If you had a girlfriend, would you forgive her for cheating on you once?
>tfw you've never received a handwritten anything from a female
>>24428108
she's a troll
a billion years / infinity is zero. she wants to spend 0 time apologizing
10000000/infinity years
That is 0 years
Bitch isn't even fucking sorry
>find cock
>talk to cock
>cock pressuring to fuck you
>be alone with cock
>rides cock
>OMG IT JUST INSTANTLY HAPPENED I WAS SO WEAK :((
get fucked roasthole. stupid FUCKING BITCH
>>24428108
Would she forgive me for murdering her once?
>>24428145
E-mail me your address and I'll send you a handwritten letter and a present. [email protected]
No. I would cut off all contact as soon as I found out it was true.
>>24428253
no one wants anything from you, slut
>>24428108
She lost her virginity right before she cheated? That didn't take long. Just your typical average woman. Then to play the suicide card. Ha!
>>24428108
I had a girlfriend who cheated on me and not forgiving her was a very good decision, since the next guy she was together with, got keked within 2 months of their relationship.
Once a cheater always a cheater. If she sees that she got away with it easy, she'll do it again.
>>24428253
Isnt this samson's gf?
Where is samson?
No, 0 tolerance policy,lads. After the first time she's spoiled anyway,don't let their filthy mind tricks manipulate you around.
>>24428332
What?
No... Gross. Fuck no. I'm an incel but I wouldn't touch that attention whore with a ten foot pole.
>>24428376
calling others attention whores while attention whoring
>a billion divided by infinity
Not only is that undefined math, the limit is 0. I'd never even consider a woman who cheated as human, but to have her then say she'd apologize for the next 0 years is offensive.
>>24428376
>attentionwhore
>tripfag
>being unironic
Kill yourself.
>>24428108
Notice how the first paragraph suggests that she obsessively imagines how much the guy is hurt by her cheating
>I CAN JUST IMAGINE YOU STAYING UP ALL NIGHT ASKING WHY
This demonstrates the thinking of whores, they must always be the central characters of their story no matter how negatively it effects everyone else
She couldn't have just left well enough alone and let the dude be hurt, no she has to agitate and come back to rub it in.
>>24428253
>tfw you thought mystery was a top tier shitposter only to find out he's just a girl
No, absolutely not, zero chance.
As a man, the only think you can do in this situation is immediately drop her and drop all contact with her.
No big scene, no crying, no shouting, no hitting.
Just immediately block her from all aspects of your life and walk away. Don't cry in front of anyone, don't show anyone you're hurting, if you absolutely HAVE to let it out, do it in the house while you're alone.
No one will loose any respect for you, if she isn't sorry then whatever you're just cutting a posion bitch put of your life, if she is genuinely sorry and loves you enough to want you back, good, all your blocking and ignoring will hurt her a ton.
Once a woman cheats the relationship is dead, no ifs, ands or buts. End of story.
>>24428145
It feels really, really good.
>>24428108
no
i wouldn't be able to trust her. i get pretty paranoid about everything but when it comes to other people, i always let it go because i'm making the choice to trust. i couldn't bring myself to do that after getting cheated on. it'd just be too stupid to.
>>24428594
I've been thinking about this..
What if you wife a woman and have a home, kids, a cat and a dog together. And then she cheats out of the blue. The correct response would be divorcing and gtfo'ing asap, but you've invested so much into the relationship already. And the cat! Not to mention the kids.
>inb4 don't marry
>inb4 inb4
That's like not taking a car insurance because >implying you'll ever crash your car
I'd forgive her... but the relationship is over. If I take her back, she'll never really respect me as a man again. She'll see me as desperate, and that's the death knell of any woman's love. She'll end up resenting me and cheating again, then dumping me.
A woman cheating kills the relationship instantly. There might be some leeway if the man cheats, but if the woman cheats, the relationship is over.
>>24428594
Amen anon
>>24428713
>but you've invested so much into the relationship already. And the cat! Not to mention the kids
sunk cost fallacy
my parents stuck together even though they hated each other "for the kids" but we all knew what was up and wished they'd have gotten a divorce. the atmosphere at home was awful.
