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>Why aren't men getting married anymore?!?! This is
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>Why aren't men getting married anymore?!?!

This is why. Women are uncontrollable homewreckers.
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>>24343374

>the modern marriage

Women will do anything they can to cheat on you and leave you a shell of your former self.
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bump bump

bump to the top
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Women are whores, we'll bring you the shocking details at 11.
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Well this thread's fucking depressing.
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be grateful KEKS
original comment
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>>24344183

>I had a fwb I did heaps with, and I'd probably never do most of it with a partner in the future.

I hate women. I HATE WOMEN SO FUCKING MUCH.
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how does it feel knowing degeneracy has taken over
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>>24344238
>she fucked him
Goddamnit I can't get enough of that.
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>>24344238

Whatever fuck it. MGTOW and hookers it is.
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when women are done using you, they will find someone else. this is modern western women in action
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>>24343491

no sympathy for this kuk
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who else hates this society and its values. there is nothing sacred anymore. women will go wild through school and college and party until they can find a "good catch"
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>>24344367

Jesus Christ this is sad.

Never, ever, EVER deal with women. They're not worth it, they can ruin your life more than black tar heroin.
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>>24343374

Hell, she probably WANTED to the husband to find out too. That creates MAXIMUM DRAMA, regardless of how many people it hurts.

Also it's funny how the guy always attacks the other guy too. When this scenario happens to me I'm just going to go "look dude, just take her with you when you leave my house okay? This relationship is done, you can have it."

I'm not letting her get off to two dudes fighting over her because that's what she wants.
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women will marry you and then divorce you and take you to the cleaners. nowadays in most western nations as well as others, not getting a divorce is like flipping a coin
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_demography
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>Why weren't men getting married in the late 1800s anymore?!?!

This is why. Women are uncontrollable homewreckers.

lol fucking idiot
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>>24344318
Both genders do this.I did the same thing to my first gf (who, funnily enough, I met on here) and have seen it happen to many other people as well. You guys need to stop acting so high and mighty.
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>>24344468

Women will do anything to generate 'muh emoshuns' in some desperate attempt to make their lives a drama. Why else do they spend so much time consuming worthless bullshit like celebrity shows and soap operas?

Women are parasites.
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>>24343374
>wife/gf/whatever cheats
>"better start punching this dude who may not even know I exist, that'll fix it!"

lol this is so silly. You'd probably be better off hitting the woman. She's the one who fucked up.
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>>24344530
>I did the same thing to my first gf (who, funnily enough, I met on here)
I don't even 100% sign on to the "only women are wrong" mindset, but you really piss me off right now.
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>>24343374
I don't fucking get it. I don't see men going on reddit a playing the victim wondering why bad consequences happen when you cheat. At least a guy would admit he fucked up. You were being selfish, you had your fun, now it's over. That's it! Admit what you did was terrible!
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>>24343374
Fuck, the wageslave memes came true...
your wife DOES fuck people while you're at work
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is anyone else just tired, like they cant even bring out the energy to care. its like im constantly surrounded by degeneracy and i just cant wait till im done with this shit and far far away. dead or in a far-off country. seriously, too fucking tired of this shit. and now this PC movement with suddenly trans fags get to be some normal thing? fuck this and fuck all of em
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>>24344238

This is why you can't trust women around violence. Hell any time women complain about violence against them, this is exactly why you need to recognize that it's bullshit because the more violent a guy is the MORE ATTRACTIVE he seems to be.

Never underestimate a woman's ability to put an evil violent fuck over her own family too. Happens every day.
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just fuck my shit up familia
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>>24344680
No it doesn't. That is a fake ass story made up by some loser. Not everything you read on the internet is true anon.
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So how the fuck do we fix women /r9k/?

I've lost any hope I once had of finding a decent girl. I'd like to think I wouldn't be stupid enough to let something like that happen to me but you can't put it past a fucking female.
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>>24344318

Helping a woman out in life is the biggest turn off to them. But they put themselves in these dependent positions too. They'll sucker some guy into taking care of them before they take care of themselves. And how does that got get rewarded? He gets dumped or cheated on.

This is the literal definition of a parasite.

>>24344530

No they don't because men are expected to pay their own way and women aren't. Women, for all their cries of equality, exploit the fuck out of that societal expectation to no foreseeable end. It happens the other way around but that's rare and pretty much reserved for violent psycho wigger Chad.
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>>24344530
you're just a bunch of thrill-seeking children
you didn't fell out of love, you were never knew love to begin with
love isn't rosey and peachy, love isn't about being entertained, love isn't about having fun
love is about being something more, about something bigger
you got tired of the person you were with? don't make me laugh, you think you can know everything about someone else, that you can figure them out completely like that? who the fuck do you think you are?
you are everything wrong with the world
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>>24343491
Another hilarious reddit cuccktale
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>>24344766
tell em bro
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>>24344766
Know that there is someone out there who thinks the same way you do.
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>meet girl on tinder
>be surprised when she turns out to be a whore
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>>24344736
>dat damage control
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>>24344534

Exactly. The only channel my mom watches is Lifetime and she never fails to jump on an opportunity to over dramatize every situation she's in. If everything is fine and everyone is having a good time, my mom will start a fight with someone.

She's done this to the point where I have a fucking felony now too. Over an accident at my rich step dads place, where she could of simply explained to my step-dad it was an accident but choose not to because me going to jail meant she could go to bars and tell her friends how dramatic her life is! She'd call me in jail explaining that "I'm suffering more than you because I'm suffering EMOTIONALLY!" even on the day I was almost raped.

Shit like that is what lead me down the path of misogyny way more than any woman rejecting my romantic advances.
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>>24344530
>I did the same thing to my first gf
are normies human?
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>>24343374
We already know people are whores, take it to reddit where they actually have faith in people
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just gonna remind you how even when raped, they will still fuck with you
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>>24344736

I've seen my own mom flirt with my own bullies at bars and shit around town. I can totally believe that story.
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Have something you probably haven't saved yet OP.
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>>24344751
can't fix them.

this is one of those situations where you just have to let the whole forest burn down and wait a couple decades for the new trees to come in
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no honor left in todays society
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>tfw women keep the economy going
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>Seeing a girl this weekend
>She has a boyfriend but wants to fuck me anyway
I'm not gonna do it; her boyfriend is a pretty cool guy, so I'm considering telling him what she's planning to do and letting them fight it out. What do you guys think I should do?
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>>24344924

It's shit like this that makes me feel less bad about hiring women for sex in legal escort states or some shit.

At least they're up front and direct, unlike the modern cunt who makes your fucking head spin.
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>>24344575
Kill yourself you massive faggot. You don't deserve to live.
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>>24344961

If you're not going to fuck her then you may as well tell the boyfriend.

Red pill the guy and make him see that his little princess is nothing more than a cunt.
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>>24344992
this but make sure you have proof
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>>24344936
This one is hilarious
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>>24344961

i would just do it. a guy will almost always believe the woman hes fucking.
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>>24344318

Forgot to say I have a friend who just broke up his girlfriend and it was a lot like this.

She barely ever worked, working a job for a month and quitting because any time ANYTHING would happen she'd turn into a puddle of tears and my friend would rush to save her.

