How do I get internet friends?
>>24357403
We can be friends if you like.
I don't know, at least anymore.
I think I used to have internet friends.
But it seems Im abandoned now.
Perhaps they have gotten bored of me.
Yeah, that could have been it.
Oh well, it is a shame.
It does feel lonely.
Considering I
have no real
life friends
either.
The online ones at least kept the
gap in one's heart full to some point.
what things are you into?
just name stuff you are into or stuff from top of head.
Become a tripfag and become friendly in general threads
Works for me
I responded to a handful of people that claimed to be lonely and looking for friends on /r9k/. I tried talking to them, but ALL of them cut contact with me after a day or two.
I really must be the most shitty person to be around. Even if I try to be nice.
>>24357482
i feel.
>try to make friends
>not cool enough to be in their club or feel they have one
>'oh. here comes anon again..'
you add me on steam and have comfy conversations with me
>>24357516
this used to be my trip around 09 - 2010.
if i wanted a handle, i would go somewhere where i must have one.
>>24357424
Okay.
>>24357499
I like watching stuff, mostly anime, music and games, I also work out, not very unique interests I guess.
>>24357604
Okay.
Do you have any way to contact you.
>>24357403
il be ur buddy
>>24357403
Probably best not to look here. Most guys here are looking for other guys who like roleplaying as cute anime girls.
>>24357604
what anime/music/games ye into?
here is me backlog; http://pastebin.com/qVWzjhQV
>>24357538
I just realized I'm boring even to robots. The conversations always die out.
>>24357482
Id like to know your story anon, how did you first make them and when did things start to fall apart?
>>24357681
red flag: into scat porn
kek
>>24357718
have to picture it as size-related.
>>24357734
forgot to take me trip off.
>>24357403
don't fucking bother you are just entertainment to them as something irl happens they'll forget about you
Before /soc/ was a thing, /r9k/ used to have contact threads, I met cool people there. Nowadays it just gets flooded with assholes and their "GET OUT REEEE" shit.
>>24357538
I want to give it a whirl.
[email protected]
Anyone else can email me as well.
>>24357538
>>24357689
Hey, just wanted to say Ive asked for friends a couple of times here and never even posted a way of contacting me. I think others have done the same and thats because we're not really that serious about it. With that im saying that the reason they dont talk you back is probably because they quickly find something else to occupy their time with. Im glad theres people like you who actually try and I know one day, when I reach my real tipping point I'll need you. So dont feel bad, anon. We're just shitty persons, excuse us.
>Make one online friend
>After a few months decide to add someone from steam thread so I don't just cling to him all the time
>Few awkward conversations, doesn't go well
>Deletes me
>Come back from cold
>Other friend deleted me
>No friends
>>24357403
Make a kik and then add me
Username: beatlebum_
I'll add you to a group chat with other 4chaners
>if anyone else wants to join and has kik just add me and I'll add you to the group
>>24357822
Sounds like irl. Its weird and its one lf the things puts me back of trying to make friends. People want exclusivity, fuck that. As long as I could make some sort of emotional bond with someone and share some interests I wouldnt mind him distancing himself for a while, he'd have no obligation whatsoever. Its all about taking it easy and enjoying the present time together.
But I dont think others feel the same way.
>>24357799
It's not that I'm not serious about it, I'm just way too shy.
>>24357822
i can talk with you
>>24357915
I can't relate much to the irl-scene and that's a lot of words. Just tell me everything is going to be fine.
>>24357587
Okay.
What's your steam?
I've spend pretty much all my time on the internet for years and never had an internet friend of any kind, but it feels like everyone else makes them so easily.
I think I'm ready to die at this point.
>>24358110
http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198028301967/
feel free to add me
>>24357989
Sam?
Is it you?
>>24358176
>http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198028301967/
If you give me your mail, you will have an internet friend. I can not guarantee that you like him. But you will have one.
Here are my thoughts on why it doesnt work for most people ITT.
