So i finally revealed my power level goys, I'm not sure what to feel at this point 2BH senpais. Dumping, also help
>revealing your power level to women
oneitis dump 2
>>24316930
>>24316904
Why do these faggots think we care about their stupid oneitis shit? Women are whores and you'll eventually realize that too
oneitis dump 3
>>24316952
>we
oneitis dump 4
You've already started off as the emotional doormat.
This couldn't possibly go wrong.
oneitis dump 5
nobody in the world gives a shit about this OP. Take your "lol i texted dis girl xDDD" to >>>/b/
>>24316982
I'm cringing so fucking hard right now
>>24317016
heh
>>24317010
ok
oneitis dump 6
>>24317006
>Oh
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oneitis dump 7
oneitis dump 8
>think it couldn't possible get worse
>it does
kek
>>24317051
>im fine
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>confessing your "love" over text messaging
It never gets old.
oneitis dump 9 last one, now what
You're a giant tool and I highly suggest you kill yourself.
>>24317093
now you can go back to >>>/b/
>>24317036
You confess to her, and she brings Chad back into it? She's not worth you OP. I know you're in the chemical clutches of love, and you can't think straight - but this bitch has to go.
Trust me, from a guy that did finally hear "I love you" from the oneitis, she will string you along and make the urge to tell her look like a kiddy park. She will make your life hell.
Find a girl that's actually worth you, is the one really a girl that talks about what Chad just text her literally the next message after you blow your emotional beans?
Total cunt. Good luck, OP.
god damn jesus fucking christ the cringe hurts. You really should have spilled your oneitis bullshit like 2 weeks after this had boiled over
Well on the bright side, you had the courage to confess...lol. how old are you OP?
Hey man, good for you. Feel that pain? Keep feeling it. It's a lesson. You'll do better next time. Just be direct - if you're socially retarded like me, being direct is best. "Hey, I love you. I'm in love with you."
Don't apologize, don't ask how she feels about it, just let it sit there.
I did this recently to a girl and she didn't contact me for a month. Then out of nowhere she calls me and acts like it never happened. I just blew her off.
>girl complains to you about her boyfriend
>because your her friend
>confess your love to her
>mfw
>>24317093
avoid at all costs.
>hide oneitis chats
>ignore oneitis
>do not reply to oneitis
at least until you think you're able to talk to her without spaghettying all over
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>>24317120
Turning into an alpha
>>24317093
Now you wait. You put the idea in her head and now you have to wait for her to figure out how she feels and what she wants. You did the right thing by telling her. Now just don't make it awkward by bringing it up again.
But at the same time if she wants to just stay friends you should break it off and move on for your own good.
Good luck bro.
who here a /reddit using frog ree shitposting penis wielding retarded autist meme user who pretends to like vagina and ass but secretly wants to get keked by your senpai while complaining about feminism and tumblr and eating bacon oink oink/ ?
>>24317100
how so
>>24317111
maybe so
>>24317109
thanks
>>24317104
o
>>24317114
old enough to browse this mongolian basket weaving app
>>24317120
if only i were that alpha
>>24317131
ayy
>>24317144
I don't know man, I'm usually not all cringey like this talking to her
>>24317148
thanks for the upvote
>>24317190
It'll be hard but I feel like if this doesn't work out (granted im not expecting anything) then I'll have to move on for my own good
>>24317093
>>24317093
I really hope this isn't a troll, becsuse I'm gonna drop some advice and don't like wasting my time on a le epik trololo.
So true talk here, what you did was a bad idea on several levels. The first being that this is a really difficult time for what I'm assuming is her. And you confessing your feelings ain't gonna help that. Second that you did it over text, the most impersonal method of delivering messages. Some things need to be done in person. The third being that you are far too nice, I can already tell reading this that you're one of those guys who pussyfoot around her feelings and saying all the nice things you can.
Sure it's a good idea in theory, but girls are NOT receptive to being over nice, it makes you look like a limp wristed fag. She won't see you as a man, just a girl In a guys body. I don't want to take this to the extreme and say it's asshole or no hole or some shit but you need to not ask her and tell her with action. Preferably with body language. Girls like assertive guys, but you should wait.
Just take this as a learning experience. Don't be her emotional tampon. Put effort into finding a girl who is giving you signs she is interested.
>>24317093
Ignore her until she stops talking to you. She'll try to talk to you in ~3 months, and when she does, act like a completely different person so she never tries to talk to you again. And then cry yourself to sleep every night for a month and get on with your life.