Well in the end, after 4 years that girl, who my friend was constantly helping out, getting her back in school, paying for her books, letting her leave with him for free since they first started dating... She got physically abusive and started talking to other dudes all the time. Hell, she punched me one night! And once they broke up, me the guy her tumblrina ass complained about all the time, she tried to get with me too. And she suddenly became a female again, no more purple hair and baggy clothes, just dresses and sexy selfies!

It's funny how obvious it is that women are using men for material resources. As soon as they don't have a provider and have to leave on their own, the slut comes out! But that's just a coincidence though, according to them and all their normie apologists.
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>2015
>not embracing a pure waifu

It's like you guys want to be unhappy.
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>>24344961
tell him, but make sure shes close enough he can get to her quickly. like within a walk or something. follow him and enjoy the shitstorm as she cries and begs him to stay. ooh, with you there you can also see her look of despair as she finds out that you werent some loser willing to give in to her demands. finally, become bros with dude and become successgul at life months or years l8r, when she comes crawling back. be right there and enjoy the look as you both give her the finger
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Can't in good conscience hate any group completely, but these threads are always very sobering.
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when betaorbiters actually believe the lies
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>>24345086
>477 votes for that shitty comment

why
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>>24344961
>>24345008

Yeah what this anon says.

Tell him and he won't believe you. He'll accuse you of lying and start insulting you. "You're so pathetic she'd never fuck you bro! You're just making shit up bro!"

There is the cheating whore and then there is the dumb over inflated male ego that refuses to believe he's capable of being cheated on.
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>>24344766
I'm with you, fuck these people. Love isn't about pleasure.
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>>24345064

The c u c k s and the beta white knights now immediately equate any criticism of any female as hate speech. We're living in some bizarro world where we can't express anything about women. I don't hate them either.

But since no one is willing to listen to us, we can just pick the MGTOW manchild route and stop listening to them in turn.
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cant trust these hoes senpai
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>>24343374
>>24343374
Also when marriage ends because they cheated, they still have massive advantage in the courts and will get most of your existing assets plus child support plus alimony plus custody of kids.

This isn't the only reason I refuse to marry but it is certainly part of it. What possible benefit is there for men to marry these days? What do we get out of the deal?
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>>24345086

>He doesn't realize she told all 33 of those guys they were "the best" so it didn't bother them.

Again, the whore and the dumb male ego.
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>>24344961
I don't know if I would do it, were I in your position

It's a c.uck eat c.uck world out there senpai
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>>24344183

Reading these actually made me physically ill and somewhat suicidal.
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>>24345150

Companionship and love. That's literally it.

The moronic baby boomer generation thinks that this is somehow a justifiable reason to massively risk losing your assets. It's romance lovey dovey bullshit that no longer holds any stock.
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>>24345126
Are you telling me that you look at these stories and DON'T find them fucking detestable as well?

If I were someone who didn't feel so guilty about hating, I would with every fiber of my being because fake or not, these stories just light a fire under my ass.
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>hitting some guy when it's your gf who keked you

men ladies and gentlemen, the more 'intelligent' sex
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>>24344758
>No they don't because men are expected to pay their own way and women aren't.

Dude what?
>mom dies, I become complete wreck
>miss LSAT, become NEET
>1 year later, I decide to connect with a random fembot on here
>super kind and caring
>eventually develop a little relationship that "blossoms" into an actual romantic one (with sex and everything)
>she helps me get out, get fit, and get certified as a paralegal
>suddenly girls my age start treating me like I exist
>end up making out with one on accident after a work function
>basically break up with gf because, yeah I could do better

The moral of the story is simple: Do not waste time trying to "fix" broken people. They will always kuck you in the end.
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>>24344911
The update for this was a good one
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>>24344961
Tell him, do the right thing. That whore deserves it.
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>>24345350
then you are just as bad as the children known as modern woman. fucking normie fuck off
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>>24345358
Better yet, fuck her and then tell him so that she has no way out.
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>>24345350
Kill yourself you massive faggot. You are the true filth of the world.
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>>24344183

I want to put women through this same shit and see how they react.

>Oh girl, you're not my first choice! I won't eat you out but I'll eat out the girl I thought was hotter than you. That girl was so much better than you, but woo is me I had to settle with your fat ass.

And then tell them to "get over their typical toxic female jealously" it gets brought up.

Also it's funny. Have you ever seen Gone With the Wind? This was a huge part of the plot. Fucking Scarlett wanted Chad and seemed to care about her even after Rhett married her ass and pulled her out of the post-war hell.

Like Rhett, this dude did the right thing.

>Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn.
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>>24345355
you got it?

asdasf
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>>24345350
>had the choice not to be a piece of shit
>decided to be an ungrateful piece of shit and think with his dick instead
>"b-but it's okay guys, this is just the way the world works!"
i repeat:
everything wrong with the world
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>>24345350
eh you sound like a scumbag
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>>24345355
The final update got deleted do you know how I can access it
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>>24345117

What do you expect from a hug-box and an echo chamber?
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>>24345350
thank god you only became a paralegal. If that was a true success story I might have been a bit mad
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>>24345548
The irony of posting this comment on r9k is so vast and astounding I can't even laugh.
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>>24344229

>I had a fwb I did heaps with, and I'd probably never do most of it with a partner in the future.

>I tried a lot of stuff and decided I didn't like it.

Oh and girls don't get this too. Imagine you want a blow job from her, it's your fantasy and dream and your supposed to be the most significant person in her life, someone she wants to make happy.

But she doesn't want to give you a blowjob because she used to suck Chad's dick and didn't like it. Well she never told Chad no either! So she's basically saying "Chad's more important than you, when you want something you don't get it but when he wanted it he got it and now you can't have it."

She. Is. Cheapening. You.

Hell, if women want to pull that shit that makes the anti-promiscuity argument harder. You have to find a girl who's had less partners because you don't know what sexual activity got knocked off the list by some other guy!
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>>24345612

>Implying most the faggots here aren't self-aware

It's the big difference between r9k and some shitty SJW reddit board.
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>>24345030
That normalshit has a gf btw
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>>24344367
If someone ever put me through hell like that I'm fairly certain I would torture them to death.
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>>24345472
I didn't cheat on her or anything. We were together for two years. I ended it before trying to get another gf. Shit happens. You cannot be a child forever.
>>24345586
I am actually working on a law degree right now. It's from a diploma mill but they are certified in my state so it will all be good when I graduate.
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>>24345612
>implying most of us aren't self aware enough to see the irony
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>>24344229
you gotta be kidding me

man this stuff is getting mental
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>tfw orbiting a girl
>her and my friend talk a bit
>he starts going cold on her
>she loses interest
couple weeks later
>asks whether he likes x girl
>i tell her that probably had sex with her
>she says how she wanted to go homewreck their shit because its 'fun'

truly whores, the lot of them
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>>24345213

I just don't allow it to consume me. You just mirror the apathy and contempt they feel towards you. Feminism has declared war on men and have backed out of the social contract. All you really have to do is the same. Don't be a betakuck, don't pay for kids that aren't yours, and don't give women attention for free.

It's not worth getting buttbothered about.
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>>24343374
>Normies gettin rekt
>Cheating normies gettin rekt
senpai
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>>24345730
>Shit happens.
more excuses
more blame shifting from yourself to the way the world is

>You cannot be a child forever.
what the fuck is this supposed to mean you
oh, because forgetting about a toy when a shinier toy is available is something an adult does?
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>>24344911

That dude is a moron for not breaking up with her. I hate saying that too. He thinks he's doing the right thing but he's not. He's rewarding shitty behavior.