1. common hobbies and interests are not enough. sure its a great way of getting to know someone initially and getting the ball rolling, but youll run out of things to discuss eventually
2. no friends or social circle in common. ever notice how real friends often talk about other friends in common, whether it be shittalking behind their backs or saying how they actually like them? this keeps things fresh
3. no common gathering place. in real life you have school and your job. it forces people to keep talking each other even if they dont really feel like it, and most importantly makes an habit out of it whether they like it or not. this is imho one of the most important reasons why internet friendships dont always go well. its hard to form nondestructive habits, and when it already feels like youre doing it out of a sense of duty, not letting your friend alone, you can easily see why it wont work out in the end
4. not enough time and experiences together to form a long lasting bond that could overcome the above problems. think of some college friends or war veterans, there comes a time when they fail to meet the above requirements yet they keep being friends. thats because they care and they care because they become irreplaceable for each other, nothing can change what they went through and what rhey feel for each other (no homo)
>>24357403
Learn how to enjoy sharing with others and learning about others as they share with you
If you can follow that, you can develop relationships no matter what
>>24358078
O-ok. I can't relate to real life much either, just said that because thats how I believe it works from my limited experience observing others.
>>24358266
I guess I could give it a try, how do I find my steam link? never posted it before.
>>24358266
why did you greentext my steam profile link?
>>24358461
I don't have steam, I just quoted his
>>24358488
accidentally.
http://steamcommunity.com/id/Marsychan/
http://ask.fm/Marsychan
Add me on steam and ask me questiomsI'm pretty great
>>24357403
omegle
ive kept in contact with loads of attractive shut in girls on there and ive seen some of the nicest ass and tits on skype ever. and most are actually quite cool since they arent typical braindead teenagers.
>>24358640
u decline my invite :(
>>24358435
Thank you for the reply
>>24358695
I'm sorry anon.asdfae
>>24357706
I recall that I've made my first friends playing Warcraft 3.
Used to play custom, role play maps in particular.
Thanks to which I ended up in some kind of clan dedicated to rp.
That's where I made my first friends and folks. 2/3 friends I guess.
With time the clan fell apart, but for some time I tried to keep contanct with at least the two.
That's the point I presume, at which I realised I seem to have some kind of problem keeping contanct with dear ones.
Most of which I kept feeling that I was disturbing people, or being afraid that I won't know what to say, which resulted in my inability to begin conversation.
Oddly enough I was very open, friendly and communicative, quite the talker, ponderer and philosopher actually.
I guess even earlier before the W3 thing I made another two friends thanks to interest in animation.
It was very common for animators to take part in collaborations, which I actually always craved for, but was to hesistant due lack of courage.
These friendships were mostly during childhood though. For the longest time actually, my best and only friend was my cousin of the same age that I used to talk and play with everyday online.
We even animated together, and later which was the point at which I made the strongest bonds..
When we got into drawing, we were children no more, and for some time we still sticked together, despite the lost (common) friendships.
However my best and only friend being the cousin, with time, as everyone else, became ever more distant to me. Found own, new friends, including in real life, and I was left alone.
At that time I made the strongest bonds I presume. And oddly enough my friendships, opposite to the past, were made with girls. Propably cause drawing is more common among them.
At first I got into digital art with using a mouse, which was agonizing, and after a long time I bought my first tablet. In the meantime some of the friendships turned into actaul, romantic relationships and friendships in one.
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>>24357403
Got skype anon?
If anyone here is looking for a friend, I will try to be one.
[email protected]
>>24357706
>>24358759
At first with an american girl older then me, she was impressed by how mature I seemed compared to my age, or how much I knew about realities of life, or just by my other interesst or the sole, uncommon nature of mine. However I was very clingy, and she got little time for me. It saddened me a lot, and when she went to some other collage which took her even more time. She decided to say goodbye. For a long time I wasn't in another relationship, but at least had the other girls to keep them company. Accidentaly I charmed another girl friend, this time however much younger then me, very childish and annoying, but guess the hopeless romantic I am, I was just as charmed by her as she was in me. And so another friendship turned into a mix between love and friendliness. Oddly enogough I was even more clingy then I was earlier, which irritated her a lot, she often insulted me and made fun of me. Which she was only joking, but I was so fragile at the time that some harmless things really did pierce my heart. So yeah, I was in a kinda abusive relationship with a blugarian lolita. But my constant pessimism, intensified depression, anxiety, clinginess and what not. She got bored of me. Decided to let me know she doesn't have the same feelings towards me anymore, while I was sitting on a train, she attempted to break up earlier but I kept begging and miserably apologising for everything. Which only delayed it a bit. Dumped once more I crumbled completly, realising Im losing all dear ones, which wouldn't be that devastating if not for the fact I didn't get to make new relations anymore. And then the third, and last friendship with the most cute and genuine norwegian turned into a romantic one just as well. Tought I could never be that happy, honored and fulfilled, to be a significant other to such a wonderous person.
