Onetis General
>Have oneitis for 5 years
>Confess, she says she's not sure about it, still wants to stay friends.
>Cut all contact
>Everythings going better than expected, on my way to normiedom
>Skip forward a few months
>Get drunk and call her, ask to meet, she happily agrees.
>Too beta to cancel
So robots, should I
a)act cool and distant.
b)try again (she wasn't sure
c)stay friends and hope she introduces me to some QT friend of her?
>>24401946
d) cancel and stop hurting yourself you stupid faggot she will never be yours, accept it and move on
>>24401946
PUSH IT AAA
never forget inaction is action
dont let her slip away like the rest of us
>>24401946
What if she wants you this time. I would go.
Senpai
"i wanna be freinds" can be a test of your dedication
>>24402096
I know this might be a troll, but when I confessed she said she wasn't sure about it, and needed some time.
>>24401979
Yeah, but cancelling it seems a bit much.
>>24402187
DON'T GIVE HER TIME SHE WILL FIGURE YOU OUT, FORCE HER DECISION IN YOUR PRESENCE
>be me
>meet qt spic at work
>we hit it off
>start dating
>everyone thinks we're perfect
>everyone's jealous of our relationship
>suddenly we break up
>this begins an on-off relationship that has lasted a couple years
>i can't stop writing songs about her, it's the only thing that keeps me sane
Is it because I'm ugly? I think it's because I'm ugly. Pic related is me.
Here's one of the songs I wrote for her too.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nP-DQK8YIzM
Don't meet up with her. Made this mistake earlier this year and I am still trying to correct it. Trust me it is a mistake
>met her a few years ago
>we clicked instantly, became super close super quickly
>never felt so comfortable around someone in my life, she was so easy to talk to
>ended up getting in a relationship
>thanks to my anxiety, everything became super hard after that
>got super stressed out from it
>broke up after a really brief relationship
>almost instantly went straight back to talking to each, no awkwardness
>i move to a new country
>we remain in contact, talking every day, video chat every weekend
>we were both busy with work and shit but we made plenty of time out of each other's day for each other
>never lost feelings for her
>a few weeks ago we started getting really flirty, it seemed like she was interested
>i didn't know whether to act on it or not because of the distance and the anxiety and shit so i just stayed quiet and let it happened
>feltgoodman
>a couple weeks ago she just started acting colder, as if she was forcing herself to talk to me
>it's like we drifted apart overnight
>she said she had "no time to talk to me" even though she used to make time to talk to me
>ask her if anything's happened
>she says we should "take a break"
>we haven't spoken since
What happened? Why is she doing this?
I thought I made it bros.
She even told me she loved me...
>tfw I thought my oneitis saw me as mysterious and intriguing
>tfw it turns out she thinks I'm a boring weirdo
>>24402388
Other dude
>>24402736
Yeah probably.
I feel played as shit.
What I left out in my post was that there was a spell recently where we had a fight and I didn't speak to her for a few months. She spent that entire time begging me to talk to her. Saying how much she cared about me. Saying how much she loved me.
I finally start to feel a little bad and start talking to her again. 2 months later and she's seemingly blown me off. I really did think she cared, but it looks like she was just saying that shit.