Is sex better than masturbation?
Its markedly worse
>>24406212
>Its markedly worse
To further elaborate, one should say that the *orgasm* is markedly worse. Sex, however, has emotional benefits that masturbation doesn't. For example, you don't get that feeling of emptiness afterwards.
I often wonder
- Girls smell IRL, and they can stink like ass
- Girls make noises or say awkward things, and their vaginas make gross squishy noises
- I've touched and hugged other people before, if touching another human being is like that, it's not really amazing
- Post-cum, you want nothing to do with sex or women, but they're still there if you fuck them for real
- Diseases and mess
What's the upside?
>>24406259
>loser virgin pathetically attempts to rationalize their virginity as some sort of boon
yeah it sure was smart of you to never hug a girl! it would have only been a disappointment! good thinking, chap.
>>24406290
That's just it, I have hugged a girl, it didn't feel magical or anything, it was just pressing up against a clothed human being
>>24406237
Speak for yourself to be honest family thank you robot overlord.
I think so. Masturbation doesn't wear you out, and you don't get to do things like suck on a titty or have your neck kissed.
More than either of them, I like getting a handjob. I wish I could get my gf to do it more, but she always wants me to fuck her, and she seems to think getting jizzed on is gross.
Masturbation is fucking hell. It's chewing food through plastic and not being able to taste it or swallow it, only smell it. It's awful.
Sex gets boring and is often lousy, but at least when you have it regularly, you no longer want to cut your fucking dick off and beat yourself to death with it because of how frustrated you are and how much you crave touching an actual girl.
I don't even want to fuck girls. Fuck sex, sex is worthless. Just give me a broad who lives in my apartment and walks around and lets me grab her ass and thighs whenever I feel like it, and I'll do that 14 times a day and masturbate into the kitchen sink and be happy. It's not even the actual intercourse. It's just being able to touch bonafide girl ass so your fucking man brain will stop calling you a failure and flooding your nervous system with Anguish Fluid because you haven't smelled a real girl's pheromones or been allowed to touch their soft hair for over a month.
An ounce of tangibility is worth ten thousand pounds of visual and fantasy. I would rather bite a 4/10 girl's asscheek for six seconds than own a trillion dollar porn studio that can enact my wildest fantasies.
>>24406309
Wouldn't being naked and hugging feel much more intimate?
>>24406161
It's miles better. It's like the difference between a McDonald's cheeseburger and a high-end steak.
>>24406351
>intimate
No thanks.
No it is not
>>24406161
Masterbating is like eating a hot dog. It tastes fine, and is quick and easy. Sex is like steak, it's deep juicy, is more fulfilling and takes a longer time out of your day to make happen. Having a steady girlfriend is like winning the lottery; you can have steak as much as you want. However, no matter how rich you get, sometimes you just want a fucking hot dog.
>>24406259
>can't even get a full boner while watching generic porn
>feel pleasure from masturbation only after a week of nofap
>somehow get cuddly with a girl
>softly touch her hair
>instant rockhard erection, precum fucks my shit up, make a mess in my boxers
>touching people is not amazing
>touching GIRLS is not amazing
>sex is worse than masturbation
>mfw virgins actually choose to believe this in order to feel better
>>24406161
With an attractive girl who intensely likes anon, it's extremely gratifying in a level above that of masturbation.
>>24406402
This right here is the god's honest truth.
Anyone saying that masturbation is better than sex has never had good sex.
The orgasms feel better than sex, since your hand is able to provide much more stimulation than a meat canal can, but the intimacy of sex makes sex a much more enjoyable experience.
Also, after sex, you feel warm and fuzzy inside, and don't get those awful post masturbation kek feels.
Nothing sexual is really fun.
I always feel unfulfilled no matter what it is. Blowjobs and handjobs feel like ass, and I've got them from both men and women. I can't explain it. It just isn't enjoyable.
By the end of my first relationship I literally didn't get a boner once after cuddling naked with her for 2 hours in bed.
Masturbation feels better in the end.
>>24406507
>your hand is able to provide much more stimulation than a meat canal can
A girl who does her kegels can come pretty damn close.
>>24406309
>I have hugged a girl
Well I guess that makes you an expert on sex then, doesn't it?
>>24406161
how would i know that OP? H.O.W?
>>24406161
Not really, feels nicer at the time but it stinks plus it's exercise and having to put up with wommens. Pretty shitty imo.
>>24406161
No because after you blow your load you have to spend time with her. You don't have to spend time with your towel/tissues. So sex has a higher cost than just orgasm. U have to get her primed then deal with a pussy that isn't as good as your hand then you have to deal with her after it. So no, it isn't.
>>24406507
If you want to verify the first part of this, I would recommend you to buy a realistic masturbation toy, such as the one linked below, and compare it to your hand.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005NPREWE?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00
You will find that the orgasms you can get from old fashioned masturbation blow those from the sex toy out of the water. Hands are just so much more sensitive than a vagina can ever be.
>>24406550
>plus it's exercise and having to put up with wommens. Pretty shitty imo.
in what universe are exercise and women things to be avoided?