He needs to take it personally. If she got raped and wouldn't touch you for a year but wouldn't touch ANY guy for a year. Sure, that means her feelings are genuine. But she fucked another dude and that proves she had no problems with fucking, that it was something against the guy here who more than likely was a beta provider to her and nothing more. She was probably cheating on him a lot before hand.

Hell, the rape just made her think she got some violent pyscho dick and she needed more of that. The boyfriend was too much of a civilized human being to get her wet again. She's probably going to jump on the rapists dick when he gets out of prison.

>>24345355

Does someone have it? I'm really curious. Hell I hate how the guy was beating himself up. It shows how male morality is supposed to based off female emotions according to our mainstream society. He has trouble feeling his own anger because he's so brainwashed.

How much you want to bet the therapist egged her on to cheat too?
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>>24346184
>Hell, the rape just made her think she got some violent pyscho dick and she needed more of that. The boyfriend was too much of a civilized human being to get her wet again. She's probably going to jump on the rapists dick when he gets out of prison.
God, why is female sexuality so fucked up?
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>>24346220
They did a study where they took male sheep and put them with female goats, took male goats and put them with female sheep. When they were switched back the male sheep still wanted to Fuck female goats but the female sheep could Fuck either and it didn't matter. Women don't have set sexual preference they go with whatever the guy in their life goes for. That's why there are so many male fetishes and not many for women. Women are simple creatures.
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>>24346373

I don't know if I can explain this well enough but here goes...

It's like Pavlovs dogs? Women are programmed by physical stimuli. So when they get treated like shit but ANY of it feels good, like Chad treats her like shit but he's good looking so she gets pleasure from that, the physical pleasure overrides any reason or logic in her head it seems.

This is why the dude who gets to fuck her is always the one who is physically around her the most. We can beta orbit at a distant and barely talk to them and still like them. But if you don't physically interact with them, you don't fucking exist, they'll forget about you. Like in this case, the dude she fucked was a coworker. Why? He got more literal FACE TIME in PHYSICAL REALITY with her.

Just because he's IN FRONT OF HER FACE physically stimulating her (I mean that in the pure scentific sense, light is reflecting from him and hitting her eyes, not her boyfriend). He is thus more important or noticed or something.

Again, I have trouble explaining it but it's like all those experiments where they make animals do things by simply giving them a treat. Physical stimulation will make them do anything.
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>>24344911
>Can't do this because she was raped
>Can't say that because she was raped
>Can't complain because she was raped
>Gotta choke on pills because she was raped
Fuck this victimizing fucking society, it's impossible for her to get better if they make all her life gravitate around one fucking incident. Bitch needs to man up and just keep on living.
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>>24343374
This thread honestly gets me thinking.

It'll sound shitty as fucking hell, but I think that as a man it's better to just find female fuckbuddies (if I can) and not worry about monogamy or anything.

Women don't really seem to cherish monogamy so why should we? Better to get your dick wet and not deal with the emotional turmoil of "relationships" while focusing on your real passions and goals outside of women.
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>>24344911
Honestly, after that long, it would be worse to stay rather than cut it off and move on to other parts of your life.
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>>24345350
>end up making out with one on accident after a work function
>making out
>ON ACCIDENT

How in hell do you make out on accident!? Dude you're a whore
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>>24346737
If you want to get your dick wet, this is the best route.
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>>24345017
Yep women are all the same. They all aspire to be more or less the same. You either learn to appreciate who they are or stay lonely or...whatever. It's your choice. But don't expect them to ever be something they are not.
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>>24346777
Trips of truth.

Serial monogamy is for "beta" men and women living in scarcity. True monogamy only makes sense when you are a self-actualized, multi-faceted person with options and experience who knows exactly what they want. It does not work for most young men and women who were unfortunately conditioned to believe so strongly in it.

I feel silly now, I should really just be focusing on sex first since it's what women want and what generally works.
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>>24346744
>already really interested in each other
>had a couple of drinks
>tons of eye contact while talking
>eventually I lean in for whatever reason and she starts kissing me and I end up reciprocating for a bit before stopping

Seriously it is not that uncommon.
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>>24346826
>a self-actualized, multi-faceted person with options and experience who knows exactly what they want
What do you mean by this?
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>>24344911
I dated a rape victim, once. Broke up as soon as she got triggered for no reason and began physically attacking me like a rabid dog.

I mean, what the fuck.
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You know, I've always wondered how people can go the full 180 spin from
>Sex with everyone all the time is okay, monogamy is for suckers
to
>Hey, why the hell are so many children in broken families and why has the divorce rate skyrocketed?
This got fucking predicted ages ago, because it's obvious in retrospect.
Dumb bastards.
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>>24346826
Honestly the end goal you should have in mind for a relationship is children. Rolling around like teenagers with income only stays fun with the same person for so long.

If you don't care too much for doing that and still want to fuck, live your own life and just concern yourself with fuckbuddies at best for when you get the urge.
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>>24346899

normie gibberish for "individual who has stopped intellectually maturing and has successfully tricked himself into accepting a certain outlook on life that leaves him generally numb and in a state of tunnel vision while simultaneously bamboozling him with a masturbatory sense of inner complexity and self-assuredness"
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>>24343374
>isn't suing the guy for assault

What a kek
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>>24346899
Someone who's actually got something to offer in a relationship, somebody who has made something of his life, somebody who makes things happen instead of standing around waiting for it to come to them.

I'm probably just projecting something fierce, because I struggle so much with getting a girlfriend/getting laid. I'm still working on it and I've made some steps but I really think it does come down to actually making yourself interesting, being confident and proactive and taking charge of your own life. All of that is shit "normies" spout routinely but I see a lot of truth in it too.

I don't know what exactly I have to offer anyone in a relationship, I kind of just look OK but I can be shy and timid at times, especially at times that count (times I could have escalated with a woman, but didn't) and that's not good. I'm also still figuring out my career and what I want in life and putting it together. I think in 10 years or so I will be able to look back at my current self and laugh at how naive I was, how scared I was of women and how stupid that was too.

Some girl I know who used to crush hard on me did what was described in the images in this thread, she got it together and re-evaluated her feelings for me and realized the attraction was pretty much gone. She probably liked me at the time because she had no other guy to think about but me, I don't think she really "liked me for me". Which happens far more often than we want to admit, we fall for somebody because they validate us or make us feel a certain way, then we change and grow and stop caring about them as much. I probably took her for granted but then again i wasn't that attracted to her when she was the way she was before. I was hoping to maybe make a move but found out she's with some other guy so that's the end of that. All I can do for myself now is learn from it and move on with my life.
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>>24346737

Well you're right but let me put it to you like this --monogamy is the only reason humanity even exists. We were one of thirteen different species of humanoid. Why did we survive and the others died out? Because we were best parents and the most monogamous.

Basically ancient man managed to keep track of who was fucking who and whose kids were whose responsibility so that meant those kids got more attention, more nutrients, more time to grow and learn. Generation after generation. And we knew who are parents were so grandma and grandpa could help raise another generation or two.

Monogamy was an adaption that helped us grow another adaption -- our huge brains, that lead to us being the dominant species we are now. When we throw monogamy away... we literally become inhuman. I don't want to throw away our species despite all my pain and seeing what we're going through. I want us to get better and the only way to do that is to get back to monogamy.

