How do you tell if you're gay or not?
>>24324047
Does the thought of attractive men give you an erection? If so gay. If not than you aren't.
I kissed a guy and felt a fire in my chest like I never had for a girl.
>>24324047
How could you not know?
Freaking normies.
>>24324047
>be me
>start in new university
>decide not to be socialy awkward and make friends
>make 3 friends with whoom I share some interests
>on of them is fat guy who constantly helps me with study even when I don't ask him
>he is disgusting weaboo
>get confused wthere I am gay or not
>mfw
It's very simple, if you like dick then you're a faggot.
If you like feminine penis, pussy or boipussy then you're straight.
>>24324047
I sometimes wonder if it's possible to be turned on by yourself and how common it is.
>>24326564
>feminine penis
how
I questioned my sexuality once and tried fapping to gay porn to test it. I'm not gay.
>tfw not sure if gay or just incredibly lonely
>>24326529
you're not, i did the same, i turned out to be straight
your nihilism is just to the point where you attack every core value of yourself including your sexuality because it's what you compulsively do, but you're not gay
>>24326619
Can you really not jerk off to gay porn?
Even if the guys are really small and girly?
>>24326586
there's no such thing, it's mental gymnastics degenerates play to pretend they're not really degenerate.
>tfw not attracted to men but find big dicks and a nice body a turn on
>tfw sometimes self insert as girl
>tfw go outside and only look at girls and have no interest in men at all
Ehh...
I don't think I'm gay. I just happen to really like total mind rape and feminization. We all exist on a sort of sexual spectrum - there's a fuzzy cutoff that determines whether you're "gay" or "straight".
>>24327467
lol same. I wonder if I would be attracted to traps if I ever met one in person.
>>24327467
I feel you senpai, this is exactly what I'm like
idk, but I think i'm gonna start transitioning into a femboy.
>>24327467
>>24327537
>>24327550
get off the internet and get a gf, these are symptoms of social withdrawal.
>>24327603
Not them but I am finding myself attracted to traps too. Nothing I can do about it because everyone in real life socially rejects me. I tried so hard during high school and college to make friends but everyone rejected me.
Liking anime traps who are designed like girls, act like girls and voiced by girls is 100% straight, right?
>>24324047
It's simple
Have sex with a man
If you liked it, then you're gay
If you didn't like it, then you're still gay, because you had sex with a man
how do I know whether or not I'm a tranny
>moved across country in 2010 and lived with friends who got me a job
>somehow managed to get myself into a predicament where I stayed the night at some gay dudes place
>he was always saying gay shit to me and I never really thought anything of it
>wound up getting drunk and doing random shit with him like wrestling
>eventually he got in my pants and was sucking my dick
>was ok for 30 seconds but then sobered up and went completely flaccid
Was out in the middle of fucking nowhere at this guys place and I imagine if I came he would have wanted to get his too. Looking back all the signs were there that him and other people were trying to get me out of closet while I was very confused and dealing with a lot of other new stressful life shit. Feel a little shitty for unintentionally leading the dude on but, was just going with the flow, got caught up in the heat of everything and shit happened.
So I've had a sexual encounters with 1 girl and 1 guy in my life and I definitely don't want anything other than women ever again
When you're sucking dick and realize you're not into it. That's how I found out I'm straight.
>>24324101
I don't get this logic. I don't personally find other males attractive but I frequently jack off to shemales and sometimes femboys. Hell, I even have fantasies about fucking shemales. I don't consider myself gay but I also wouldn't fully consider myself straight. Also I'm still a virgin
>>24327857
thats so gay
>everyone thinks im gay
>never had the urge to jack off to men, so i tell them they're wrong
>they don't accept, and try to set me up with another gay guy at a party
>I put serious consideration to it, but there's no attraction so obviously i don't
>I jack off all the time, but seeing as i've never had sex at all i think i can't be sure
>at one point i tell a friend that i don't even know if i'm gay, bi, straight, whatever
>she responds as if it's supposed to be the easiest thing in the world
Am i just overthinking everything? I mean, it's not uncommon that people start thinking i am gay from very early after meeting me, but does that mean anything?