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>>24357706
>>24358759
>>24358805
Unfortunately I wasn't that charming and devoted anymore, I didn't even have the energy or the chaotic courage. I wasn't as clingy anymore, yet so hopelessly carved for more closure, which I did not receive for she was even more busy and occupied with other things. Orchiestra, studies and what not. This time she was even more charmed by me then I was by her, odd. Just as odd was that I seemed to be everything to her, yet left at the mere end of priorites. So rarely we got to talk or do anything anymore. I stayed awake all days and nights just to be able to speak with her for at least a moment. Just as when I did with my first love, her being the first thing when I woke up, and when I feel asleep, id I did at all. But it was not enough, I was so hollowed by the lack of warmth and closure that I felt like an empty husk. And only felt ever more terrible realising im not even doing as great for my significant other, compared to how I was in the past. And so my last friend vanished, said she's really busy, and that I should focus on myself instead of someone else. At last our concact was so sparse that we lost it at all. Sometime later I made best friends with one of the guys in my last class, first real life friendship, we both were relevant in our characters and iterest, despite him being more the military, stoic patriot, and me the chaotic, melancholic scrap of an artist. Somewhere at that time I also meet another girl which I used to be in the same class as we. I went on strolls through the forst or drew together with her, or played games and hanged around the city a bit with the other friend. The newlt meet girl got charmed by me just as well, and begun to act affectionate towards me. We begun to cuddle out of curiosity cause neither of us ever got to do so. Later we got more lewd and intimate. We also seemed to have a lot in common, interest or the way of thinking, characters even.
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You guys are fucking retarded if you can't make internet friends.
>>24357403
Be around the same people for a period of time, talk to them, and have something in common. Being able to make a joke or three goes a long way too. It all comes down to time spent with people, however.
>>24357706
>>24358759
>>24358805
>>24358833
But oh was I wrong when later our differances in character broke our bond. She actually wanted to lost her birginity with me, although we already used to be lewd, just no intercourse. And oddly enough I was kind of in the pleasing position, countless times did I make her clims just with touch, fingering, or just as she grinded against my thighs. Huh, oddly enough I however did not even once, maybe I was a little hesistant, but tought that'll change after we agreed to go full on lewd at any convinient time. However before it ever got convinient, the differances in our characters made me lose feelings otwards her. Which ende up in her going psycho at first, and then crubling completly, but then later with my help shit got back together, ever more happier and fulfilled. After she got better we separated completly, going or ways, or at least she did, I just stood in the same place I did all these years. Even up until now. And as for my old, good, best, and guess the only friend, if not to count the cousin.
We just got more distant, he went to the military, and well, Im here. Alone, for good couple of years now.
And so a friendless virgin I sit here. Chaotic melancholic as ever.
And with that my apologies for the writing or the nonsense.
For my writing and toughts are just as big of a mess as I am, if not bigger.
I do have a lot in mind, yet unable to coherently express it.
Want to be friends? I don't know what internet friends do, however. My laptop is shit-tier and my internet connection is abysmal.
>everyone ive befriended online ever has died or commited suicide or completely started hating me
>>24358640
>"why are you literally insufferable cancer"
lmao, gamergirls who try to build followings are pretty funny even if they are pretty cool
I had lots of internet friends back when I raided on World of Warcraft back in 2004 to 2009. All those friends eventually all disappeared within a year of me quitting raids / playing hardcore. I also had a group of friends from another mmo before WOW and the same thing happened, lost contact.
its just weird that I spent time with these guys day after day for years and then when we stop playing we just kinda stop ever talking and before you know it years have gone by.
>tfw internet friend I met onWoW
>we played games together everyday for hours over the summer
>now he's busy with graduate school
>never has time to play anymore and when he does he's quiet and distant
>don't want to lose the closest thing I have to a friend
what do I do robots?