It was working for millions of years. It can work now, it's human rationalizing that said other wise, not nature.
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>>24347048
Knowing what you want should've really been phrased as "is able to identify something they want and pursue it without a terrible amount of hesitation". i.e. you see a girl that looks cute or interesting, you talk to her, court her and try to take her out on a date, or whatever you think works. Obviously many variables come into play but that's the idea anyhow.
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>>24346990

See >>24347120

So I don't have repeat myself, but what your talking about it exactly the problem. That's what I meant by the last line that post.

It's basically humans doing what they always do -- use their brains to make up shit that feels good for the short term when they know their screwing themselves over in the long term. Rationalizing away anything that gives them pleasure despite the consequences or the cost.
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>>24344367
After that cop thing I'd pull a gun on her and tell her if she doesn't leave right now and stay out of my life for good I will absolutely pull the trigger on her and kill her. And if she bothered me again I would, life in prison or not at least I'd be free of her torture.
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>>24343374
Why do the husbands always swing at the guy instead of the wife? She's the one actually responsible for the situation
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>>24347216
Because she will press charges while there is a good chance that the guy will not. I would honestly try to tear his dick off first and then attack the bitch. That way at least she won't be fucking him for a while.
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>>24345064
I HAVE BEeen looking for this pic forever thank you anon!!!!!!!!
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>>24347085
>She probably liked me at the time because she had no other guy to think about but me, I don't think she really "liked me for me".
Anon, Imma break this down for you real honest, and this might sound stupid, but here's the secret of life.

Ready? You sure? Okay.

People are fucking shallow.

No, wait a second, I'm not a misanthrope.

We're all naturally shallow. I'm shallow, you're shallow, we're all shallow. We all do anything we do for superficial, petty reasons, then get attached once we spent enough time with those things or people.

If you think of a career, you realize you could've chosen most anything. Even if you had a previous motivation to do something, that had a start just as superficial, and was just as situationally motivated as anything else.

There's no good reason to love someone. That means, there's no bad reason to love someone, too. It's the act of loving, not the urges, that matter.

It's not why we're here, it's what we're doing.

/preaching over
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>>24347136

Yeah I didn't mean to be so harsh. There is however a difference between "self-actualization" and "just not giving a fuck" and that difference lies in discernment. Which is one of the hardest things to obtain.

That's why "self-actualization" is interesting in concept but is disingenuous in reality. It's not an enlightened state that you somehow eventually reach and then you no longer have any problems and always magically find your way to a sane qt. It's more like an enduring condition that drives you toward success because you've learned how to strive for something but you also know when to back off, rest, and try a different tack if possible. It's basically "life strategy" with an overall goal of improvement and well-being.
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>>24344367
I HATE WOMEN I HATE THEM SO MUCH THEY NEED TO BE USED FOR BREEDING NOTHING MORE FUCK WOMEN FUCK THEM
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>>24347216

People watch too many movies.
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>>24346737

This is the smartest option, if you can stick to it.
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>>24343374
does anyone here actually take women to dinner

i talk to them on the phone, and we also may meet for coffee. and i definitely take them places once we're fucking.

but just to *maybe* fuck them?
who still does that?
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>>24347271
I understand that, the REAL issue is that, in the face of other guys I began to fall short. As soon as she actually put effort into being attractive I was no longer her most attractive option, this bothers me because it seems like almost any woman with options doesn't choose me first, hence I am apparently a bad option.

Which means I need to work on whatever is making me less attractive to women, it's as simple as that. I'm not disagreeing with what you said, but I'm also tired of being that guy that only draws women who have zero options, because fuck it I'm shallow too and I want to be with a girl that's attractive enough to have a guy other than me; no wait, scratch that, has a chance to talk to a guy who isn't me, because I try to be nice to everyone. I want a girl who has options, who's appealing enough to make a choice out of confidence and "abundance", but chooses me anyways.
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>>24347216

Because they're still programmed with "WOMEN CAN DO NO WRONG" so they think "the other guy must be a warlock who casted a spell on her against her will!" the thought "She doesn't care about me as much as I thought she did" is really too much for normies and Chad to bear.
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>>24347275
Funny enough I don't disagree with what you said at all. That's more or less what I meant by self-actualizing, fuck that I couldn't use a different term but you explained it anyhow.
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>>24347120
that pseudoscience bs
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>>24347120
Ancient man was polyamorous. Every one fucked each other and raised children collectively. Read "Sex at Dawn." Female sluttiness is a biological necessity.
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>>24343491
>agreeing to polyamory
I feel absolutely zero sympathy for this fucking delusional retard.
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>>24347521
>>24347120

I find it highly dubious that we have evidence in either direction, though both theories are obviously highly compelling and fertile grounds for argument fodder
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>>24347394
You'll only get that by giving her something only you can give her. You won't find that by competing in the same game as all the others. The only way she'll choose you in spite of everyone else is if you have something no one else could offer.
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>>24347120
>>24347521
>muh human nature
when will they learn
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>>24347576
Well sure but I'm not even sure how that's possible. It feels like women all just want the same shit and will go with any guy who gives it to them, regardless of who that guy is. It's a tough game to play, my man.
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>>24344727
This story is the most obviously fake one here but goddamn I love the ending
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>>24347271

>People are fucking shallow.

I have a facial deformity. I can confirm this. I think it's great lesson I was meant to learn and perhaps teach others. We're so shallow and we lie to ourselves about it so, so much.

By shallow I mean judging things based solely on appearance or face value. No matter how much humans insist otherwise, they always fall back on this as default behavior.

For instance my deformity effects the shape of my mouth, it's smaller and less developed and that means that I'm actually producing too much saliva for it. So my speech is slurred sometimes, especially if I start talking fast and don't shallow.

What does dumb fuck human do? Accuse me of being drunk! When I explain "I'm sorry, I have a medical condition" I get accused of "making shit up" to hide my alcoholism because instead of just admitting their shallow assumption was wrong, and they assume the worst because I don't look good to them, they double down on their ignorance. Luckily it doesn't happen that often though, but often enough. Want to guess which gender I get this shit the most from?

People are fucking shallow.
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>>24344941
that fucking killed me
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>>24347521
>I-it's nature!
As humans we have the cognitive ability to exceed our baser urges. We aren't restricted to instinct
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>>24347630
>eye bags
>angry brows
>have to swallow down excess saliva often
>look like a fiending drug addict 24/7
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>>24347521
>>24347569
>>24347466

Read Chris Stringers "The Lone Survivor" that's where I got that argument from. Ancient humans were polyamarous. That's what modern sluts say to excuse their destructive behavior. You wouldn't be alive and breathing right now if they were polygamous. The guy is the leading authority on human evolution too.

Female sluttiness lead to female and her kid getting killed too, so that behavior got regulated to the shadows and always been taboo in every society man created.
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>>24347618
>Well sure but I'm not even sure how that's possible.
jus b urself

Really, don't try to do anything and don't get caught up on words nor urges and you're free. Follow all those shallow things as hard as you can; that goes for your love as well. Don't say that girl has better tits, a better face, a better personality, whatever; you'll always find something better in some way if you compare. Don't compare, see how much you can do with what you have.
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>>24345030
>melon pan
>cringe
Pick one only one.
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>>24347793
>Follow all those shallow things as hard as you can; that goes for your love as well.