>>24326529
you're straight, you're just not used to getting that connected with another man
kissed a guy but it didnt turn me on. and at work this one gay guy used to hit on me and it was very uncomfortable. we worked everyday so i had to do my best to act like it didn't bother me but it did and when i quit he was always trying to get me to jack off for him on webcam. and a girl i was seeing thought i was gay even after we were making out. not sure what's giving everyone gay vibes but i don't like it, i love the pussy
>>24328468
You're not overthinking anything, the idea that a person's sexuality is set in stone and is one thing or the other is a complete myth.
Its been shown that only a tiny percentage of the population are solely heterosexual or homosexual; for the vast majority, the nature of sexuality is constantly changing and completely situational.
>>24327857
Something similar with me
>gay guy has the hots for me, but i don't realize it
>he tries to get closer with me all the time, but i'm a naturally adamant person, so he doesn't get far
>after maybe three months of him trying, a girl points out that he's gay
>i hadn't even realized that yet, and started realizing
>i start considering him, but never really want to
>other people keep trying to set us up
>eventually, the guy has been horny for me for over 6 months, and i didn't give him shit
I mean, it was annoying that people absolutely had to try setting me up with him, but i feel bad for him for putting so much effort into me, and not getting anything out of it whatsoever
>>24327882
Every dick's different though. You should suck mine just to make sure.
>>24327974
There's nothing to get, you're gay.
>>24324131
Lel, Fag
>>24326564
>feminine penis
>boypussi
>straight
Absolutely disgusting reasoning.
Does this turn you on?
If yes you are 100% heterosexual.
I started jerking off to traps and I realized that my subconscious turned me gay to protect me from my fear of women and rejection
Too bad I'm too ugly for boy pussy
I'm not attracted to other men, but i have one friend i share deep bond with. He's long term depressed, mentally unstable and such, but sometimes i feel like i love him.
I've never been in a relationship, I'm a KHV and kinda misogynistic, and i feel really strong urge to make him happier, since he feels loney a lot of the time. I caught myself fantasizing about him a few times, I don't know what should i think about it.
Am i gay? Or am i just desperate for human contact and good feels? I'm INTP, if it changes anything.
>>24328814
you can't be too ugly for my boi pussy
oh god i'm so lonely
>>24328932
Wanna talk? I'm not interested in lewd shit I'm also just lonely
>>24324047
Guys sometimes get me harder than gals.
>>24328906
iktf, I have a friend like that too. He's even tried to kill himself. He'd probably literally rather be dead than be with me.
life is so fucking gay
>>24324047
If Pepe turns you on you might be gay.
>>24328957
Not fair! i was already horny when i came into this thread.
>>24328945
*he just wants to flirt and pillow talk*
>>24328966
Then yeah, you're probably gay anon.
>>24328985
If that's how you want to interpret an innocuous offer of a conversation then go right ahead but that's not what i meant at all
>>24326619
Did the same. That was a disappointing night.
>>24326619
I only fap to men when I'm really frustrated from dealing with women (Or the lack of them due to their pleb taste).
Fully bisexual guy here who was in denial a loooong time. Here are some indicators to keep in mind:
-Do you or have you had a strong interest in LGBT-themed shows? Do you feel like you have a strong connection to the community?
-When someone says something bigoted about homosexuals, do you take offense? Do you take it personally on some level.
-Watch some gay porn. Some of it may repulse you, but you may some things. Can you masturbate to it? Do you want to watch more porn like it in the future?
-When your sexuality comes into question - from introspection, or comments from others - do you feel a pang of shame in your gut? Do you brush it off and try to avoid the issue? Feeling shame is an important part of it.
So Anon, if this isn't actually a troll thread... and you are seriously wondering if you are gay or bisexual... then consider some of the above points.
It is incredibly refreshing for me to have acknowledged that I am bisexual... and it is also refreshing for close friends and family to know. When people you know and love start to become aware of it and accept it... then you will start to feel better.
I'm not going to lie to you. This process can be extremely tough at first, but it is 100% worth it. One of the big difficulties that I am referring to is one that people don't talk about much: Shame.