>>24406402
Well said. I have sex with my gf 4 or 5 times a week, but still find myself fapping once a week as well.
>>24406533
Does her vagina have five digits which can contour around my penis as I please?
>>24406603
Just meant it's harder to get off having to have sex, I get tired quickly and I aint even fat.
Women are fucking awful creatures, unless you're related to them then they're great and got your back bruh
Currently for me masturbating is much better
Girlfriend has sex by laying down with her legs slightly spread and doesn't react to anything or make any noise whatsoever
Sex can be better with certain people tho
>>24406507
why wouldn't a tight hole be more stimulation than a hand?
you can't tightly encompass your entire dick at once with your hands, at least I can't
you mean like technique or something?
I have an alpha friend and he says he prefers masturbating to sex.
He says he finds it hard to cum from sex. At the same time he still has loads of girls around him all the time.
Actually today he said he thought he was a little asexual.
I think it's like most anon's said. Sex isn't about the sex, it's about being wanted. It's about not feeling alone, even if it's only for a fleeting moment. Because sex is what people are for. I suppose it gives your life meaning.
My other friend told me sex is only good if you do it with someone who you really like. He was pretending to be joking but I could tell he spoke the truth.
>>24406161
Sex can range from god-awful, confidence-sinking, awkward mashing together of genitals that makes you question your life choices, to incredible, passionate, intimate moments of love. Sex isn't going to be much in the beginning, especially if the person you have sex with is also a virgin, but as time goes on and you both keep banging, you'll start getting better and better sex. You'll know what you want, you'll know what your partner wants, and you'll understand the mechanics of sex better. You can go on faster, harder, longer because you understand how to move your hips and your partner will know just how to push up against you, you'll know what positions hit her different spots, and the two of you will be able to change positions without it being awkward. Like anything, practice makes perfect.
Both have upsides and downsides.
Masturbation lacks human contact and intimacy.
Masturbation also can't lead to pregnancy.
sex can be just as fun as it is about getting off.
Masturbation kind of lacks anything fun and is pretty much entirely about getting off.
One thing that hasn't been accounted for is the psychological bliss which ensues after you have successfully made your woman orgasm. It's the ultimate boost to your self-esteem. You, and you alone made an attractive female - who on the street appears to stand on an impossibly high pedestal to other men - completely surrender to the power of your cock. There is nothing more satisfying than hearing a beautiful woman moan and scream your name as you turn her into a puddle of cum.
>>24406348
underrated post
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>>24406161
Downsides:
- You have to work hard - break a sweat/have stamina
- You have to appear to be sexy and confident, even if you feel like a nervous wreck inside.
- If one of you is awkward it's a potential cringefest
- If wearing a condom, neither penetration nor climax actually feels great.
Upsides:
- Nothing in the world feels as good as cumming in a vagina.
- Hearing her moan and groan involuntarily as you make her feel incredible.
- The satisfaction of walking around naked afterwards knowing you just fucked someone.
- The massive rush of hunger as you eat like a lion afterwards
- Feeling closer to another human being - emotionally and physically - than is ever possible in any other situation.
- Giggling in the shower or lying next to each other afterwards.
Masturbation is just a reward/stress relief mechanism I have. It makes me feel better in the way a coffee or treat does. Sex in a mutually-loving relationship is earth-shattering, profound and more meaningful than anything else your body or mind can do.
>>24406629
Nah, I think what you actually meant is you're a fat ugly faggot who can't get laid.
>>24406348
god, you sound like such a fag
>mfw half the posts here criticizing sex list "it's physically demanding" as a downside
Goddamn, what's the average weight of this board? 350? lbs?
>>24406348
>so your fucking man brain will stop calling you a failure and flooding your nervous system with Anguish Fluid
I legitimately giggled.
>>24406922
thrusting your hips hundreds of times is tiring no matter who you are
imagine going a push-up every time you take a bite of something
>>24406943
It gets better though. Once you start having regular sex you learn how to thrust and hold yourself up without straining. Mainly just don't be afraid to put a bit of bodyweight on your partner
>>24406516
cut penor ?
>>24407010
>tfw I have back and leg spasms 30 minutes into sex
still uncut penis cum inside vagina no condor tho family senpai senpai
>>24406943
>thrusting your hips hundreds of times is tiring no matter who you are
Lol no, get some exercise.
>imagine going a push-up every time you take a bite of something
I don't have to imagine what having sex is like, kiddo.
>>24406259
Its not something that can be easily put into words. Having sex with a woman you love is probably the best thing a man can experience. You actually want to cuddle after even though you aren't horny anymore.
>>24406420
Work on your greentext structure ked
>>24406161
It's better right until you cum, then you realize you have all this byproduct to deal with. The drama will start back up eventually, she'll want to go somewhere and spend your money, she's hungry, she won't fucking leave so you can play Fallout 4, etc.
>>24410492
who gives a shit about shitlout 4?
I thought /r9k/ of all places wouldn't have normie casual taste