In other words, "don't overthink it"?
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>>24347394
Damn, I don't try either because I am guaranteed to be the bottom rung of everyone who's asked the girl in question out. I do not stand out in any way compared to other dudes, and being boring is honestly the worst thing for women. They don't like to do nothing.
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feminism destroys everything

seriously, can you imagine being this guy?
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>>24347854

that is truly horrendous
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>>24347840
Yes, but that doesn't mean to stop yourself from thinking. Think enough, in the measure that it doesn't stop you from acting; and act enough, in the measure it doesn't stop you from thinking.
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>>24347849
Well you should try, because when you try, you make a real effort to be a guy that's worth having and keeping in the face of other options.

>>24347854
This story is so pathetic, at the same time it makes me wonder how easy it'd be to go and fuck women who are in relationships with guys like this. I'd be the shittiest person ever, at the same time I'm sick of idling by while a girl I want is attached to her "boyfriend" who, as far as I can tell, is only really there out of novelty and familiarity while she doesn't really care that much about him.
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>>24347854
>LITERALLY a kekold, and proud of it.
>His wife describes the kekold sex, and he approves.
Jesus fuck, what is wrong with this man?
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>>24347854

I love his logic here.

>Putting himself in the "housewife" position he can see "why women cheat"

Okay so if she's not in that position anymore do they still have a reason to cheat? Also how come that doesn't give HIM the right to cheat? How come all these arguments c.uckolds use never apply to men?

>If a woman is unhappy at the house she can go and get more for himself.

This seems acceptable to everyone.

>If a man is unhappy at home he can go get more for himself

This is acceptable to no one not even the man himself.
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>>24344367
Story can't be true
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>>24347907
>attached to her "boyfriend" who, as far as I can tell, is only really there out of novelty and familiarity while she doesn't really care that much about him.

this describes a large number of relationships
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>>24347854
This makes me feel physically ill :(

I cant fathom doing this to my husband fuck any of these things ive read. How could you live with yourself
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>>24345548
>implying a echo chamber of truth is equally bad as n echo chamber of lies.

4chan is a circle jerk as well, at least we don't censor stuff and many people are always trying to convey the naked truth here.
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>>24347733

*were not polyamarous.

Also double dubs, nice. Checked.

>>24347722

Checked again. But yeah people are going to think you're an addict because you look like what movies told them one looks like before they think you just look that way.
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>>24347854
>mfw househusband
>no kids
>"chores" easy as fuck
>cooking is fun
>have way too much free time
>get to basically live the NEET life

Not sure about that open marriage thing though. Maybe I'm still a little bit old fashioned, but relationship still implies exclusive fucking to me.
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>>24347907

> as far as I can tell, is only really there out of novelty and familiarity while she doesn't really care that much about him.

It's a weird feel isn't it. On one hand you don't want to be the guy who ruins a relationship, on the other hand, fuck all the other dicks that aren't yours. No one is going "Jeez I'm not going to fuck this girl because it's going upset Anon" Nope. Your dick is the last thing on their minds.

So if she's going to cheat anyways, why not your dick? I'm sure he'd fuck your girlfriend and not care about you. It's messed up but I think about this stuff because I've meet too many girls that seemed like they might be into me but they had boyfriends. So I backed off, but I'm sure some other dude didn't care and fucked them.

It just seems like the only way to ever get laid is to kill your own morality.
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>>24347907
That was the thing, even when I do, the best I can manage is being boring, frumpy and a prime candidate for being cheated on for a more exciting person IF she'd even look my way in the first place.
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>>24345139
>>>/b/596380755

Shit I really miss 4chanarchive, seems like fgts doesn't have it archived anymore.
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>>24346981
she didn't actually get triggered about anything, she just wanted to have her temper tantrum as a shit test to see if you "really like her" and stay around with her even if she violently attacks you

women are children for the most part and think like children do
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>>24347982

That's another thing too. Bitches have it easy and complain about it. I think they're just bitching so you wont realize how easy they have it and get pissed off how unfair it is.

She doesn't want you to realize she's sending you off to work so she can sit on her fat ass and watch TV all day and barely notice her kids. No, she's gotta complain that it's "hard work", you know that phrase you use to describe your life too, so it seems fair in the end.
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>>24347962

>How could you live with yourself

They find a way.

I'm glad you have common sense and a conscience. I hope more women will start waking up and realizing that this culture is not working. We all need to work together to make society not suck so bad.
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>>24343374
It's a major issue for both sexes.

The economy, technology, addictions and nonsensical media are fucking up our expectations and wants out of life as well as our empathy towards people, to the point of absolute apathy and hedonism. Unemployment, a crumbling social/family unit and the cultivated (if not outright addictive) need to improve ones life with excessive materialism are beginning to people to the brink both psychologically and emotionally.

Now younger generations of men and women are becoming desperate for someone to save them from this spiraling hell of a degrading world and childishly hope that it'll all end well with a happily ever after just like it did in the movies or the 50's. But thanks to modern materialism, hedonism, entertainment and social media at large, their standards have been raised so high that they can no longer find any interest for the opposite sex in the real world, and this is all the more crippling to see or partake in when the economy is already straining enough on current families, marriages and couples. And if unrealistic hopes fail, then members of the said population inevitably turn to apathy and depression instead, further withdrawing from the real world in order satisfy their needs - which can only be quenched in small doses of more and more doses of addictive entertainment. More movies, more social media, more porn, more games, more tv.

So now men want to self insert with artificial, submissive waifus just like the ones from their ecchi anime or turn to porn videos to get their libido up; while women want a rich Chad just like the one from their 50 Shades of Grey book or simply turn to RomComs or fujoshi entertainment to fulfill those romantic, wanted needs. Meanwhile, pets are quickly replacing children to satisfy the parental desires of both sexes.
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>>24345350
>with sex and everything
He thinks he is a robot hahahaha
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>>24348092
We managed to talk the shit out. She's clearly the more ambitious of us and agreed to take on that part if I could handle the house shit being used to it by now. Thinking of getting a part time job to have some rainy day funds and something to do on days where I want to do more than work on my backlog.

I won't go and say kids aren't hard to deal with because I just don't know and personally don't plan on knowing till maybe late 20s/early 30s, but as it stands, cooking and cleaning for 2 people's worth is the fucking dream honestly.
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>>24347854
>she's having sex with multiple strangers a month
>making him hear about their sexual experiences
>he acts like it's her right and he must happily accept it
the saddest part is I can kind of seeing myself doing this in his situation. which is why I'm better off being a robot.
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>>24348036
Yeah, this is exactly how I feel. The most recent encounter I had was with a girl at my current job who, before I even found out had a boyfriend of six years, slid real close to me and told me how cute I looked.

Even stupider is that I had oneitis for a different girl at the time, one who was at my second job at the time. Fuck me, for all I know I could have escalated with the girl from my primary job, and that confidence would have let me score the girl from the second job too. I could take the high road and try to avoid making them feel bad or making the boyfriend of girl A feel bad, but ultimately that's just me being a chode and fucking it all up. As much as we resent this sort of behavior I also think it's probably just as bad to have a girl stay with a guy she's not really into.