>>24428713
dont get married. i hate to go john oliver but its 2015. there is literally no benefit for men to get married outside of a small tax cut. if feminism gets to her which it inevitably will, you will end up with alimony and paying for your kids to grow up for 18 years while rarely seeing them. just remember this pic if youre on the fence of marriage.
>>24428713
Get indisputable proof that she's cheating, try to gather information and evidence of her being a bad parent and store it all somewhere she'll never find.
If she admits it to you, then bide your time, if she doesn't know you know, still bide your time, you're in a better position if she doesn't know you know.
Keep on as though things are normal, see a solicitor/lawyer and discuss it with them in private. Your goal should be you house, your kids, your pets, your money and all your possessions being 100% yours. Even if it takes years, build your case.
As for time investment, it doesn't matter, the relationship is dead and rotting, there's no bringing it back to life. It is however important to remember that it wasn't your fault.
Don't let her see the kids unless you're there, women will no hesitate to turn children against their fathers. Let them know from an early as you feel is appropriate what their mother did and that you never wanted things to be the way they are between you.
When it comes to marriage, it's better to play the long game to ensure your life remain as stable as possible than to let your ego take hold.NEVER GET MARRIED, ANON! PUSH THAT THOUGHT OUT OF YOUR HEAD AS HARD AS YOU CAN!
>>24428975
This the truth. Pic related is all a man can expect out of marriage today.
>>24429018
Where I live, a married man, even if sole provider for his family, has an easier time getting a mortgage and will more probably gain a bank loan than a single or non-married family guy. Also, if not married, any kids keep their mother's surname by default, which annoys me a lot.
I'm not saying the idea of marriage sounds good or anything, but it makes family living so much easier here, and a big comfy house is what I've always wanted.
I feel like such a keck in all this family life thing..
I'm thinking: probably not.
>>24429018
no sypmathy for this fucking faggot. this guy was literally a beta kek provider and kept repeating the same mistake. faggots like this who keep funding these whores just add fuel to the flame.
>>24428713
I'd murder my wife and children, and leave the country. Wouldn't be that hard because I'm planning to live with and marry a woman from another country (in South America most likely).
>>24429206
>sorry not sorry
>bragging about not caring about how much you're hurting someone
i can't even be mad. she's so shitty it's amusing.
>>24429018
brutalpasta
>>24428108
>believing a bullshit letter like that
The only reason to forgive her is if you're already married with children.
>>24428108
No, definitely not.
People who cheat deserve 0 sympathy.
What she did was wrong, and she fully knew that yet did it anyways.
But wait guys, what if she also drew you a picture?
>>24429370
>any number divided by infinity
Could you remind me what this equals?
>>24429410
She probably meant times infinity, but was too stupid to use the right symbol.
www.liveleak.com/view?i=6c9_1427152092
The only response you should give roasties for cheating on you.
>>24429403
Holy fuck, thats even worse.
She probably doesn't even care about him, she just wants forgiveness and not to look like a bad person desu senpai.
>>24428662
>>24428145
I can second this. I personally keep the most warm-invoking items from a female right next to my monitor to remind me.
It doesn't feel as good when the female doesn't feel the same way.
>>24429167
Lmao why would it annoy you if a single mom gave her kids her surname?
Also, op is a kek if he takes her back.
>>24429450
So she's either fucking retarded or isn't sorry. Either way, she doesn't deserve an apology.
>>24429479
>Lmao why would it annoy you if a single mom gave her kids her surname?
>raising kids that don't have your surname
nice kek bro
>>24429370
>The only reason to forgive her is if you're already married with children.
No. In that situation you get your kids paternity tested and file for divorce.
>>24428108
>you me me mem em mem emem mememem ememem memememememmememem mememe me me me me ME
>>24429403
>>24428108
She's either 6, mentally retarded or thinks of the relationship as a complete, total and utter joke.
There's no way she wrote that with any actual soul, feeling or love behind it. She's just trying to lure him back in.