>>24317281
not a troll by any means, i appreciate the advice. I went ahead and did it because it was getting to an unhealthy level where I could barely function because she'd be all i think about, I had to go ahead and attempt to get (fuck if i can remember the damn word right now) get right with how i felt with her i guess.
>>24317334
that doesn't sound healthy
>>24316904
>>24316930
>>24316956
>>24316982
>>24317006
>>24317036
>>24317051
>>24317062
>>24317093
POINTERS FOR ONEITIS VICTIMS
Since we keep seeing this shit over and over again.
1.
>she talks to you about other guys
You've missed the boat and now you can only watch it sink. Don't bother anymore, this is beyond saving. She has already placed you in this special box in her mind and you're not alpha enough to get out of it.
2.
>she talks to you about personal issues
She. is. not. your. gf. And she won't be. See 1.
3.
>Sudden shorthand replies
ABORT MISSION. This is t h e indicator you fucked up, and you can only get out of this by changing subject and playing it cool. Maybe. You probably already fucked up and spaghetti is already spilling, so stop. Women love talking, so if she's like this it means she's either not in the mood for your shit or you fucked up.
4.
>Expecting reply
If you make yourself vulnerable to a girl, you have to be utmost careful not show your dependency on her. Stop. You need to show you can get on with your life if she "does not see you that way". If you don't you'll only make it worse for the both of you because you are tipping an already unbalanced scale even more in her favor.
5.
>Anything deeper over text
THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU SERIOUSLY STOP IT DONT THIS IS BAIT
Girls can't handle emotions that aren't theirs. Do you like to have her talk shit about you? Do you want to give her that safe space where she can just ignore and or block you when she feels like it while you are anxiously waiting for her to say yes at your most vulnerable moment? Say it to her in her face. You don't have to make a big deal about it, but again, see 4.
>>24317211
Can I ask you something? Do you still wanna be her friend even if she doesn't feel the same way? Also, don't feel like all is lost and the world is ending. I confessed to my fucking cousin that I loved her and had to deal with a whole year of her not speaking to me and having to constantly live in fear of her ratting me out to my family and me being an outcast. Not saying I had it the hardest of all but that was some serious tension to live with. We still talk and she never mentioned it again so i never. Be prepared for something like that, girls push people away when they are afraid or don't feel the same way.
>>24317093
>now what
Refer to pic.
>>24317364
>that doesn't sound healthy
It's perfectly healthy. It's what I did, and I'm fine. Except I have no friends or extraneous relationships. Hell, I own a nice house in an upper class neighborhood, and I'm 21, so it's not all bad.except for the crippling loneliness
It's ok OP, we'll talk later, yeah?
>>24317372
although i don't want to admit it, you're right, I'll try to use this
>>24317386
we've been good friends for a good few years now. If she doesn't we'll still be friends, although I'm sure we'll probably be more distant
>>24317406
lol
>>24317428
Who's to say I'll be as lucky ya'know, I just don't want to have that crippling loneliness is all. But you know I do feel better, after having gotten that shit off of my chest it feels like a weight was lifted.
>>24317485
top kek friendo
>>24317062
"I hope u feel better after getting that out I guess" is the same thing she'd have said if you'd puked in her lap"
>>24317557
kek, i already know i fucked up. at this point it's either something pops off or move on i suppose, yeah?
>>24317508
It is a liberating feeling confessing something that has been swirling around inside. I hope for the best, but in all honesty, I think you guys are gonna be just friends, if at all. She may cut ties, my point being that I'f she truly sees you as a friend, she'll come around and start talking again.
>>24317571
I'm gonna suggest moving on. I've been on both sides of this situation desu. I understand why you couldn't keep it in but now is the time to bail. She's gonna feel uncomfortable and almost betrayed that the friendship wasn't "pure".
Also, unless talking to robots, you need to tone down the memes.
>>24317660
Yeah why do girls say they feel "betrayed" doesn't Hollywood shove images and stories of friends falling for one another? Why do they act so shocked?
>mfw I think I finally understand why women get so angry about "nice guys"
Gee fucking whiz, Op, she came to you for help and then you unload all of this shit on her? She didn't even have any idea what you were talking about, to me that says you didn't even attempt to make a move until now.
>>24317627
yeah i see it going that way, I mean it isn't like i've been orbiting her this whole time, we're friends and it'll probably stay that way.
>>24317660
noted, that's what it's looking like i may have to do anon, I appreciate the advice and not just lmao'ing at my autism
> senpai
> m8
God damn could you fuck this up even more?