Nobody wants to actively encourage this level of thinking, at the same time I'd rather be the guy who is a "step up" and makes women want to cheat/leave their boyfriends, than be the guy who gets cheated on, and when you're in a relationship or dating it's either one or the other.
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>>24348143
W.Civ is fucked.
It's been going down that path ever since the 70s.
If there will be any benefit to the inevitable cultural backlash (Trump 2018, anyone?) it will be a certain degree of re-normalization.
Something something America will be fascist in half a century.
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>>24348143
Assuming somebody has realistic hopes for a partner, do you really think it's a good idea to stay with somebody you're not happy with? I agree with much of what you say, at the same time it's not always a bad thing that people are being encouraged to exercise a bit of choice and not "settle". I think there's a fine line between not settling and understanding that not everything has to be perfect, but it's definitely there.
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I gave up & embraced the robot life about a year ago & found myself happier than when I was chasing pussy.

Let them come to me, and if they don't, I don't really care. More for Chad, less heartache for me, more money for me. Let the betas pay for Stacy's good times while I make my own way.
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>>24348314
>robot life
>casual sex
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>>24347120
That's actually the opposite of what pretty much all the evolutionary psycho and anthropology I've read on the matter states. They say in prehistory people used to fuck literally everybody with a pulse and any children were raised (and probably fucked) communally by the entire tribe, because they were are related enough that the "selfish gene" covered all the offspring. Most of the time.

Monogamy/polygamy only came about with agricultural civilization when assigning responsibility for the care of women (whose labor was relatively worthless until very recently) and children was necessary to the social order. It had to be forced on people via religion and violence because it's always been unnatural, the opposite of instinct. We were born during a very uncomfortable time for industrialized nations, because it's going to have to change as women acquire sexual freedom and agency, but the traditional pressures towards monogamy are still here.

Personally, I'm pretty stoked. I'm probably never going to be some great provider or parent so when women decide who they fuck all I have to do is work out to get sex, and I don't really care how many other people a woman has sex with long as she minds the STDs considering I will not be paying for her pussy.
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>>24348036
If you know don't if you want to keep your integrity. You start walking down that road and its one you wont be able to come back from. Trust me even if you try to filter them out a some of them are gonna lie about it and your gonna bang them. The trick is simply not being that guy without meaning to. That way you get to keep your sound of mind and try to limit the misery.

Misery loves company as they say and one of the best things you can do as a human being is not being willing as well as knowing part of it the process. Far too many people in this world try to make people as miserable as they are.

I will admit I fucked some wives and girlfriends but I never knew they were with somebody until afterwards. I will admit it did cost me pussy but for me personally the peace of mind was worth it especially being able to keep my integrity which I rely heavily upon.

I much rather be known as the few honorable fellows left with some actual fucking intergrity instead of some piece of shit who will do anything to anyone for some shitty plentiful pussy because they are just that desperate and or low. That is what those kind of people who do that exactly are. Its why I hate many PUA, player, and Chad types who don't mind that sorta thing who do that sort of thing. Then they have the fucking gall to claim their lame ass shit excuses for being shitty people who happily take part in spreading the misery.

Because misery loves company and they don't have the balls to resist.

That is the problem with men these days even 'manly men' they got no fucking balls. Sure they 'act' like it but when you get down to it they are only pretending to have them and don't actually possess any.

I got my ass kicked for bringing that up on several occasions but its fucking true. Men possessing real balls are damn near unicorns these days and even those with fake ones are increasingly rare.
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>17 first real gf actually have so with her and she's special to me
>as far as I know things are going great
>she wants to go to a party but I have to work in the morning so I don't go
>find out a few days later from a friend that she ended up fucking 5 guys at once
>ask around it's confirmed so I confront her
>after denial she finally confesses but blames me because I didn't go with her
>dump her but she ends up telling people personal things that I shared with her basically ruining the rest of high school for me
This wasn't even a huge deal and didn't even ruin women for me but don't get another gf until I was 20

>have great job living on my own get gf
>we date for a year she moves in with me I don't ask for her to pay for anything because I can afford it and I wasn't really worried about it
>2 years later I'm in love with this girl she's telling me she loves me every day always happy when I get home from work
>she plays WoW with her ex who lives in another state so I don't worry to much about it
>one day she runs down to the store and leaves WoW up so I take a look at her character and gear
>ex sends a message that's flirty I scroll up and read what they talk about and it's pretty bad
>see how she's not even attracted to me anymore and that she found the ring and was dreading me asking her
>ask her about it when she gets home she blows up on me about looking through her stuff
>kick her out
>she eventually calls me and tells me she never loved me she laughs at me calls me a loser
>tells me she was just using me for a house and food to save money to move out to where her ex lives
>I go into a deep depression and start drinking lose my job
Now I just work a shit job I'm 29 and an alcoholic, I haven't had even a hug from another person since then. Looked up her facebook married with kids to that guy. I wonder why somebody so horrible can be happy then remember oh yeah she's a woman they always come out on top I'm sure I'll die alone which will be soon
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>>24348407
>2015
>believing that the sex will "trickle down" to everyone
>implying that the 80/20 won't always be in effect
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>>24345954
I was in that thread. Yippee
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>>24344766
Exactly. Normies seem to think that if it's not all peaches and cream, that they're not really in love. Love isn't supposed to be about eternal happiness. Sure you will have pleasurable memories when you're in love, but you have to take the pain with the pleasure as well. Normies don't want to do this because it's too much work, and would rather base the entirety of a relationship off of shallow desires.
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>>24348143
On the other hand, we have to keep in mind that the old family structure wasn't exactly natural either, and is often seen under rose-tinted glasses despite its traditional values. Men are biologically programmed strive for dominance and power in an effort to have sex with as many women as possible, while women are biologically programmed to search and mate with the most successful males to ensure healthy young and increase the chances of survival for their children and themselves.

In other words, humans were never monogamous in nature despite our hundreds and hundreds of years of history living under the standard family unit. But these standards have been so deeply ingrained into our rigid cultures for so long that we couldn't see it any other way as right until another massive social shift occurred - and that has been happening now, ever since the turn of the 20th century.

But even though we now have the technology and scientific knowledge to understand how our innate biological programming works - from sexuality to emotion regulation - society and individuals at large are still in a very fucked state. Because corporations, mass media, military and research institutions now use that newfound knowledge to further exert their control over the public.

In the case of sexual, romantic and meaningful relationships between men and women - they now know what both genders want and they have amplified those desires to 10 in their entertainment and products. Hence, raising people's desires and expectations to unrealistic levels, or simply abandoning the notions of romantic relationships and children altogether.

tldr; the traditional family structure was always fucked to begin with, it's just a new shitty system washing out the old shitty system, entertainment has fucked up our perceptions of the opposite sex. now men only want forever young, doting fuck dolls while women want what is essentially an alpha fuckbot that prints money.
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>>24348528
>herp derp everything was always bad herp derp just go through life doing what you're told to herp derp le scientists XD

Fuck off.
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>>24348421
That's some fucked up shit senpai. Sorry you went through that.
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>>24345355
does anyone have the update?
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>>24348421
>>she plays WoW with her ex who lives in another state so I don't worry to much about it
>so I don't worry to much about it

...

Seriously?
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>>24348453
I never said it would trickle down. Sucks to be ugly and/or short. I suppose such men will be relegated to paying for it one way or another - if they don't luck out. I don't think using monogamy or marriage as a way to ensure that some women are forced to endure unattractive men is at all ethical, because face it: we are the sex of keys, not locks. We have to fit, not them.

