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Under what circumstances is it acceptable to cheat on your partner?
>>24405878
Literally none.
Any reason you have to cheat is a reason to break up.
>>24405914
This.
cut that bitch off
>>24405878
what if you have an abusive/neglectful boyfriends that threatens to hurt you/himself if you guys break up?
>>24405914
/thread....fuck you bot,.:][\
>>24406011
>that threatens to hurt you
call the fucking police and buy a gun?
>himself
who gives a shit? And I'm pretty sure this is a troll thread
>>24406011
You stop being a coward, break up with him/her anyways, and then call the cops if he/she actually starts following through with those threats.
90% it's just a bluff
>>24406011
>giving a fuck
>>24406011
This is when I'd say its okay, and only because they are a weak ass bitch. The only way for people like to to "break up with their "partners" is if the partner breaks up with them. They are too weak willed. You can just tell them to grow a pair, but thats just like a normie saying "just be yourself" or "just ask her out"
Never, ever, ever. It irreversibly stains you as a person.
>>24406011
under that circumstance... I think it's okay to cheat
The ultimate betrayal.
If anyone did this to me, I would honestly kill myself.
>>24405878
If they are a woman.
I cheat on my girlfriend sometimes and I always feel like a piece of shit after but at the time when I'm drunk it just sounds like such a good idea
>>24405878
maybe some bdsm relationship where dom forces you to watch. it is someones sexual fantasy but I would feel betrayed.
>>24406011
if only there were some kind of massive, armed, mobile force that you could summon, which has been proven to favor women even when they're in the wrong..
>>24406593
You want her to summon the IDF?
>>24406593
>police favor women
I'm sick and tired of this meme
I know giving this advice on r9k is absolutely useless but if you ever find yourself with a gf or bf, sit down and define what "cheating" is for both of you. Don't just assume the other is on the same page.
>bf of a year
>see his phone light up
>he got a message from someone on OkCupid
>I snoop
>he's on Tinder, MeetMe, OkCupid, and some other shit
>confront him
>he tells me it's all just for fun, it won't go past sexting, it's basically just porn, you should be okay with it
>literally tries ever angle to emotionally manipulate me with it
>dump him and never talk to him again
He probably would have done it anyway if I said ahead of time it wasn't okay, but he wouldn't have been able to use the "you should be okay with it" excuses.
>>24406784
nobody cares roastie
If it for some absurd reason is going to save lives
>>24406011
>>24406352
>>24406688
Roasties gtfo
>>24406011
Does cheating on him make things better? if he threatens to hurt you if you break up wtf do you think hes going to do if he finds out you cheated on him?
>>24406811
I'm not asking anyone to care. I'm suggesting people save themselves trouble down the line by having a conversation ahead of time.
>>24406840
Hey look somebody with forethought
>>24406784
good for you for not sticking with someone like that
>>24406672
>Women in combat roles
How about no
>>24406688
Please tell me you're not serious
>>24406784
it's not really a big deal if a guy cheats, it should demonstrate to you his high value
When you weigh the affair against the harm it may do to your relationship and the hurt it causes to your partner (and possible children), and you genuinely feel that the affair is more important.
Even then, might be better to just break up or ask for an open relationship.
>>24406784
>When you date a Chad, you'll always be sad.
I've never had to sit down with my gf and define cheating, because cheating should fall under the Reasonable Person Standard (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reasonable_person). No reasonable person would think that it's ok to be on dating websites if you're in a relationship.
However, if he was messaging camwhores on chaturbate/MFC, donating to them, and paying for private shows for his own masturbatory pleasure, would you "be ok with it?" Serious question, because I do this, but my rationale is that a camwhore would never actually meet/date one of her clients, whereas a Tinder/OkCupid girl is intending on doing so.
>>24406880
>now let me mansplain to you what you, as woman, like and find important
>>24406905
How do you know you both agree on what a reasonable person would think unless you check with each other?
Do you think just because you call it "reasonable person standard" and apply it to a question suddenly magically reasonable persons may not have differing opinions on the matter?
>>24406905
I met him on r9k, he was a virgin, etcetc.
>would you "be ok with it?" Serious question
Absolutely not. You're doing the same thing he's doing, except you're paying for attention. That's embarrassing and cheating in my opinion.
>would never actually meet/date
Eh, so you would let your gf use a glory hole and fuck some dude? She'd never meet or date him, just have him fuck her and move on.
>>24406905
There's no reasonable standard to dating, not when some people consider emotional cheating
>>24406942
>>24406905
Not to mention it's prostitution. That's extremely gross on its own. I would never want to be intimate with a person who doesn't have moral hangups about exploiting someone sexually who isn't enjoying it.
>>24406905
>Reasonable Person Standard
>goes on to ask anonymous if what they're doing is okay
??
>>24405878
any or none, you either respect what the relationship is supposed to be or you don't
>>24406880
women like their men to be attractive to other women but not to cheat bc then they would have to share his resources
brush up on your smv jargon senpai gosh :^)
>>24406688
it isn't a meme mister doubledoubles
>>24405878
You really have to die and you live in a country with just laws that kills cheaters.
>>24405878
I'm currently married to my wife who seems to love me, I guess she's used to being my wife or whatever now. This was a forced arranged marriage by the way (I was forced) and she is good looking but I don't love her.