>>24316982
>sending walls of text so she doesnt have time to reply
That's so beta
>>24316904
>>24316930
>>24316956
>>24316982
>>24317006
>>24317036
>>24317051
>>24317062
>>24317093
Holy shit, mate. What is wrong with you? Do you even talk to people? That's the most fucking awkward thing I have read in my life. You just *speak* wrong.
>>24317372
6.
>intelligent language
i mean, come on, it's 2015. You're 2Einstein4her. You're that weird guy everyone thinks is tipping his fedora because he is, in this moment, euphoric. Girls talk easy so talk easy back. Don't get too serious unless you already have established either a best-friend relationship(and are okay with that), or she is your gf. Otherwise you'll end up investing too much of yourself into the fickle mind of a girl.
7.
>timing is key
Sometimes it might feel like the moment is never right for you to confess to her, that's okay. It rarely is. but if she's having her thoughts somewhere else, if she's not there with you, FOR YOUyou big guy :'), chances are likely to be not in your favor.
She needs that little TI-83 in her head to process what you're saying, but her mind will cut short if she's too busy thinking about something, or someone else. They say women are great multitaskers, but that only counts when it comes to taking and sucking it.
8.
>i'm fine
She isn't. And since this happened while the two of you we're talking, it's your fault. At least it is to her, so give her some space. It's sometimes handy and even more productive to cut the convo at this point so you can save face, prevent awkwardness, and even more importantly, give yourself a second chance. Next time the two of you talk, don't mention it unless she brings it up, or just tease her about it. Girls love not being takentooseriously. ::lealphaface::
There's probably some other stuff i'm forgetting right now, additions are welcome. Hope it helps, or at least for future reference.
Do you know this girl irl ?
You're putting the pussy on a pedestal again
>>24317372
>>1.
>>she talks to you about other guys
>>2.
>>she talks to you about personal issues
My current gf used to do this before we started dating. I would just give her short one-word answers or sometimes not reply. It's not a dead-end if you re-direct her or make it implicit that you're not interested in that shit.
Everything about this was dumb as shit OP. Not only did you pick the worst possible fucking time, you picked the worst possible medium and said it in the worst possible way. You love her? No you fucking don't you prick you haven't even dated her yet. The dynamic between two people changed completely when they enter into an intimate, exclusive relationship so you have no idea whether you love someone romantically until you have been involved with them romantically.
I hope you've learned your lesson here. There is nothing noble or brave about what you did, don't ever do it again.
>>24317715
Yeah that much sucks, thats why I was apologizing so much because I realized wow this is pretty selfish and fucked. Idk man, her bringing that up somehow made me feel like I needed to tell her then.
>>24317730
>What is wrong with you?
are you lost?
>>24317741
thanks, i appreciate this
>>24317838
Nigger, *no one* in /r9k/ speaks as unnaturally as you. English isn't your native language, is it?
>>24317838
You shouldn't say you're sorry that much, she will not respect you for it. As my mom said "You made your bed, now sleep in it."
>>24317890
tru
>>24317870
it is
>>24317950
Do you go out?
>>24318006
other than classes, not very often, no
>>24317838
Actually disregard everything I said. I suck dicks
>>24316904
>confessing over text
JUST
>>24318233
sorry i bored you to the point of impersonating me for amusment ;_;
>>24318265
This thread is pretty much dead anyway, assuming you're the OP cause of that gay ass emoticon. Best to let it die and come back when there is an update if any
>>24318329
yeah true, well i'll update you guys whenever i get any updates. op out, thanks for the advice everyone
>>24317062
"dude", "m8"... You're a woman? You're a faggot?
>>24318452
dude, i call her whatever, really. also >>24318401
Don't worry about what everyone is saying.
Look, you KNEW it was never going to happen so don't feel bad about how poorly or "beta" you went about cutting the cord because in the end the cord is still cut and thats a really hard thing to do so be happy that you're through it and it's over.
Secondly, let this be a lesson to you. It would be nice if we lived in ye old timey disney romance days where you could fall in love with a girl THEN court her THEN have a relationship, but it doesn't work like that so just go and ask girls out. If they say yes, then you see if you can have feelings for them.
Try okcupid. It's not just full of tired whores anymore.
>>24318602
thanks, I'll update with her response later, she has work so I assume she's sleeping
>guy: ilu
>girl: I'M SO SHOOK UP OVER !!!!!!!CHAD!!!!!!! CHAD! CHAD! CHAD! CHAD'S THE MAN! and then (((...you))) talk to me :(
>guy: i-it's okay princess i'm sorry
>girl: ok.