I'm a 6'5" white man with a good face (according to a few neutral parties) but I'm somewhat fat, and I still got attention from girls ranging from conventionally attractive thin ladies to nerdy fatties. Luckily, I find enormously fat girls (bigger than you think) quite attractive. I can't imagine how hard it must feel trying to compete for the conventionally gorgeous women, because a lot of my perfect 10s shake the earth when they walk.

But even if you do pine for your perfect 10 oneitis, the changes I mentioned favor you: it creates a buyer's market. She is no longer off the market after marriage, stuck with one lucky Chad to satisfy her sexual appetite - you can be one of her many if you work at making yourself desirable (and have attractive genetics). Even if you don't, you can always set the objective of gaining wealth, which you can then use to get what you want from the ladies; no matter how successful women become, the working class and poor will always outnumber the rest of humanity.
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>tfw considered women some sort of mythical creatures that you're supposed to take care of and nourish before 4chan
>hates even my own mom and sister after 4chan
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>>24347120
>Monogamy was an adaption that helped us grow another adapton -- our huge brains
>We survived because we were the most monogamous

I really hope you're joking anon.
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>>24347569
>I find it highly dubious
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>>24348692
This was before I was a hateful untrusting person
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>>24344936

husband is beta as fuck. the right answer to those objections is some variant of

"fuck that, let's fuck."
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>>24348730

>I'm a 6'5" white man with a good face
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>>24348407

And the book I'm telling you to read explains why everything you said is bullshit.

Fucking everything that moved was how Neanderthals lived and they went extinct because of it, well they fucked us a little bit so we have a bit of their genes, but them and all of our cousins went extinct doing exactly what you said we did, which we didn't or else you'd be non-existent right now.
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>>24347120
given there are compelling arguments for this and the other extreme of raising children as a tribe I'd say first of all context matters - large societies versus small, peace time versus times of conflict etc

but as I see it monogamy allows societies to sort out the best genes once enough diversity has been achieved but to get to that diversity you have to have women and men slutting around, reason why no one sees this is because no one bothers to put theories on a long enough timeline as something that follows each other when certain natural pressure is present
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>>24348796
>This was before I was a hateful untrusting person
That's just common sense dude, nothing to do with being hateful or untrusting. What legitimate reason would someone have to do that?
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>>24348884
As far as I knew they were still friends and playing WoW with a guy in another state wasn't very threatening to me
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>>24348836
Yeah I included that as a disclaimer of sorts, but you can't let what you're born as get you down. I know a guy in his 30s who's comically short and balding who has had more partners than me (I'm here because I'm cyborg), and only recently has his luck dried up. Hell, my ex was with this wiry little Mexican dude before she met me.

>>24348840
Well shit, I'm super white so I'm probably a little Neanderthal. What is the title of the book? I didn't see it because I am functioning on caffeine and honestly don't want to go back through the entire thread. I love topics like these. Because it's impossible to prove anything, you can always change my mind.

I think that unless Luddites or well-intentioned egalitarians get in the way, this will all become a moot point very soon. One reason: designer babies. We will have the knowledge to direct our own evolution and who carries which genes will become far less important to what we're really discussing: eugenics.
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>>24348967
>but you can't let what you're born as get you down
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You guys have got to be more straight forward with women. They like it when its about you and they're there to support. Hero worship is the frame.

Any logical conversation about emotions should be shudder inducing for you.

Tell her what you want straight (because it will be reasonable, you're the man after all) and expect her to pull her socks up. If she's not into it another girl will be.

Don't be a complainer.
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>>24348933
>still friends
This doesn't exist.

And why wouldn't she play WoW with you if she really wanted to play it? Why not with random internet people? Why specifically that guy?
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>>24344680
can confirm
raised by single mom
she dated some drug dealer for over 8 years
he used to beat the fuck out of me when i was a kid
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>>24348411

>That is the problem with men these days even 'manly men' they got no fucking balls. Sure they 'act' like it but when you get down to it they are only pretending to have them and don't actually possess any.

>I got my ass kicked for bringing that up on several occasions but its fucking true

Going back to what I said, do you know how many times I've had my life threatened by Chad? For talking to his girlfriend and making her laugh?

I call it "tough guy" syndrome because they want to APPEAR tough but sure as fuck aren't. It's a bluff and they're very rarely called out on it but it happens to me so often and I'm becoming more pyscho so I just do it.

Last time it went like this,

>Flirting with qt at glowpaint rave
>She was at a table with my friends and went I sat and talked to them and her they all sort of left us alone.
>She's my old crush's roommate, I know this because of FB.
>That's the only reason i'm talking to her.
>Some Chad is sitting at the bar giving me death stares
>Talk to her for a good hour too.
>She gets up to go get glow paint on her white shirt.
>People are putting the paint on their hands and painting people.
>She asks me to help her.
>PUT HAND ON HER FUCKING SHOULDER
>Chad from earlier comes out of nowhere
>*whispers*
>Chad:"Touch her again and I'll break your neck."
>Ohlookthisthreadagain.jpg
>Me:"Oh you'll what... I couldn't hear you exactly, why don't you speak up."
>Chad:"No. No I didn't."
>Points his finger at me and then makes this hand motion like breaking something.
>Look dead at him.
>"You're not going to do shit...."

My only regret is that I walked away and didn't touch her again. I should of put my hand on her again because Chad won't do shit. But I did back off. It's bothered me to this day.

This is why I'm wanting to learn martial arts and get buffer. Because next time this shit happens I'm not going to back down. If Chad wants to get an assault charge, he can go right the fuck ahead.
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>>24349012
I don't know man and it really doesn't matter anymore so just say whatever you're getting at
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>>24345471
>>24346184
>>24348675
>TL;DR:

He ended up typing up a letter to send to her therapist but he was dumb and posted his and his gf's real names on the letter so his sister and his gf's sister (who are friends) found it and went to his house to confront him. They told him GIVE UR GF 1 WEEK PLS

Then literally the next day his sister and his gf show up and his gf has done a complete 180 on her personality after crying about the possibility of being dumped and losing her beta provider and ends up fucking him, etc. He decides to stay with her.

Then some people on the red pill (/pol/) board mocked him and he got mad. Not sure what happened after that.
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>>24344680
>2015
>believing shit on 4chins
IT'S 2015 GUYS SERIOUSLY
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>>24344367
Really though? Brain cancer? Women are terrible but this story smacks of artifice and strawberries
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>>24349091
he stayed with her
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3earrq/well_apparently_the_worlds_largest_kekold/
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>>24349084
I'm not getting at anything, I'm just telling you that there is no logical reason for her to have been doing something like that in the first place, and there are many other behaviors like that, which point to an unhealthy emotional relationship with someone or something other than your partner, that have no place in a monogamous relationship. I mean it's all over popular culture, in movies, books, what have you, there's no excuse to ever accept a relationship in which one partner acts like that. You have to stop that shit before it even starts happening.
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>>24349142
Well yeah you don't think I haven't seen how it was my fault and how stupid I was 100% of my relationship s have ended in disaster
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>>24348967

>What is the title of the book?

>Lone Survivors: How We Came to Be the Only Humans

>by Chris Stringer

I was trying to give you the Amazon page but 4chan wouldn't allow it.
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>>24344530
Correction NORMIES do this. Us robots may want to go on murderous rampages but that is really nothing compared to the insidiousness of two-faced duplicity
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>>24343491
And to think this professor c uck tells his students just how wonderful the libcu ck lifestyle is and how privileged they are to get free spirited women. Disgusting. He deserves everything that he gets. It's also hilarious how in denial he is about being a fucking loser who can't get women.
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>>24348421
holy shit mang, you are a warrior.

seriously...fucking hell.

so much respect for you.
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>>24349091
>>24349116

Thanks for tldring for me.

