrister in London, who also plays football on semi-professional level
HOW. SHE'S NOT EVEN THAT PRETTY. THIS GUY COULD GET ANY GIRL HE LIKES.WHY DIDN'T I LISTEN?