You may have repressed same-sex attractions for your entire life, and instead relied upon whatever attraction you had for women to get by. After that, throughout life, you will hear bigoted comments towards LGBT people - or even expressions of disgust "Oh gross, two dudes kissing..." - you will internalize those feelings of disgust. You will then redirect that disgust towards yourself, which leads to immense shame and self-loathing.
If you are LGBT, this is going to hit you at some point. It may be here and there... or it may hit you like a fucking truck. The pain can be comparable to losing a child.
But even so, you need to look into this. Godspeed, Anon.
>>24329114
Yuru Yuri doesn't count as LGBT themed, r-right?
You dont. You stop trying to pigeon hole yourself into terms made up by jews and sjw's and just fucking be attracted to each individual person as you see fit. God damn it I wish people would stop being a fucking faggot about it.
>>24329114
Not OP but I can say yes to all of these questions. However, I slept with a guy once and I didn't enjoy it that much. In fact, walking home I felt pretty disgusting. Sometimes I enjoy gay porn but I only go after women even though they despise me. Not sure if bi or just hate women.
I feel like I'm bi but not enough to actually justify identifying as bi.
If another anon on this board offered to do anything you want them to for the sole purpose of getting you off sexually - would you take them up on their offer?
If so there's a very high chance you're a homo.
>>24324047
Do you like stuff with the same genitalia/body structure? If so, you're gay.
>>24327974
That's gay as fuck t.b.h f.a.m
>>24329239
That gif is incredibly beautiful. If all boipucci looked this good, I'd never touch a woman again.
>>24324047
I already had very homoerotic recurring dreams when I was 5 or 6, so it has never really be a question.
>>24329345
All boypussy is created equal, anon. Each boypussy is someone's favorite boypussy. You must simply find the boypussy meant for you.Luckily it would appear all you want is a smooth, pink, and tight boypussy which are a dime a dozen. You could literally go on craigslist right now and find a boypussy exactly like that just waiting to get fucked.
if this gif makes your dick twitch, then you might be gay
>>24327974
You gay son
>>24329401
Damn. I need to find a qt bf.
>>24329469
Your faggotry is noted, but did you know that there's more to homos than just boypussy? Dicks are in fact pretty great - and as a fully fledged homo you'll need to familiarize yourself with them.
By hand.
And mouth.
And dick.And possibly your own boypussy.
>>24327974
It's called a fetish. Your fetishes do not define your sexuality. Did you kids drop out of high school before even getting sex ed?
>>24326619
i tried that too and well, I have something to tell my parents. hahaha
>>24329501
Well dicks are great anyway. I literally can't get off to porn without dicks and lesbian porn makes me fall asleep. How do I rid myself of the desires for women?
>>24329528
>fetishes do not define your sexuality.
where's the logic in that?
>>24329558
>I literally can't get off to porn without dicks
>How do I rid myself of the desires for women?
You have done it yourself. Congratulations. You no longer have to subject yourself to the abject inferiority of women.
If you don't know you are gay and you just developed "gay" feelings you are probably not really gay. It depends how you define gay. Are you born gay (not talking about others, but you)? Probably not. Are you gay if you have one gay thought? Probably not, then most people would be gay. I don't even think most faggots are really gay, most are just hypersexualized perverted men and sex addicts, some trained/conditioned themselfs to be gay and some turned a fetish or phase into a lifestyle and forgot to grow up.
>>24329614
Hmm. I guess I just need to find the right guy. Thanks for showing me the way senpai.
>>24324047
>>24329407 is pretty much right.
Orientation isn't binary, it's a continuum. The Kinsey scale expresses it well.
1 is totally straight, 4 is evenly bi, 7 is full homo.
Gay is 5-7. Attraction to male body types over female ones.
Liking traps is 3+ (a feminine guy in a submissive role). Dickgirls might be as low as a 2. A dick is only a deal-breaker at 1, and if you were a 1 you wouldn't be questioning whether you might be gay.
>>24329818
I'm sure you'll make a fantastic faggot, anon.