Man... Fucking guys will do anything for pussy I swear. This is why we're losing as a gender.

I have the suspicion the rapist was probably someone she knew too. Someone she was probably involved with.
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>>24349064
Girls love this scenario and dream about it and try and create it: two guys fighting over her
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>>24349091
>>24349116
Now I'd wish I not seen that. What a kek.Wonder how long until she divorces his dumbass and takes all his shit while being with Chad from work.
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>>24344984
O-okay. How many normies should I take out with me?
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>>24344680
>Never underestimate a woman's ability to put an evil violent fuck over her own family too. Happens every day.
>happens every day
What?
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>>24344941
I think I know the reason why she doesn't have many friends.
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>>24346737
Go away Chad And you stupid fucking Hirobot
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>>24349261

This too. I ran out of room but I was going to say that I refuse to be a fucking prop. After I got my life threatened by this guy who I thought came out of nowhere, she was on the dance floor grinding with him the whole night. That was her boyfriend...

Like I honestly believe normie couples go to the bar, just to separate, lure some smuck into talking to her, get into a lovers spat about it and have rough aggressive sex because of it. Basically I'm just a set piece here. A truss.

I call that "leaf pounding" too. It's like when two chimps go at it. The chimp pounds the ground and throws leafs in the air. It's the same thing with humans. And right now I feel like the monkey who just wants to bite Alpha Chad's throat out next time he starts this shit. Literally I want Chad to have my teeth marks on his neck for the rest of his life.

Do any other robot know this feel? It's a fire in my that won't die out, just burning the jungle of my soul. The chimp wants out. He's howling. He's hooting. He's pounding his chest and cursing the moon. He's got his black eyes dead set on the alpha.

What is this primal feel?

(Inb4 someone miscontrues this post as me being some kind of badass. That's not what I'm saying, I'm saying I've felt weak and pushed around by these guys for long that I WANT TO BECOME that bad ass, not because I personally need to be tough and violent but I'm sick of letting others be that way towards me.)
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>>24345117

Betas try to make fellow betas feel better because they are in the same position. (Ie, if I say it doesn't bother me then maybe I can delude myself to buying into my own horse sit.)
AND
sluts applaud the betas for embracing and looking past their slutty behavior.

Those are the two major demographics on le reddit.
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>>24349490

Women are having sex with a guy who's beating her kids right now.
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>>24349192
>Well yeah you don't think I haven't seen how it was my fault and how stupid I was 100% of my relationship s have ended in disaster
The only way for it not to end in a disaster is not to have it in the first place.
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>>24347899
Fuck Kafka was hilarious sometimes
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>>24349804
>Fuck Kafka was hilarious sometimes
Funny thing is that's exactly how it happened for him because of his family and his social status, he could literally do nothing and all these socialite whores would invite him to parties and shit.
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>>24349827
Oh I figured he was being sarcastic

Reeee
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>>24349694

Read "Notes From the Underground".
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>>24344736
Do you really think someone would do that? That someone would just go on the internet... to tell lies?
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>>24344751
You shame the fucking shit out of them.

Make them ashamed of going with some stupid bad boy. They won't wanna go with a bad boy then, when they know it'll ruin them socially.

You can't just allow women to get away with this. Once you give women an inch, they WILL eventually take a mile. When there's no shaming over getting a bad boy, then they'll likely go around on a cock spree for a while and stay entitled up until they realize they used up their youth fucking bad dudes. Make them realize that there are indeed consequences for these actions.

Shit like this is actually why arranged marriages were more common at one point, because most women are unable to decide on the best guy for themselves. She'll just fuck the guys that give her the tingles which will usually be the bad boys.

Oh, and unfortunately, the shaming will never happen. Because in our society, women are perfect, faultless, and blameless, even though single mothers pop out children and raise them so badly that they're likely to end up a criminal.
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>>24349868
No, you should read up on his actual life, he was very famous for being a party guy as well as a brothel patron. His family was rich and influential enough for him to have a really good life by robot standards, and he was just bored because he was a creep who was into porn and shitty fetishes and whatnot so he couldn't into "true love". He had a shitload of girlfriends and sex partners though.
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i want to get married but she repeatedly says no MARRY ME DAMNIT STOP WITH THE IM HAPPY ALONE BULLSHIT
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>>24349916

I agree with this 100% the problem is women refuse to feel shame at all. They can't be wrong, that's the number one rule of female logic. The female is never wrong, bad or to be considered anything negative.

So we end up with this..

> in our society, women are perfect, faultless, and blameless, even though single mothers pop out children and raise them so badly that they're likely to end up a criminal.

Because women refuse to be wrong and spend 90% of their mental energy ensuring we men fall for her bullshit and don't believe she's wrong either.

You can't use shame because they don't feel it, they DO however feel societal peer pressure. They respond to that. Notice how all these like fat acceptance involve alleviating the pressure on her? She feels she's pressured to not eat everything she wants and watch her weight, so not being able to be wrong and admit that's right, tries to get rid of the pressure to begin with.

That's what we have to do. Find a way to make sure society pressures them into not fucking the bad boy. We need a lot of creative works to do this too. Books, movies, shows... They'll respond to visual cues of good looking people showing them that this behavior is not good for them (can't be "wrong" so frame it in her own self-interest).
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>>24345512
it's been archived

archive.is slash Cmcrc
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>>24343374

There are still decent women out there - just the media and social media will have you believing everyone is a terrible slut. Because terrible sluts are loud bullies who want to enforce their degeneracy on others to make them feel good.

But there are decent women out there just as there are decent men - always get to know a girl for a long time before you get involved. Accept that you are unlikely a perfect, pure spirit, so don't have unreal expectations. I.e. don't look for a virginal girl thinking that your own virginity is the result of a strong moral compass (you were just bad at getting it). But there are genuinely good people.
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>>24344318

> Talking over her issues
> Recognizing that she's got bad feelings
> Wanting to move on without cheating

I don't see anything wrong here, sure it's a shit situation - but she didn't ask for it - it happens to all humans in some way or another. The important thing is she's not being a shit in response to it.
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>>24344469

> Shit that never happened

You can't die because you're upset. That's share + like if u agree xxx territory.
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>>24350248
>always get to know a girl for a long time before you get involved.

The trouble with that is that every girl who shows any sign of not being a depraved slut is pursued by a lot of guys who are looking for a nice girl, and if you're not quick, somebody else will be.
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>>24344727

More than anything this guy is a massive kek. He deserved it
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>>24350332

I guess, it helps to do it in your early 20s when most of the chads are hooking up with easy sluts.
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>>24343491
The kuckold is strong in this one.
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>>24349694
You're too caught up in the alpha beta thing. Its the girls playing round, manipulating guys that's the problem, they can't help it. Every time a girl does this with me, and its been a lot, I just gtfo, who would want that? And then she tries to get with me harder, its ridiculous.
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>>24343374
>goes on tinder
>expected good girl

lol OP u retarded af.
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>>24350332
>of guys who are looking for an attractive girl that is tolerable**

Fixed for you.
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