>guy: please princess are you okay my goddess i love you still
>girl: im fine.
>guy: i'll do anything for you nerevar moon and star
>girl: k
c u c k e d m8
i remember this shit, i remember the exact feel of what you're going through.
too bad you won't realise except in hindsight how humiliating what she's doing is. tell her to fuck herself and stop pining after sluts you idiot. you are nothing to her. she'd wipe her ass with your feelings right now to goad her own ego. can't you see that from the self-centeredness of her responses? she's humiliating you and you're thanking her for it
>>24317093
OP, this literally happened to me May of this year. It sucks, it hurts, and I wish you the best.
>>24318788
>>24318602
Both of these are spot on. Don't act like friends with a girl who you want to fuck. If you want to fuck you have to make a move quickly. Otherwise you are walking yourself into the friendzone. It's a place betas put themselves.
>>24317036
>>24317051
>>24317062
>i guess
>i guess
>am i right?
>i guess
>sorry
>i feel kind of bad for...
The next time you try to ask a girl out, avoid this weak beta weasel-language like the fucking plague. Being insecure is step numero uno to losing her interest because you're a weak-willed shrimp who doesn't even know what he wants or whether he deserves it.
If you cannot manage to do this then you do not deserve gf.
>>24318913
>>24318919
gotcha, i'll try not to sperg out if we end up talking tomorrow, for now im gonna leave it, give her some space
>>24319136
>give her some space
No nigga you don't fucking get it. You don't have a chance with that girl anymore. She will never want you, because you revealed to her all your insecurities and weaknesses.
Either nut up and find another girl, AND ASK HER OUT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, or take this time to cope with your loss before trying again. Or just give up and turn to 2D. You have three options.
>>24319210
oh, well I'll have the 2nd one with fries then
>>24319136
Wait you aren't going to still be friends with this girl are you?
She clearly doesn't respect you nigger wtf you doing baka desu senpai
>>24319335
>>24319210
This. Don't be friends, just cut contact entirely.
>>24319335
>>24319349
we've been good friends for a good few years. i mean, Is it right to just throw that away over MY sperg out?
>>24319378
Yes.
If she is truly your friend she will understand that you need space away from her so you can shed your feelings for her and find someone new.
Once you have a girlfriend and you feel like you are in love to the point where you don't see your oneitis in a romantic light in the slightest, THEN you can try to resume your relationship with her.
If you tell her this and she doesn't understand then she was never your friend to begins with, just a succubus feeding her ego with your emotions.
Buddy if you can't cut contact with this girl until you get a steady gf then you will never get a gf at all.
>>24319498
i see, I'll take your word for it and try my man, thanks for the insight
>>24317701
Because you are supposed to be their emotion-toilet. That is your duty to her. When you act like a person you are not fulfilling your duty thus betraying her.
The men in the movies are Chad.
>>24317036
that is so cringy to read
i had a guy talk to me like that and i felt awkard
why do you feel the need to talk about your insecurities what do you get from it?
and also write shorter sentences
>>24319618
i dunno m8, i really can't say. My autism was flaring at the time. Yeah as the other anon said this really should've been in person
Does her name start with an E?
>>24319378
There's a chance she might legitimately be a friend. It's extremely rare for that to happen, but it might be possible. However, I am assuming that is not the case, that this friendship is a lot more one sided than you think (inb4 she is different from the others).
Opening up to that level will screw your 'friendship' forever. You'll either be the person she sometimes puts up with talking to because of habit and because she's not rude enough to cut you off completely, possibly hoping to speak less and less to you until you barely speak to each other or not at all, or she'll just toss you aside first chance she gets. Either way, there's also a good chance this'll be something she'll laugh behind your back about with her friends.
Cutting her off is the only good choice in that situation. It'll probably feel really bad and be really hard, like withdrawal from a drug, but it's the best option you've got. Continuing a most likely superficial and one-sided friendship with a girl, which will become especially more so than it already was now that you've said those things to her, will most likely hurt you more in the long run.
>>24319687
i hate it but you're right, anon. absolutely right. a question however, and im definitely not expecting anything but In the rare, off chance that she does want to go out or something, what do? still cut her off or go with it?
>>24319672
Pls respond
Not original
>>24319761
nope, not an e
>>24319780
Woosh alright thanks thought it was my oneitis she types like that
>>24319745
God why are you still doing this.