>>24329834
>condoms
>cum in butt anyway
Why?
>>24329852
>sucking it out of the condoms afterwards
>taking it off mid-sex because you decide you want to be a dirty little slut
>having them prepared just in case you want to use them but the top decides he wants to go raw
>using them as a method of marking how many times the top has cum so far
>it's kinda hot
The list goes on
>>24329154
I mean, it's not uncommon to feel disgusted by gay sex the first time. It could be a legitimate realization that you aren't gay, or the disgust could all be an offshoot of deep shame. Keep your mind open, Anon
>>24330365
Thanks bro. I guess I just felt kinda dirty afterwards. It's reassuring to hear that.
>>24324047
Do you watch anime? If so, yes.
Like really
>>24330986
you might think this is a joke but this should be your first indication if it's more than the odd anime movie. it's about an 80%-90% guarantee tbqhf
>>24324047
Everyone's a little gay. I was gay for Tom Hiddleston when i was watching Crimson Peak.
>>24329154
Then it could be one of several things. It could be legitimate disgust as you realize that you aren't as bi/gay as you thought. Or it could be that you slept with the wrong guy. Or it could just be that the first time having sex with ANYONE can be awkward and disgusting.
Or - and this is most likely - you felt disgusted because you have internalized shame and self-loathing over your attraction to the same sex... and now it is all coming to a head.
The shame is real, Anon.
is it gay if you want to suck a huge cock (no small ones, at all) but you do not want any of the following:
>kiss dude
>get blown by dude
>fuck guy's ass
>get asshole fucked by guyasking for a friend :^)
If you see guys in public and think you'd like to have sex with them you are definitely gay or bi. If you don't do this but jerk off to 2D traps who basically look like girls with dicks you've simply taken a fetish too far.
How do you tell if you're a lesbian? Girls are pretty but I don't know if I want to have sex with one or not
>>24331263
You're cancer, honestly. There's already such a significant portion of the gay population that only wants to suck dick. Literally worthless.
>>24329528
>liking gay porn is a heterosexual fetish
>>24324047
Nobody is gay. It's just some bullshit made up by Christians (their stone agr desert prejudice is the only reason you even have tension over this btw).
Just try everything with everyone you can and whatever you want to keep doing is whatever you should keep doing (no need to even use the words gay or straight). You can't even day for sure whether you're gay right now because you've been culturally conditioned to avoid homosexual impulses, so if you really want to answer this queston you've got to power through that.
Also don't base this off porn. Protip: when you're dealing with dick in person, the most prominent sensory experience isn't how it looks but how it smells.
>>24331334
>the most prominent sensory experience isn't how it looks but how it smells
Eh, I'd say it's more based on how it feels. I mean, I don't tend to like it if a guys dick smells a lot. Ball musk is all good though.
But aside from that, you're point is retarded. Homosexuality exists, it's a description of a reality. Same with Heterosexuality. It's like what you're saying is "Precipitation doesn't exist man, it's just a whole water cycle man."
>>24331283
>There's already such a significant portion of the gay population that only wants to suck dick
huh, didnt know that. thanks m8, ill feel right at home then
>>24331334
>the most prominent sensory experience isn't how it looks but how it smells.
What's so good about it? I have a feeling you will know how to answer this question, no offense.
>>24331443
It means you'll have a hard time finding dicks to suck. Like, 80% of all gay online activity is guys asking to suck dick. Another 15% looking to get ass fucked, and the other 5% is guys looking for boyfriends or guys who actually want their dicks sucked or want to fuck ass.
You've entered into a competitive misery fag.
>tfw so few friends you confuse kindness for sexual attraction
>>24331499
>competitive misery
so pretty much the same as when i go for women guess nothings changing tbqphwyf
I find it disrespectful to fap to women so I fap to the thought of males fapping
it's not gay though
>>24331534
>thinking that's the only change
My poor inexperienced newfag.
There are many more unique issues that await you in the fag world. Trust me, you're better off with females.
>social withdrawal can make you unwillingly crave cock
If this isn't an answer that human interaction is a must, then what else. Time to try your game on some cumdumpsters, robots.