Honestly, that makes me sick to my stomach.
>>24429206
What the fuck. This can't possibly be real. Why would you go out of your way to completely destroy and crush a person that did absolutely nothing to you?
>>24429572
That's women for you
>>24429572
I believe it. I think some people just get off on it.
>>24429500
>single mom
Where would you fit into this?
>>24429572
girls are vindictive as fuck. they bottle up their hateful feelings so when they comes out in comes out harsh and ugly and it's harder for empathy to overcome those feelings.
>>24428108
No, I'm not fucking daft m8. Kick that slag to the curb and be done with it.
>>24429661
The point of the original post was that unless you're married in this country, your kids will not get your surname.
>>24429664
But still, seeking out places where your ex is just to go and make out with different dudes in front of him is mean.
Also, the whole "I went to prom with him and then kissed one of his friends just to hurt him" thing hit pretty close to home. The ame happened to me.
My oneitis was my prom date, and then she went off and decided to spend the night making out with a handsome friend of mine because "I always found him super hot but never had courage to say it. But tonight is party night so fuck it!"
I never wanted to kill yself more than that night
>>24428108
>would you forgive her for cheating on you once
Fuck no
I get her fired from her job
sleep with her friends
Sleep with her cousins
and fuck her sister too
and turn them all against her
I'd also make sure who ever hires her in the future fires her too
>>24429018
This is one of the worst made up stories, ever.
>>24428108
No its just a girlfriend why act like a kek and stay with her.
>Lynwood and Noah seemed so new
Holy shit, not only did she cheat, but she did a fucking threesome.
Or cheated twice.
>>24429783
Lynwood is a place
>>24428376
>incel
you should probably look up what that actually means, you used roastie whore
we know you're just a troll anyway w/e
>>24428108
>My grades came in that morning as a 3.47
>a fucking disappointment
Is this bitch for real?
>>24429808
We all know women can't be incels, just filter the tripfag
>>24429572
>Why would you go out of your way to completely destroy and crush a person that did absolutely nothing to you?
He wanted it to be one way. But it's the other way.
>>24429823
3.47 is pretty bad if she's a liberal arts major in college.
Also bad for high school
>>24429808
idk, I've seen her pics. she's so trollish, even I wouldn't fuck her
I'm a don't ask don't tell kind of guy. Unless I was really in love with a girl I would probably just figure out of sight out of mind. But if I learned for a fact that she was cheating I'd have to leave her.
>>24429572
its probably written by some sadbrained faggot
stop being so gullible fuCK
nope. and if I caught her in the act, violence would occur
>>24428108
I dumped my suicidal girlfriend after she cheated on me.
She slit her wrists as well and then would keep trying to contact me. Even after 3 years she would call me occasionally and I'd have to block a new number she had and threaten her with a restraining order.
>>24429884
so you're pretty much a kek
>>24429507
Not if you're sure the kids are yours. This situation assumes that it's the first time the woman cheated.
Getting divorced isn't fair to the children, it's usually women who file divorces because of unfaithful partners.
>>24429328
It's the boyfriend writing it on her Facebook
>>24429946
Bipolar girls are the fucking worst. They're manipulative and clingy, but because of "muh impulses" they have no second thoughts about cheating (or in my case, about giving 4 blowjobs to her male friends while her boyfriend is busy working his ass off to pay for the rent of the apartment she insisted you two should rent. I walked into her cleaning the cum off her face as the dudes were putting their trousers on)
If she wrote a letter like that, then yes, just once. I would be noided as fuck around her though and probably end up leaving because of itYes, I know I'm a massive beta kek
>>24429981
If I am dating a girl to get in her pants I couldn't give a fuck what she does as long as it doesn't publicly shame me. its just pragmatism
This is the only kind of note I would ever write.
>>24428108
Ayy wassup ethan.It's omel
>>24430475
Holy shit. I can't even read that. What the fuck is it?
>>24430514
It's Kurt Cobain's suicide note.