>tfw learned I'm ENTP instead of INTP
>tfw things make so much sense now
>tfw I'm a sad, lonely, and pathetic excuse of person with no friends, who doesn't want friends, but "needs" them just because he's an extravert
I wish MBTI was a load of bullshit so I can just flip a switch and be content with being alone.
>>24358695
what a dick, add me instead I posted the dancing loli
>>24359103
i only wanted to bully him about being weird
>>24359089
>ENTP
>sad, lonely, and pathetic excuse of person
If you're telling the truth you're gonna make it man (other ENTP here).
I never had any real friends, but I know what makes me happy and what I'm passionate about it. As long as you set and meet goals to enjoy those two you'll be fine.
>>24359089
>I wish MBTI was a load of bullshit
it is
http://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/the-myers-briggs-personality-test-is-pretty-much-meaningless-9359770/?no-ist
>>24359142
oh, you're a dick!
>>24359103
Calling me a dick is mean.
>>24359142
See? That guy is a dick,not me!
>>24359157
But I also have severe OCD and I've managed to convince myself that without friends I'll forever be unhappy and sad. And that somehow makes sense, because even though I hate people, I have to be around them or else it worsens my depressive feelings.
Maybe I don't need friends, I don't know. People don't like me anyways, which is a good thing I guess, but the fact I need them still stands.
>>24359164
Not even gonna read that because I'd probably already agree with what they're saying. MBTI is a good guideline of shit, though, generally speaking.
>>24359213
I take that back you're not a dick sorry, here I called him a dick instead >>24359185
>tfw your online friend never comes online again
>Dunno if blocked, moved on in life or dead
>tfw you gradually talk less and less with an online friend and stop talking altogether because you changed so much
>tfw your online friend finds a life IRL and hardly talks anymore.
>>24359248
>convince myself that without friends I'll forever be unhappy and sad
Dude I don't have friends either. Just hangout with people that are into the same shit you are passionate and happy about.
I just want someone to care about me without asking for anything in return.
>>24359277
>>24359213
>>24359185
>>24359142
>>24359103
You're all dicks
But I'll forgive the qt's
>tfw everytime I make an internet friend they stop talking to me when they learn what country im from
Honestly, fuck /pol/ and fuck every far right wing racist cunt.
>>24359362
I will do that. I will listen to everything you have to say and try my best to understand you. And yes I'll do that even if you're a guy, not a grill. I don't give a fuck. Just tell me about you and your struggels.
>>24358915
>tfw saved friend committing suicide
>she's scared of me now and all our mutual friends hate me
I just wanted to help and care about people I considered my friends. But they all ended up hating me.
>>24359438
what country are you from then?
original comment donut steel
>tfw too autistic to even make internet friends
I'm not really lonely though.
>>24359474
Mexico. Yeah yeah build wall ebin trump meme.
>>24359543
I don't care
add me if you want, dancing loli
>have a modest group of friends, I'm the person they take the piss out on, but we're still all good friends
>suddenly a fucking normie Chad who's a tier above our beta but a tier below full-on Chad status joins the group
>convinces my friends that I'm a loser not worth their time
>literally magnifies the fucking joke they had made me at times to the point where I am pretty much a walking joke at all times
>also convinces them to stop inviting me to things and cut off contact (not really but it's implied)
>finally manage to talk to them all once
>fucking faggot roasts me to no end, and simultaneously brings up every single joke they ever had about me at once like he was there all along
Smug little lanky ass fucker. I can thank him for showing me that they were never my real friends to begin with I guess. Haven't talked to any of them in a while, but from what I've heard they STILL joke around about me relentlessly. And I can't call them out on their shit.
>>24359654
I know this isn't a personal blog either but they've been my only friends for five years (it's 4 other people minus fagbro), and looking back now I can see the toll they had on my confidence. They knew I was below them on the social status scale and because they were insecure themselves they did nothing but fuck around with me.
>>24359728
fuck them. piss in their car windows
>>24359799
I'll probably end up doing some shit like that or some other psychological torment type bullshit. I'd see it as justified.
>>24357403
Hey i made a thread about this here >>24359756
hit me up if you want to talk or whatever. I just want to cheer some robots up.
bump for friendship
Feel free to add me.
Skype: lealens
Steam: http://steamcommunity.com/id/Crujix/home
