>oneitis replies fast to my messages
>this is a good sign
>suddenly stops replying my texts
>don't know what happened
>10 mins passed
>'hello?'
>50 mins passed
>still just wait for her to text back
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>>24355984
this isn't /adv/
>>24355984
>having a "oneitis"
>>24355984
>oneitits always text first
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You fucked up son, never initiate contact with a woman, it's transparent and will make you appear needy and clingy. When she tries to initiate it with you, stick to simple one word answers that do not contribute to the conversation. This is the only way to avoid appearing weak, cringy and pathetic.
>>24356049
op here
she is the one texts me first, but this shit still happened,
now she just texts me back, 1hr, 1hr, I don't plan to read it and reply.
plus, we have a date next week, she ask me to go shopping with her.
fuck this woman.
I AM SO MAD
>>24356148
Don't overcomplicate thing m8. She doesn't have to text You right away
>>24356016
>not having a "oneitis"
What a lonely life you must lead. My oneitis is what keeps me going, f@m.
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
THIS BITCH
i fucked up. don't be like me. don't be yourself
1/2
fml 2/2
>>24355984
>>'hello?'
You killed it. Chances are 100% down the toilet now, as she will never see you as anything other than an orbiter after that.
>>24356515
I don't understand. She seems to like You. If she really didn't want to see You she wouldn't have proposed next week
>>24356515
Iktf m8
>tfw you won't know if it was really a "busy week" for a week
>>24356515
she your ex?
>she always texts first
>engages me in conversation no matter how dull I am
>tells me she's happy for the first time in a while
>last night
>asks me if she should hang out with this guy who is pushy for sex
I fell for it again.
>>24356553
it's wednesday of "next week" and i haven't heard a word from her since she took a trip over the weekend.
i posted this as proof for anons to know that it could be worse than being flat out ignored.. you could be pitied
>>24356576
yeah, we recently reconnected and i have been awkwardly feeling out the situation
>>24356562
it's been a long week
>>24356649
>yeah, we recently reconnected and i have been awkwardly feeling out the situation
Could You please explain your story to us?
>>24356702
it's kind of long and bit hard to follow but i think i could do a good cliff notes
>high school sweethearts who swapped virginities at 16-17
>she once broke up with me because of distance and family issues (her's divorced, mine aren't)
>i had a surgery at 17 that took me out playing competitive soccer
>we got back together senior year
>things were great again
>she broke my trust over some small shit and i was hurt again
>i left her
>ff 4years
>she has just finished school and returned back to our hometown
>i am commuting to a state school nearby
>she has 4 years of stories and experiences
>i have 4 years of pain crippling and self-defeatism
that's pretty much tl;dr
>>24356878
I feel You Brother. I hope things'll go well again for you
>>24355984
Stop trying. Next thing that happens is you asking her out and she says it would be a bad idea to do this and then she writes fucking sry.
>>24356487
tfw the qt i dated sent the text you sent to her, to me, after our date
>>24356016
You can't choose to have or not have a oneitis. If we could, we wouldn't happen.
Justin Bieber has severe oneitis and he's a superchad.
>>24355984
>oneitis starts showing interest
>starts talking about visiting me (i recently moved across the planet)
>i don't know what to do
>suddenly she starts showing less interest
>it literally happened over night, one day she was seemingly obsessed with me, the next she seemed bored of me
>a few days ago she suggested we take a break
>we haven't spoken since
I was so close bros. Now what do I do? What went wrong?
>>24356878
ahhhhhhhh thats the worst. i have that also and i can tell u it is a real bitch, always thinking about the past. only time will fix it, theres more fish in the sea u just gotta take the time to go fishing.
>>24358262
reeeee kill that bitch reeee
>>24358269
the worst part is that i believe time did fix her and she moved on... but i am just dead inside.
i have had almost 5 years of fishing practice and i haven't found a fluke. i should probably have accepted my fate by now
>>24356562
"It's been a long, hard week, Anon. Teehee."
>>24358349
I moved across the planet. I'm nowhere near her.
I just have to hope she comes back.
She said she loved me, anon...
>>24356515
You haven't done too much wrong anon don't beat yourself up. She clearly likes you in some form.
Don't send her as much shit though. General rule is to write around as much as she's writing. And don't double text unless it's been over a day, and even then only do it once.
>>24355984
>talk to oneitis because everyone else bullied me or hated me
>always talking and making jokes
>As time goes on he starts typing less and less
>I end up spamming a whole bunch of shit
>feel stupid because he won't respond for the rest of the day
>go to class
>he starts smiling and talking to me about all the shit I spammed
>feel happy
op reeks of underage
>develop a crush on a co-worker who has been working in a nearby office for past two years
>suddenly become convinced she is also interested in me
>interpret her passing me to the bathroom as a sign of her being too shy to talk to me
>realize how literally retarded I'm being
>feel sad
>Text her "Heyy homecoming was fun!"
>hours later I see "(name here) is typing"
>An hour passes
>she's still typing
>Hours pass
>No reply
I SEE HER IN CLASS BUT SHE JUST ASKS ME FROM TIME TO TIME FOR HELP WITH STUFF HOW DO I TALK
>>24359638
>homecoming
Underage b&
>>24356320
>what a lonely life you must lead
Plz leave
>f@m
Then kill yourself