It's over. You have no shot. You had no shot even before the texts in this thread. Stop it. This type of thinking is exactly why you need to cut contact with her,
>>24319809
okay okay fine, i get it, it's over. understood anon
Also my (>>24319800) advice
As someone who has been through this many many times basically if it failed there's nothing you can do about it.
Personally if it was causing me too much emotional pain knowing that she was with someone else or that i could eat or sleep, I'd cut it off like completely.There's no other choice mate like really, focus on something else.
If you still kinda care about the person and like having talks and shit (granted she doesnt mind having you friendzoned) use it as motivation.Every time just try and think about how if you improve yourself one day you might get a girl like her or some shit like that.Also for now, feelings are fresh so distance yourself at first give it some time
Trust me I've been through this at least a dozen times and now the tables have turned
>>24319936
Except for that one chick ofc but thats a long story, im just picky
>>24319745
Different anon here.
That feeling is normal.
IF she replies with a yes, then yeah, go for it. Even if you fail miserably, at least you'll have closure. And the experience will be nice to reflect on down the road.
But if she doesn't, move on.
>>24319745
I'll answer your question.
If you personally feel after hearing other the opinions of other anons in this thread, and most telling you to not continue anything with her, that somehow there's a chance of this working out to a good outcome with her, it's your choice to act on that. You're the person that has to act on that.
Personally, I would cut it off. This is an awkward position you have set yourself and her in. This isn't really a situation you simply 'get over'. Remember to take your own feelings and life into account in this choice. From this conversation it seems she was in the power position. You have to remember to think about having your life in the right place, and being able to let go of people who would also let go of you.
>>24320006
I am >>24319687, by the way.
>>24320006
ouch, well damn. you aren't wrong. I should cut her out, i feel that is the right thing to do, after all even if i did manage to get a relationship out of this i cant say for sure if it'd be a good one. So when does this feeling of "b-but she's the one" wear off exactly
jesus you went full autistic
>that sudden change from niggerspeak to full on White Boy Punctuation
>wall of texts before allowing her to reply
confesing by text is the most kuck thing ever, wall texts just enhance the feeling
>constantly apologizing for saying what you have been thinking
a painful read overall/10
even if she accepts your feeling she seems like the girl who would mold you into whatever the fuck she wants and you seem like the whiteboi who would allow it
move on
>>24320083
Should take a week or so more or less
But you'll be a complete vegetable during that time unless you manage to do something productive(if you do i applaud you)
>>24320083
for me it was 3 months without contact
but I still kept daydreaming about her at work or muttering her name repeatedly under my breath for a long time after that.
if you fall in love with someone else it will be easier but make sure it is someone you are dating
>>24320168
Jeez three months is a little excessive innit?
>>24320083
It depends on the person. Even if you've been infatuated with her for a very long time, if you legitimately believe and tell yourself that this is a good decision and you've though about it, a week or two, worst case scenario a few months.
Of course, if you doubt yourself and you don't believe things ended up as they should have, you'll find it harder to let go. No matter the case, you'll feel a gap that can't be easily filled because of her loss. Basically you might feel like >>24320164 said.
The more confident in your decision and the more you tell yourself you made the right choice, the easier it is.
>>24320164
>>24320168
okay anons, thanks for all of the advice, i'll heed it. With that said, im gonna catch some sleep. I appreciate you goys keeping me company. Im off
>>24320215
also noted, thanks anon
>>24320222
Alright little blubber hold in there sleep tight
Youll make it
>>24316904
You did the right thing, even if you did embarrass yourself a bit.
You'll feel better in the long term now that you got it off your chest.
I confessed my feelings to the only girl I've ever really liked this Summer. She's had a (tentative) boyfriend since I met her. She said I should have told her two years ago. That things could have been much different and so on. I honestly would have rather heard that she never had any feelings for me.
It sucks, but I've been getting over it -- or at least coming to terms with it. I'm sure you will too sooner or later.
Holy shit OP
You must feel pretty shitty right now
Im sorry man, i was in your situation once too, and it's just like the other anons said. Its hopeless, its over for good m9.
Recovering from this shitshow is gonna take a while, but it's definitely possible to get on with your life. I know it seems like you just lost all meaning to your life, I thought so too, but life goes on man. Stay strong, you can do this, just like me and thousand other anons did it before us
>>24317006
>oh
I've never been in a situation like this but holy shit just reading this has ruined my night
Motherfucker you guys are dense when it comes to texting
If she is sending you one word replies and the context would suggest she do otherwise DO NOT HIT HER BACK