>>24430575
Fucking horrible handwriting, fuck. He made some good music; but, jesus christ that note is atrocious.
>>24428421
think about why youd never forgive a woman who cheated on you. fucked morals and values? and who defines those morals and values u deemed fucked
>>24430475
Because you're schizophrenic?
I'd probably take her back to fuck her until I find another grill then dump her.
No
The only reason to be exclusive as a male is to lock down sexual exclusivity, if that goes, so does the reason to be together in the first place
>>24430475
this one is much better
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Per_%22Dead%22_Ohlin#Dead.27s_suicide_note
Got this a few weeks after she broke up with me.
I was in 8th grade and she was going into 9th.
>>24431441
>Micheal [sic]
>you will always will have a specal [sic] place in my heart
You're better off without her.
>>24431441
You've just kept it this whole time?
>>24428108
>have online gf
>one day she fucks another dude
>cut things off immediately and call her the cunt she is
>a few months later she's dating a guy I used to know
>cheats on him too
>happens again to another guy I used to be friends with
>happens a fucking third time to another one
>mfw two of them have told me I was right about her and have apologized for turning on me for her
>>24430603
Most guys under 25 have worse handwriting than that.
My ex cheated on me and I broke up with her instantly. So to answer your question, no. No I wouldn't.
>>24428108
The only correct answer is fuck no. Cheaters deserve the death penalty.
>>24428193
>>24428196
>>24428421
She obviously meant the slash as "or" you autists. She's still disgusting but are you too autistic to realize that women don't think about math when they aren't in a math class, let alone understand it?
>x/infinity
So she's doing it again right now?
Good riddance.
>>24431534
you forgot "perticular"
>>24432453
Missed that one.
>>24428108
fuck no,i would probably beat the crap out of her
>>24428253
Is this fucking whore in every single thread? I keep hearing about filters, how do i get one?
>>24428108
Fuck no. Once a cheater always a cheater. I got friends that cheat. They swear on everything they're going to change but they don't in the long run. Its all about opportunity for them
>>24429572
stop being stupid the guy himself wrote it after hacking into her account
>>24430051
That's shitty. I went to see mine on my birthday and she had hickeys on her neck...
In the end as mad as I am, I know that she really regrets what she did, but too mentally unstable to make logical decisions. Fuck her, though.
>>24428108
Never.
You put effort into a relationship.
You respect your partner.
You share many secrets and memories which are yours and only yours.
You're planning a future together.
Buy her gifts, remember her birthday, women's day etc.
You don't think of other women as substitutes, because you respect your partner.
You hug, kiss and have sex only with her, because you're loyal.
If she cheats on you, that means she it disloyal, which means she can't hold to her word,
It also means she never held any respect for you if she cheated.
Doesn't matter if it was once.
There are moral standards which should not be broken, loyalty should not be stretched.
If she chose you, she should stay with her choice, if she doesn't like her choice anymore, you two break up like a normal, moral person would do.
And everything goes vice versa.
>>24432036
>not understanding a joke
>calling others autistic
>>24432036
>women don't think about math when they aren't in a math class
>implying women think about math when in math class
>implying women think about math
>implying women think
>>24428108
it's crazy how women think they are the main character in their very own indie drama
>>24428108
>Cheats
>Still manages to make herself the victim
>there's no excuse
>lists excuses
rapeandleavedeadinthecorner/10
>>24432795
I seriously despise people that want to cover up their selfishness and excuse that they made someone's life even more disappointing with something bad that happened in their life.
I mean, for fucks sake. I was a failure many times but i don't try to screw a girl and leave her just because the last one manipulated me.
>>24428108
That bitch is crazy. But if youve got her virginity ans she just snapped. Go support her. She could turn out to be a good woman in the end, or a horrible cunt.
It all depends on if she tries to make it better and is genuine. Above all-
GO WITH YOUR INSTINCTS.
Be strong, bitches are all crazy.
>>24428108
>Implying I'm gonna read that shit
Faaaaaaaaaam please
>>24432953
just read it family
>>24431441
cum on it and post results
>>24428108
No, there's plenty of other women out there. Sometimes, I wish my girlfriend would fuck up so I had an excuse to be single without it being my fault. Would love to explore more women.