Because of that I'm seeing another girl who's 19. At first I felt incredibly guilty about it but I feel at ease when I'm with this girl, like nothing else in life matters. She knows about my marriage and is comforting about it.
Maybe I do this because I never got to fool around as a teen or young adult.
>>24407438
>literally excuses, the post
Fuck off piece of shit
>>24407438
>I'm seeing another girl who's 19
So is she basically just her youth to you, being that it's the only thing you say about this woman, and it wasn't even relevant to the context in any way?
>>24405878
After playing Catherine I can safely say under no circumstances because obviously in the end you'll be thrust into an endless climb for survival every time you go to sleep.
>>24407482
Yeah, I've already come to terms that in this regard I'm scum. I'm an upstanding person morally speaking otherwise.
>>24407488
I said how she seems to be the first girl I've ever 'liked' and how when I'm with her all my worries and troubles disappear.
>>24407555
That's all talking about yourself and your feelings.
>>24407555
>upstanding person morally speaking otherwise
No you're not. If you kill and rape a child you're not "upstanding morally" otherwise. You're a piece of shit.
Fuck off anyway normie
>>24407606
>If you kill and rape a child you're not
Yes because that and seeing someone else in a forced loveless marriage are the same.
If they're lost at sea and you've given up hope of them ever coming back a la Cast Away style.
>>24406942
Agreed, I don't mind porn but if he gets to interact with them personally, its cheating.
>>24405878
None, if you can't control yourself you are not worth being in a relationship with let along marriage
>>24407555
>I'm an upstanding person morally
>on r9k
>cheats
Nope. You are delusional though.
>>24407624
I didn't say they were the exact same. I was saying that doing one moral adherent thing can't be expunged just because you're "a nice guy!" everywhere else.
>>24406011
Yeah because it will be so much easier on him to find out you were just cheating on him the entire time.
It's never okay.
>>24407677
>>24407606
You guys do know what "otherwise" means, right?
>>24407146
>they would have to share his resources
so if he doesn't share his resources it's fine
>>24405914
This, if you cheat you are scum.
>>24407677
meh, I only browse boards during my freetime at work
and it seems you don't understand english, reread what I said or refer to >>24407711
>>24407711
>on r9k
Do you know how to read son?
>>24407731
>freetime at work
>trying to prove how moralistic he is "during mah freetime" at work
>doesn't use proper grammar
>MAH ENGLISH!!!!
Lek.
Cheating is way better than divorce.
Most people have trouble being monogamous for a lifetime.
Divorce statistically reduces children's odds of a degree by about half and doubles the odds of homelessness or prison or drug use.
Not a good idea.
If you can keep a secret and not develop attachments, sex is no different from hobbies, and all men and women should have some alone time.
Cheating with prostitutes or sugar babies or strippers or women seeking casual flings is not wrong if you can still satisfy your partner.
For women, similar.
Variety is the spice of life so if it can add to your feeling of fulfillment and creativity, it is a good thing.
You have to put kids over adults.
>>24407770
And hows your piece of paper doing getting you a job at KFC?
>>24407761
>>24407555
>Yeah, I've already come to terms that in this regard I'm scum. I'm an upstanding person morally speaking otherwise.
learn to read
>>24405878
it's never acceptable to cheat.
you either get single or you dont cheat.
anyone saying otherwise is a pathetic no honor unloyal ho and should stop being a slut
/thread
>>24405914
Yep, this.
robot pls
I know that it's a cliche to say "what he doesn't know, won't hurt him"
But it's the truth
for women cheating is forever haram. the consequences for a woman being a cheating whore are so much greater than if a man just wants to get his nut off in some waitress
>>24407891
"but when he finds out, he'll fucking kill you"
don't do it bitch, i ain't playin
>move in with girl im seeing because i need a place to finish grad school
>really not that into her anymore
>looking for side puss
id prolly dump her if I didn't have half a year left
lesson learned: don't live with people you like
>>24405878
Only if your partner is an abusive asshole and threatens suicide/hurting you if you outright cut it off.
>>24407833
You learn to read, there were other reasons other than cheater listed, but of course, you're an idiot that ignores it just so you can keep arguing for no reason.
>>24407713
for some girls, look at side chick culture, but desu i think most girls aren't in to it because of the idea of him giving attention (a sort of resource) to another chick plus they probably feel insecure about it thinking maybe im not the best girl and hence actually one of the side chicks instead of the 'main' chick
but to be real im just talking out my ass
Sleeping with other people expands your sexual expertise.
It's good for all parties involved
>>24405914
>see girl who is hot
>want to fuck her
>break up with gf
>fuck her
>see girl who is hot
>fuck her
>break up with gf the next day
LITERALLY what's the point in depriving yourself of fucking a girl simply because a formality. Do you think you will hurt your partner any less?? This black and white obsession everyone has with the morality of cheating is fucking retarded.
>>24407482
>>24407606
>comparing cheating to killing and raping a child
Hahahahaha holy fuck all this beta rage.
>>24405878
If she's cheating on you...
>>24406011
tell him it's not right for him to try and manipulate you like that and cut contact. if further problems, there's always a restraining order.
you're not really doing either of you nay favors by dragging it out. it's going to end the same way.
>>24405878
When she has had sex with more people than you.
>>24409490
>cheat on someone
>have sex with partner
>risk spreading diseases without the partner knowing
why do you think shitholes like africa have a huge std problem
>>24407891
it's not murder if no one finds out