>>24428376
Which tripfriends would you touch?
>>24428108
if she apologized to me in person i might think about it but it'll most likely be a no and if it was in paper like this cunt then it would definitely be a no
>>24433412
This. Do it pham
>>24431441
Chelsea's a specal girl
>>24433412
Do it anon do it
No. I could never be with someone who doesn't respect me.
forgive?
I'd kill her car, poison her dog and fuck up her life as much as I can
>>24432036
>being this reddit
original comment i think
>>24428108
>If you had a girlfriend, would you forgive her for cheating on you once?
I mean, sure I'd forgive her. But I'd cut all contact and never speak to her again.
>>24432584
Hey newfag. Click the drop down menu next to their post number and select filter>tripcode, then you're done. Or you can just get 4chan x and anonymize everyone.
FUCK NO!!!
My friend just dealt with that shit. He started dating a PREGNANT girl and let her MOVE IN with him after only SIX MONTHS!
Then about half a year later he goes through her phone and finds out she's been sexting some other guy...while laying next to HIM in bed.
Thank god he kicked her out.
Fastforward two weeks later: "I know you're not gonna want to hear this but I've been talking to ex again."
Now they're back together. I'm afraid to ask if she's moved back in with him and some other guy's kid. He had to deal with the childbirth, the months after of no-sex, the constant screaming baby, the no-fun-allowed dad mode.
Oh but she's "the best girlfriend i've ever had!". Sure pal...
Depends if she slept with a nigger or not
>>24429403
Say you really need $40 (or however much you think you could get) for rent or some shit and you'd really appreciate it. See if she gives it to you.
>>24433712
I don't get what compels guys to do this shit. Maybe because I've never been in the same situation, but I feel like I can examine the decision with more clarity from the outside than someone can while deluded by their feelings. Have some self respect, for fuck's sake.
>>24434373
>I don't get what compels guys to do this shit
Normal for them is companionship. They're willing to be in a shit relationship and act like it's great, just for the sake of being in a relationship.
>>24428108
>hear-all-the-reasons-that-have-nothing-to-do-with-you-getting-keked.jpg
>>24434373
It's because she was the best girlfriend he's ever had.
What I don't get is why he didn't realize this was a bunch of bullshit beforehand. Obviously she's going to be the fucking perfect girl. She was PREGNANT with SOMEONE ELSES KID when they started dating. That was her last chance at roping in a guy with her newfound baggage. She's going to try harder to be the best beta bux gf ever.
But he's a bit of an idiot. He's loaded too and has a real nice car...but no job (he doesn't need it, he gets $2000+/month just in DIVIDENDS). Any girl would jump at that chance, especially a pregnant one.
>>24428108
Yep. But I would cheat on her for sure.
Depends on how much I love her and how attractive she is.
If I don't really give a shit and she's hot then I wouldn't care all that much.
I'd just pretend to be mad for manipulation purposes.
I used to answer this question quickly and simply with a no, but now o feel like I would forgive her because I don't think I could ever find anyone and if I did it wouldn't be wise to throw them out because it will probably be my only chance
>>24428108
Hell no. And I'd let everyone know she cheated.
>>24428108
No. I'd probably dump her as soon as I realized she'd become distant from me, no cheating required. Already learned my lesson once.
>>24433712
I think I'd rather switch places with a homeless meth addict than people like this. A hell of a lot more honorable way to go.
>>24434474
Normies would make fun of a guy in a relationship like that.
Dating a pregnant girl, letting her crawl back after cheating, and being too dumb to realize she's playing you is a really beta thing to do.
>>24428108
I forgave my ex for cheating once, she branded herself the victim after a while. The whole thing fucked me up quite a lot just due to the total mindfuckery of it. It was probably the biggest mistake of my life, and it's one that I'll never make again.
>>24428108
>if I could apologize for the next billion divided by infinity years
Wonder if he took the bait.
